WHAT WILL SOFTEN THE HEARTS? | Al-‘Allaamah Saalih Al-Fawzaan (hafidhullaah)
Question:If a person has with him hardness in his heart, then what are affairs that will soften the heart?
Answer:
There is nothing better or more necessary (for softening the heart) than the Noble Qur’aan. It is what will soften the hearts. Allah -the Exalted and Sublime – said:
‘’Those who believe (in the Oneness of Allah – Islamic Monotheism), and whose hearts find rest in the remembrance of Allah, Verily, in the remembrance of Allah do hearts find rest.’’ [Surah al-Rad Verse 28]
So the Qur’aan is what will soften the hearts, which if Allah were to reveal it on a mountain, you would surely have seen it humbling itself and rending asunder by the fear of Allah;
‘’Had We sent down this Quran on a mountain, you would surely have seen it humbling itself and rending asunder by the fear of Allah.’’ [Suratul Hashr Verse 21]
Likewise sitting with the righteous and listening to The Qur’aan, (listening) to admonitions and reminders–this is what will soften the hearts.
Source: http://alfawzan.af.org.sa/node/1494
Question:If a person has with him hardness in his heart, then what are affairs that will soften the heart?
Answer:
There is nothing better or more necessary (for softening the heart) than the Noble Qur’aan. It is what will soften the hearts. Allah -the Exalted and Sublime – said:
‘’Those who believe (in the Oneness of Allah – Islamic Monotheism), and whose hearts find rest in the remembrance of Allah, Verily, in the remembrance of Allah do hearts find rest.’’ [Surah al-Rad Verse 28]
So the Qur’aan is what will soften the hearts, which if Allah were to reveal it on a mountain, you would surely have seen it humbling itself and rending asunder by the fear of Allah;
‘’Had We sent down this Quran on a mountain, you would surely have seen it humbling itself and rending asunder by the fear of Allah.’’ [Suratul Hashr Verse 21]
Likewise sitting with the righteous and listening to The Qur’aan, (listening) to admonitions and reminders–this is what will soften the hearts.
Source: http://alfawzan.af.org.sa/node/1494
A scholar of Ḥadīth.
Imām Ahmad was asked: “Is a person who memorizes 100,000 Ḥadīth a scholar of Ḥadīth?”
He said: “No!”
They asked: “What about 200,000?”
He still said: “No!”
They then asked: “What about 300,000?
He replied: “They have started to become a student of Ḥadīth."
● [الجامع لأخلاق الراوي وآداب السامع]
NOTE: Memorizing a Ḥadīth requires one to memorize the wording, the order of the chain of narration and for you to act upon the Ḥadīth if it is authentic!
Imām Ahmad was asked: “Is a person who memorizes 100,000 Ḥadīth a scholar of Ḥadīth?”
He said: “No!”
They asked: “What about 200,000?”
He still said: “No!”
They then asked: “What about 300,000?
He replied: “They have started to become a student of Ḥadīth."
● [الجامع لأخلاق الراوي وآداب السامع]
NOTE: Memorizing a Ḥadīth requires one to memorize the wording, the order of the chain of narration and for you to act upon the Ḥadīth if it is authentic!
Imam Ibn ul-Qayyim (rahimahullah) said:
“The servant has a veil between him and Allah and another one between him and the people. Whoever tore this veil between him and Allah, Allah will tear the veil between him and the people.”
[al-Fawaaid (English Translation), page 54]
“The servant has a veil between him and Allah and another one between him and the people. Whoever tore this veil between him and Allah, Allah will tear the veil between him and the people.”
[al-Fawaaid (English Translation), page 54]
Imam Al-Awza'i رحمه الله said:
“Making a promise by saying In Shaa Allah with the intention of not fulfilling it; is hypocrisy.”
[Jami' Al-Ulum Wal-Hikam v. 2, p. 482]
“Making a promise by saying In Shaa Allah with the intention of not fulfilling it; is hypocrisy.”
[Jami' Al-Ulum Wal-Hikam v. 2, p. 482]
Ibn al-Qayyim said:
“Invoking Allah’s name al-Qayyum has a special effect in answering du'as and ending afflictions.”
الطب النبوي للإمام ابن القيم صحفة ٢٥٧
“Invoking Allah’s name al-Qayyum has a special effect in answering du'as and ending afflictions.”
الطب النبوي للإمام ابن القيم صحفة ٢٥٧
Imam Ibn al-Qayyim said:
Anger is like a lion; if it’s owner sets it free it will eat him. Desire is like a fire; if it’s owner starts it, it will burn him. Pride is like fighting against a king to take his Kingdom, if it does not destroy you it will expel you, and envy is like showing enmity to one who is more powerful than you. Whoever overcomes his desire and anger, Satan will depart from him, and whoever’s desire and anger beat him, Satan will stick to him.
