Society wants you to be an idiot with zero self-esteem that makes the system run while the people on top enjoy the fruits of your labor.

The more sucked into your routine you are, the less likely you are to rebel against this system.

Marx was not completely wrong, but the solution was never to build a communist society.

The solution is to save yourself and the people you care about.

Fuck the rest.

Good morning.

Authority is the legitimization of power.

There are two types of authority:

The one coming from noscript and official ranks (officially sanctioned authority).
The authority that people grant you by virtue of your qualities (unofficial authority).

When people know you have authority, they know they must obey you or punishment will follow (official). When they want to follow you and be influenced by you, they freely elect you as a leader (unofficial).
When you combine both, people feel that it’s right and fair for you to have power over them.

The more authority people feel you have, the more you influence people.

On the other hand, when you can decrease or question someone else’s authority, you delegitimize their power and hobble their ability to persuade and influence.

Dealing with difficult people who pose a threat to you or your well-being can be difficult, but it's critical to be confrontational while remaining observant. This entails engaging your adversary and forcing them to reveal their intentions and next moves, while also keeping a close eye on their actions and behaviors to anticipate their weaknesses.

They say in military aviation "Engage with the bogey so that it becomes predictable. Once you can predict the movement of the bogey, you take the bogey down."

A "bogey" is an unidentified aircraft that is thought to pose a threat. Engaging the bogey entails making contact with the aircraft, typically through radar or visual confirmation, and tracking its movements to determine its intentions.

"Engage with the bogey, so you make the bogey predictable" emphasizes the importance of engaging with a potential threat in order to gain information and predict its movements. Engaging the bogey forces the enemy aircraft to reveal itself and reveal its intentions, making it easier to develop a strategy to counter any potential attack.


Making the bogey predictable is critical in military aviation because it allows pilots to maintain a tactical advantage over their adversaries. By anticipating the enemy's movements, pilots can plan their maneuvers accordingly, increasing their chances of success while reducing their risk exposure.

You can use this strategical approach in your daily life. When dealing with difficult people aim to gain information and insight into their actions and intentions. By being confrontational and observant, you can better anticipate your enemy's next moves and take precautions to protect yourself.


This does not always imply resorting to force or aggression, but rather being assertive and proactive when dealing with difficult people. Confronting your adversary and observing their actions allows you to gain insight into their weaknesses and vulnerabilities, which you can then use to protect yourself and achieve your goals.

This is also how Garry Kasparov plays chess.
This is how Lomachenko boxes.
This is how Real Madrid plays football.

It is best used when you're aware of your own weaknesses.

I emphasize that this is more efficient when you know the person in front means you harm.

Being the one that engages the confrontation allows to be on the offensive side rather than being on the defensive. The other person's actions and moves become a reaction to what you do, so you can more easily predict them.

This might sound too nuanced but this approach can be life saving in difficult situations.

You are fighting a battle against yourself, in which you are the enemy.

The more you struggle and criticize yourself, the more defeated you will feel.

Instead of fighting your ego, you should make peace with it.

Your ego functions as a compass, guiding you through life.

It indicates when you need to change course and when you deserve better.

To find your true path, you must learn to listen to your ego constructively.

Recognize when it is speaking the truth and when it is motivated by fear or self-doubt.

When you learn to be kind and understanding to yourself, you create a positive feedback loop that fuels your inner motivation and drive.

Making peace with yourself entails taking a new perspective that focuses on your stronger sides.

You can conquer the world with confidence and inner strength if you approach yourself more positively rather than getting in a conflict with yourself.

You're facing resistance to change because you're forcing it.

Instead, try to leverage what you're good at and focus on that.

Other shortcomings will fix themselves when you increase your competence and sharpness.

You're not starting from scratch.

I am convinced that each and every person has specific abilities and attributes that make them special.

Find yours and use it to get you to your goals and what you desire.

Become special in your own mind and you'll be able to achieve what you thought was impossible.

