Love will not save you. But it will hold your hand while you save yourself. And in a world that sometimes seems void of goodness, in a world that sometimes feels too heavy to bear, I think that is all we are really searching for. Someone by our side. Someone who grounds us. Someone who will quietly hug us for twenty minutes straight while we figure it all out. I think that is all anyone really needs. Someone who sees them. Someone who stays.
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Sometimes we torture ourselves with our thoughts. But sometimes, we're not "thinking too much," we're thinking things through in order to make good decisions.
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How Do We Engage in Useful Thinking?
What we can do to harness this tremendous brainpower is to ensure that most, if not all, of our thinking is useful thinking. Here are four quick principles to keep in mind:-
1. When thinking, consciously push for greater clarity of the issues, with the goal to reach a decision or a plan of action within a certain timeframe. (Kinda like what we do in our jobs.)
2. Recognize when the thinking gets stuck and leads to confusion or anxiety. This is when talking it out with someone can be useful.
3. It is okay to be selective about who to talk to. Some people will not have the patience or sincerity to hear out our issues and will likely judge us as overthinking.
4. When talking out issues with someone, it is good to touch on both the positives and negatives. This helps people understand that we have thought through the issue from many angles before zooming in on specific parts that need addressing.
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What we can do to harness this tremendous brainpower is to ensure that most, if not all, of our thinking is useful thinking. Here are four quick principles to keep in mind:-
1. When thinking, consciously push for greater clarity of the issues, with the goal to reach a decision or a plan of action within a certain timeframe. (Kinda like what we do in our jobs.)
2. Recognize when the thinking gets stuck and leads to confusion or anxiety. This is when talking it out with someone can be useful.
3. It is okay to be selective about who to talk to. Some people will not have the patience or sincerity to hear out our issues and will likely judge us as overthinking.
4. When talking out issues with someone, it is good to touch on both the positives and negatives. This helps people understand that we have thought through the issue from many angles before zooming in on specific parts that need addressing.
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"It's okay to miss them, just dont put yourself back in that toxic situation again."
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Two things to remember in life.
Take care of your thoughts when you are alone, and take care of your words when you are with people.
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Take care of your thoughts when you are alone, and take care of your words when you are with people.
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The broken will always be able to love harder than most. Once you've been in the dark, you learn to appreciate everything that shines.
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“Being nice to someone you don’t like doesn’t mean you’re fake, it means you’re mature enough to tolerate your dislike for them.”
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Deep Thoughts pinned «My home will be a home with no loud anger, no explosive rage, no slamming doors or breaking glass, no name calling, shaming, or blackmail. My home will be gentle, it will be warm. It will keep my loved ones safe. No fear, no hurt, and no worries. I may come…»
I hope you realize 2021 won’t magically be your best year ever unless you
1. Take ownership for your actions.
2. Change your habits to support your growth.
3. Make health & happiness a priority.
4. Learn to say no & develop boundaries.
5. Surround yourself with positive people.
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1. Take ownership for your actions.
2. Change your habits to support your growth.
3. Make health & happiness a priority.
4. Learn to say no & develop boundaries.
5. Surround yourself with positive people.
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