Wait, if I buy this fancy meal  , can I still afford the gym this month?"
the next uk you’re staring at your empty wallet like, “Did I really spend that much on BEU eats!?”
Transport, food, random "adult" expenses it all adds up. And no, shiro for a week straight isn’t a hack,it’s a cry for help.  

Your family isn’t the one stopping you now you are. Cos suddenly, y’r the one responsible for not wrecking your life. No one’s yelling at u to come home early, but now you’re like, “I should probably sleep… I have work tomorrow."Emotional intelligence? More like “Why am I my own parent now?" The tension is REAL.

while aggressively ignoring your phone. Pro tip: Call your people. Meet up. You’re not weak for needing connection you’re human. 

Oh, you’re sick? Good luck adulting now. Cooking feels like climbing Everest, and suddenly, “Is indomie a balanced meal?" 🙄🙄🙄
Hydrate, take your meds, and pray for a miracle (or a friend who’ll drop off soup). 

   - Ignore them (too busy).
   - Nod but think about 🍕
   - 🤷‍♀️Say “there, there” then change topics.  
   - Listen and try to help.  
   - Give wise advice + a hug (like Yoda!).  

   - Ignore it completely 

👀

   - Get annoyed but move on

😒

   - 

😡

Take it personally (but hide it).  
   - 

🤔

Think about how to improve.  
   - 

🎉

Thank them + happy dance!  

   - "What’s happening?"  
   - Only if they’re crying.  
   - Assume they’re just shy.  
   - Include them in the fun. 

🤗

   - Detect ALL vibes (emotion radar!).  

4. Handling a fight? You…
   
- Avoid it completely.
   - Talk about cats instead.  
   - Argue until they give up.  
   - Find a fair compromise.  
   - Fix it like a peace ninja!  

  - Clueless about feelings.  
   - Nice but not deep.  
   - Tries but misses sometimes.  
   - Supportive and caring.  
   - The feelings guru (+ snacks!).  

A year changes you a lot