[al-Fawaa'id, pg. 267]
Anger is like a lion; if it’s owner sets it free it will eat him. Desire is like a fire; if it’s owner starts it, it will burn him. Pride is like fighting against a king to take his Kingdom, if it does not destroy you it will expel you, and envy is like showing enmity to one who is more powerful than you. Whoever overcomes his desire and anger, Satan will depart from him, and whoever’s desire and anger beat him, Satan will stick to him.
[al-Fawaa'id, pg. 267]
❝The religion itself is entirely good character, so whoever surpasses you in character, has surpassed you in religion.❞
- Ibn Al-Qayyim رحمه الله
[Madarij al-Salikin 2/294]
- Ibn Al-Qayyim رحمه الله
[Madarij al-Salikin 2/294]
Awn b. ‘Abdillah:
Those before you used to give to their worldly affairs what was left over from their pursuit of the hereafter. But today, you give to the matters of the hereafter the left-overs from your pursuit of worldly affairs.
[Abu Nu’aym, Hilyat Al-Awliya`10:242]
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Those before you used to give to their worldly affairs what was left over from their pursuit of the hereafter. But today, you give to the matters of the hereafter the left-overs from your pursuit of worldly affairs.
[Abu Nu’aym, Hilyat Al-Awliya`10:242]
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Woman Changing her Surname After Marriage.
The wives of the Prophet
(Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) are the Mothers of the Believers, and the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam),
is the noblest of people and the best example.
And yet when we look at their example, we will realize that when the Prophet(Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) married any of his wives, NOT ONE of them took his name. On the contrary, each one of them kept her father’s name even if her father was a kaafir. Similarly, the wives of the Sahaabah and those who came after them did not change their names.
Did you ever think why they didn’t do that?
Surely, if it was a good thing, the wives of the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) would have done it and the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) would himself have instructed it and encouraged them to do it.
That is because it is Allaah’s order to keep your father’s name as an indication of your lineage.
“Call them (adopted sons) by (the names of) their fathers, that is more just with Allaah…” [al-Ahzaab 33:5].
And the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) said:
“Whoever calls himself by other than his father’s
name, will be cursed by Allaah, the angels and all the people.”
(Ibn Maajah -Saheeh by al-Albaani).
And he (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) also said:
“Whoever knowingly claims to belong to anyone other than his father, Paradise will be denied him.”
(Ahmad, al-Bukhaari, Muslim).
Now some might argue….“But the woman is not claiming that her father is someone else.
She is just honoring her husband or she doesn’t mean it that way. She just wants to belong to her husband out of love for him.”
To those people I say.
If it was a matter of honor to have the husbands name attached to the wife’s, wouldn’t our Ummahaat have done that??
Isn’t it the biggest honor in the WORLD to have the name of the Prophet
(Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) attached to yours?
And yet the wives of the Prophet
(Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) didn’t do that.
Ever wonder why?
And if it was a matter of expressing love for the husband, no relationship between a husband and wife on the face of this earth was better than the relationship between the Prophet(Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) and his wives.
And yet none of the Mothers of the Believers expressed their love for the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) by changing their last names.
The wives of the Prophet
(Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) are the Mothers of the Believers, and the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam),
is the noblest of people and the best example.
And yet when we look at their example, we will realize that when the Prophet(Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) married any of his wives, NOT ONE of them took his name. On the contrary, each one of them kept her father’s name even if her father was a kaafir. Similarly, the wives of the Sahaabah and those who came after them did not change their names.
Did you ever think why they didn’t do that?
Surely, if it was a good thing, the wives of the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) would have done it and the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) would himself have instructed it and encouraged them to do it.
That is because it is Allaah’s order to keep your father’s name as an indication of your lineage.
“Call them (adopted sons) by (the names of) their fathers, that is more just with Allaah…” [al-Ahzaab 33:5].
And the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) said:
“Whoever calls himself by other than his father’s
name, will be cursed by Allaah, the angels and all the people.”
(Ibn Maajah -Saheeh by al-Albaani).
And he (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) also said:
“Whoever knowingly claims to belong to anyone other than his father, Paradise will be denied him.”
(Ahmad, al-Bukhaari, Muslim).
Now some might argue….“But the woman is not claiming that her father is someone else.
She is just honoring her husband or she doesn’t mean it that way. She just wants to belong to her husband out of love for him.”
To those people I say.
If it was a matter of honor to have the husbands name attached to the wife’s, wouldn’t our Ummahaat have done that??
Isn’t it the biggest honor in the WORLD to have the name of the Prophet
(Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) attached to yours?
And yet the wives of the Prophet
(Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) didn’t do that.