Internal beliefs shape our behavior more than you would think.

Make peace with yourself so you can go to war together.

I've come to the conclusion that what is easy is not worth it.

What takes time, effort, persistence and sometimes part of your sanity is what is worth it.

Because the process is what's worth it.

Not the end results.

It's the pain and the growth that comes from it.

It's the struggles, the successes, the wins, the losses and all that comes with it that makes life worth it.

It's the discomfort that creates memories.

It's the hard work that makes the results worth enjoying.

If you are anything like me, you don't want to feel less than yourself.

If you are anything like me, you know that life has more to offer than the easy way out.

They say fall in love with the process, and I hate this saying.

You have to hate and love it.

You have to enjoy and suffer for it.

Life is a balance.

What comes with no effort has no taste.

For anything you want to get, you need to make sacrifices.

There is always a price to pay.

And when you take the shortcuts, it's your soul and personal satisfaction that you pay with.

Do not seek the easy way.

Enjoy the hardships. Look forward to struggles.

Put in the work, and reap what you sow.

A harsh message on this Monday morning, but I wouldn't want you to get sloppy right on the first day of the week.

Go and own it.

Learn when to shut up and when to speak.

There is nothing more crucial than this.

You have to be aware of the power dynamics, you have to have a high level of situational awareness.

You need to be aware of everything that is going on around you.

Not out of curiosity, but out of a necessity of being aware of your surroundings.

This will save you a lot of trouble and open doors of opportunities to you.

Controlling silence is important.

Everybody knows that.

But what most won't tell you is that knowing when to speak and make your point heard is equally important.

Silence wouldn't exist if noise didn't.

So as much as you need to control silence, you also need to learn how to control noise.

Both are tools to use in your favor.

Being too silent might relegate you to a secondary role in your own life.
Being too noisy might hinder you from getting what you want.

You need to know how to use both.

You need to be a master of silence and a master if speech.

I've said this before and I'll say it again:

Everything in life is about balance.

Someone asked me to write about cognitive biases.

So I'm sharing this Social Skills University article with you.

I'm sure you'll learn a thing or two from it.

I truly believe that everything comes down to how strong of a self-image you have.

How solid is the idea that you hold of yourself?

How high are the standards you hold yourself to?

How loyal to your own values and code are you?

No matter what you do, whether you're an entrepreneur, an employee or even unemployed, the only thing that matters is this internal image you have of yourself.

Because that's what allows for change, and that's what allows growth.

If I think of myself as a loser, then I have no reason to protect and fight for myself.

You see, everything in life depends on one thing:

"Do you think you deserve everything you want?"

If the answer isn't a categorical YES, you have work to do.

You have to make peace with yourself.

Strengthen your mind so that you have the tools to face and conquer the outside world.

Your internal self-image, or Ego as it should be called, defines your level of self-approval and certainty.

If you have a solid ego, you do not doubt yourself.

If you have a solid ego, you know your worth.

If you have a solid ego, you have something to put boundaries around.

Without those, you're at the mercy of other people who will use you to satisfy their own self-interest.

This a necessity and not a luxury.

Understand this:

"Self-esteem is not a luxury; it is a profound spiritual need."

That's what all life is about.

A spiritual quest. A journey where you learn to live with yourself.

Learn to appreciate yourself. Enjoy yourself.

In Africa, there is a famous proverb that says:

"If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together."

But here's the thing: you won't always be able to make everyone your ally, and some people may even become your enemy if you're not careful.

One way to make allies is through politeness and compliments. These small acts of kindness can go a long way in building positive relationships with others.

As Dale Carnegie once said, "You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you."

Think about it: if someone compliments you or treats you with kindness and respect, you're more likely to view them favorably and want to build a positive relationship with them. The same is true in reverse: if you are kind and polite to others, they will be more likely to view you favorably and want to build a positive relationship with you.

