“I will make a fatherly request: Try as much as you can to focus on “the one thing needed.” Try to struggle and prepare yourselves. Let us try to erase the sins that are recorded in the book of our life and leave only the pages containing our good deeds.”

Geronda Ephraim of Arizona
The Art of Salvation, p188

Love others with all that you have <3. With both, words and actions. Many people serve the Lord through serving their families.

If you are married or in a relationship, in front of people you are always a team. Some people want to see you argue, struggle, break up, break down. That's why in front of people you are always a team. If necessary, disagree in the car with each other or at home. It's not faking, It's called being respectful of one another and showing the world you stand together no matter what.
No one will respect a man or a woman that will tear down their spouse in front of people.

How cowardly is the man who awakens love in a girl without the intention of loving and marrying her?