The first man a girl admires is her father.
Daughters will always look up to their fathers as their hero, loyal guardian and protective shield, with whom she can find hope, shelter and protection.
The most cowardly thing a father can do, is to turn a blind eye to the suffering of his daughter after she is married and abandon her to her fate. It will break her heart, shatter her world and make her lose all hope.
As a father, you should teach your daughter to be dutiful and live honourably with her husband.
Tell the man who wishes to marry your daughter: “I am entrusting my daughter to you. I treated her with kindness and respect when she was with me. I expect nothing less from you.”
Most likely, nothing will happen and life will be good, but IF he then abuses her, unleash hell and make sure he faces the full consequences of his behaviour.
If the father is no longer present, then this duty falls on the shoulders of her brothers.
Daughters will always look up to their fathers as their hero, loyal guardian and protective shield, with whom she can find hope, shelter and protection.
The most cowardly thing a father can do, is to turn a blind eye to the suffering of his daughter after she is married and abandon her to her fate. It will break her heart, shatter her world and make her lose all hope.
As a father, you should teach your daughter to be dutiful and live honourably with her husband.
Tell the man who wishes to marry your daughter: “I am entrusting my daughter to you. I treated her with kindness and respect when she was with me. I expect nothing less from you.”
Most likely, nothing will happen and life will be good, but IF he then abuses her, unleash hell and make sure he faces the full consequences of his behaviour.
If the father is no longer present, then this duty falls on the shoulders of her brothers.
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:) :) :) OUR PARENTS (ALIVE OR DECEASED)
Make loads of duas for our beloved parents, alive or deceased.
Ya Allah ease the burdens of our beloved parents,
آمِيْن يَارَبَّ الْعَالَمِينْ
Ya Allah remove their burdens due to debt,
آمِيْن يَارَبَّ الْعَالَمِينْ
Ya Allah ease their pain,
آمِيْن يَارَبَّ الْعَالَمِينْ
Ya Allah grant shifa ƒor the diseases they're suffering from,
آمِيْن يَارَبَّ الْعَالَمِينْ
Ya Allah never make them dependent on anyone besides YOU until their last breath,
آمِيْن يَارَبَّ الْعَالَمِينْ .
We should respect and honour our parents.
Never hurt them, part of the reason of all the troubles they're undergoing is due to us.
Their debts are due to fulfilling our needs.
Their poor health is due to their efforts in giving us the best.
Their every breath is a sacrifice made for their children...
Ya Allah bless our parents with happiness.
Make a promise that u would at least do one thing today which will make Ur parents happy <3
(Oh, Allah, have mercy
upon them as they have
raised me from the cradle)
May Allah bless our parents with good health, wealth, deen and blessings
IA Aameen
One parent can take care of seven children, pity that seven children together cannot take care of one parent.
May Allah bless our parents & for those whose parents have passed on.
May Allah grant them & all marhooms the highest stages in jannah!!!
آمــين
Make loads of duas for our beloved parents, alive or deceased.
Ya Allah ease the burdens of our beloved parents,
آمِيْن يَارَبَّ الْعَالَمِينْ
Ya Allah remove their burdens due to debt,
آمِيْن يَارَبَّ الْعَالَمِينْ
Ya Allah ease their pain,
آمِيْن يَارَبَّ الْعَالَمِينْ
Ya Allah grant shifa ƒor the diseases they're suffering from,
آمِيْن يَارَبَّ الْعَالَمِينْ
Ya Allah never make them dependent on anyone besides YOU until their last breath,
آمِيْن يَارَبَّ الْعَالَمِينْ .
We should respect and honour our parents.
Never hurt them, part of the reason of all the troubles they're undergoing is due to us.
Their debts are due to fulfilling our needs.
Their poor health is due to their efforts in giving us the best.
Their every breath is a sacrifice made for their children...
Ya Allah bless our parents with happiness.
Make a promise that u would at least do one thing today which will make Ur parents happy <3
(Oh, Allah, have mercy
upon them as they have
raised me from the cradle)
May Allah bless our parents with good health, wealth, deen and blessings
IA Aameen
One parent can take care of seven children, pity that seven children together cannot take care of one parent.
May Allah bless our parents & for those whose parents have passed on.
May Allah grant them & all marhooms the highest stages in jannah!!!
