You have fasted and worshipped Allah for an entire month, may Allah accept all your worship.
You have charged your Imaan batteries hopefully to last until next Ramadan, may Allah let us witness the next Ramadan in a state of honour for the entire ummah.
Do not go and the first thing you do is wash away all your months worth of worship with disobedience to Allah!
Don't be like a chained shaytaan who got released and rushes to evil.
Don't be like those who look like circus clowns on eid, with all their bright colors and make-up, they belong with a traveling circus caravan.
They come to the eid prayer looking like Christmas trees.
Beware of free-mixing! No your cousins on the opposite gender or your uncles wife's/aunts husband's are NOT your maharem!
MEN! Grow a pair and hold your wives! Do not let them rush out where there's freemixing, unrelated non mahram men. Don't let them out with make-up and perfume like the clowns I described above..
DON'T be a dayuth and parade your wife and daughters infront of non mahram relatives! Put your foot down and wear the pants!
What you do after Ramadan is a sign of if your worship in Ramadan was accepted.
You have charged your Imaan batteries hopefully to last until next Ramadan, may Allah let us witness the next Ramadan in a state of honour for the entire ummah.
Do not go and the first thing you do is wash away all your months worth of worship with disobedience to Allah!
Don't be like a chained shaytaan who got released and rushes to evil.
Don't be like those who look like circus clowns on eid, with all their bright colors and make-up, they belong with a traveling circus caravan.
They come to the eid prayer looking like Christmas trees.
Beware of free-mixing! No your cousins on the opposite gender or your uncles wife's/aunts husband's are NOT your maharem!
MEN! Grow a pair and hold your wives! Do not let them rush out where there's freemixing, unrelated non mahram men. Don't let them out with make-up and perfume like the clowns I described above..
DON'T be a dayuth and parade your wife and daughters infront of non mahram relatives! Put your foot down and wear the pants!
What you do after Ramadan is a sign of if your worship in Ramadan was accepted.
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🌷 *Don't LOSE your hard work on “CHAAND RAAT”, the night before Eid*🌷
by Asma bint Shameem
You’ve been working SO hard this Ramadhaan.
You’ve been fasting.
You’ve been praying.
You’ve been staying up nights.
You’ve been reading the Qur'aan.
You’ve made taubah....
Those are a LOT of good deeds for sure. Alhamdulillaah!
And your hard work was amazing.
May Allaah accept ALL of them and MORE.
Now don't *SPOIL* all those hard earned good deeds by doing things that may be displeasing to Allaah, on the night before Eid, when Ramadhaan ends.
Things such as listening to music, dancing, girls going out without hijaab, all dolled up in makeup, and jewelry, or in inappropriate clothes, free mixing of non mahrams, missing salaah, smoking hookah, or a'oodhu billaah something even worse.
And all this in the name of celebrating "Chaand Raat", the night before Eid?
Subhaan Allaah!
🛑 *Did you know that bad deeds may ERASE some good ones?*
Find it hard to believe?
Here are some examples:
🔹The Prophet ﷺ said:
“Whoever does not pray ‘Asr, his (good) deeds are canceled out.” (al-Bukhaari 553)
🔹 Once a man said about another: "By Allaah, Allaah will not forgive So and so.
Allaah said: ‘Who is the one who swore by Me that I will not forgive So and so? I have forgiven So and so and I have cancelled out your good deeds." (Muslim 2621)
🔹 Hudhayfah radhi Allaahu anhu said:
"Slandering a chaste innocent woman cancels out the good deeds of a hundred years."
🔹 And Ata said:
"A man may say a word in anger that destroys the good deeds of sixty or seventy years."
🔹 Al-Fadl ibn Ziyaad said:
"No one of you can be sure that he will not steal a glance that will cancel out his good deeds."
My brothers and sisters!
Just think.....How many ‘glances’ are ‘stolen’ on this "Chaand Raat"!
🔹 Ibn al-Qayyim said:
"The things that cancel out or spoil good deeds are *too many to count*.
It is not the deeds that count, rather it is the *protection of one's good deeds from that which may spoil them or cancel them out*."
