Your work ethic is how you prove to God that you are worthy of the things you wish for.

Read that again…

Don't laugh if you don't find something funny.

Most men do it to please others and get their validation.

You're not most men.

You will be free when you understand that the cage where you live is made of thoughts.

Stop chasing approval.

Set your default expectation as not being liked by everyone.

Embrace it and find peace.

When someone does like you, it's a bonus, not a necessity.

Caring about being liked isn't a universal need for men.

Respect over popularity.

Competence and ruthlessness earn respect; approval is a byproduct.

Discipline today, freedom tomorrow.

Procrastination today, regret tomorrow.

If you crave freedom but struggle with procrastination, read this thread:

https://twitter.com/Mindset_Machine/status/1773698916287930878

A lot of success in life boils down to whether you can handle long periods of time alone undistracted, focused and diligently working on your long-term goals.

Respect is earned, not freely given.

A man gains honor through his actions, not his words.

Hence,

Actions are your currency,

Integrity is your wealth.

Talk less, listen more. Your silence speaks volumes.

Let them underestimate you.

If you are both competent and charming, you thrive.

If you are incompetent and charming, you survive.

If you are offensive or boring, and competent, you survive.

If you are neither competent nor charming, you die.

You learn a lot about people when they don't get what they want from you.

No discipline = no success

Lack of ambition = acceptance of mediocrity

Avoiding challenges = fearing growth

Ignoring health = neglecting wealth

Shunning responsibility = denying leadership

Preferring comfort = missing opportunities

Rejecting feedback = stagnation of character

Fear of failure = barrier to achievement

Disregarding education = limiting potential.

Focus on your growth
Cultivate your potential
Inspire your circle
Strengthen your community
Impact the world.

In that order.

What would you choose? And why?

https://twitter.com/Mindset_Machine/status/1776191981300892022

Power or Money: Which is Better?

Power is Tricky:

Having power means you have to be very responsible.

- If you use power on others, they might not like you.

- If you don't use your power, people might think you're not doing your job.


Why People Want Power

Some people want power to make money, scare their enemies, or be famous.

But if they lose their power, they also lose their money and respect.


Money Can Be Better

Money earned the right way can make you happy and give you peace.

Money is usually safer than power.


Who Looks for Power?

Power often attracts those from less affluent backgrounds looking to carve out a place for themselves or who see it as a shortcut to importance.

Wealthy individuals might not pursue power as aggressively, having already found their contentment in life's pleasures.


What I Would Choose

If I had to choose, I'd pick money earned in a good way over power.

Money is safer and makes life easier.

You attract what you reflect.

To find quality, be quality.

Always have goals that are slightly too difficult for the current you.

It forces you to grow, and your anxiety will go away during the process of improving yourself.

What do you think?

https://twitter.com/Mindset_Machine/status/1777624067350090176

Confidence vs. Physical Appearance


• Impact of Confidence:

Confidence shines through in your actions, voice, and posture, making you more noticeable and appealing.

It's about how you carry yourself and interact with the world.

A confident person appears more capable, trustworthy, and attractive.

This quality can draw people to you, often more powerfully than just physical looks.


• Physical Appearance:

While physical looks can catch someone's eye initially, their impact often fades over time.

What sustains interest and attraction is the personality and confidence of a person.

Physical appearance can influence first impressions, but it's the depth of character, including confidence, that leaves a lasting impact.


• Real-Life Example:

Think of a situation where two people are giving a presentation.

One might not meet conventional standards of beauty but speaks clearly, maintains eye contact, and engages with the audience confidently.

The other, though physically attractive, might be timid, hesitant, and less engaging.

Most likely, the audience will be more impressed and influenced by the confident speaker, regardless of physical appearance.


• Why Confidence Attracts:

Confidence suggests you believe in yourself and your abilities.

It signals to others that you are capable and reliable.

This can be especially important in professional settings, relationships, and social situations.

Confidence can inspire trust and admiration, making others more drawn to you.


• Benefits of Focusing on Confidence:

1. Long-term Relationships:

Confidence helps in building deeper connections with people, which are more sustainable than those based solely on looks.

2. Success in Various Life Aspects:

Confidence contributes to success in careers, social interactions, and personal goals, as it encourages taking risks and facing challenges head-on.

3. Personal Growth:

Building confidence involves self-awareness and personal development, leading to a more fulfilling life.


In summary, while physical appearance might open some doors, it's your confidence that will allow you to walk through them and make a lasting impression.

Focusing on developing confidence can enrich your life in ways that focusing solely on appearance cannot.