There is infinite power in being simply able to listen to people without thinking of what you'll answer.
The number 1 thing that will make your conversations 10x better is this.
Not looking for an answer.
Not even trying to answer.
Getting comfortable with silence and just listening.
Let people talk.
They'll love you for it.
And they'll tell you more than you should.
Situational awareness is truly a superpower and the best way to be more present is to limit your own input.
Become an observer so that you can become a better contributor.
Guaranteed increase in social skills.
Don't focus on what you will say next.
Focus on the person in front.
The number 1 thing that will make your conversations 10x better is this.
Not looking for an answer.
Not even trying to answer.
Getting comfortable with silence and just listening.
Let people talk.
They'll love you for it.
And they'll tell you more than you should.
Situational awareness is truly a superpower and the best way to be more present is to limit your own input.
Become an observer so that you can become a better contributor.
Guaranteed increase in social skills.
Don't focus on what you will say next.
Focus on the person in front.
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You'll hear a lot of people advising to cultivate mystery to be attractive and charismatic.
The truth is, the best way to actually become charismatic is by being the most straightforward possible and speaking your mind out.
The more authentic you get, the more attractive you are.
The idea that you need to be this mysterious dude is a myth.
Truth is, people can't handle those who are raw and say it as they see it.
Authenticity and honesty are the only way.
Not only does it help you stay in tune with your true self and never holding back
But it also gives you that element that everyone is seeking.
Which is charisma.
The more you try to circumvent it and find shortcuts to get there, the less likely you are to ever achieve it.
Some people think charisma is innate, I think charisma is simply being your true self, without filters and unapologetically.
The less you take them into consideration in your actions, the more people will like you.
The more you align your own thoughts and behavior, the better you will feel about yourself.
If you simply prioritize your own validation over anyone else's, you'll soon realize that it was the only thing you needed.
People will ironically love you for not caring about what they think.
The truth is, the best way to actually become charismatic is by being the most straightforward possible and speaking your mind out.
The more authentic you get, the more attractive you are.
The idea that you need to be this mysterious dude is a myth.
Truth is, people can't handle those who are raw and say it as they see it.
Authenticity and honesty are the only way.
Not only does it help you stay in tune with your true self and never holding back
But it also gives you that element that everyone is seeking.
Which is charisma.
The more you try to circumvent it and find shortcuts to get there, the less likely you are to ever achieve it.
Some people think charisma is innate, I think charisma is simply being your true self, without filters and unapologetically.
The less you take them into consideration in your actions, the more people will like you.
The more you align your own thoughts and behavior, the better you will feel about yourself.
If you simply prioritize your own validation over anyone else's, you'll soon realize that it was the only thing you needed.
People will ironically love you for not caring about what they think.
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There is no setting boundaries if your ego is weak.
If you don't have ultimate conviction that your boundaries should not be crossed under any circumstance?
Nobody will take you seriously.
You will keep getting disrespected.
Respect yourself.
That's how you set boundaries.
You enforce boundaries.
You treat yourself with respect so that people know your standards.
If you put yourself down?
They won't hesitate to step on you to get what they want.
I'm going to tell you something that you may not realize:
Most people respect other people's boundaries out of fear.
If you're the first one to "let things slide", why would they think twice before disrespecting you?
But if you have a reputation of not being tolerant to bullshit?
They will think twice before even attempting to wrong you.
Because they know:
There will be consequences.
And there has to be consequences to crossing your boundaries.
You cannot be too forgiving.
You cannot be too tolerant.
It will make you miserable.
Now, listen...
This is not about losing your shit.
This is not about uncontrollable anger.
It's about standards.
And those who are not ready to live up to your standards?
They can fuck right off.
Never hesitate to cut out people who won't show respect.
But on the other hand?
Make sure you yourself are a respectful person.
You can't expect what you can't give.
Respect yourself.
Show respect to people.
But once someone doesn't reciprocate this behavior?
No need to sugarcoat it.
You need to be able to stand up for yourself.
Don't be afraid of losing people.
Not everyone is worth being in your life.
If you don't have ultimate conviction that your boundaries should not be crossed under any circumstance?
Nobody will take you seriously.
You will keep getting disrespected.
Respect yourself.
That's how you set boundaries.
You enforce boundaries.
You treat yourself with respect so that people know your standards.
If you put yourself down?