But here's the catch: you don't want to be nice or polite just because you have nothing else to offer. Being genuinely kind and respectful should come from a place of sincerity and authenticity. People can often tell when you're being insincere, and that can backfire and make them view you negatively.

So how can you cultivate a sense of authenticity in your interactions with others?

It's as simple as starting by focusing on your behavior.

Are you treating others with respect and decency, even when you disagree with them?

Are you radiating a benevolent energy that makes others feel comfortable and valued?

Answering these questions objectively can help you build genuine connections with others, even if you don't always agree with them.

Of course, making allies should never come at the cost of your well-being or values.

You should never compromise your integrity or sense of self just to make others like you.

I know.

It's a fine line to walk.

But there is no other way, that's how humans work.

It is a work of constantly balancing your self-interest and the interests of the people around you. Because the lone wolf is a myth and being too agreeable is self-destructive. So choosing one over the other will always lead to negative outcomes.

Instead, you could solidify your sense of self and boundaries and then approach social situations with more authenticity and genuineness.

Be a hand of steel in a velvet glove.

Nice and soft until someone tries to force it.

This is exactly what we teach at Social Skills University.

The ability to be an independent critical thinker while being able to negotiate and navigate the different social settings you'll find yourself in.

The ability to make genuine allies and friends that will have your back while knowing how to deal with malicious and manipulative people.

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Being called delusional is often a sign of great potential and brilliance.

Many historical figures who achieved great success were initially viewed as delusional by others because they had ideas and visions that were beyond the understanding of their contemporaries.

When Thomas Edison was trying to invent the light bulb, people called him "crazy" and "delusional." But he persisted, saying, "I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work." Eventually, he invented the light bulb and changed the world.

The Wright brothers were ridiculed for their idea of human flight. But they persevered and ultimately achieved their dream. As Orville Wright said, "If we worked on the assumption that what is accepted as true really is true, then there would be little hope for advance."

Trust your own judgment and vision.

Most innovative and successful people have often faced resistance and criticism before ultimately achieving their goals.

This resistance can come from various sources, including peers, family members, and even complete strangers.

None of them can see the vision you have in your mind.

Ignore those who do not understand or appreciate your ideas, as long as you are confident in your own vision and understand what you are doing.

If you are willing to stick to your ideas and work towards your goals despite opposition and resistance, you are more likely to succeed in the end.

"All great men are misunderstood."

It takes courage and determination to overcome criticism and achieve greatness. So, ignore the naysayers, stay focused on your vision, and keep pushing forward.

Didn't make a thread in a while so there you go!

If you want to convince someone, you have to focus on their self-interest.

Most people are driven by "what's in it for them".

Everyone will tell you that if you can make that clear right from the start, then you've put your foot in the door.

I think that's wrong in most cases.

Because figuring out what you can give them in exchange of what you want is a leverage you have.

Showing your hand right from the start is a mistake.

Any time you'll try to convince someone of something or try to negotiate with them, you should expect resistance.

Very few people are willing to compromise right from the get go.

And if you feel like the person in front does not want to meet you halfway, then it's often better to start with a ridiculous demand.

Then bargain back to what you actually want by introducing what you're really ready to offer them at a later stage.

It should come in as an element of surprise and a sign of your willingness to concede a little bit on your demands.

This makes the person in front feel that you're taking a step towards them.

But if you did that right from the beginning, they'd ask to get more and give you less.

How you frame the discussion is of paramount importance. You cannot afford to always seek the satisfaction of everyone.

With many people, coming in good faith will be detrimental to you.

Know who you're dealing with so you know how to deal with them.

Most people are unhappy because they chase the abstract concept of happiness instead of the inner satisfaction of fulfillment.

Don't just focus on being happy.

Focus on getting shit done and taking on challenges one after the other.

Look forward to adversity and challenges.

The satisfaction you feel when you meet your goals is the easiest way to get "happy", and setting rewarding goals will make this even better.

The best part?

It's not temporary. It's permanent.

