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A mother's greatest responsibility is to provide for the emotional needs of her children. As long as their survival needs are met, children can grow up perfectly healthy without most modern luxuries and comforts. A child who grows up in a log cabin in the woods with no luxuries, but a mother who nurtures their proper emotional development, is far better off in the long run than a spoilt rich kid with all the latest toys and games and an absent, selfish, or harsh mother.
A mother must have the time, energy, temperament and wisdom to teach her child how to regulate their own emotions. Otherwise, the child learns to externally regulate, leading to addictions of all varieties, personality dysfunction or disorder.
The overall emotional health and intelligence of our population today is as poor as the state of their physical health. What does a person who cannot regulate their own emotions look like? They cannot calm themselves down independently when upset or angry, everyone else has to calm them down. They may also struggle with self-motivating when they feel flat or bored. They cannot cope with work or life stress without alcohol, anti-anxiety meds, maybe weed, maybe caffeine or stimulants, hell it can even show up as excessive need for attention on social media, promiscuity, other forms of hedonism. Externalised coping mechanisms and addictions take many forms, many of them relatively subtle. Poor empathy is also a consequence of emotional dysregulation. Even procrastination is linked to emotional dysregulation.
Motherhood truly is a dying art.
For young women I think your best bet is to:
1. Learn as much as you can about astrology. It can help you get to know your child's individual emotional needs, even before they're old enough to express or articulate them. It will also help you learn about yourself and your own emotions more deeply.
2. Get your hands on a few developmental psychology textbooks and learn about the stages of development and different approaches to the discipline (attachment theory, Maslow's hierarchy, Erikson's 8 stages, Kohlberg, Piaget, etc)
3. Spend as much time with children as you can, nannying/babysitting, etc. As the video linked above demonstrates, it takes a whole seperate set of social skills to interact effectively with babies, and more practice always helps.
My theory is that one of the reasons for the current resurgence of interest in spirituality is that these disciplines and practices are helping people learn how to emotionally regulate, and unlearn unhealthy habits conditioned into them from parental neglect or inadequacy.
A mother must have the time, energy, temperament and wisdom to teach her child how to regulate their own emotions. Otherwise, the child learns to externally regulate, leading to addictions of all varieties, personality dysfunction or disorder.
The overall emotional health and intelligence of our population today is as poor as the state of their physical health. What does a person who cannot regulate their own emotions look like? They cannot calm themselves down independently when upset or angry, everyone else has to calm them down. They may also struggle with self-motivating when they feel flat or bored. They cannot cope with work or life stress without alcohol, anti-anxiety meds, maybe weed, maybe caffeine or stimulants, hell it can even show up as excessive need for attention on social media, promiscuity, other forms of hedonism. Externalised coping mechanisms and addictions take many forms, many of them relatively subtle. Poor empathy is also a consequence of emotional dysregulation. Even procrastination is linked to emotional dysregulation.
Motherhood truly is a dying art.
For young women I think your best bet is to:
1. Learn as much as you can about astrology. It can help you get to know your child's individual emotional needs, even before they're old enough to express or articulate them. It will also help you learn about yourself and your own emotions more deeply.
2. Get your hands on a few developmental psychology textbooks and learn about the stages of development and different approaches to the discipline (attachment theory, Maslow's hierarchy, Erikson's 8 stages, Kohlberg, Piaget, etc)
3. Spend as much time with children as you can, nannying/babysitting, etc. As the video linked above demonstrates, it takes a whole seperate set of social skills to interact effectively with babies, and more practice always helps.
My theory is that one of the reasons for the current resurgence of interest in spirituality is that these disciplines and practices are helping people learn how to emotionally regulate, and unlearn unhealthy habits conditioned into them from parental neglect or inadequacy.
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https://chastity.com/qa/is-making-out-wrong-everyone-i-talk-to-gives-me-a-different-answer/ this is focused on the women's side.
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Is it wrong to make out with someone? Everyone I talk to gives me a different answer. - Chastity
When it comes to sins of impurity, many people think, “If it’s a mortal sin, then I don’t want to do it. But if it’s a venial sin, then I don’t want to miss it!” We need to drop this minimalist idea that focuses on how much we can get away with before we…
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Happy News Years to all. The new year will probably not be any better, but I wish you to gain strength and wisdom. Pick up your trash and spend more time outdoors. P🦌
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I have only one wish in 2021, that the rightwingers stop to share news about SJW and illegal immigrants all day long, stop trolling on the internet and get serious about building tomorrow's Europe. Grown up people don't comment other people's life they build their own.