They won't hesitate to step on you to get what they want.
I'm going to tell you something that you may not realize:
Most people respect other people's boundaries out of fear.
If you're the first one to "let things slide", why would they think twice before disrespecting you?
But if you have a reputation of not being tolerant to bullshit?
They will think twice before even attempting to wrong you.
Because they know:
There will be consequences.
And there has to be consequences to crossing your boundaries.
You cannot be too forgiving.
You cannot be too tolerant.
It will make you miserable.
Now, listen...
This is not about losing your shit.
This is not about uncontrollable anger.
It's about standards.
And those who are not ready to live up to your standards?
They can fuck right off.
Never hesitate to cut out people who won't show respect.
But on the other hand?
Make sure you yourself are a respectful person.
You can't expect what you can't give.
Respect yourself.
Show respect to people.
But once someone doesn't reciprocate this behavior?
No need to sugarcoat it.
You need to be able to stand up for yourself.
Don't be afraid of losing people.
Not everyone is worth being in your life.
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Your brainpower is limited.
Your mental space is limited.
And most things DO NOT deserve caring about.
Get your priorities straight.
Don't let the fear of failure paralyze you.
Don't let the fear of missing out paralyze you.
Don't let the fear of being judged paralyze you.
The life you dream of is at the other end of defeating your fears.
And your fears can only be defeated by facing them head-on.
By understanding that "what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger".
Paralysis and inaction have killed more dreams than failure.
What if you fail?
You will bounce back again.
You cannot lose with this mindset.
You can only grow, learn and evolve.
Do not stand in your own way.
Stop caring.
You cannot escape the uncertainties of life.
They will always be there.
So do what has to be done.
Do what fulfills you.
Care less.
Fear less.
Achieve more.
Become more.
There is no secret.
Your mental space is limited.
And most things DO NOT deserve caring about.
Get your priorities straight.
Don't let the fear of failure paralyze you.
Don't let the fear of missing out paralyze you.
Don't let the fear of being judged paralyze you.
The life you dream of is at the other end of defeating your fears.
And your fears can only be defeated by facing them head-on.
By understanding that "what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger".
Paralysis and inaction have killed more dreams than failure.
What if you fail?
You will bounce back again.
You cannot lose with this mindset.
You can only grow, learn and evolve.
Do not stand in your own way.
Stop caring.
You cannot escape the uncertainties of life.
They will always be there.
So do what has to be done.
Do what fulfills you.
Care less.
Fear less.
Achieve more.
Become more.
There is no secret.
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Is ego dangerous?
Is ego an enemy?
Here is what I (strongly) believe to be true.
Ego is dangerous when it's not self-validated.
Ego is simply self-perception.
If you lie to yourself about who and how you are, you will inevitably face problems.
Fact of the matter being that you'll disappoint yourself because your actions won't match your thoughts.
A seemingly big ego, isn't strong if the actions of the person lean towards external validation.
simple example:
Someone buys a very expensive car.
If their ego is self-validated:
They'll test it out in the highway, peak speed and enjoy themselves.
If their ego isn't self-validated:
They'll test it out in a crowded area so people can look at them.
Both cases think they deserve a luxurious car.
Both cases want to have a certain status.
One does it to impress.
One does it to feel better.
Ego is dangerous if at any moment it needs an external POV.
People who need validation are unsure about their ego.
They want to see themselves in a certain way but do not acknowledge their insecurities.
Instead of working on themselves they get wrapped up in trying to please others.
And that's the danger, they start question why they're not validated and as a way to cope, their self-perception gets more and more delusional as their subconscious insecurities grow too.
That creates a big contrast between how the person feels and how they act.
Someone with a strong ego, matches thoughts and actions.
Someone with a strong ego, ignores what's external and enjoy life to the fullest.
Someone with a delusional ego will always expect things from others as if they were in debt to them.
It creates a fake identity and feelings of self-discomfort.
Your ego is strong when it doesn't need social validation.
Your ego is your best friend when you don't lie to each other.
-> When you don't lie to yourself.
It's okay to have insecurities and past traumatizing experiences, it doesn't make you worth any less of yourself.
It doesn't mean you don't deserve to be treated decently.
It doesn't mean you need to bow down to others.
But keep in mind it goes both ways.
You owe no one anything.
No one owes you anything.
You have the right to value yourself without external interference.
