A casual reminder: hook ups are fine, we don't slut shame here, we slut praise here.
But sometimes people don't deserve to sex us.
This song is a reminder that sometimes less sex with better people is better, and also I like it.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FVhoS2vraQE

Also, let me be clear about one thing.
Sex without committment or non ethical monogamy are perfectly fine, but everyone deserves to have honesty (as in not being the "other person" in a monogamous relationship or have clear boundaries and ideas of whether there is or not an emotional link, without lying to each other) and respect. Things can change with time, but the change must be agreed upon by all the person involved. And for the love of God, if they accept you to a degree (ex. not if you transition, not openly etc) you deserve better. You are a whole, find yourself someone who can accept all of you.

Dunking on Elon Musk is my favourite sport, I'd watch the fucking Olympics out of that

Why not both?

Fucking umbrellas they suck