Nacho: "Dad. It's me."
Manuel: "Nacho?"
Nacho: "Si, Papa. Hola."
Manuel: "Hola, hijo. How are you?"
Nacho: "Good, good. Um... I just wanted to hear your voice."
Manuel: "Nacho, where are you? You sound strange."
Nacho: "It's not important.... I was just checking in, that's all."
Manuel: "Okay. Hijo, I have lots of work to do. We've been through this so many times. You know what you have to do... go to the police."
Nacho: "Yes, Papa. I understand... I hear you."
Manuel: "What else is there to say? Hmm? Goodbye, hijo."
Nacho: "Goodbye, Papa."
―Nacho calling his father for the last time, while on the run

A Christmas Story from the Bible
Imagine a night in Bethlehem, a small town tucked away in the hills of Judea. The air was crisp, the stars twinkling brightly overhead. Shepherds huddled around a fire, their sheep grazing peacefully nearby.

Suddenly, a brilliant light pierced the darkness, and an angel of the Lord appeared before them, announcing a message that would shake the very foundations of the world: "Fear not: for, behold, I bring you good tidings of great joy, which shall be to all people. For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Savior, which is Christ the Lord."

News of this extraordinary event spread like wildfire. Wise men from the East, guided by a mysterious star, journeyed for weeks, their hearts filled with anticipation. They arrived in Bethlehem, bearing gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh for the newborn king.

Meanwhile, in a humble stable, nestled amongst the animals, lay the Christ child. Mary, his mother, gazed upon him with a love that transcended all human understanding. Joseph, his earthly father, watched over them, his heart overflowing with awe and wonder.

This was no ordinary birth. This was the fulfillment of ancient prophecies, the dawn of a new era. The Savior, long awaited by humanity, had finally arrived. His birth brought with it a message of hope, a promise of redemption, and a call to love one another as God loves us.

The celebration of Christmas, though marked by festive traditions and cultural customs, serves as an annual reminder of this profound event. It's a time to reflect on the true meaning of Christmas – the birth of Jesus Christ, a beacon of light in the darkness, a symbol of love, peace, and eternal hope.

I think they call this love

You had no control over what happened with the coffee. How you reacted in those 5 seconds is what caused your bad day. Here is what could have and should have happened:
Coffee splashes over you. Your daughter is about to cry. You gently say, "It's OK, honey, you just need to be more careful next time." Grabbing a towel, you rush upstairs, change your shirt, and grab your briefcase. You come back down in time to look through the window and see your child getting on the bus. She turns and waves. You and your wife kiss before you both go to work. You arrive 5 minutes early and cheerfully greet the staff. Your boss comments on how good a day you are having.
Notice the difference. Two different scenarios. Both started the same but ended differently. Why? Because of how you REACTED. You really do not have any control over 10% of what happens. The other 90% is determined by your reaction.
Here are some ways to apply the 90/10 secret:
If someone says something negative about you, do not be a sponge. Let the attack roll off like water on glass. You don't have to let the negative comment affect you! React properly, and it will not ruin your day. A wrong reaction could result in losing a friend, being fired, getting stressed out, etc.
How do you react if someone cuts you off in traffic? Do you lose your temper? Pound the steering wheel? Curse? Does your blood pressure skyrocket? Do you try and bump them? WHO CARES if you arrive ten seconds later at work? Why let the blue car ruin your drive?
Remember the 90/10 principle, and do not worry about it! If you are told you lost your job, why lose sleep or get irritated? It will work out. Channel your energy and time into finding another job. If the plane is late, and it is going to mangle your schedule for the day, why vent your frustration on the flight attendant? She has no control over what is going on. Use your time to read, get to know the other passengers, etc. Why get stressed out? It will just make things worse. Now you know the 90/10 secret.
Apply it, and you will be amazed at the results.