A boy becomes a man when he:

- stops complaining and finds solutions

- stops blaming others and takes responsibility

- stops looking to other people to solve his problems

- stops seeking approval and becomes the one who approve.

Stop chasing stimulation.

Learn to be bored, silent, and comfortable alone.

Sometimes we must detox from overstimulation and instant gratification to gain clarification and re-center our path.

I'm often asked:

"How can I become more confident"

"How do I become more resilient"

"How do I stand up for myself"

Or

"How do I stop freezing in conversations"

Funnily enough, the answer to all of those questions is, at the root, the same.

All of those highly depend on how you view and value yourself.

Do you think you deserve the best?

Who are you to yourself?

The thing is, with a strong self-image, you won't freeze, you will be confident and more resilient.

And you will also tolerate nobody's bullshit when it crosses your boundaries.

The answer is what is your relationship with yourself?

Because at the end of the day, that is exactly what each and everyone of us projects on a daily basis.

Fix your relationship with yourself and you will stop fucking up things.

Internalize this.

Nature makes a boy.

Struggle makes a man.

Discipline makes a legend.

Perseverance makes a GOAT.

Don't be a nice person.

A nice person always agrees and approves.

Such persons are not valued for their opinion.

Be a kind person who can disagree politely.

If you continue to wait until you’re ready, you’ll wait for the rest of your life.


You see, there are two types of people in the world:

The first one dares to dream, take action, and make something out of their life.

They are brave and daring.

They embrace their fears and make their happiness a priority.

They live in the moment.



Then there is the second group of people,

People who are too afraid to take a risk.

They often “wait for the right opportunity”.

They “wait for a better day”, they “wait for the right circumstances” or to become 100 percent ready.



All they do is wait. Until they are out of time.

That’s where they make a crucial mistake.

Because no matter how much they wait for that perfect opportunity to happen, it never does.



Life passes them by, while they are too busy with their own insecurities to see what they are missing out on.

Make sure you are not one of them.

Everything you want is waiting for you on the other side of the hard things you must do.

Success has no other path; you either face the challenges, or you remain the same forever.

Make progress or make excuses.

What life gives you is just the result of what you give to life.

Think about that.

Maturity is learnt rather than acquired.

Be humble enough to learn from experiences and willing enough to change and adapt.

Unless you do these things, age is just a number.

Life is a social warfare.

The more social skills you have the better are your chances to win it.

From getting a job to finding your wife.

You need social skills everywhere.

This is why you need to join SSU.

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The only way to find the purpose of your life is to:

EXPLORE as much as you can.

Explore what you fear
Explore what excites you
Explore what fascinates you

Eventually you will find your own way.

If everyone around you complains, odds are you're a complainer.

If everyone arounds you feels helpless, odds are you're helpless.

If everyone around you is pursuing big dreams, odd are you are pursuing big dreams.

Choose your company wisely.

Your anger, your desire, your frustration, your disappointment...they are all fuel.

Instead of judging yourself for these emotions, learn to channel them into both your work ethic and your leadership style.

Haters help you see your weaknesses and your blind spots.

You may ignore these people but don't ignore their message.

When something hurts, it's usually true.

Redpill: You’re gonna lose a lot of “friends” when you decide you’ve had enough of being a loser.

If you want to become successful in life, do NOT seek for success, instead seek to become a person of value.

Make yourself valuable and people will search for you.

Make yourself valuable and people will pay for you.

Confidence is a result of success, not the source of success.

Becoming an expert and valuable at something is the key to success.

You are:

What you eat
What you invest in
What you talk about
What you consistently do
What content you consume
Who you spend your time with
What you constantly think about

Improve those to improve yourself.

To stand out you must stop fitting in.

Become an expert in some particular area.

Develop a gift in your life that people will pay you to perform it.

Having Plenty Of Money Does Not Change A Person's Personality.

It Reveals It, By Enabling Them To Buy Whatever They Want.

You Learn A Lot About A Person, By What They Spend their Money On.

Most people are not saying what they actually think is true.

Most are saying what they think will make them look good.

If you don't create a routine, you will be assigned one.

If you don't create a purpose, you will be assigned one.

If you don't create a career, you will be assigned one.

People are too quick to adopt the structure that somebody else created to ease life's uncertainty.