(Al-Waabil al-Sayyib)
🛑 *Side note:*
There's nothing wrong with celebrating the end of Ramadhaan and thanking Allaah for being able to worship Him by gathering with family and friends, (no non mahrams of course), enjoying food and drink, girls can apply Henna, and even sing to the daff amongst themselves.
But *remember what you promised Allaah*.
*Don’t cross the limits set by Allaah.*
Don't get involved in His disobedience and ruin all your hard work.
Don't even come _*close*_ to that which you KNOW is wrong.
Otherwise you’re at the risk of losing SOME or ALL of your good deeds and your hard work.
*So PROTECT it.*
*PRESERVE it.*
*And don’t LOSE it.*
*It’s just NOT worth it.*
by Asma bint Shameem
You’ve been working SO hard this Ramadhaan.
You’ve been fasting.
You’ve been praying.
You’ve been staying up nights.
You’ve been reading the Qur'aan.
You’ve made taubah....
Those are a LOT of good deeds for sure. Alhamdulillaah!
And your hard work was amazing.
May Allaah accept ALL of them and MORE.
Now don't *SPOIL* all those hard earned good deeds by doing things that may be displeasing to Allaah, on the night before Eid, when Ramadhaan ends.
Things such as listening to music, dancing, girls going out without hijaab, all dolled up in makeup, and jewelry, or in inappropriate clothes, free mixing of non mahrams, missing salaah, smoking hookah, or a'oodhu billaah something even worse.
And all this in the name of celebrating "Chaand Raat", the night before Eid?
Subhaan Allaah!
🛑 *Did you know that bad deeds may ERASE some good ones?*
Find it hard to believe?
Here are some examples:
🔹The Prophet ﷺ said:
“Whoever does not pray ‘Asr, his (good) deeds are canceled out.” (al-Bukhaari 553)
🔹 Once a man said about another: "By Allaah, Allaah will not forgive So and so.
Allaah said: ‘Who is the one who swore by Me that I will not forgive So and so? I have forgiven So and so and I have cancelled out your good deeds." (Muslim 2621)
🔹 Hudhayfah radhi Allaahu anhu said:
"Slandering a chaste innocent woman cancels out the good deeds of a hundred years."
🔹 And Ata said:
"A man may say a word in anger that destroys the good deeds of sixty or seventy years."
🔹 Al-Fadl ibn Ziyaad said:
"No one of you can be sure that he will not steal a glance that will cancel out his good deeds."
My brothers and sisters!
Just think.....How many ‘glances’ are ‘stolen’ on this "Chaand Raat"!
🔹 Ibn al-Qayyim said:
"The things that cancel out or spoil good deeds are *too many to count*.
It is not the deeds that count, rather it is the *protection of one's good deeds from that which may spoil them or cancel them out*."
(Al-Waabil al-Sayyib)
🛑 *Side note:*
There's nothing wrong with celebrating the end of Ramadhaan and thanking Allaah for being able to worship Him by gathering with family and friends, (no non mahrams of course), enjoying food and drink, girls can apply Henna, and even sing to the daff amongst themselves.
But *remember what you promised Allaah*.
*Don’t cross the limits set by Allaah.*
Don't get involved in His disobedience and ruin all your hard work.
Don't even come _*close*_ to that which you KNOW is wrong.
Otherwise you’re at the risk of losing SOME or ALL of your good deeds and your hard work.
*So PROTECT it.*
*PRESERVE it.*
*And don’t LOSE it.*
*It’s just NOT worth it.*
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*What Is Recommended To Do On the Day of ‘Eīd Al-Fitr*
*1 - To take a bath on the morning of ‘Eid:*
- Ibn Umar would bathe on the morning of Eīd. Recorded in Muwatta of Imām Mālik (2/248) and others. Authenticated by Imām Nawawī in Majmoū’ (5/6).
*2 – Wear the best clothes for the day. As for women, they should not beautify themselves when they go out to the ‘Eīd prayer-place in front of everyone:*
- It is also known that Ibn ‘Umar would dress in his best clothes for the ‘Eīd. Recorded in Sunan Al-Bayhaqī (3/281). Authenticated by Imām Ibn Rajab in Fath Al-Bārī (6/68).