Ever wonder why?
And if it was a matter of expressing love for the husband, no relationship between a husband and wife on the face of this earth was better than the relationship between the Prophet(Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) and his wives.
And yet none of the Mothers of the Believers expressed their love for the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) by changing their last names.
حَدَّثَنَا عُثْمَانُ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ، حَدَّثَنَا جَرِيرٌ، عَنِ الأَعْمَشِ، عَنْ أَبِي صَالِحٍ، عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ، قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم " لاَ تَحَاسُدَ إِلاَّ فِي اثْنَتَيْنِ رَجُلٌ آتَاهُ اللَّهُ الْقُرْآنَ، فَهْوَ يَتْلُوهُ آنَاءَ اللَّيْلِ وَالنَّهَارِ يَقُولُ لَوْ أُوتِيتُ مِثْلَ مَا أُوتِيَ هَذَا لَفَعَلْتُ كَمَا يَفْعَلُ، وَرَجُلٌ آتَاهُ اللَّهُ مَالاً يُنْفِقُهُ فِي حَقِّهِ فَيَقُولُ لَوْ أُوتِيتُ مِثْلَ مَا أُوتِيَ لَفَعَلْتُ كَمَا يَفْعَلُ "
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حَدَّثَنَا قُتَيْبَةُ، حَدَّثَنَا جَرِيرٌ، بِهَذَا.
Narrated Abu Huraira: Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "Not to wish to be the like except of two men. A man whom Allah has given the (knowledge of the) Qur'an and he recites it during the hours of night and day and the one who wishes says: If I were given the same as this (man) has been given, I would do what he does, and a man whom Allah has given wealth and he spends it in the just and right way, in which case the one who wishes says, 'If I were given the same as he has been given, I would do what he does.' " (See Hadith 5025 and 5026)
Sahih Bukhari
(Wishes)
Reference : Sahih al-Bukhari 7232
In-book reference : Book 94, Hadith 7
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حَدَّثَنَا قُتَيْبَةُ، حَدَّثَنَا جَرِيرٌ، بِهَذَا.
Narrated Abu Huraira: Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "Not to wish to be the like except of two men. A man whom Allah has given the (knowledge of the) Qur'an and he recites it during the hours of night and day and the one who wishes says: If I were given the same as this (man) has been given, I would do what he does, and a man whom Allah has given wealth and he spends it in the just and right way, in which case the one who wishes says, 'If I were given the same as he has been given, I would do what he does.' " (See Hadith 5025 and 5026)
Sahih Bukhari
(Wishes)
Reference : Sahih al-Bukhari 7232
In-book reference : Book 94, Hadith 7
The Social Media culture:
Imaam Al-Awzaa
قال الأوزاعي إذا أراد الله بقوم شرا فتح عليهم الجدل ومنعهم العمل
Imaam Al-Awzaa
ee رحمه الله:
❝When Allaah تعالى intents evil for a people, He تعالى opens for them the door of argument (and quarrel), and prevents them from (doing righteous) Deeds.❞
📚 [Taareekh Damishq of Ibn Asaakir, Siyar A`laam al-Nubalaa' of al-Dhahabee]قال الأوزاعي إذا أراد الله بقوم شرا فتح عليهم الجدل ومنعهم العمل
Imām ibn Rajab رحمه الله said:
"Waiting for relief [during times of hardship] is a form of worship, for verily the trials never last forever."
Majmū Rasā’il ibn Rajab, 3/155
"Waiting for relief [during times of hardship] is a form of worship, for verily the trials never last forever."
Majmū Rasā’il ibn Rajab, 3/155
Muhammad Ibn ‘Abdul-Wahhāb رحمه الله said:
“If Islaam returns to be (something strange) just as it began (as mentioned in the Hadīth), then how ignorant is he who uses the majority of the people as a proof!”
[Ad-Durar As-Sanniyyah 1/41]
“If Islaam returns to be (something strange) just as it began (as mentioned in the Hadīth), then how ignorant is he who uses the majority of the people as a proof!”
[Ad-Durar As-Sanniyyah 1/41]
Shaykh Saalih Al-Fawzaan
"Many people nowadays, if you see them doing something wrong and forbid them, will say to you, There is a difference of opinion on this issue. They take difference of opinion as a justification for what they are doing, even if it contradicts the evidence."
Sālih b. Fawzān Al-Fawzān
Member of the Council of Senior Scholars
Al-Fawzān, Ṣ. (n.d.). Arguing on the Basis of Difference of Opinion (Arabic). Website of His Eminence Shaykh Ṣāliḥ b. Fawzān Al-Fawzān. Retrieved April 15, 2014,
"If you loved a man for Allâh and then he innovates in Islâm and you don’t dislike him for it, you never [truly] loved him for Allâh."
