Like that whole idea of "don't make it your personality" is homophobic at its core bro literally "I don't care if you like girls as a guy just don't make it your entire personality" sexuality is a major part of your identity and no one should accept oppression of it. It makes no sense when applied to "straight people" then it should make no sense when applied to "non-straight people". This is normal people and if you have problems with other peoples identity then you might have some problems with your own.
-Anon who if wants credit will comment