one way or another, you’ll become someone you can’t entirely plan for. you'll become someone who doesn’t exist yet. you'll find meaning in work that you haven’t heard of yet. you'll travel to places you haven’t been yet. your life will be changed by people you don’t know yet. you'll fall in love with someone you haven’t met yet. you'll have more kids or fewer kids than you thought you would, and they’ll blow up your heart in ways you never thought possible. the most difficult moments of your twenties will be forgotten, while your most defining moments will be joys and accomplishments you never foresaw.