آمــين
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Al-Ghazali reported: A man came to Abdullah ibn al-Mubarak, may Allah have mercy on him, and he complained about disrespect from his son. Ibn al-Mubarak said, “Have you supplicated against him?” The man said yes. Ibn al-Mubarak said, “You have corrupted him.” Al-Ghazali said, “It is recommended to be gentle with children.”
Iḥyā’ Ulūm al-Dīn 2/217
رحمهم الله
Iḥyā’ Ulūm al-Dīn 2/217
رحمهم الله
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Make dua.
أُعِيذُكُمَا بِكَلِمَاتِ اللَّهِ التَّامَّةِ مِنْ كُلِّ شَيْطَانٍ وَهَامَّةٍ، وَمِنْ كُلِّ عَيْنٍ لاَمَّةٍ
“I seek protection for you in the Perfect Words of Allah from every devil and every beast, and from every envious blameworthy eye.”
(Jami’ At-Tirmizi)
U'izukuma bikalimatil-lahit-tammati min kulli shaytanin wa hammah, wa min kulli 'ainin lammah. “I seek protection for you in the Perfect Words of Allah from every devil and every beast, and from every envious blameworthy eye.”
أُعِيذُكُمَا بِكَلِمَاتِ اللَّهِ التَّامَّةِ مِنْ كُلِّ شَيْطَانٍ وَهَامَّةٍ، وَمِنْ كُلِّ عَيْنٍ لاَمَّةٍ
“I seek protection for you in the Perfect Words of Allah from every devil and every beast, and from every envious blameworthy eye.”
(Jami’ At-Tirmizi)
U'izukuma bikalimatil-lahit-tammati min kulli shaytanin wa hammah, wa min kulli 'ainin lammah. “I seek protection for you in the Perfect Words of Allah from every devil and every beast, and from every envious blameworthy eye.”
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Love Your Parents & Allāh Will Love You🌹🍃
Listen to How to Be Polite with Parents in Front of Them and Behind Their Backs 🌸
- Aboo Suhailah 'Umar Quinn by Beautiful Lectures on #SoundCloud
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Listen to How to Be Polite with Parents in Front of Them and Behind Their Backs 🌸
- Aboo Suhailah 'Umar Quinn by Beautiful Lectures on #SoundCloud
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Forwarded from Sheikh Aziz bin Farhan Al Anzi فوائد الشيخ عزيز فرحان العنزي
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Benefit: How can one be dutiful to his parents
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Shaykh ibn ‘Uthaymeen [may Allāh have mercy on him] said:
“It is not permissible for anyone to make them [children] leave their places [of prayer], even if they are directly behind the Imām in the first row, because it is not permissible to move them from their places.”
Al-Bāb ail-Maftūh, 24/106 | Shaykh ibn ‘Uthaymeen [may Allāh have mercy on him]
Shaykh ibn ‘Uthaymeen [may Allāh have mercy on him] said:
“It is not permissible for anyone to make them [children] leave their places [of prayer], even if they are directly behind the Imām in the first row, because it is not permissible to move them from their places.”
Al-Bāb ail-Maftūh, 24/106 | Shaykh ibn ‘Uthaymeen [may Allāh have mercy on him]
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The Messenger of Allāh صَلَّى اللّٰهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ said:
“Allāh will not look at three types of people on the Day of Ressurection: The one who is disrespectful towards his parents; the one who is addicted to intoxicants; and the one who reminds others of what he has given.”
As-Silsilah as-Saheehah 674 | Shaykh al-Albāni رحمه الله | Hasan (Fair)
The Messenger of Allāh صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ said:
“Allāh will not look at three persons on the Day of Resurrection: the one who disobeys his parents, the woman who imitates men, and a man who allows his women to fornicate. Three persons will not enter Paradise: the one who disobeys his parents, the drunkard, and one who reminds others of his charity.”
Saheeh an-Nisā'ee 2561 | Shaykh al-Albāni رحمه الله | Hasan-Saheeh
“Allāh will not look at three types of people on the Day of Ressurection: The one who is disrespectful towards his parents; the one who is addicted to intoxicants; and the one who reminds others of what he has given.”
As-Silsilah as-Saheehah 674 | Shaykh al-Albāni رحمه الله | Hasan (Fair)
The Messenger of Allāh صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ said:
“Allāh will not look at three persons on the Day of Resurrection: the one who disobeys his parents, the woman who imitates men, and a man who allows his women to fornicate. Three persons will not enter Paradise: the one who disobeys his parents, the drunkard, and one who reminds others of his charity.”
