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His Holiness the Dalai Lama's Response to a Question about Refugees
People want to be good, and want to be thought of by others as good.
These are not the same thing, and both can become entangled in deception and delusion.
One can fool others by projecting an image of one's own goodness while hiding one's true motives and character.
Worse, one can fool oneself. People convince themselves that they are good people, that their motives are pure, that their energy is positive and wholesome
But they compartmentalize and are blind to their own selfishness, often while accusing others of selfishness
Idiot compassion is born from this confluence of the desire to be seen as good with innate human selfishness & the desire to put one's own interests first
In order to understand how idiot compassion is the ape of true compassion, we must first understand what real compassion is
Authentic compassion is being with the suffering of others and, where possible, alleviating it through skillful means. Like a medical procedure, the healing may at first be painful and make the person feel even worse
But goodness is measured by the end result
For example, for a drug addict to get better, they will need to quit using drugs. The initial withdrawal will be painful and miserable. The addict may kick and scream and blame you for depriving him of what he thinks he needs. But wisdom understands that he is delusional
Authentic compassion is not invested in what the delusional addict thinks of you, what names he calls you, what he tells other people about how bad you are for not giving him drugs. Authentic compassion is only invested in his actual well-being
These are not the same thing, and both can become entangled in deception and delusion.
One can fool others by projecting an image of one's own goodness while hiding one's true motives and character.
Worse, one can fool oneself. People convince themselves that they are good people, that their motives are pure, that their energy is positive and wholesome
But they compartmentalize and are blind to their own selfishness, often while accusing others of selfishness
Idiot compassion is born from this confluence of the desire to be seen as good with innate human selfishness & the desire to put one's own interests first
In order to understand how idiot compassion is the ape of true compassion, we must first understand what real compassion is
Authentic compassion is being with the suffering of others and, where possible, alleviating it through skillful means. Like a medical procedure, the healing may at first be painful and make the person feel even worse
But goodness is measured by the end result
For example, for a drug addict to get better, they will need to quit using drugs. The initial withdrawal will be painful and miserable. The addict may kick and scream and blame you for depriving him of what he thinks he needs. But wisdom understands that he is delusional
Authentic compassion is not invested in what the delusional addict thinks of you, what names he calls you, what he tells other people about how bad you are for not giving him drugs. Authentic compassion is only invested in his actual well-being
But idiot compassion is concerned with surface and appearance. It is a superficial understanding of compassion which falsely equates it with being "nice."
It isn't nice to tell a crackhead that he's harming himself and those around him. It isn't nice to say obesity is unhealthy
Many things are not nice to say but are nonetheless true, and moreover are necessary to confront.
Idiot compassion always prefers niceness and avoidance of conflict, even when it makes things worse by delaying and allowing problems to grow
Idiot compassion allows people--idiots--to feel good about themselves, to think they are kind and helpful, when in reality they are not, they are selfish and cowardly because they don't want to face reality and don't want to deal with difficult problems
Idiot compassion denies reality in favor of a temporarily comfortable lie. It wants consensus on this false reality, lashing out angrily at whoever points out the true nature of things
The biggest delusion of leftists and shitlibs is not their wrong ideas about society or economics, but rather their wrong ideas about themselves.
They are deeply invested in believing that they are the good people, the kind ones, the open-minded
And their lack of awareness--most of all self-awareness--allows them to persist in this delusion while perpetuating and enabling all manner of closed-mindedness, cruelty, and evil
It isn't nice to tell a crackhead that he's harming himself and those around him. It isn't nice to say obesity is unhealthy
Many things are not nice to say but are nonetheless true, and moreover are necessary to confront.
Idiot compassion always prefers niceness and avoidance of conflict, even when it makes things worse by delaying and allowing problems to grow
Idiot compassion allows people--idiots--to feel good about themselves, to think they are kind and helpful, when in reality they are not, they are selfish and cowardly because they don't want to face reality and don't want to deal with difficult problems
Idiot compassion denies reality in favor of a temporarily comfortable lie. It wants consensus on this false reality, lashing out angrily at whoever points out the true nature of things
The biggest delusion of leftists and shitlibs is not their wrong ideas about society or economics, but rather their wrong ideas about themselves.
They are deeply invested in believing that they are the good people, the kind ones, the open-minded
And their lack of awareness--most of all self-awareness--allows them to persist in this delusion while perpetuating and enabling all manner of closed-mindedness, cruelty, and evil
Forwarded from Integral Life +
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Conservationists who cull grey squirrels to protect reds reveal they are often accused of being ‘racist’ and ‘xenophobic’
‘We also get called xenophobic, because we are promoting a native species, so it’s all about British stuff.’
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‘We also get called xenophobic, because we are promoting a native species, so it’s all about British stuff.’
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Mail Online
Conservationists who cull grey squirrels to protect reds reveal they are often accused of being ‘racist’ and ‘xenophobic’
Andrew Hodgkinson, a member of Penrith and District Red Squirrel Group said they are called racist because they shot the grey squirrels because of their colour.
“User Engagement” Is Code for “Addiction”
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Medium
“User Engagement” Is Code for “Addiction”
Social media is a civilization-level problem
Dr. Seuss books deemed offensive will be delisted from eBay
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WSJ
WSJ News Exclusive | Dr. Seuss Books Deemed Offensive Will Be Delisted From eBay
EBay is working to prevent the resale of six Dr. Seuss books pulled this week by the company in charge of the late author’s works because they contain offensive imagery.
There’s a Better Way to Parent: Less Yelling, Less Praise
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The Atlantic
There’s a Better Way to Parent: Less Yelling, Less Praise
When Michaeleen Doucleff met parents from around the world, she encountered millennia-old methods of raising good kids that made American parenting seem bizarre and ineffective.
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Awesome way to hang up a jar or any type of container.