Sufyân Al-Thawrî radiAllaahu anhu [Abû Nu’aym, Hilyatu Al-Awliyâ` 7:34. Shared from Sayings of the Salaf. Translated by Owais Al-Hashimi]
"Many people nowadays, if you see them doing something wrong and forbid them, will say to you, There is a difference of opinion on this issue. They take difference of opinion as a justification for what they are doing, even if it contradicts the evidence."
Sālih b. Fawzān Al-Fawzān
Member of the Council of Senior Scholars
Al-Fawzān, Ṣ. (n.d.). Arguing on the Basis of Difference of Opinion (Arabic). Website of His Eminence Shaykh Ṣāliḥ b. Fawzān Al-Fawzān. Retrieved April 15, 2014,
"If you loved a man for Allâh and then he innovates in Islâm and you don’t dislike him for it, you never [truly] loved him for Allâh."
Sufyân Al-Thawrî radiAllaahu anhu [Abû Nu’aym, Hilyatu Al-Awliyâ` 7:34. Shared from Sayings of the Salaf. Translated by Owais Al-Hashimi]
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THE UPRIGHTNESS OF A WOMAN.
A woman needs first and foremost to be righteous herself, so that she can be a good example for her daughters.
🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂
How can a woman become upright? Every woman must realise that only through knowledge can she become upright, and here I am referring to religious knowledge that she can learn from books - if that is possible for her - or from the tongues of the scholars, regardless of whether those scholars are men or women.
In these times, it has become very easy for women to learn knowledge directly from the mouths of the scholars through audio cassettes, for Islamic audio cassettes - Alhamdulillah - now represent an important means of enlightening and educating society. Hence, a woman needs knowledge to become upright, for there is no uprightness without knowledge.
Shaykh Muhammad Salih Ibn Uthaymeen Rahimahullah
[The Islamic Awakening|Chapter 9|Women inviting to the way of Allah|Page223]
A woman needs first and foremost to be righteous herself, so that she can be a good example for her daughters.
🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂🍂
How can a woman become upright? Every woman must realise that only through knowledge can she become upright, and here I am referring to religious knowledge that she can learn from books - if that is possible for her - or from the tongues of the scholars, regardless of whether those scholars are men or women.
In these times, it has become very easy for women to learn knowledge directly from the mouths of the scholars through audio cassettes, for Islamic audio cassettes - Alhamdulillah - now represent an important means of enlightening and educating society. Hence, a woman needs knowledge to become upright, for there is no uprightness without knowledge.
Shaykh Muhammad Salih Ibn Uthaymeen Rahimahullah
[The Islamic Awakening|Chapter 9|Women inviting to the way of Allah|Page223]
The Book of Du'a (Supplications).
Anas (May Allah be pleased with him) reported:
The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said,
"Recite frequently: ' Ya Dhal-Jalali wal-Ikram! (O You, Possessor of glory and honour)."'
[At- Tirmidhi].
وعن أنس رضي الله عنه قال: قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم: "ألظوا بيا ذا الجلال والإكرام". رواه الترمذي ورواه النسائي من رواية ربيعة بن عامر الصحابي قال الحاكم حديث صحيح الإسناد.
-Riyad us saliheen.
Anas (May Allah be pleased with him) reported:
The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said,
"Recite frequently: ' Ya Dhal-Jalali wal-Ikram! (O You, Possessor of glory and honour)."'
[At- Tirmidhi].
وعن أنس رضي الله عنه قال: قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم: "ألظوا بيا ذا الجلال والإكرام". رواه الترمذي ورواه النسائي من رواية ربيعة بن عامر الصحابي قال الحاكم حديث صحيح الإسناد.
-Riyad us saliheen.
Shaykh ibn Uthaymeen رحمه الله said:
“There is no use in arguing with the arrogant, because he will not accept the truth at any cost.”
Fiqh ul-Ibādah, Page 70 | Shaykh ibn Uthaymeen رحمه الله
“There is no use in arguing with the arrogant, because he will not accept the truth at any cost.”
Fiqh ul-Ibādah, Page 70 | Shaykh ibn Uthaymeen رحمه الله
Did you ever get that feeling where when you meet someone for the first time, and you suddenly just click? As if you knew each other for ages? This hadith clearly states that our souls were already created and we had met in a place only Allah knows, long before we were born.
The Messenger of Allah (pbuh) said, ❝Souls are like crowds which gather together. The ones who met before get along well. The ones who did not meet before, cannot get along very well and separate.❞ [Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawud]
The Messenger of Allah (pbuh) said, ❝Souls are like crowds which gather together. The ones who met before get along well. The ones who did not meet before, cannot get along very well and separate.❞ [Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawud]
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