Your ability to achieve your goals and challenge yourself grows and solidifies your sense of self.

One way to experience happiness through hard work is to achieve 'flow', where you lose track of everything and immerse yourself in something you love doing.

But it's not just about being "happy".

Seeking challenges keeps your brain active and learning, which becomes increasingly important as you'll get older.

It takes practice, repetition, and persistence to bed in new thinking, so be prepared to put in the effort required to create a new brain map in the motor cortex.

Through consistent challenge and stimuli, you will gradually build new neural pathways in your brain, which will become stronger and more efficient with practice.

If you want to find happiness:

Never stop challenging yourself.

Set your goals (short, mid, and long term), set an action plan for each then follow it relentlessly.

You will not find happiness by chance.

In fact, you will not find happiness.

You will have to create it.

And it starts within.

Seek self-fulfillment through growth and happiness will become your default state.

If you don't know where to start, enroll in The White Pill Program.

The Program usually costs 97$, but it's free for all Social Skills University members.

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In the next 5 minutes, you'll know exactly what you should do to replace your negative habits with more positive ones and reinforce them.

No matter what angle you chose to look at how you can optimize and improve your life, you will circle back to the fact that everything depends on your habits and default actions.

I mean that you, as a human, are inevitably conditioned to behave and think in specific ways.

So am I, and so is everyone else.

And that's nobody's fault, just the way we are.

Nor is it the end of the world; because it can be changed.

It can be changed by taking control of said habits, identifying them, replacing them then reinforcing the new practices to make sure they last and you don't relapse to your old ways.

Now, to do that, you'll need to follow 2 crucial steps..

So let me break that down for you.

Step 1: Get to the Root Cause

You can identify the bad habit quite easily if you're being honest with yourself.

Habits are:

Subconscious, as if it was almost an automated action or thought.

A reaction to a trigger.

And that second point is what matters most here.

Because identifying subconscious habits you have might not be challenging, but it is useless to only contemplate them.

And if you can't identify what trigger that behavior, then you can't change it.

So it's of paramount importance that you put the finger on what actually triggers those negative habits.

Listing down negative habits and writing them on a piece of paper might help keep a closer tab on them and remember them better.

Step 2: Reinforcing Good Habits

You and I both know:

The challenge is not in doing the above, it's in continuing to do it consistently.

As with anything else you want to learn and adapt, you will need consistent repetition for this new habit to truly become a default action and replace your old one.

This is why you need to approach it with a willingness to change.

But that's not enough.

Because that is intangible.

What you can do, however, is help yourself and proactively give prevent yourself from relapsing.

You're blessed to be living in an era of technology.

You can set basic reminders that keep you on track.

You'll see those as messages from your past self, and you won't want to disappoint.

One last thing that you can start doing is reframing that habit as something of the past.

As many people know, I've struggled with severe drug addiction for years.

And one of the things that helped me quit was telling myself that I already quit when I was trying to.

So "I take drugs" became "I used to take drugs", even though I had not completely quit at the time.

Talking and thinking about it in the past helped me put a distance between who I wanted to become and who I was.

And framing it this way made it easier for me to move on.

You too can use this to get over any bad habit you want and create structure in your life.

It works for everything.

You too can use this to get over any bad habit you want and create structure in your life.

This framework is the simplest and easiest way to reprogram yourself into the person you want to become.

Apply this to every negative habit you have and get rid of them.

One by one.

If you'd like a more comprehensive and detailed approach, with daily instructions and clear templates to fill; enroll in the White Pill Program.

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Why would you care about those who talk shit about you?

Those who believe them are no better than them.

Cut out both.

Anyone who has time to gossip about you has nothing worthy going on in their life.

Again:

Why would you care about the opinion of such people?

Why would it take a toll on you?

Why would it affect you at all?

Don't direct any energy or thought towards them.

Let them rot in their mediocrity.

All they can do is criticize what they can't be.

Ignore.

Pave you way.

Your future self is waiting for you.