*3 – It is Sunnah to eat dates before we leave for ‘Eīd Al-Fitr Prayer:*
- Anas bin Mālik narrates Allāh's Messenger ﷺ never proceeded (for the prayer) on the Day of `Eīd-ul-Fitr unless he had eaten some dates. Anas also narrated: The Prophet ﷺ used to eat odd number of dates. Recorded in Sahīh Bukhārī (no. 953).
*4 – It is Sunnah to say Takbīr (saying Allāhu Akbar):*
‘Abdullāh ibn ‘Umar used to say it out loud on the day of al-Fitr until the Imām came out (to lead the prayers). The chain of transmission is authentic as mentioned by Shaykh Al-Albānī in Irwā’ Al-Ghalīl (3/122).
One can say:
الله أكبر الله أكبر الله أكبر كبيراً
Allāhu Akbar, Allāh Akbar, Allāhu Akbar Kabīra.
- Musannaf Abdur Razzāq (118) on the authority of Salmān Al-Farsī. The Takbir begins after the night of Eīd has begun (after the last Iftār) and ends when the ‘Eīd Prayer is completed.
*5 – Offering congratulations. Such as saying to one another:*
تَقبَّلَ اللهُ مِنَّا ومِنكُم
Taqabbala Allāh minnā wa minkum - May Allāh accept (good deeds) from us and from you.
- Abū Umāmah Al-Bāhilī would say the above to his companions. Recorded in Al-Hāwī fi Fatāwa of Imām Suyutī (1/94). Authenticated by Shaykh Albāni in Tamīm Al-Minnah (no. 355)
It is allowed to say “Eid Mubārak.”
*6 - It is Sunnah to pray the ‘Eīd Prayer outdoors:*
- Abū Sa’īd Al-Khudrī narrated: “The Messenger of Allāh ﷺ used to go out to the prayer-place on the day of ('Eīd) al-Fitr and al-Adhā. Recorded in Sahīh Bukhārī (no. 956).
*7 – It is prescribed for the one who goes out to the Eid prayer to go by one route and return by another:*
Jābir ibn ‘Abdullāh said: On the day of Eid, the Prophet ﷺ would vary his route, i.e., he would go via one route and come back via a different route. Recorded in Sahīh Bukhārī (no. 986).
*1 - To take a bath on the morning of ‘Eid:*
- Ibn Umar would bathe on the morning of Eīd. Recorded in Muwatta of Imām Mālik (2/248) and others. Authenticated by Imām Nawawī in Majmoū’ (5/6).
*2 – Wear the best clothes for the day. As for women, they should not beautify themselves when they go out to the ‘Eīd prayer-place in front of everyone:*
- It is also known that Ibn ‘Umar would dress in his best clothes for the ‘Eīd. Recorded in Sunan Al-Bayhaqī (3/281). Authenticated by Imām Ibn Rajab in Fath Al-Bārī (6/68).
*3 – It is Sunnah to eat dates before we leave for ‘Eīd Al-Fitr Prayer:*
- Anas bin Mālik narrates Allāh's Messenger ﷺ never proceeded (for the prayer) on the Day of `Eīd-ul-Fitr unless he had eaten some dates. Anas also narrated: The Prophet ﷺ used to eat odd number of dates. Recorded in Sahīh Bukhārī (no. 953).
*4 – It is Sunnah to say Takbīr (saying Allāhu Akbar):*
‘Abdullāh ibn ‘Umar used to say it out loud on the day of al-Fitr until the Imām came out (to lead the prayers). The chain of transmission is authentic as mentioned by Shaykh Al-Albānī in Irwā’ Al-Ghalīl (3/122).
One can say:
الله أكبر الله أكبر الله أكبر كبيراً
Allāhu Akbar, Allāh Akbar, Allāhu Akbar Kabīra.
- Musannaf Abdur Razzāq (118) on the authority of Salmān Al-Farsī. The Takbir begins after the night of Eīd has begun (after the last Iftār) and ends when the ‘Eīd Prayer is completed.