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https://www.angelicwarfareconfraternity.org/prayers/ Great Prayer for purity and chasitity
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Chaplet of the Angelic Warfare Confraternity
Opening Prayer: Dear Jesus, I know that every perfect gift, and especially that of chastity, depends on the power of Your providence. Without You a mere creature can do nothing. Therefore, I beg You to defend by Your grace the chastity and purity of my body and soul. And if I have ever imagined or sensed anything that could stain my chastity and purity, blot it out, Supreme Lord of my powers, that I may advance with a pure heart in Your love and service, offering myself on the most pure altar of Your divinity all the days of my life. Amen.
1. Dear Jesus, bless our social and cultural climate. Grant that that our society may be purified of everything contrary to chastity, and that we may have the strength to resist the pressures of prevailing ideologies. “In the world you have tribulation; but be of good cheer
2. Dear Jesus, bless our relationships. Grant that they will be holy, healthy, and honorable at all times.
3. Dear Jesus, bless our efforts at modesty. Grant that how we dress and carry ourselves may veil what should be veiled, and give us the strength to resist evil fashions and the glamour of sin.
4. Dear Jesus, bless our five senses. Grant that the things we see, the music and jokes we hear, the food and drink we eat, and the encounters we have through touch may all be pure and holy.
5. Dear Jesus, bless our sensuality. Grant that our impulses may not go after base pleasures, but will be freed by wisdom and inflamed for what is good
6. Dear Jesus, bless our imagination. Grant that we may be preserved from the fantasies and daydreams that defile us, that all impure images may vanish, and that we may be protected from all the assaults of demons.
7. Dear Jesus, bless our memory. Grant that no memories of past experiences may disturb us, but that the Lord may touch and heal us through hope for a better future.
8. Dear Jesus, bless our power of estimation. Grant that we may quickly sense dangers to chastity, instinctively flee from them, and that we may never turn away from higher and more difficult goods for the sake of sinful self-indulgence.
Opening Prayer: Dear Jesus, I know that every perfect gift, and especially that of chastity, depends on the power of Your providence. Without You a mere creature can do nothing. Therefore, I beg You to defend by Your grace the chastity and purity of my body and soul. And if I have ever imagined or sensed anything that could stain my chastity and purity, blot it out, Supreme Lord of my powers, that I may advance with a pure heart in Your love and service, offering myself on the most pure altar of Your divinity all the days of my life. Amen.
1. Dear Jesus, bless our social and cultural climate. Grant that that our society may be purified of everything contrary to chastity, and that we may have the strength to resist the pressures of prevailing ideologies. “In the world you have tribulation; but be of good cheer
, I have conquered the world” (Jn. 16:33) “In all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us” (Rom. 8:37) Hail Mary… 2. Dear Jesus, bless our relationships. Grant that they will be holy, healthy, and honorable at all times.
“Having purified your souls by your obedience to the truth for a sincere love of the brethren, love one another earnestly from the heart” (1 Pet. 1:22) Hail Mary…3. Dear Jesus, bless our efforts at modesty. Grant that how we dress and carry ourselves may veil what should be veiled, and give us the strength to resist evil fashions and the glamour of sin.
“Do not be conformed to this age, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind” (Rom. 12:2) Hail Mary…4. Dear Jesus, bless our five senses. Grant that the things we see, the music and jokes we hear, the food and drink we eat, and the encounters we have through touch may all be pure and holy.
“Seek the things that are above” (Col. 3:1) Hail Mary…5. Dear Jesus, bless our sensuality. Grant that our impulses may not go after base pleasures, but will be freed by wisdom and inflamed for what is good
. “In your struggle against sin you have not yet resisted to the point of shedding your blood” (Heb. 12:4) Hail Mary…6. Dear Jesus, bless our imagination. Grant that we may be preserved from the fantasies and daydreams that defile us, that all impure images may vanish, and that we may be protected from all the assaults of demons.
“Be renewed in the spirit of your minds…” (Eph. 4:23, 6:11) Hail Mary…7. Dear Jesus, bless our memory. Grant that no memories of past experiences may disturb us, but that the Lord may touch and heal us through hope for a better future.
“And every one who thus hopes in him purifies himself as he is pure” (1 Jn. 3:1) Hail Mary…8. Dear Jesus, bless our power of estimation. Grant that we may quickly sense dangers to chastity, instinctively flee from them, and that we may never turn away from higher and more difficult goods for the sake of sinful self-indulgence.
