After a long time iim Writting something
It isn't going to be formal just my life experience and observation

Single-Focal trade-off
By Prince

When I was around mid teenage I really liked what others think
Some people whom I found special called it
"I love interfering in others life"
Some called it
"why to know what others think"
But I called it a new perception/perspective

I once asked a mild mentally challenged person with blindness
Vansh what do you feel about you can't see?
He replied
Abdul, What does seeing means?

I was broken at that point, all I was thinking was just "oh no this is so miserable"

Once I told my very good friend
"Menstruation does not make you mature, your actions do"
And she didn't say anything but then I learnt later how hard a life of a woman is especially for those whose family is kind of the opposition for them

I saw a yt short which stated that Russian population is declining
And the comment section was filthy and disgusting

Then another yt short that how Russians treat Indians
And suddenly so many same accounts that were speaking from the mouth of sewers now they were saying Russia loves India and vice versa

I've seen people crying for not getting their dream job, desired woman/man, a specific event in their life and etc but when those similar things happen they just find something different to complain about

As Chris Williamson Qouted
"A cool insight that the more you complain
The less accurate your model of reality
So complaining is you saying
The world isn't delivering to me that which i anticipated or expected or desired from it
Which is also you saying
I don't understand how the world works until it comes and meets me in reality."

I have heard something that has broken my heart and I don't know what to say I don't know how to process
How to say I'm not fine
Someone who wouldn't criticise me, who would make me feel I exist, heard and valued and someone who would actually help me to get out of it instead of "have patience, this is life" lazy replies

It's weird how so many times we get depressed while dismissing that we have something so many people don't
Being able to see, hear and so many other stuff.

Or as the qoute goes
Blinded by a leaf.... You'll miss the tree..... Blinded by a tree..... You'll miss the whole forest

I know it's sometimes hard
Maybe you procrastinated whole year
Maybe you did a bad thing this year
Maybe life tested you extremely brutally
Maybe you lost someone you loved
But the life isn't fair.... If it was whatever you wanted you would have.

You don't actually know what's actually good for you
Something that seem bad might actually be good and something that seems good might actually be bad

We all are tired of that hollowness in the wall in ourselves, little or much, no matter how many layers of wallpapers we put that hollowness finds its way
Through someone's words, actions, events, or just.... memories

Some of our demons never vanish they just get weak by our repetitions , they are our Horcruxes they never die they only work with you when you give them what they want...

As Abdul, I asked Allam to ask the Horcrux why does not it goes away
it replied
You die I die

Love yourself and take care of yourself and stay away from negativity

The last philosophy of 2025
"If you always stare the people above than you... You'll feel behind
If you always stare the people lower than you... You'll lose the will to rise.
The basic fundamentals of growth are...
Channeling energy in a positive way and
Balance"

Finally the year is almost over
No crush, no love life just a guy with great friends, exploring life and living it...

Another philosophy before 2026

The devil is dead we have possessed him now the devil is not an outsider it lives in humans it lives among us it lives inside of us....

Happy New Year GUYS
I wish you guys a good year
Stay positive, love yourself and be the best version of yourself

Also happy birthday to me (Prince)

Don’t count the days,
Make the days count!!

@Growingbytes 🦋🦄

Do not wait for the perfect moment,
Take the moment and make it perfect!!

@Growingbytes 🦋🦄

“Knowing yourself
is the beginning of all wisdom.
Because once you understand yourself,
nothing can truly shake you”

— Aristotle

@Growingbytes🦋🦄

"Problems are as clouds:
to the observer, mere air;
to the one within, heavy and dark.
Yet a cloud remaineth a cloud
and only he who moves passeth through."
Prince

"Trust the infinte power within you,above you and with you,
WHOLLY,DEEPLY AND ENTIRELY💛🌸"
@Growingbytes🦋🦄

As a kid I always thought that the moon is walking with me,
the moon shines and looks at me
The moon is pretty
Maybe I'll be beside her one day
Then my wish came true she came to me as a human; bright, shine, nurturing, protective and beautiful
We enjoyed and shared a lot of things... Including ourselves emotionally
I loved her shine
She loved my graceful love

But some things are better for just admiration and not beside us
Maybe the moon shines but refracts
Maybe the moon is only beautiful from a far away
But I didn't cared for such things

One day I knew it was time
We climbed the stairs of heaven a journey full of struggles and love
and we reached a point where sunset could be seen by both of us

Evening shining reddish we thought it's full of flame in which two perished
She never came to know that she was moon for me

I turned my head to her, she was fading away... Toe to collarbone already gone
I asked her
Sunset is beautiful isn't it?
And I was left wondering.. As always, what she would have said if she replied.

And the night came
I admired the moon's beauty
But this time I knew it is only beautiful from a far away..
But how do I tell her that.. Still
I want to eat her pancreas