do not give bread to ducks reminder

goth

unexpected, randm flashback, of that time that my father got worried because i had no problem washing the dishes and that was bad because it was a fem thing or something, and looked all around where to buy a blue scourer pad to compensate. everytime i question myself and if im being irrational, or if it is the rest of the world instead who are irrational, i try to remember that event