Sometimes, we must take a step back and understand that we have no control over others’ choices. We can try to explain, try to help, try to provide the information that will trigger an epiphany…but in the end, it’s up to the individual to find their way.
When someone comes to us in pain or in Error and we try to “fix it” for them, we are actually stealing from them. Every experience has a pearl of wisdom in it - especially the painful ones. Wish that wasn’t the way it worked, but it is.
So, the key is to learn to help by holding space and being there to support, but not to “fix” if fixing means to take away the catalyst that is causing someone to learn. This does not mean to be callous or to turn a blind eye. It means to learn to help in a different way. Don’t be the savior. Let the person learn to be their own, and you will discover what a gift that truly is.
A good way to frame it and to learn about this is to learn to listen without judgement. When someone is talking about what is a problem for them, learn to listen without offering any advice or attempting to solve the problem. Just….listen - with empathy and compassion. Let them learn by speaking without you interrupting with your great idea about how to fix it.
As with many of the things I post, I imagine this will cause a bit of confusion. But I think that in practice you will see what is meant.
Everything is Relative to everything else in this Realm.
@TruthRascalHQ ✨💕✨
https://livingmarvelously.com/the-metta-prayer/
When someone comes to us in pain or in Error and we try to “fix it” for them, we are actually stealing from them. Every experience has a pearl of wisdom in it - especially the painful ones. Wish that wasn’t the way it worked, but it is.
So, the key is to learn to help by holding space and being there to support, but not to “fix” if fixing means to take away the catalyst that is causing someone to learn. This does not mean to be callous or to turn a blind eye. It means to learn to help in a different way. Don’t be the savior. Let the person learn to be their own, and you will discover what a gift that truly is.
A good way to frame it and to learn about this is to learn to listen without judgement. When someone is talking about what is a problem for them, learn to listen without offering any advice or attempting to solve the problem. Just….listen - with empathy and compassion. Let them learn by speaking without you interrupting with your great idea about how to fix it.
As with many of the things I post, I imagine this will cause a bit of confusion. But I think that in practice you will see what is meant.
Everything is Relative to everything else in this Realm.
@TruthRascalHQ ✨💕✨
https://livingmarvelously.com/the-metta-prayer/
Living Marvelously
The Metta Prayer of Loving Kindness
The Metta Prayer is a beautiful mantra that emphasizes loving kindness for yourself and others. Use it in your daily routines.
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There is so much we’ve been lied to about.
Our very existence actually.
Where we come from. What else is out there. What our actual ancestral lineage is….
Our very existence actually.
Where we come from. What else is out there. What our actual ancestral lineage is….
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Forwarded from ARMYGIRL ✨✨✨ (Army Girl)
Btw - the CIA reading room is full of all kinds of goodies.
Walking through walls, astral travel, telepathy etc. It’s all right there in plain sight.
Walking through walls, astral travel, telepathy etc. It’s all right there in plain sight.
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Forwarded from 🔥Embers from Ash🌻
Deep conversations already arising this morning.
After spending a lovely evening with some close friends from an old church, a pattern has become all to clear.
The broke christian.
There are two beliefs modern religion and church and yes, Christianity (not The Christ - just the dogma which followed), pump out like apple juice:
1. You will suffer for believing in Christ or God.
2. God will take care of all of your needs, you just need to believe a little harder.
So it's no surprise when I reflect on some of the most devout church members I know - and how broke they are.
The family we were with last night - AMAZING people. I cannot downplay how incredible these humans are. They are at risk of not being able to pay rent this month. Not for the first time.
The father of this family with 3 boys ages 5-11, has 2 "jobs". One is an MLM and the other is working with a real estate agent, while he's still working on his license.
So both jobs are highly unpredictable income sources utilizing an already volatile marketplace.
He believes the Lord will provide.
God did bless them the last 2 months with surprising ways to make rent, he's hoping and praying for the same this month.
When I asked how he was doing, he said last time we got together, they were treading water and now they're drowning. He just wants to stop drowning.
Please pray for this family y'all.
And please know what I'm about to say is not coming form a place of judgement, only love.
My husband is going to be getting back with him this week and basically going to try to smack him awake.
Apparently he's out loaned himself with all family members. No one has any money left to loan them.
And instead of going out and bagging groceries or taking orders through a drive in mic, he is volunteering over time at the church, pushing his wife into youth ministry which she doesn't want and spending Saturday nights hanging out with his friends (aka us).
He has a wife and 3 kids to provide for.
But he's a Christian and must suffer for his faith.
And God will provide as long as he believes.
Meanwhile there's 10 places hiring at $15 an hour within a 15 mile radius of his house which could bring him triple what he made in the last six months over the next six...