Saheeh an-Nisā'ee 2561 | Shaykh al-Albāni رحمه الله | Hasan-Saheeh
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WHEN PARENTS GET OLD ...
Let them grow old with the same love that they let you grow ...
Let them speak and tell repeated stories with the same patience and interest that they heard yours as a child ...
Let them overcome, like so many times when they let you win ...
Let them enjoy their friends just as they let you …
Let them enjoy the talks with their grandchildren, because they see you in them ...
Let them enjoy living among the objects that have acompanied them for a long time, because they suffer when they feel that you tear pieces of this life away ...
Let them be wrong, like so many times you have been wrong and they didn’t embarass you by correcting you ...
LET THEM LIVE and try to make them happy the last stretch of the path they have left to go; give them your hand, just like they gave you their hand when you started your path!
Let them grow old with the same love that they let you grow ...
Let them speak and tell repeated stories with the same patience and interest that they heard yours as a child ...
Let them overcome, like so many times when they let you win ...
Let them enjoy their friends just as they let you …
Let them enjoy the talks with their grandchildren, because they see you in them ...
Let them enjoy living among the objects that have acompanied them for a long time, because they suffer when they feel that you tear pieces of this life away ...
Let them be wrong, like so many times you have been wrong and they didn’t embarass you by correcting you ...
LET THEM LIVE and try to make them happy the last stretch of the path they have left to go; give them your hand, just like they gave you their hand when you started your path!
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Today's Beautiful Hadith is about Memorizing the Qur'an
Ibn `Abbas (RA) reported: The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "He who does not memorize any part from the Qur'an he is like the ruined house.''
(Riyad as-Salihin 1000, Book 8, Hadith 10)
Commit as many surahs as you can to memory. Start your children on this young by helping them learn the 30th Juz. Then work your way backwards and the regularly recited Surahs such as Ya-Seen, Mulk and Kahf. Intend for them and yourself to become huffaz who memorize the entire Qur'an and InshaAllah, it will happen!
Ibn `Abbas (RA) reported: The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "He who does not memorize any part from the Qur'an he is like the ruined house.''
(Riyad as-Salihin 1000, Book 8, Hadith 10)
Commit as many surahs as you can to memory. Start your children on this young by helping them learn the 30th Juz. Then work your way backwards and the regularly recited Surahs such as Ya-Seen, Mulk and Kahf. Intend for them and yourself to become huffaz who memorize the entire Qur'an and InshaAllah, it will happen!
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How great is the happiness when a parent sees their child do well in their worldly studies, & you see the effort pay off. Then what about the happiness when your child passes the test of the grave & hereafter, your child in everlasting bliss! That requires effort, not wishful thinking.
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How great is the happiness when a parent sees their child do well in their worldly studies,&you see the effort pay off.Then what about the happiness when your child passes the test of the grave & hereafter,your child in everlasting bliss!That requires effort…
The Way to be Dutiful to the Parents
Honoring the parents is by:
● obeying them in what they command as long it does not involve something impermissible.
● giving precedence to their command over supererogatory acts.
● abstaining from what they forbid.
● spending upon them.
● taking care of their needs.
● doing one's utmost in caring for them.
● dealing with them with the correct conduct and mannerism and showing them respect. The child should not raise his voice to them, stare at them or call them by their names. He should walk behind them and be patient if they do anything that he dislikes.
{P.33 of The Rights of the PARENTS In Light of the Quran and the Sunnah -Shaykh Muhammad Ibn'Umar Bāzmūl.}
Honoring the parents is by:
● obeying them in what they command as long it does not involve something impermissible.
● giving precedence to their command over supererogatory acts.
● abstaining from what they forbid.
● spending upon them.
● taking care of their needs.
● doing one's utmost in caring for them.
● dealing with them with the correct conduct and mannerism and showing them respect. The child should not raise his voice to them, stare at them or call them by their names. He should walk behind them and be patient if they do anything that he dislikes.
{P.33 of The Rights of the PARENTS In Light of the Quran and the Sunnah -Shaykh Muhammad Ibn'Umar Bāzmūl.}
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Some mothers plays most of the time both parents role Allahumma barik.and it was never easy for them.yet they gives no excuses but rather they show up and be the mother their kids deserves no matter how much they are stressed, depressed, exhausted, or burn out.even though for a single day they desires to lay down and cry.
Even look at the Islamic history. Single mothers who raised great men who will forever be known :
1- The mother of Imam Al-shafi’ (Rahimahullah).
