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'Adiyy Muhammad:
Complaining of loneliness?

From Muhammad bin Aslam - rahimahullaah - (d. 242 AH) that he said:

"What is there for me in this creation? I was alone in the back-bone of my father. Then i was alone in the womb of my mother. Then I entered this world alone. Then my soul will be taken alone, and I would be laid into my grave alone. Then Nakeer and Munkar (two angels) will come to me in my grave, to question me alone. If I reached goodness, I reach it alone, and if I reached evil, then also I would be alone. Then I would stand infront of Allaah, all alone. Then my (good) actions and sins, both will be put in the scale; mine alone. If I am sent to the Paradise, I am sent alone. And if I am sent to the Hell, I am sent alone. So, what is there for me in the people? "

Source: Hilyatul Awliyaa of Aboo Nu'aym al-Asbahaanee, 9/242
*A GOOD WOMAN, MAKES A GOOD WIFE AND A GOOD WIFE BECOMES A GOOD MOTHER.*

*A GOOD MOTHER GIVE BIRTH TO A GOOD CHILD. IF YOU WANT TO BE ONE EMULATE THESE STEPS BELOW*

1). Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.

2). Don't expose your husband's weaknesses to your family and friends. It will bounce back at you. You are each other's keeper.

3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret
them. Defensive women don't have a happy home.

4). Never compare your husband to other men, you've no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish.

5). Never ill treat your husband's friends because you don't like them, the person who's supposed to get rid of them is your husband.

6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.

7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.

8). Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.

9). Never be a wasteful wife, your husband's sweat is too precious to be wasted.

10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband's right. You must give it to him how he wants it. It's very important to Men, if you keep denying him, it is a matter of time before another woman takes over that duty. No man can withstand on starvation for too long (even the anointed
ones)

11). Never compare your husband to your one time Ex-lover. Your home may Never recover from it if you do.

12). Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him although he may answer for you in public opinion polls.

13). Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children. Wise Women don't do that.

14). Don't forget to check the smartness of your husband before he checks out.

15). Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.

16). Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the dressing table. Out there your husband is always surrounded by women who took their time on their looks.

17). Your parents or family or friends do not have the final say in your marriage. Don't waste your time looking up to them for a final word. You must Leave if you want to Cleave.

18). Never base your love on monetary things. Will you still submit to him even if you earn more money than him?

19). Don't forget that husbands want attention and good listeners, never be too busy for him. Good communication is the bed rock of every happy home.

20). If your idea worked better than his, never compare yourself to him. Its always team work.

21). Don't be too judgmental to your husband. No man wants a Nagging wife.

22). A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn't even know that her body needs a bath.

23). Does your husband like a kind of cooked food? Try to change your cooking. No man jokes with food.

24). Never be too demanding to your husband, enjoy every moment, resource as it comes.

25). Make a glass of water the very first welcome to your husband and everyone entering your home. Sweetness of attitude is true beauty.

26). Don't associate with women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage.

27). Your marriage is as valuable to you as the value that you give it. Recklessness is unacceptable.

28). Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the Lord, love your children and teach them well.

29). You are never too old to influence your home. Never reduce your care for your family for any reason.

30). A prayerful wife is a better equipped wife,pray always for your husband and family.

_Send it to every woman you know. You never know whose marriage you are about to save. And to every man so that the women in their lives can be better guided._
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ْلَنْ يُصِيبَنَا إِلَّا مَا كَتَبَ اللَّهُ لَنَا
"Nothing will happen to us except what Allah has written for us"
Qur'an 9:51
Six Best Traits In A Woman...

“If six mannerisms are gathered in a woman, her goodness is perfected: Guarding the five prayers, Yielding to her husband, Pleasing her Lord, Guarding her tongue from backbiting and gossip, Forsaking worldly possessions, and Being patient following a tragedy.”

(Siyar ‘A'lam al Nubala’ of Imaam ad-Dhahabi (rahimahullah)]
And when a person commits a sin it’s due to a decrease of his worship of Allah

- Ibn Taymiyyah (rahimahullah)

[جامع المسائل ٩ / ١٧٣]
The Prophet ﷺ said:

“The good deeds are made easy for the blessed, and bad deeds are made easy for the wretched.”

[Sahih Bukhari Vol 2, Book 23, No. 444]
Reciting Surah al Ikhlaas, Falaq and Naas after Fard Salah is a cause of being healthy, safe, cured from all disease & the reward of reciting a third of the Qur'an

Shaykh Abdul-Aziz ibn Abdullah ibn Baz (‏ (رحمه اللهon Surah Al-Ikhlas and Al-Muawwidhatayn (Surahs Al-Falaq and Al-Nas)

Our eminent Shaykh emphasized that Allah (Glorified and Exalted be He) ordained that every male and female Muslim is to recite Surah (Qur'anic chapter) Al-Ikhlas and Al-Mu`awwidhatayn (Surahs Al-Falaq and Al-Nas) after performing every obligatory Salah. He continued that doing so is one of the causes of being healthy, safe, and cure from all diseases. In addition, the reward that a person receives for reciting Surah Al-Ikhlas equals that which they receive for reciting one third of the Qur'an.

