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Is gender envy when I look at a perfectly androgynous person and think "God I wish that were me"

Or is it something else

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When people say "I wish I was creative like you", I always say "Bitch I literally stole all of this from a bunch of media I like"

But then you can put in a twist so it looks original

People misunderstand creativity.
It isn't the ability to pluck an idea from nothingness.
It is to make the ideas you sew together look cohesive and novel.

Incoming wall of gender

I've been told before that I talk a lot about gender stuff, and I'm like "Yeah it's a big part of my life"

So I'm gonna talk more

I was watching Negative Legend's video where they answer enby/trans questions and I felt a lot of kinship with many of their experiences

And it made me reflect on myself and how I changed in the past few years

I think overall, learning more about what being non-binary means, and how it applies to me, I feel like that was the biggest progress since I found out there was a secret third option

I realized I wouldn't have watched that video if it was months ago, because I would look at them and think "They look exactly like how I want to look like, but I don't, I'm a failure of a trans person and I don't want to watch this and keep being reminded of it"

But now I learned this is bullshit and my identity is still valid, even if I haven't started transitioning yet

I mean I still get gender envy looking at them, but not at the cost of my own self-worth

When I look in the mirror I still feel upset sometimes, but other times I also just say "Come on Lyn. You look cute. Look at that," and I can't get upset about myself

Even if I don't think I'll ever be conventionally beautiful

I don't know, just reflecting on how my self-image has been lately