When you are a man of the family you must do.
No matter how long it takes
How much it burns, stings, or even bites.
What ever you must do to provide for your family do it.
Even if it means going out to the deep ocean in a small lake boat and hooking up a 150 monster of a fish thatll feed your family for days.
JUST. DO. IT.

Where and how to find worthy people to marry? for both women and men.

There are several places where you can find:

-Traditional parishes, groups and traditionalist events.
-Pilgrimages such as Chartres, Fatima or similar.
-Events and pro-life groups, Public Rosary.
-Cultural associations linked to religious or patriotic themes.
-Adoration, holy hours.
-Conservative groups and parishes, formation groups.
-University clubs.
-Volunteering.

If you life in places where the enviroment is too liberal, you will have to move more and in more groups, so you can have more posibilities.

How and Who.

Obviously, you should go to those places not only to hook up, but first to get closer to God, to improve yourself, the same can be said online, go to groups where you learn and improve yourself, to be closer to God, not places where it is a matter of "meeting single Catholics". There are two things to understand:

A) You're not so special, you don't have such a high "value", as if you think you

B) If you want to have an exceptional partner, it's up to you to become even more exceptional

In addition to social skills, we must focus on seeking virtue in people, not only in the most active, attractive and attention-grabbing, in all, first, we see if objectively are virtuous people without any attachment to them, we have made a list of virtues for each:

-Husband material list
-Wife material list

After having judged that, you can move on to see if there is good chemistry, compatibility, interest, good communication, long, etc... you can move on.

Now people usually get attached first, their judgment is clouded by feelings, so they do not judge correctly and end up with non-virtuous people, that is a big mistake that is very common. For the rest, just look for the Catholic courtship guidelines, there are many out there, here we are only dealing with what is not usually said.

However, It is always there to persevere in prayer to find that ideal partner. Ask God and he wil provide, if its his will.

What men need to find a wife-material, how to filter their search (besides the obvious that they are not unmodest, degenerate, feminists, etc.):

1. Does she have a good relationship with her father? If she has a good father, this will avoid so many problems with her.

2. Devout Catholic, interested in spiritual growth and tradition, in order to avoid modernists, liberals, and fake trads.

3. Does she put family over her career? or better, is she only working because it's necessary, and how many kids does she want? This avoids any kind of feminism.

4. What's her opinion on the modern world, consumerism, etc.? Does she rather the city or countryside? Is she obsessed with travel? These help to avoid those who are too materialistic.

5. Are you both on the same page or at least she is interested in your opiniom? Does she look at and give feedback on what you send to her? This will avoid those who won't follow you as the head but fight you every time.

6. Is she more religious than political? She should only know the basics, so you avoid those who are more focused on politics than family.

This list offers general guidelines: it's not ultimately necessary to fulfill all of them, if the woman meets most demands and/or those she doesn't are not grave matters, she can become full wife material eventually, if you are a real man.

Yes, the man has an active role finding the woman, but we should be careful with this duty: you should first focus on becoming a real man because it's the right thing to do (not just because of women). While you are socially active enough, attend events or seek out environments where you will find and meet girls close to this list. Do not fall into the trap of chasing women or being desperate: it's not worth it and there will definitely be a better woman out there. Eventually you will find a girl who will be interested in you and will make things pretty easy.

Essentially what we have to look for in a woman is a compatible girl, with chemistry, who follows and obeys us as a future father, while we sacrifice ourselves for the family.

What women need to find in a good man (besides the obvious that they are not weak degenerates without personality, etc.):

1. A Catholic, interested in spiritual growth and tradition, in order to avoid modernists and liberals.

2. Family: Responsible, considers the family before himself, in order to avoid shameless and lazy people.

3. With Moderation and Fidelity, to avoid lustful people.

4. Mentality and Aptitude: Disciplined, having both a desire to excel and the desire to defend his family; this will avoid cucks and weaklings.

5. Economy: not necessarily rich, for those who are not rich can have families, but a man who has the intention and potential to maintain a family in the near future, from 1 to 2 years, to avoid unmarried relationships that are too long.

This list is the minimum, since women today tend to demand more than what is available, which can lead to mistakes; this serves to moderate that impulse.

In the end, since women have a passive, indirect role when it comes to looking for a man, they should be careful about the places they frequent, focusing on environments where they can find boys who have the traits described above, and, in addition, they have to take care of being good women, because it will be the man who will look for them in the end.

Essentially a good woman has to accept a compatible man who is capable of sacrificing for his family, for her to find a leader to follow, if the woman's father is apt and decent, he should give her the go-ahead first of all.

THE LADIES' BOOK OF ETIQUETTE,
AND
MANUAL OF POLITENESS.
A COMPLETE HAND BOOK FOR THE USE OF THE LADY IN POLITE SOCIETY.


https://www.gutenberg.org/files/35123/35123-h/35123-h.htm

"True politeness is the language of a good heart, and those possessing that heart will never, under any circumstances, be rude.
They may not enter a crowded saloon gracefully; they may be entirely ignorant of the forms of good society; they may be awkward at table, ungrammatical in speech; but they will never be heard speaking so as to wound the feelings of another; they will never be seen making others uncomfortable by seeking solely for their own personal convenience; they will always endeavor to set every one around them at ease; they will be self-sacrificing, friendly, unselfish; truly in word and deed, polite.
Give to such a woman the knowledge of the forms and customs of society, teach her how best to show the gentle courtesies of life, and you have a lady, created by God, only indebted for the outward polish to the world."

THE GENTLEMEN’S BOOK OF ETIQUETTE,
AND
MANUAL OF POLITENESS;

https://www.gutenberg.org/files/39293/39293-h/39293-h.htm

"Remember, however, “once a gentleman always a gentleman,” and be sure that you can so carry out the rule, that in your most careless, joyous moments, when freest from the restraints of etiquette, you can still be recognizable as a gentleman by every act, word, or look.

Avoid too great a restraint of manner. Stiffness is not politeness, and, while you observe every rule, you may appear to heed none. To make your politeness part of yourself, inseparable from every action, is the height of gentlemanly elegance and finish of manner."

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