this MIGHT be Judy Hopps

•To me, a lady is not
frilly, flouncy, flippant, frivolous and fluff-brained…but she is gentle, she is gracious, she is godly and she is giving.
You and I have the gift of femininity..... the more womanly we are, the more manly men will be and the more God is glorified. Be women, be only women, be real women in obedience to God•

"Love isn't something natural. Rather it requires discipline, concentration, patience, faith, and the overcoming of narcissism. It isn't a feeling, it is a practice."

"Love is a decision, it is a judgment, it is a promise. If love were only a feeling, there would be no basis for the promise to love each other forever. A feeling comes and it may go. How can I judge that it will stay forever, when my act does not involve judgment and decision."

~Erich Fromm

When the body is sad, the heart languishes.