*5 – Offering congratulations. Such as saying to one another:*
تَقبَّلَ اللهُ مِنَّا ومِنكُم
Taqabbala Allāh minnā wa minkum - May Allāh accept (good deeds) from us and from you.
- Abū Umāmah Al-Bāhilī would say the above to his companions. Recorded in Al-Hāwī fi Fatāwa of Imām Suyutī (1/94). Authenticated by Shaykh Albāni in Tamīm Al-Minnah (no. 355)
It is allowed to say “Eid Mubārak.”
*6 - It is Sunnah to pray the ‘Eīd Prayer outdoors:*
- Abū Sa’īd Al-Khudrī narrated: “The Messenger of Allāh ﷺ used to go out to the prayer-place on the day of ('Eīd) al-Fitr and al-Adhā. Recorded in Sahīh Bukhārī (no. 956).
*7 – It is prescribed for the one who goes out to the Eid prayer to go by one route and return by another:*
Jābir ibn ‘Abdullāh said: On the day of Eid, the Prophet ﷺ would vary his route, i.e., he would go via one route and come back via a different route. Recorded in Sahīh Bukhārī (no. 986).
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Forwarded from Muslim Marriage Tips
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Keep your heart pure and your intentions sincere and you'll always win in the end because Allah says . If he finds any good in your heart he will give you something better than what was taken from you. Let that put your heart at ease.
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The Flavor of the Heart
Ibn Qayyim Al-Jawziyyah (rahimahullah):
“If you would like to draw a conclusion of what is contained in someone’s Heart then use as a proof the movements of his Tongue! For surely, he will show you what is contained in his heart regardless of whether he wants to or not.”
Yahya ibn Mu'adh:
The hearts are like pots. They boil with that which they contain and their tongues are their ladles [i.e. scooping spoons].
So look at a man when he speaks. His tongue will scoop out for you that which is contained in his heart, whether it is Sweet or Bitter, Fresh or Salty and other than that. And the flavor of his heart will become clear to you from that which his tongue scoops out.
This means that just as you can taste the flavor of foods being cooked with your tongue and you realize the true flavor of them, Similarly you can taste what is in a man’s heart by way of his Tongue,( in the same manner that you can taste what is in the pot with your tongue).
Al-Jawaab A-Kaafee/ad-Daa wad-Dawaa, (pg. 242-249)
Transcribed from The Appendix of An Explanation of the Hadeeth: “Say, ‘I believe in Allah’, and then be upright and steadfast” by Ibn Rajab.
Ibn Qayyim Al-Jawziyyah (rahimahullah):
“If you would like to draw a conclusion of what is contained in someone’s Heart then use as a proof the movements of his Tongue! For surely, he will show you what is contained in his heart regardless of whether he wants to or not.”
Yahya ibn Mu'adh:
The hearts are like pots. They boil with that which they contain and their tongues are their ladles [i.e. scooping spoons].
So look at a man when he speaks. His tongue will scoop out for you that which is contained in his heart, whether it is Sweet or Bitter, Fresh or Salty and other than that. And the flavor of his heart will become clear to you from that which his tongue scoops out.
This means that just as you can taste the flavor of foods being cooked with your tongue and you realize the true flavor of them, Similarly you can taste what is in a man’s heart by way of his Tongue,( in the same manner that you can taste what is in the pot with your tongue).
Al-Jawaab A-Kaafee/ad-Daa wad-Dawaa, (pg. 242-249)
Transcribed from The Appendix of An Explanation of the Hadeeth: “Say, ‘I believe in Allah’, and then be upright and steadfast” by Ibn Rajab.
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Forwarded from Muslim Marriage Tips
#If_Only_This_Was_In_FASHION.
‘Urwah b. Al-Zubayr – Allah have mercy on him – said:
‘Ā’ishah – Allah be pleased with her – gave seventy thousand (dirham) in charity, while her own skirt used to be patched.
‘Abdullah b. Mubārak in Al-Zuhd wa Al-Raqā’iq Vol. 1 p588, no.705.
‘Urwah b. Al-Zubayr – Allah have mercy on him – said:
‘Ā’ishah – Allah be pleased with her – gave seventy thousand (dirham) in charity, while her own skirt used to be patched.
