Honestlyyyy. If you're triggered, distressed, or feeling heightened emotion, there are most likely part of your brain not being accessed in that moment. So you're not in a state in which you are using your brain to its full potential to make a decision.

Eat, hydrate, feel the feels then let them pass, move your body or stretch. Once you're as close to baseline as you can be, then make decisions.

emotional regulation, socialization, anger

"furthermore i truly believe you should eat a meal before making any big choices, confrontations, vents, etc. i promise 100% of the time you will feel better and more balanced with food in your stomach. you should never do anything that will have consequences on anything less than a full stomach.

orc logic
she's right btw"

movie spoilers, of this movie and some others used as references.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tgBo2C4KypU

Relatable - Autism Self Care Tips


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TW7ntnd6IAs

Na$ty - Kirby

🎶

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8SmKSdL/

food, dieting, parenting, medical

"my dad who wants the brussels sprouts to be healthy

me who wants the brussels sprouts to fuck like hell

food fun facts for dad types!!!

·adding butter or cheese or salt or whatever to your veggies so that you like them doesnt change the nutritional content you get from said veggies

·additional calories eaten dont negate the healthy benefits of food.
and, stay with me here, low calorie foods are not more morally pure than high calorie foods

·if making a food more palatable by adding butter (or whatever) is the make-or-break for someone to actually eat the vegetable, then the brussel sprouts with butter are FUCKING HEALTHIER for you than the brusel sprouts you dont eat. a salad with ranch dressing is healthier for you than the dry greens you dont eat. a sandwitch with cheese and mayo is more healthy than the plain sandwich you dont eat. the strawberry with whipped cream is more healthy than the strawberry you dont eat."

Relatable - audhd

But Ball shape is safe shape




https://www.youtube.com/shorts/TMAt3nj5atw

cw: dog barking close up, dogs barking at the end of leashes, dogs running, dogs running at camera/mc, implied aggressive chase despite dogs having friendly body language

🎶🎵🎶


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5NfyIpE4zaw

socializing, anxiety, activism, bad praxis

"waiting for people to fuck up so that you can cancel them, gatekeeping, communities self-policing to the point of self-destruction, debating each other's validity, communities infighting over terminology, fighting over the Best way to exist, trying to define what a Bad Community Member is/does, vilifying those people

besties i think we fucked up and internalized the surveillance state or the omni-present judgement of god or purity culture or perhaps just maybe all 3

kill the cop inside your head"