How does everyone know exactly what to do in every modpack?

Ive tried a lot of modpacks, but I always get overwhelmed with the amount of stuff to do. Sometimes I barely even know what to do. For example, mods like create with all of its addons are so overwhelming I can barely manage the first few hours.

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guess what
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What would be some vanilla QOL things you'd like to be added, recipes included (image unrelated)
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Scrapped Warden Variants?

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Little cat cafe I made with create and a few addons

https://redd.it/1jis7cx
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Someone's been playing with Botania
https://redd.it/1jiz5ug
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Found this cool piece of -24 durability armor in prominence II
https://redd.it/1jizwa5
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I tried like 4 different packs and they all started exactly the same
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what's this mod that adds selection for duplicate recipes?
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Tensura MC Player Animations

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Is there a single-player mod that can lock blocks so they can't be broken?
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I will NOT stand this slander... 😤😤😤
https://redd.it/1jmlsvx
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Refined Storage 2 beta released – Complete rewrite, Fabric support, and more!
https://refinedmods.com/refined-storage/news/20250308-whats-new-in-refined-storage-2.html

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The vanilla players yearn for the betweenlands draeton
https://redd.it/1jmqkmg
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