Aka 10 doors God has opened.
And he's looking out the window waiting for a rainbow.
After spending a lovely evening with some close friends from an old church, a pattern has become all to clear.
The broke christian.
There are two beliefs modern religion and church and yes, Christianity (not The Christ - just the dogma which followed), pump out like apple juice:
1. You will suffer for believing in Christ or God.
2. God will take care of all of your needs, you just need to believe a little harder.
So it's no surprise when I reflect on some of the most devout church members I know - and how broke they are.
The family we were with last night - AMAZING people. I cannot downplay how incredible these humans are. They are at risk of not being able to pay rent this month. Not for the first time.
The father of this family with 3 boys ages 5-11, has 2 "jobs". One is an MLM and the other is working with a real estate agent, while he's still working on his license.
So both jobs are highly unpredictable income sources utilizing an already volatile marketplace.
He believes the Lord will provide.
God did bless them the last 2 months with surprising ways to make rent, he's hoping and praying for the same this month.
When I asked how he was doing, he said last time we got together, they were treading water and now they're drowning. He just wants to stop drowning.
Please pray for this family y'all.
And please know what I'm about to say is not coming form a place of judgement, only love.
My husband is going to be getting back with him this week and basically going to try to smack him awake.
Apparently he's out loaned himself with all family members. No one has any money left to loan them.
And instead of going out and bagging groceries or taking orders through a drive in mic, he is volunteering over time at the church, pushing his wife into youth ministry which she doesn't want and spending Saturday nights hanging out with his friends (aka us).
He has a wife and 3 kids to provide for.
But he's a Christian and must suffer for his faith.
And God will provide as long as he believes.
Meanwhile there's 10 places hiring at $15 an hour within a 15 mile radius of his house which could bring him triple what he made in the last six months over the next six...
Aka 10 doors God has opened.
And he's looking out the window waiting for a rainbow.
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Forwarded from 1ghostwolf
Very profound and true. If a may submit the third & arguably the most dangerous broke Christian.
3. The ones that can quote random noscripture, but have no idea what it means for their lives. The ones that are terrible people, but because they profess Jesus as their Savior, it's all good...no striving for understanding others, no working to make themselves in His image. The words out of their mouth are enough to bludgeon everyone else, and because of such they view themselves as most deserving of access to riches & admittance to the Kingdom.
3. The ones that can quote random noscripture, but have no idea what it means for their lives. The ones that are terrible people, but because they profess Jesus as their Savior, it's all good...no striving for understanding others, no working to make themselves in His image. The words out of their mouth are enough to bludgeon everyone else, and because of such they view themselves as most deserving of access to riches & admittance to the Kingdom.
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Forwarded from 🗡♾️✨LQTL✨🗝🌹
Your RE - Action
Is just that a RE - Action.
Another move, another transfer of energy.
Are you going to multiply the negativity.
Or stand in your calm, enlightened state... ✨✨
take a breath.. and break the chains... 🤍🙌
The choice is yours.
Is just that a RE - Action.
Another move, another transfer of energy.
Are you going to multiply the negativity.
Or stand in your calm, enlightened state... ✨✨
take a breath.. and break the chains... 🤍🙌
The choice is yours.
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Forwarded from TR HQ (TruthRascal)
John 14:6 KJVS
Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.
Let’s look at that for a moment shall we? Because THAT VERSE is at the root of a whole lot of division and separation among the people. It is used as a stick to beat people over the head with the idea that you must be a Christian and follow Jesus in order to make your way to God.
BULLSHIT.
And the very fact that there is a division drawn using these words should be your first clue that something has been misinterpreted.
But let me try to explain why.
If Jesus was the full embodiment of what God is in a human body and he came to show us The Way, then anyone who comes to know God will also know Jesus, by definition.
John 10:30 KJVS
I and my Father are one.
Experiencing God fully in our human form would actually destroy us. What we can do, however, is experience the activation of the Christ within us and embody that and in doing so, we come to the Father through the Son. When you reach the frequency of the Christ, you come to know Him. And you go through Him on your way to God / the Father. There is no other way because it is part of the PROCESS.
1 John 2:24 KJVS
Let that therefore abide in you, which ye have heard from the beginning. If that which ye have heard from the beginning shall remain in you, ye also shall continue in the Son, and in the Father.
We are all the Children of God with the potential to be perfect vessels and transmitters of the Love of God as Jesus was. The consciousness and the pure Love that develops within a person as he or she grows closer and closer to God IS Christ. It is the activation of the Life within you that is available to all of God’s children.
Believing that you are a sinner or a wretch, as it were, is what prevents one from reaching this state. It is our own ingrained idea of unworthiness that halts the process.