http://www.alifta.net/Fatawa/FatawaDetails.aspx?languagename=en&lang=en&IndexItemID=43012&SecItemHitID=46344&ind=22&Type=Index2&MarkIndex=1&View=Page&PageID=1332&PageNo=1&BookID=14#Qur'anandSunnahcontainAdhkarandsupplicationsforrefugeandprotectionagainstallphysicalandpsychologicaldiseases
LEARN FROM OUR MISTAKES
Abu Huraira reported: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said,
“The believer is not stung twice from the same hole.”
Source: Sahih Bukhari 5782, Sahih Muslim 2998
What Allaah loves: A tongue beautified with Sidq; a heart with Ikhlaas; love of Allah; Repentance; Tawakkul

[Al-Fawaa-id page:327]
There is no particular dua to be Recited on completing the Quran (Khatam)

Shaykh Ibn Baaz (may Allaah have mercy on him) was asked:
Is there a specific du’aa’ for completing the Qur’aan?

He said:

There is no evidence that there is a specific du’aa’ for this as far as I know. Hence it is permissible for a person to make du’aa’ as he wishes and to choose beneficial supplications such as praying to be forgiven, to be granted Paradise and to be saved from Hell, seeking refuge with Allaah from fitnah (temptation, tribulation), asking for help to understand the Qur’aan in the manner that Allaah is pleased with and to act upon it and memorize it, etc., because it was proven that Anas (may Allaah be pleased with him) used to gather his family when he completed the Qur’aan and make du’aa’.

Majmoo’ Fataawa Ibn Baaz, 11/358.
If ur husband tells u to wear proper Hijaab/Niqaab say Alhamdulillah

If ur husband stops u from doing Tabarruj & makeup say Alhamdulillah

If ur husband doesnt let u upload ur pics online say Alhamdulillah

If ur husband doesnt let u add non mahram men on FB & other social media say Alhamdulillah

If ur husband doesnt let u to talk to non mahram men say Alhamdulillah

Say Alhamdulillah that Allah Subhaana wa ta'aala has blessed u with a husband who has gheerah for his wife and is not a Dayouth.
*Below are 21 points with proofs and evidences from the Qurʾān and authentic sunnah on the topic of raising children*

From the book 'Naṣīḥatī li-Nisā’ (My Advice to the Women) authored by Umm ʿAbdillāh al-Wādiʿīyyah, the daughter of the late Imām of Yemen, Al-ʿAllāmah Muqbil ibn Hādi al-Wādiʿī - raḥimahullāh. (taken from troid.ca website)

1. To teach the child, ‘Where is Allāh?’

2. Instructing the child to eat with his/her right-hand.

3. Teaching the child not to blow on hot food/drink.

4. Instruct the child by age 1-1½ to mention ‘bismillah’ upon eating/drinking.

5. To teach the child the pillars of Islām and īmān.

6. To teach the child the rulings of wuḍūʿ.

7. Eat with your right hand and eat which is near to you.

8. Get them accustomed with good and command them with ṣalāt at 7yrs of age.

9. Arrange their beds separately when they are 10yrs of age.

10. Accustom them with fasting.

11. Teach your child the correct ʿaqīdah.

12. Advice your child with that with Luqmān advised his child.

13. To seek permission to enter a house or a room.

14. Teach them the matters which are forbidden that they main abstain from them.

15. Explaining the meaning of an āyah or ḥadīth that is being related of them.

16. Connect their hearts to Allāh.

17. Give concern to the memorisation of the Qurʾān.

18. Do not leave your children to mix with foolish children.

19. Do not leave your child outside in the evening.

20. Do not leave the child to play alone (always) and do not make learning boring.

21. Make your child sit with those who are righteous.
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“The distinguishing characteristic between the believer and the hypocrite is sincerity.”

• Ibn Taymiyyah’s Fatawa (v. 20, p. 75)
Whoever increases in worry and sadness must recite; “Lā Ḥawla Walā Quwwata Illā Billāh.””

-[Imām Ibn Qayyim | Zād al-Ma'ād (4/183)]
OUR PHONES 📱📱📱📞📞📞

One of the hardest task in this 21st century is for the youths to spend 30 mins without "touching" their phones!

Almost everyone is now a phone addict.

It's the last thing you touch before you sleep at night.

It's the first thing you touch when you wake up at dawn

Some even put earpiece on their ears overnight.

Some still wake at night to download films but they can't wake up for tahajud.

Some are always "online" chatting.

As early as 6am they are online and they remain online till midnight.

They have thousands of friends online whom they chat with but they don't relate with their families at home.

They isolate themselves in their rooms.

Some argue till midnight about aqeedah issues, yet by fajr time, he is sleeping and snoring.

Immediately after the tasleem in salat, you see people pressing their phones again, no time for adhkaar!

As if all their past and future sins have already been forgiven!

When accidents happen, instead of saving lives, you see people snapping the victims with their phones.

When a house is burning, instead of quenching it, you see people snapping so as to be the first to upload it on social network.

