ARE YOU A CHILD WIFE?

1. Do you sulk or nag when you can't have your own way ? 2. Do you fib about your mistakes?

3. Are you jealous of his interests in business, sports, or anything that does not concern you directly?

4. If you behaved in an office the way you behave in the care of your home, would you be fired?

5. Do you feel that your husband is outgrowing you ?

A person old enough to be happily married does not think of herself alone. That is the sign of the adolescent, not the adult. Unless you answered "No" to these questions, perhaps you are not changing and adapting as every wife must to stay the same desired, admired, satisfactory mate she seemed to be during courtship.

ARE YOU A GOOD HELPMEET SOCIALLY?

1. Do you make his friends welcome at home?

2. Do you take part in some community activity?

3. Are you on good terms with the people who serve you (such as landlord and tradespeople) ?

4. Are you learning any new skill (cooking, sewing, a sport) ? 5. Do you make friends in your neighbourhood?

Taking care of a home usually does not take all of the average wife's time, just as the average job does not take all of a husband's time. Interests outside working hours broaden and invigorate both family life and position in the community. If you answered "Yes" to these questions, you seem to be doing your part in a healthy widening of your family's contacts.

ARE YOU LOYAL?

1. Do you belittle your husband, under the guise of teasing, for a laugh? 2. Do you discuss him disparagingly behind his back? 3. Do you argue with him in public?

4. Do you keep secrets from him?

5. Do you listen to criticism of him without defending him?

A wife can build or destroy a man's self-respect more quickly than anyone else. Difference of opinion is stimulating in a good marriage, but a wise couple agrees to disagree in private, and a loyal couple does not allow criticism to go unanswered. If you answered "No" to these questions, you rate well on loyalty.

ARE YOU A GOOD MOTHER?

1. Do you encourage the children to keep secrets from their father ? 2. Do you let them criticize him to you ?

3. Do you argue with him before them or take their side against him in their presence ?

4. Do you like to feel that you are the favourite parent?

It is important for children to feel that father and mother are together as a unit. This is where their feeling of security comes from. It is devastating to a child to be put in the position of disloyalty to either parent. This fills him with anxiety and doubt. It also builds great problems of discipline. A smart child may try to play one parent against the other. Saving up punishments until Father comes home is a great mistake for two reasons. It makes Father seem to be an ogre-and it also makes him dread coming home if he has to settle a conflict every evening. "No" to these questions is needed for a good record.

ARE YOU A GOOD MATE?

1. Are you able to discuss sex freely with your husband? 2. Is this relationship happy for you both?

3. Do you know that men and women often have different reactions to sex, and do you try to understand how he feels?

4. Are you as affectionate as before marriage?

5. Do you avoid giving other men the impression that you might be interested in a serious flirtation?

There is a great variation in sexual needs in both men and women. The important privilege of both is to be alert to the mate's needs and for each to try to understand and adapt to that of the other. The important duty of the wife is to let her husband know that his emotions as well as her own joyousness in this relationship are understood. A man needs to feel important as well as attractive to his wife. If she lets him doubt that, she causes one of the greatest losses of self-respect a man can know. Unless you answered "Yes" to these questions, perhaps you would do well to examine some other aspects of your marriage to see if you are doing your full part in the sharing of trust, affection, loyalty, and ambition that make a "joint adventure" successful.

In the word "adequate" lies much of the secret of successful partnership in marriage. The husband-and the wife-who are adequate as individuals are the ones "grown up" enough for the give-and-take demanded from both partners if a marriage is to be a success.

tomorrow i will post the men's quiz.

Living near your parents is a life hack.

The kid is crying and you don't know what to do?
Your parents know.

You are tired from work and want a break?
Your parents are there to help.

You want to travel with your wife on the weekend?
Your parents can take care of your kids while you travel.

Need literally anything?
Your parents are there to help.

Made this one just for the banter

Your son will need to learn how to be a man.

So you must learn how to teach him.

For the ladies.

Fatherhood is the peak of manhood.

Peepo the engineer

Women only want one thing ⬆️

Today is the Anniversary of 9/11, one of the most deadliest terror attacks committed on American soil.

You had people who were calling their families on the plane, saying they would not make it, but they loved them.

Others were saying their final goodbyes.

It was just a regular day for most people, but little did they know that many would have their lives taken from them.

Always remember to cherish your family and your children. You have no idea when you will see them for the last time.

"Watch ye therefore, because you know not the day nor the hour." (DRA, Book of Matthew.)

Hope everyone’s dreams were this good last night! Happy Sunday!