I’m fully aware that what I’ve just said is considered blasphemous. And THAT is the entire point of the conditioning we’ve been subjected to. If you think you are not worthy of the designation “Son of God” you will never discover it for yourself. You’ll never actually FEEL the activation of Christ within you because deep down you’ll believe you don’t deserve to. And what have we learned about how powerful underlying beliefs are? The thought behind the thought is what drives things.
Let me put it another way….
If someone is born in another part of the world and never even hears the word Jesus or reads a Bible, is that person lost? Can they not find their way to God through their own heart and their own experiences? Each person has the anointing within and needs that no man teach him. (para John 2:27)
A person in India or China or who grows up on a freaking deserted island is a child of God and has as much access to God as someone sitting in the first row of church every Sunday with a Bible in their hands. In fact, the person on the island may have a better chance of finding their way because their head is not full of religious dogma and limiting beliefs.
1 John 2:20 KJVS
But ye have an unction from the Holy One, and ye know all things.
All we need do is look within and follow the inner guidance that is in each one of us. THAT leads us to God and in doing so, we come to know the Son, the Christ, Jesus, if you prefer to call Him that. And we come to understand that we are all One in the Kingdom of God and there is no separation. So, yes, the way to the Father is through the Son and no man approaches God without coming to know Christ….Because you have to in order to approach God, NOT because it’s the only way to get there.
John 14:7 KJVS
If ye had known me, ye should have known my Father also: and from henceforth ye know him, and have seen him.
@TruthRascalHQ ✨💕✨
Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.
Let’s look at that for a moment shall we? Because THAT VERSE is at the root of a whole lot of division and separation among the people. It is used as a stick to beat people over the head with the idea that you must be a Christian and follow Jesus in order to make your way to God.
BULLSHIT.
And the very fact that there is a division drawn using these words should be your first clue that something has been misinterpreted.
But let me try to explain why.
If Jesus was the full embodiment of what God is in a human body and he came to show us The Way, then anyone who comes to know God will also know Jesus, by definition.
John 10:30 KJVS
I and my Father are one.
Experiencing God fully in our human form would actually destroy us. What we can do, however, is experience the activation of the Christ within us and embody that and in doing so, we come to the Father through the Son. When you reach the frequency of the Christ, you come to know Him. And you go through Him on your way to God / the Father. There is no other way because it is part of the PROCESS.
1 John 2:24 KJVS
Let that therefore abide in you, which ye have heard from the beginning. If that which ye have heard from the beginning shall remain in you, ye also shall continue in the Son, and in the Father.
We are all the Children of God with the potential to be perfect vessels and transmitters of the Love of God as Jesus was. The consciousness and the pure Love that develops within a person as he or she grows closer and closer to God IS Christ. It is the activation of the Life within you that is available to all of God’s children.
Believing that you are a sinner or a wretch, as it were, is what prevents one from reaching this state. It is our own ingrained idea of unworthiness that halts the process.
I’m fully aware that what I’ve just said is considered blasphemous. And THAT is the entire point of the conditioning we’ve been subjected to. If you think you are not worthy of the designation “Son of God” you will never discover it for yourself. You’ll never actually FEEL the activation of Christ within you because deep down you’ll believe you don’t deserve to. And what have we learned about how powerful underlying beliefs are? The thought behind the thought is what drives things.
Let me put it another way….
If someone is born in another part of the world and never even hears the word Jesus or reads a Bible, is that person lost? Can they not find their way to God through their own heart and their own experiences? Each person has the anointing within and needs that no man teach him. (para John 2:27)
A person in India or China or who grows up on a freaking deserted island is a child of God and has as much access to God as someone sitting in the first row of church every Sunday with a Bible in their hands. In fact, the person on the island may have a better chance of finding their way because their head is not full of religious dogma and limiting beliefs.
1 John 2:20 KJVS
But ye have an unction from the Holy One, and ye know all things.
All we need do is look within and follow the inner guidance that is in each one of us. THAT leads us to God and in doing so, we come to know the Son, the Christ, Jesus, if you prefer to call Him that. And we come to understand that we are all One in the Kingdom of God and there is no separation. So, yes, the way to the Father is through the Son and no man approaches God without coming to know Christ….Because you have to in order to approach God, NOT because it’s the only way to get there.
John 14:7 KJVS
If ye had known me, ye should have known my Father also: and from henceforth ye know him, and have seen him.
@TruthRascalHQ ✨💕✨
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Forwarded from TR HQ (TruthRascal)
When you accept things that don’t make sense and are actually contradictory, you teach yourself to hand your authority over to others and to ignore your own intuition.
DON’T DO THAT! 😂
@TruthRascalHQ
DON’T DO THAT! 😂
@TruthRascalHQ
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