Give yourself permission to be your own Lighthouse.
Bc that’s what you actually are.
You just have to see that. And know that the Light shining through you is The Universe itself!
@TruthRascalHQ
—1 March 2025—
Bc that’s what you actually are.
You just have to see that. And know that the Light shining through you is The Universe itself!
@TruthRascalHQ
—1 March 2025—
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Forwarded from Lord Of The Pepe (LOTP)
Confirmed.
Hillary changed her X banner to a picture from a Q drop.
You can’t make this shit up!
What a time to be alive.
https://x.com/NewEarthMedia11/status/1895969701253300310
Hillary changed her X banner to a picture from a Q drop.
You can’t make this shit up!
What a time to be alive.
https://x.com/NewEarthMedia11/status/1895969701253300310
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Forwarded from TR HQ (TruthRascal)
Why do people develop narcissistic, sociopathic or even psychopathic behaviors?
Usually it’s because they were traumatized themselves. Most have buried that trauma deep into their psyches where it now causes them to continue the chain of pain from an unconscious level. They think they are operating completely rationally and correctly, while in reality, it’s their Shadow that is doing the operating.
But just because we can see and understand what happened to them, does that mean that we excuse their behavior and continue to let them hurt people? Do we continue to interact with toxic people just because we know why they are toxic? We might see the cause of the dysfunction but is letting them off the hook because it “wasn’t their fault” the right course of action? Does it help an abuser to let them continue to be abusive?
Obviously, no. And when someone shows you over and over who and what they are, if you choose to ignore that, the consequences are on you.
So who has to stop that chain of events?
You know who.
{{sigh}}
You.
And you have to do it even when it’s hard af and it feels like you’re ripping your own heart out by setting that boundary. Because guess what…you’re the only one who can. It’s sure as hell not going to be the abuser. Not usually. Not 99 times out of 100. I mean miracles can happen, sure, but I’m not holding my breath on that one. Not anymore. Not in these circumstances. I’ll wait from afar, but I will not stay in the room with the poison hoping that it magically goes away.
So, even though the abuse wasn’t your fault and even though you wish with all your heart it could be different, and even though it’s really and truly not fucking “fair”…
You have to be the one who stands up and stops it.
Otherwise, you’re going to pass it on. Most likely to your own children if you have them. Or onto those around you who become the targets of your own projected pain and frustration, just as was done to you.
So, understand that your anger rises up from within to protect you. Yes, you have to control it, but it’s your friend. Not your enemy. And many of us didn’t learn that growing up. Many were taught that the only safe thing to do was to stuff it all down and paint on a smile.
And if you swallowed all of that anger and sadness, it morphed and festered and probably made you very sick, or depressed, or addicted, or ____________. (You fill in the blank, these things manifest in a multitude of forms.)
The point is that these Emotions do not go away. They are Energy. They cannot be Created or destroyed. They can only change form. And they must be dealt with through the Art of Transmutation. There is no other way.
And the irony of it all is that the person who caused you to bury your own pain was in all likelihood doing it to themselves first. Not your choice or your fault, but still…..the sins of the father will be visited upon the son unless someone breaks the chain.
It’s a pattern. And one that has to stop. The new Energies are not even going to allow that kind of discordance to exist. But we have to work through what’s already been calcified in our systems.
Let the trapped emotions out.
Listen to what they have to tell you, because they were carrying messages for you all along. Emotions carry the Truth of a situation.
And the Truth…will set you Free.
Love,
~TR ✨💞✨
—30 July 2024—
(Edited 21 December 2024 - Winter Solstice)
Usually it’s because they were traumatized themselves. Most have buried that trauma deep into their psyches where it now causes them to continue the chain of pain from an unconscious level. They think they are operating completely rationally and correctly, while in reality, it’s their Shadow that is doing the operating.
But just because we can see and understand what happened to them, does that mean that we excuse their behavior and continue to let them hurt people? Do we continue to interact with toxic people just because we know why they are toxic? We might see the cause of the dysfunction but is letting them off the hook because it “wasn’t their fault” the right course of action? Does it help an abuser to let them continue to be abusive?
Obviously, no. And when someone shows you over and over who and what they are, if you choose to ignore that, the consequences are on you.
So who has to stop that chain of events?
You know who.
{{sigh}}
You.
And you have to do it even when it’s hard af and it feels like you’re ripping your own heart out by setting that boundary. Because guess what…you’re the only one who can. It’s sure as hell not going to be the abuser. Not usually. Not 99 times out of 100. I mean miracles can happen, sure, but I’m not holding my breath on that one. Not anymore. Not in these circumstances. I’ll wait from afar, but I will not stay in the room with the poison hoping that it magically goes away.
So, even though the abuse wasn’t your fault and even though you wish with all your heart it could be different, and even though it’s really and truly not fucking “fair”…
You have to be the one who stands up and stops it.
Otherwise, you’re going to pass it on. Most likely to your own children if you have them. Or onto those around you who become the targets of your own projected pain and frustration, just as was done to you.