In fact you should value yourself without external interference or influence.
Your opinion of yourself will help you in life as long as you don't let others influence it.
And by that, I mean don't tie your worth to how others perceive you or want them to perceive you.
Instead work on becoming your ideal self bit by bit.
The effort you will make on acknowledging your insecurities will grow your self-perception as you will sense the progress and efforts you're making.
Once you do, no one will ever be able to take that away from you.
People with a strong ego do not suffer from the inside.
People with deep rooted insecurities will hide behind a fake ego that they do not believe in.
It's not because someone says that he's better than everyone that his ego is strong.
He wants you to believe he loves himself so you feel obliged to love them too.
They don't love themselves and try to force others to love them so they can feel that feeling.
Little do they know that love comes first from within.
If you don't radiate positivity, you won't get any of it back.
Radiate from the inside.
It's all you need.
Love everything about yourself and improve piece by piece, step by step.
It's the process of genuinely trying to be your best self that gets you closer to self-love and strong ego.
Now that I have explained a bit further, I can clarify:
Ego isn't dangerous.
Showing ego when you have none is dangerous.
Take care of yourself, don't take care of external opinions.
What most people call ego, is deeply insecure feelings that have been put away and never dealt with.
Those are simply cowardice and delusion.
Not ego.
No one needs to validate you.
You need to validate yourself.
Is ego an enemy?
Here is what I (strongly) believe to be true.
Ego is dangerous when it's not self-validated.
Ego is simply self-perception.
If you lie to yourself about who and how you are, you will inevitably face problems.
Fact of the matter being that you'll disappoint yourself because your actions won't match your thoughts.
A seemingly big ego, isn't strong if the actions of the person lean towards external validation.
simple example:
Someone buys a very expensive car.
If their ego is self-validated:
They'll test it out in the highway, peak speed and enjoy themselves.
If their ego isn't self-validated:
They'll test it out in a crowded area so people can look at them.
Both cases think they deserve a luxurious car.
Both cases want to have a certain status.
One does it to impress.
One does it to feel better.
Ego is dangerous if at any moment it needs an external POV.
People who need validation are unsure about their ego.
They want to see themselves in a certain way but do not acknowledge their insecurities.
Instead of working on themselves they get wrapped up in trying to please others.
And that's the danger, they start question why they're not validated and as a way to cope, their self-perception gets more and more delusional as their subconscious insecurities grow too.
That creates a big contrast between how the person feels and how they act.
Someone with a strong ego, matches thoughts and actions.
Someone with a strong ego, ignores what's external and enjoy life to the fullest.
Someone with a delusional ego will always expect things from others as if they were in debt to them.
It creates a fake identity and feelings of self-discomfort.
Your ego is strong when it doesn't need social validation.
Your ego is your best friend when you don't lie to each other.
-> When you don't lie to yourself.
It's okay to have insecurities and past traumatizing experiences, it doesn't make you worth any less of yourself.
It doesn't mean you don't deserve to be treated decently.
It doesn't mean you need to bow down to others.
But keep in mind it goes both ways.
You owe no one anything.
No one owes you anything.
You have the right to value yourself without external interference.
In fact you should value yourself without external interference or influence.
Your opinion of yourself will help you in life as long as you don't let others influence it.
And by that, I mean don't tie your worth to how others perceive you or want them to perceive you.
Instead work on becoming your ideal self bit by bit.
The effort you will make on acknowledging your insecurities will grow your self-perception as you will sense the progress and efforts you're making.
Once you do, no one will ever be able to take that away from you.
People with a strong ego do not suffer from the inside.
People with deep rooted insecurities will hide behind a fake ego that they do not believe in.
It's not because someone says that he's better than everyone that his ego is strong.
He wants you to believe he loves himself so you feel obliged to love them too.
They don't love themselves and try to force others to love them so they can feel that feeling.
Little do they know that love comes first from within.
If you don't radiate positivity, you won't get any of it back.
Radiate from the inside.
It's all you need.
Love everything about yourself and improve piece by piece, step by step.
It's the process of genuinely trying to be your best self that gets you closer to self-love and strong ego.
Now that I have explained a bit further, I can clarify:
Ego isn't dangerous.
Showing ego when you have none is dangerous.
Take care of yourself, don't take care of external opinions.
What most people call ego, is deeply insecure feelings that have been put away and never dealt with.