‘Abdullah b. Mubārak in Al-Zuhd wa Al-Raqā’iq Vol. 1 p588, no.705.
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‘Umar Ibn Al-Khattaab (May Allah be pleased with him) said:
“Whoever decorates himself by displaying to the people some characteristics that Allaah knows are contrary to his real characteristics, will be disgraced and dishonoured by Allaah.”
Ad-Daaraqutnee [4/207]
“Whoever decorates himself by displaying to the people some characteristics that Allaah knows are contrary to his real characteristics, will be disgraced and dishonoured by Allaah.”
Ad-Daaraqutnee [4/207]
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Forwarded from Akbar_al.athari
One of the saddest sights after Ramadan—seen in almost every masjid…
The masjid that was once overflowing with worshippers now stands nearly empty, with barely the first row complete.
It’s as if guests have departed, & the family members remain behind.…
Let’s not be seasonal worshippers—stay connected to the house of Allah!
The masjid that was once overflowing with worshippers now stands nearly empty, with barely the first row complete.
It’s as if guests have departed, & the family members remain behind.…
Let’s not be seasonal worshippers—stay connected to the house of Allah!
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Your Scales, Your Account, Your Reward.
The Prophet (Salallahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said,
"On the Day of Judgement the scales will be placed and the people of prayer will be brought forward and they will be compensated according to the scales; then the people of fasting will be brought forward and they will be compensated according to the scales; then the people of hajj will be brought forward and they will be compensated according to the scales; and then the people afflicted with hardships and calamites [in the dunya ] will be brought forward and the scales will not be used for them nor will their records be brought out, and they will given their reward without any account, so much so that the people who used to be free of worries and calamities would wish that they were in their position, such is the immensity of their reward from Allah the Exalted."
Preparing For Day Judgement › Ibn Hajar Al-Asqalani.
The Prophet (Salallahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said,
"On the Day of Judgement the scales will be placed and the people of prayer will be brought forward and they will be compensated according to the scales; then the people of fasting will be brought forward and they will be compensated according to the scales; then the people of hajj will be brought forward and they will be compensated according to the scales; and then the people afflicted with hardships and calamites [in the dunya ] will be brought forward and the scales will not be used for them nor will their records be brought out, and they will given their reward without any account, so much so that the people who used to be free of worries and calamities would wish that they were in their position, such is the immensity of their reward from Allah the Exalted."
Preparing For Day Judgement › Ibn Hajar Al-Asqalani.
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Sufyān Ath-Thawrī رحمه الله said:
“There are two things which I have been treating for thirty years:
Leaving off greed between me and the people and being sincere in action for Allāh”
[Hilyatul Awliyā: 7/271]
Sufyān Ath-Thawrī رحمه الله said:
“There are two things which I have been treating for thirty years:
Leaving off greed between me and the people and being sincere in action for Allāh”
[Hilyatul Awliyā: 7/271]
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“Some people don't come into your life to love you, but to use you. Some people aren't loyal to you, they're loyal to what they can get from you.”
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The next Ramadan is scheduled to commence on 18th February, 2026. May we live to witness the day in optimal health 🤲 ameen 🙏🥰
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Ibn al Qayyim رحمه اللّٰه Said :
"Having the correct understanding of the deen is light which ALLAH throws into the heart of the slave of ALLAH, which is increased by having the taqwaa of ALLAH and having good intent."
Source : Ilaam al-Muaq'een V.1: Pg. 69
"Having the correct understanding of the deen is light which ALLAH throws into the heart of the slave of ALLAH, which is increased by having the taqwaa of ALLAH and having good intent."
Source : Ilaam al-Muaq'een V.1: Pg. 69
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Tariq ibn Shihab reported: Umar ibn Al-Khattab, may Allah be pleased with him, said, “Verily, we were a disgraceful people and Allah honored us with Islam. If we seek honor from anything besides that with which Allah has honored us, then Allah will disgrace us.”
Source: al-Mustadrak 214
Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Albani
Source: al-Mustadrak 214
Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Albani
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