So, understand that your anger rises up from within to protect you. Yes, you have to control it, but it’s your friend. Not your enemy. And many of us didn’t learn that growing up. Many were taught that the only safe thing to do was to stuff it all down and paint on a smile.
And if you swallowed all of that anger and sadness, it morphed and festered and probably made you very sick, or depressed, or addicted, or ____________. (You fill in the blank, these things manifest in a multitude of forms.)
The point is that these Emotions do not go away. They are Energy. They cannot be Created or destroyed. They can only change form. And they must be dealt with through the Art of Transmutation. There is no other way.
And the irony of it all is that the person who caused you to bury your own pain was in all likelihood doing it to themselves first. Not your choice or your fault, but still…..the sins of the father will be visited upon the son unless someone breaks the chain.
It’s a pattern. And one that has to stop. The new Energies are not even going to allow that kind of discordance to exist. But we have to work through what’s already been calcified in our systems.
Let the trapped emotions out.
Listen to what they have to tell you, because they were carrying messages for you all along. Emotions carry the Truth of a situation.
And the Truth…will set you Free.
Love,
~TR ✨💞✨
—30 July 2024—
(Edited 21 December 2024 - Winter Solstice)
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Forwarded from TR HQ
Important bit of understanding about narcissists. They don’t fall in love with themselves. In fact, most actually loathe themselves.
They fall in love with their reflection.
The reflection they see in the mirrors all around them is what they become obsessed with.
How they appear is what matters. To others, yes, but most importantly to themselves.
It soothes their deep seated belief that they are not worthy. Not good enough. Very, very not OK.
The people they abuse are not actually people to them. They are mirrors; simple tools to use to examine their own reflection. And when the mirror no longer shows them what they wish to see, they will break it.
Or try to.
@TruthRascalHQ
—4 Sept 2024—
They fall in love with their reflection.
The reflection they see in the mirrors all around them is what they become obsessed with.
How they appear is what matters. To others, yes, but most importantly to themselves.
It soothes their deep seated belief that they are not worthy. Not good enough. Very, very not OK.
The people they abuse are not actually people to them. They are mirrors; simple tools to use to examine their own reflection. And when the mirror no longer shows them what they wish to see, they will break it.
Or try to.
@TruthRascalHQ
—4 Sept 2024—
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Forwarded from TR HQ
What is a narcissist at its core?
Someone who will override another person’s free will in any way they can. Often, this is done not through violence or outright demands, but through coercion and subterfuge. They get you to override your own inner compass by chipping away at your confidence in yourself…by making you believe that you are “less than”.
Generally, this happens because of a deep core wound in the narcissist that is often rooted in shame and a sense of unworthiness. But the manifestation of that is a personality that appears to be the opposite.
The underlying premise that they then carry into pretty much everything they do is that their desires and views are more important/valid/real than yours. In fact, they don’t think you even have the right to have views or perspectives of your own. You are not a person to them, you are a tool.
Let that sink in.
And then examine the society that we currently inhabit.
The only way to break that dysfunctional relationship is to wake up from it and reclaim your own Sovereignty. You’ll never be able to change their minds or force them to see you in any way other than the one they currently hold.
YOU have to change.
And yeah, that’s really fucked up and not fair and, and, and….
You can bitch all day. But when you’re done bitching, you’ll realize you’re the one who has to do the work.
And you will.
And you will be ok.
(And yes, I’m talking to myself again 🫶)
In Love,
—TR ✨💞✨
Someone who will override another person’s free will in any way they can. Often, this is done not through violence or outright demands, but through coercion and subterfuge. They get you to override your own inner compass by chipping away at your confidence in yourself…by making you believe that you are “less than”.
Generally, this happens because of a deep core wound in the narcissist that is often rooted in shame and a sense of unworthiness. But the manifestation of that is a personality that appears to be the opposite.
The underlying premise that they then carry into pretty much everything they do is that their desires and views are more important/valid/real than yours. In fact, they don’t think you even have the right to have views or perspectives of your own. You are not a person to them, you are a tool.
Let that sink in.
And then examine the society that we currently inhabit.
The only way to break that dysfunctional relationship is to wake up from it and reclaim your own Sovereignty. You’ll never be able to change their minds or force them to see you in any way other than the one they currently hold.
YOU have to change.
And yeah, that’s really fucked up and not fair and, and, and….
You can bitch all day. But when you’re done bitching, you’ll realize you’re the one who has to do the work.
And you will.
And you will be ok.
(And yes, I’m talking to myself again 🫶)
In Love,
—TR ✨💞✨
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Forwarded from A New Day ✨
“Good dreams are still dreams, and keep the soul deluded. A wise person does not wish to spend incarnations traveling from one good dream to another.
Confinement in beautiful dream prisons have no lure for him. Oneness with the Ultimate Reality is his sole goal.”
—— Paramahansa Yogananda
Confinement in beautiful dream prisons have no lure for him. Oneness with the Ultimate Reality is his sole goal.”
—— Paramahansa Yogananda
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