Those are simply cowardice and delusion.
Not ego.
No one needs to validate you.
You need to validate yourself.
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When your brain perceives a threat.
It will either put you on a Fight, Flight or Freeze mode.
Everyone knows that.
And most of the time?
The adequate response is to Fight.
Sure some battles are not worth fighting and you should walk away.
But never, ever should you Freeze.
Inaction is an act of submission.
By not reacting to the threat
By not rationally picking the best course of action
You submit to the threat.
You let it happen.
And that's one of the worst things you could do.
You let the threat decide for you.
You just suffer the consequences.
Without having a say in it.
And you end up hating yourself for it.
You end up with regrets.
Nothing is worse than regrets.
The Fight, Flight or Freeze modes are subconscious.
Meaning they're automatic responses.
In those moments?
You HAVE to take control.
Don't just react.
Assess first.
Then, act accordingly.
But keep in mind that Freezing is NOT an option.
Do I have something to gain?
Yes?
Fight.
Do I have something to lose?
Yes?
Is it more than what I have to lose?
Yes?
Then walk away.
Freezing is just not an option.
Do not be passive.
Do not be a spectator.
It will either put you on a Fight, Flight or Freeze mode.
Everyone knows that.
And most of the time?
The adequate response is to Fight.
Sure some battles are not worth fighting and you should walk away.
But never, ever should you Freeze.
Inaction is an act of submission.
By not reacting to the threat
By not rationally picking the best course of action
You submit to the threat.
You let it happen.
And that's one of the worst things you could do.
You let the threat decide for you.
You just suffer the consequences.
Without having a say in it.
And you end up hating yourself for it.
You end up with regrets.
Nothing is worse than regrets.
The Fight, Flight or Freeze modes are subconscious.
Meaning they're automatic responses.
In those moments?
You HAVE to take control.
Don't just react.
Assess first.
Then, act accordingly.
But keep in mind that Freezing is NOT an option.
Do I have something to gain?
Yes?
Fight.
Do I have something to lose?
Yes?
Is it more than what I have to lose?
Yes?
Then walk away.
Freezing is just not an option.
Do not be passive.
Do not be a spectator.
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Opening up about your weaknesses and vulnerabilities arms people with information they can use against you.
There is nothing wrong with keeping your shit for yourself. Don't complain. Solve it and be done with it. You don't need someone to listen, you need to listen to yourself
You need to trust your gut and your ability to handle whatever life throws at you. You can build bonds with people and make allies without exposing yourself and making yourself vulnerable.
There are many poor-intentioned motherfuckers out there who memorize & record everything you say
And then use that information to harm you as soon as your interests diverge.
It's not even about not trusting anyone. It's mainly about protecting yourself because not everyone shows their intentions from the get-go.
One day they're your closest friend, the next day they backstab you.
One of the worst things you could ever do is be naive and think everyone has your best interest at heart.
They don't.
Look out for yourself.
There is nothing wrong with keeping your shit for yourself. Don't complain. Solve it and be done with it. You don't need someone to listen, you need to listen to yourself
You need to trust your gut and your ability to handle whatever life throws at you. You can build bonds with people and make allies without exposing yourself and making yourself vulnerable.
There are many poor-intentioned motherfuckers out there who memorize & record everything you say
And then use that information to harm you as soon as your interests diverge.
It's not even about not trusting anyone. It's mainly about protecting yourself because not everyone shows their intentions from the get-go.
One day they're your closest friend, the next day they backstab you.
One of the worst things you could ever do is be naive and think everyone has your best interest at heart.
They don't.
Look out for yourself.
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Do not get lost in trivial questions.
Do not waste time and energy on things that don’t move the needle.
“Why is this happening to me?”
“Why am I so unlucky?”
“What is wrong with me?”
Listen, you will always find excuses to rationalize your irrational behavior.
You’ll concede to emotions because they’re stronger than reason.
They’re impulsive and don’t leave you room for adjustment.
If you let yourself be distracted by things that drain your energy, you will constantly hold yourself back.
You won’t go for what you know you deserve because you’re not doing anything to deserve.
You simply have to put this in your head:
I am going to win no matter what.
No matter how hard it gets.
No matter how impossible people say it is
No matter how out of reach it seems right now.
The basis of everything is a strong mind.
Everything is a byproduct of it.
The truth?
There is no finding purpose, you just need to reach maximum potential in every area of your life.