“For what shall it profit a man to gain the whole world and lose his soul?” (Mk. 8:36) Hail Mary…Forwarded from The Official NoFap meme bunker 🚫🌰🍂 (Pérez)
9. Dear Jesus, bless our affectivity. Grant that we may love chastity and rejoice in it, that all of our emotions may be in harmony with what is right, and that no sadness, discouragement, fear, insecurity, or loneliness may afflict us unto sexual sin.
10. Dear Jesus, bless our intellect. Grant that it may be purged of all false beliefs and all misunderstandings of human sexuality, and that the good angels may flood our intellects with thoughts that are true, honorable, just, pure, lovely, and gracious.
11. Dear Jesus, bless our will. Grant that it may never be opposed by our sensuality, that it may never be conflicted in the moment, but that it may hold fast to chastity no matter how difficult it may be.
12. Dear Jesus, bless our conscience. Grant that it may be swift to judge what is chaste, swifter to execute it, and preserved completely from the suggestions of demons.
13. Dear Jesus, bless our hearts. Grant that the place where Christ abides in us with the Father and the Spirit may become the place where we live with the Holy Trinity in friendship.
14. Dear Jesus, grant us the grace of self-surrender. Grant that we may hand over to God nothing less than our whole lives.
15. Dear Jesus, give us your love.
Closing Prayer: Chosen lily of innocence, pure St. Thomas, who kept chaste the robe of baptism and became an angel in the flesh after being girded by two angels, I implore you to commend me to Jesus, the Spotless Lamb, and to Mary, the Queen of Virgins. Gentle protector of my purity, ask them that I, who wear the holy sign of your victory over the flesh, may also share your purity, and after imitating you on earth may at last come to be crowned with you among the angels. Amen.
“For the grace of God has appeared, saving all and training us to reject godless ways and worldly passions and to live temperately, justly, and devoutly in this age…” (Titus 2:11-12) Hail Mary…10. Dear Jesus, bless our intellect. Grant that it may be purged of all false beliefs and all misunderstandings of human sexuality, and that the good angels may flood our intellects with thoughts that are true, honorable, just, pure, lovely, and gracious.
“Finally, brethren, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is gracious, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.” (Phil. 4:8) Hail Mary…11. Dear Jesus, bless our will. Grant that it may never be opposed by our sensuality, that it may never be conflicted in the moment, but that it may hold fast to chastity no matter how difficult it may be.
“For the Son of God, Jesus Christ…was not Yes and No; but in him it is always Yes. For all the promises of God find their Yes in him.” (2 Cor. 1:19-20) Hail Mary…12. Dear Jesus, bless our conscience. Grant that it may be swift to judge what is chaste, swifter to execute it, and preserved completely from the suggestions of demons.
“How much more shall the blood of Christ, who through the eternal Spirit offered himself without blemish to God, purify your conscience from dead works to serve the living God?” (Heb. 9:14) Hail Mary…13. Dear Jesus, bless our hearts. Grant that the place where Christ abides in us with the Father and the Spirit may become the place where we live with the Holy Trinity in friendship.
“Jesus answered him, “If a man loves me, he will keep my word, and my Father will love him, and we will come to him and make our home with him.” (Jn. 14:23) Hail Mary…14. Dear Jesus, grant us the grace of self-surrender. Grant that we may hand over to God nothing less than our whole lives.
“Father, into your hands I commend my spirit” (Lk. 23:46) Hail Mary…15. Dear Jesus, give us your love.
“In this is love, not that we loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the expiation for our sins.” (1 Jn. 4:10) “But God shows his love for us in that while we were yet sinners Christ died for us” (Rom. 5:8) Hail Mary…Closing Prayer: Chosen lily of innocence, pure St. Thomas, who kept chaste the robe of baptism and became an angel in the flesh after being girded by two angels, I implore you to commend me to Jesus, the Spotless Lamb, and to Mary, the Queen of Virgins. Gentle protector of my purity, ask them that I, who wear the holy sign of your victory over the flesh, may also share your purity, and after imitating you on earth may at last come to be crowned with you among the angels. Amen.
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How Catholics (Should) Date
Jackie has some straightforward advice about dating that will eliminate the ambiguity often involved, while hopefully leading to more vocations and a healthier dating culture:
1. If you’re not ready to get married, there’s no point in dating.
2. Guys, ask…
1. If you’re not ready to get married, there’s no point in dating.
2. Guys, ask…