2- The mother of Imam Ahmed (Rahimahullah).
3- The mother of Imam Bukhari (Rahimahullah).
May Allah grant all single mothers courage to raise their children’s and nurture them with proper Islamic values and making them the coolness of their eyes and a way to achieve Jannah bi iznillahi ta’ala. Aameen.🤲🩷
Even look at the Islamic history. Single mothers who raised great men who will forever be known :
1- The mother of Imam Al-shafi’ (Rahimahullah).
2- The mother of Imam Ahmed (Rahimahullah).
3- The mother of Imam Bukhari (Rahimahullah).
May Allah grant all single mothers courage to raise their children’s and nurture them with proper Islamic values and making them the coolness of their eyes and a way to achieve Jannah bi iznillahi ta’ala. Aameen.🤲🩷
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Rights of Children Born of Fornication and Anoscription to their Fathers ― by Shaikh Ibn Bāz.(may Allah have mercy on him)
The ruling of a child born of fornication.
A child born of fornication is ascribed to the mother. This is the most correct saying of the scholars. So if the mother is a Muslim, then the child is considered a Muslim, and if she is a non-Muslim, then the child takes the ruling of a non-Muslim. The child is ascribed to her and not to the man who fornicated with her―and the child is not harmed in any way by the sin of his mother or by the sin of the man who fornicated with her due to the saying of Allāh:
وَلَا تَزِرُ وَازِرَةٌ وِزْرَ أُخْرَىٰ
“No bearer of burdens shall bear the burden of another…” (Al-An’ām 6:164)
Rights of the child born from fornication.
His rights are the same as the rights of any child from the Muslims if his mother was a Muslim. That is because the child follows her in Religion―and he (or she) has rights over his mother and over everyone from whom he inherits, among his mother’s relatives. Furthermore, he has rights over the general Muslims (just like any other Muslim), the rights of Islam. But the child has no rights over the one who fornicated with his mother because that man is not his father in the Sharī’ah Law.
The child is not tainted by the fornication of his parents.
A child is not tainted by the fact that his mother committed fornication with a man she was not married to―the child is free from any crime because he was not responsible for their actions so the sin is upon the adult woman and man.
لَهَا مَا كَسَبَتْ وَعَلَيْهَا مَا اكْتَسَبَتْ
“He gets reward for the good which he has earned, and he is punished for the evil which he has earned.” (Al-Baqarah: 286)
So his position is the same as any other person―if he is obedient to Allah, works righteous deeds and dies as a Muslim, he’ll go to Jannah (Paradise). If he disobeys Allah and dies upon disbelief, he’ll be from the people of Hell. If he has mixed between good deeds and sins but still dies as a Muslim, then his affair is with Allah―if Allah wills, He’ll pardon him and if He wills, He’ll punish him, but in the end, his abode will be Paradise as a bounty from Allah and due to His Mercy. As for what is stated in a so-called hadīth that the children of fornication will not enter Jannah, then it is a fabricated narration!
Can the child of fornication be ascribed to the man?
The children that are born from fornication are not the children of the man (who had sex with the woman) according to Sharī’ah Law, and it is not allowed to ascribe the child to him. That is because the seed (sperm) that impregnated the woman was impermissible. Therefore, the child is ascribed to the mother only.
What if the man admits to being the father?
Even if the man admits to being the one who fornicated with the woman and admits to being the father, then the lineage is still not affirmed for the fornicator. However, it is allowed for the fornicator to marry the woman he fornicated with after her ‘iddah has come to an end (i.e. after the baby is born or if she is not pregnant, after one menstrual cycle)―and after they have sincerely repented from their sin.
(Based on fatāwā from Al-Imām Ibn Bāz (rahimahullāh), see Al-Jāmi’ fī Fiqhil-‘Allāmah Ibn Bāz (pp. 862-863), also Fatāwa Al-Lajnah Ad-Dā’imah)
The Prophet (ﷺ) stated:
“Any man who fornicated with a woman, then the child is a child of fornication, and he does not inherit [from the father], nor does [the father] inherit from him.” (Tirmidhi 2113, sahīh) At-Tirmidhi stated: “The scholars understood this to mean that the child of fornication does not inherit from his father.”
So the child of fornication is attributed only to the lineage of the mother and not to the lineage of the man she fornicated with.
The ruling of a child born of fornication.