When a person loses a loved one, instead of thinking about the funeral issues, the first thing the person does is to upload the news on social network perhaps to get
comments!

We are so addicted to phones, we even chat when we are on motorcycles.

Some still chat in the exam halls.

Some play games with their phones in the masjid.

Subhan'Allah
Some watch films in the masjid.
What a fitnah befalling the Ummah.

Along the road, some keep pressing their phones, until perhaps they narrowly dodge an accident or until a banana peel slips them.

Even when we have guests, we still concentrate on our phones than our guest.

Some ignore their spouses because they are chatting with "mere friends" on Facebook!

Some use Suratul Asr to hasten their salat because of their phones, not knowing that Suratul Asr is talking about spending time in righteous deeds.

Many are those whose phones have made them "hypocrites". Many are those whose phones are leading them to hellfire
Because of your phone, you are the last person to come to Juma'ah and you are always the first
person to leave!

Allah said, 'Closer and closer to mankind comes their judgement, yet they don't take heed, and they turn away' (Sura Al-Anbiyaa vs 1)

Sheik Uthaymeen rahimahuLlah said, Whoever does not spend his time for the sake of Allah, what is better for him is DEATH!

May Allah forgive our numerous sins. Aameen
ENTERING JANNAH OR JAHANNAM BECAUSE OF A FLY Question Is the following narration authentic? “A man entered Jannah because of a fly, while another entered Jahannam because of a fly. “Two men passed by a people who had an idol, which it was not permissible for anyone to pass without making a sacrifice to it. They [the people] said to the first man: “Sacrifice [something in the name of the idol]. He said: “I will not sacrifice anything unless it be to Allah so they struck his neck (and he died) and entered Jannah” Then they said to the second man: “Sacrifice [something].” He said: “I have nothing with which to do so.” They said: “Sacrifice something, even if it were only a fly,” and so he did so, and they allowed him to continue on his way and so he entered Jahannam” Answer Imam Abu Bakr ibn Abi Shaybah (rahimahullah) and others have recorded this incident as the statements of Sayyiduna Salman Al Farisi (radiyallahu ‘anhu) -موقوفا- via an authentic chain. (Musannaf Ibn Abi Shaybah, Hadith: 33709 with footnotes of Shaykh Muhammad ‘Awwamah) Note: This narration is reported as the statement of Sayyiduna Salman Al Farisi (radiyallahu ‘anhu) and should be quoted as such. And Allah Ta’ala knows best.
Why dont you find someone to make Ruqya to protect him from the Evil Eye?

The Evil Eye - Muwwatta Imaam Malik (Rahimahullah).

Yahya related to me from Malik from Yahya ibn Said from Sulayman ibn Yasar that Urwa ibn az-Zubayr told him that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, entered the house of Umm Salama, the wife of the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace. There was a child weeping in the house, and they told him that it was from the evil eye. Urwa said, "The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, 'Why do you not find someone to make an incantation to protect it from the evil eye?' " [1]

Yahya related to me from Malik that Humayd ibn Qays al-Makki said, "A man came to the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, with the two sons of Jafar ibn Abi Talib. He said to their nursemaid, 'Why do I see them so thin?' Their nursemaid said, 'Messenger of Allah, the evil eye goes quickly to them. Nothing stops us from asking someone to make incantations (using ayats of Qur'an) for them, except that we do not know what of that would agree with you.' The Messenger of ,Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, 'Make incantations (Ruqya) for them. Had anything been able to precede the decree, the evil eye would precede it.' " [2]

Yahya related to me from Malik from Yazid ibn Khusayfa that Amr ibn Abdullah ibn Kab as-Salami told him that Nafi ibn Jubayr told him that Uthman ibn Abi al-As came to the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace. Uthman said that he had a pain which was enough to kill him. The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Rub it with your right hand seven times and say, 'I take refuge with the might of Allah and His power from the evil of what I feel.' "
Uthman added, "I said that, and Allah removed what I had. I still command my family and others to say it." [3]

[(1) USC-MSA web (English) reference : Book 50, Hadith 4 - Arabic reference : Book 50, Hadith 1717]

[(2) USC-MSA web (English) reference : Book 50, Hadith 3 - Arabic reference : Book 50, Hadith 1716]

[(3) USC-MSA web (English) reference : Book 50, Hadith 9 - Arabic reference : Book 50, Hadith 1722]
Ibn alQayyim said on morning and evening supplications " The place of these supplications are after the Fajr prayer and after the Asr prayer

[ الوابل الصيب ٢٤٠ ]

@AuthenticAthar
'Alī Ibn Tālib [رضي الله عنه] said:

❝The beginning of anger is madness and the end of it, is regret.❞

[al-Adāb al-Shar'iyyah, (1/183)]
Ibn al-Qayyim said:

“Whoever mocks his brother for a sin they repented from will not die until he himself falls into the same sin.”

[Madaarij vol 1 p. 177]
❝Befriend the one who is above you in the religion and below you in the worldly life.❞

- Uthmaan Ibn Hakeem

[As-Samt, of Ibn Abee Dunyaa, p. 45]