Anything else noise.
Anything else is an excuse.
You have to aim at becoming the best possible version of yourself in everything you do or you'll always feel something is missing.
When your goal is to simply reach your full potential?
You just get after it.
Whatever stands in your way?
You say fuck it we ball and you overcome it.
Thug that shit out.
Do not waste time and energy on things that don’t move the needle.
“Why is this happening to me?”
“Why am I so unlucky?”
“What is wrong with me?”
Listen, you will always find excuses to rationalize your irrational behavior.
You’ll concede to emotions because they’re stronger than reason.
They’re impulsive and don’t leave you room for adjustment.
If you let yourself be distracted by things that drain your energy, you will constantly hold yourself back.
You won’t go for what you know you deserve because you’re not doing anything to deserve.
You simply have to put this in your head:
I am going to win no matter what.
No matter how hard it gets.
No matter how impossible people say it is
No matter how out of reach it seems right now.
The basis of everything is a strong mind.
Everything is a byproduct of it.
The truth?
There is no finding purpose, you just need to reach maximum potential in every area of your life.
Anything else noise.
Anything else is an excuse.
You have to aim at becoming the best possible version of yourself in everything you do or you'll always feel something is missing.
When your goal is to simply reach your full potential?
You just get after it.
Whatever stands in your way?
You say fuck it we ball and you overcome it.
Thug that shit out.
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Listen to what challenges your perception of reality.
Take it into consideration, and analyze it objectively.
Know your biases and learn to mute them.
This is the only way to grow and break out of your programming.
You don't know it all.
Listen but question what you're told.
You have to be slightly stubborn and even a bit insane.
But still open to hearing it.
Listen but don't take anything for face value.
Put thoughts into what you're told before absorbing it as absolute truth.
The basis of critical thinking is refusing to be spoonfed beliefs.
Question what you're told and draw your own conclusions.
Not just for the sake of disagreeing.
But for the sake of having strong beliefs.
Things that can't be shaken by the slightest of events; internal beliefs that drive your every action and decision.
You can't afford to be naive in this world.
Take it into consideration, and analyze it objectively.
Know your biases and learn to mute them.
This is the only way to grow and break out of your programming.
You don't know it all.
Listen but question what you're told.
You have to be slightly stubborn and even a bit insane.
But still open to hearing it.
Listen but don't take anything for face value.
Put thoughts into what you're told before absorbing it as absolute truth.
The basis of critical thinking is refusing to be spoonfed beliefs.
Question what you're told and draw your own conclusions.
Not just for the sake of disagreeing.
But for the sake of having strong beliefs.
Things that can't be shaken by the slightest of events; internal beliefs that drive your every action and decision.
You can't afford to be naive in this world.
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Not pursuing what you know you’re capable of is a choice.
The choice of seeing yourself as someone to whom things happen instead of seeing yourself as someone who makes things happen.
Main character syndrome isn’t a mental illness.
Not seeing yourself as the main character is the real problem.
You can’t just consider that you have no control over the world you live in.
It’s soul suicide.
Most people are NPCs by choice.
They chose to give up their control and agency.
And I don’t think there is anything more stupid than that.
You should be egocentric.
As far as you know, you perceive the world from your own lens.
It all exists because you can see it.
Everything happens around you.
You are the central point of everything.
Act like it.
The choice of seeing yourself as someone to whom things happen instead of seeing yourself as someone who makes things happen.
Main character syndrome isn’t a mental illness.
Not seeing yourself as the main character is the real problem.
You can’t just consider that you have no control over the world you live in.
It’s soul suicide.
Most people are NPCs by choice.
They chose to give up their control and agency.
And I don’t think there is anything more stupid than that.
You should be egocentric.
As far as you know, you perceive the world from your own lens.
It all exists because you can see it.
Everything happens around you.
You are the central point of everything.
Act like it.
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No one is capable of enduring feelings of inferiority for too long.
It is a poison that kills you slowly and paralyzes your every move and decision.
The idea that you're lacking something or that you're not good enough will be the end of you on the long-term.
You'll constantly stand in your own way and prevent yourself from doing the things that would drive you closer to your potential.
This is exactly why I keep saying that thinking and spreading the idea that Ego is a bad thing is simply demonic.
If you're thinking it, you're doing yourself a disservice.
If you're spreading it, you're doing everyone a disservice.
It's evil and irresponsible.
Now, how do you get over those feelings of inferiority?
There are two answers to this:
1. You need to accept the idea that the feelings of inferiority are of your own making and are not an objective truth.
The reality is that you compare yourself to people who are not you and have had a different set of circumstances.
Simply put, nobody else knows or has been through what you have been through.
And that makes you unique.
Not less & not more than anyone else.
And that uniqueness has to be embraced.
Now this first answer is a matter of belief and understanding.
It takes time to sink in.
So let's look at the second answer, which is a matter of action.
2. Whatever led you to the present moment is irrelevant. Yes it does play a role in how you're feeling right now.
But that past does not define your future.
Your future is defined by actions you take right now.
And let me tell you how to flip the noscript:
You stack small wins upon small wins.
You reframe everything you go through as an enriching experience that grows you as a person.
Everything you experience comes to strengthen the character and develop it.
The solution is to apply yourself in everything you do.
Investing yourself fully.
You turn "If only" into "Let's fucking do it".
This is how your self-perception changes.
Everything is here to grow you as a person.
Ignore anything that doesn't add up to your abilities, skills and achievements.
By doing this, you become a CAPABLE person.
And once you do that?
You internalize the idea that you are a powerful person.
Because you now hold the power of getting things done.
No matter what those things are.
You make peace with yourself by becoming a more powerful person.
Nobody who truly pursues personal growth ever thinks low of themselves.
It is a poison that kills you slowly and paralyzes your every move and decision.
The idea that you're lacking something or that you're not good enough will be the end of you on the long-term.
You'll constantly stand in your own way and prevent yourself from doing the things that would drive you closer to your potential.
This is exactly why I keep saying that thinking and spreading the idea that Ego is a bad thing is simply demonic.
If you're thinking it, you're doing yourself a disservice.
If you're spreading it, you're doing everyone a disservice.
It's evil and irresponsible.
Now, how do you get over those feelings of inferiority?
There are two answers to this:
1. You need to accept the idea that the feelings of inferiority are of your own making and are not an objective truth.
The reality is that you compare yourself to people who are not you and have had a different set of circumstances.
Simply put, nobody else knows or has been through what you have been through.
And that makes you unique.
Not less & not more than anyone else.
And that uniqueness has to be embraced.
Now this first answer is a matter of belief and understanding.
It takes time to sink in.
So let's look at the second answer, which is a matter of action.
2. Whatever led you to the present moment is irrelevant. Yes it does play a role in how you're feeling right now.
But that past does not define your future.
Your future is defined by actions you take right now.
And let me tell you how to flip the noscript:
You stack small wins upon small wins.
You reframe everything you go through as an enriching experience that grows you as a person.
Everything you experience comes to strengthen the character and develop it.
The solution is to apply yourself in everything you do.
Investing yourself fully.
You turn "If only" into "Let's fucking do it".
This is how your self-perception changes.
Everything is here to grow you as a person.
Ignore anything that doesn't add up to your abilities, skills and achievements.
By doing this, you become a CAPABLE person.
And once you do that?
You internalize the idea that you are a powerful person.
Because you now hold the power of getting things done.
No matter what those things are.
You make peace with yourself by becoming a more powerful person.
Nobody who truly pursues personal growth ever thinks low of themselves.
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Most of your problems are problems of self-perception.
Most of your problems are problems of a lack of ego.
You don’t stand up for yourself because you think low of yourself.
You don’t give 200% because you don’t think you can.
If you don’t perceive yourself positively, everything you do will impact you negatively.
Because that’s what you believe yourself to deserve.
Make peace with your ego.
Most of your problems are problems of a lack of ego.
You don’t stand up for yourself because you think low of yourself.
You don’t give 200% because you don’t think you can.
If you don’t perceive yourself positively, everything you do will impact you negatively.
Because that’s what you believe yourself to deserve.
Make peace with your ego.
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I've started writing a book that I should probably have written long ago.
But I kept delaying it to further cement and mature up my take and stance on the topic.
I've been researching and analyzing the concept of Ego for a few years now and I finally think that I'm ready to put it all together.
The question is, would you read it?
But I kept delaying it to further cement and mature up my take and stance on the topic.
I've been researching and analyzing the concept of Ego for a few years now and I finally think that I'm ready to put it all together.
The question is, would you read it?
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