A child born of fornication is ascribed to the mother. This is the most correct saying of the scholars. So if the mother is a Muslim, then the child is considered a Muslim, and if she is a non-Muslim, then the child takes the ruling of a non-Muslim. The child is ascribed to her and not to the man who fornicated with her―and the child is not harmed in any way by the sin of his mother or by the sin of the man who fornicated with her due to the saying of Allāh:
وَلَا تَزِرُ وَازِرَةٌ وِزْرَ أُخْرَىٰ
“No bearer of burdens shall bear the burden of another…” (Al-An’ām 6:164)
Rights of the child born from fornication.
His rights are the same as the rights of any child from the Muslims if his mother was a Muslim. That is because the child follows her in Religion―and he (or she) has rights over his mother and over everyone from whom he inherits, among his mother’s relatives. Furthermore, he has rights over the general Muslims (just like any other Muslim), the rights of Islam. But the child has no rights over the one who fornicated with his mother because that man is not his father in the Sharī’ah Law.
The child is not tainted by the fornication of his parents.
A child is not tainted by the fact that his mother committed fornication with a man she was not married to―the child is free from any crime because he was not responsible for their actions so the sin is upon the adult woman and man.
لَهَا مَا كَسَبَتْ وَعَلَيْهَا مَا اكْتَسَبَتْ
“He gets reward for the good which he has earned, and he is punished for the evil which he has earned.” (Al-Baqarah: 286)
So his position is the same as any other person―if he is obedient to Allah, works righteous deeds and dies as a Muslim, he’ll go to Jannah (Paradise). If he disobeys Allah and dies upon disbelief, he’ll be from the people of Hell. If he has mixed between good deeds and sins but still dies as a Muslim, then his affair is with Allah―if Allah wills, He’ll pardon him and if He wills, He’ll punish him, but in the end, his abode will be Paradise as a bounty from Allah and due to His Mercy. As for what is stated in a so-called hadīth that the children of fornication will not enter Jannah, then it is a fabricated narration!
Can the child of fornication be ascribed to the man?
The children that are born from fornication are not the children of the man (who had sex with the woman) according to Sharī’ah Law, and it is not allowed to ascribe the child to him. That is because the seed (sperm) that impregnated the woman was impermissible. Therefore, the child is ascribed to the mother only.
What if the man admits to being the father?
Even if the man admits to being the one who fornicated with the woman and admits to being the father, then the lineage is still not affirmed for the fornicator. However, it is allowed for the fornicator to marry the woman he fornicated with after her ‘iddah has come to an end (i.e. after the baby is born or if she is not pregnant, after one menstrual cycle)―and after they have sincerely repented from their sin.
(Based on fatāwā from Al-Imām Ibn Bāz (rahimahullāh), see Al-Jāmi’ fī Fiqhil-‘Allāmah Ibn Bāz (pp. 862-863), also Fatāwa Al-Lajnah Ad-Dā’imah)
The Prophet (ﷺ) stated:
“Any man who fornicated with a woman, then the child is a child of fornication, and he does not inherit [from the father], nor does [the father] inherit from him.” (Tirmidhi 2113, sahīh) At-Tirmidhi stated: “The scholars understood this to mean that the child of fornication does not inherit from his father.”
So the child of fornication is attributed only to the lineage of the mother and not to the lineage of the man she fornicated with.
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The Prophet (ﷺ) said: “The child is attributed to the owner of the bed [in which it was born]…” (Al-Bukhāri 2053, Muslim 1457) The owner of the bed is the husband of a woman and no man can claim to be the father of a child other than the man who was her husband when the baby was born. However, if she was not married, the owner of the bed is the woman herself, so the child is attributed only to her and carries her family name.
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Reminder for Parents:
Command For Marriage Regarding Children:
The Prophet (Sallallahu alaihe wasallam) Commanded regarding children, " If they neglect salaah at the age of seven, then reprimand them, at the age of nine separate their beds (do not let two of them sleep in the same bed) and at the age of seventeen get them married. Once the father has carried this out he should place his child before him and say, ‘ May Allah not make you a cause for my testing and trial."
(Al-Ifsah Ibn Hajr Haithami)
Command For Marriage Regarding Children:
The Prophet (Sallallahu alaihe wasallam) Commanded regarding children, " If they neglect salaah at the age of seven, then reprimand them, at the age of nine separate their beds (do not let two of them sleep in the same bed) and at the age of seventeen get them married. Once the father has carried this out he should place his child before him and say, ‘ May Allah not make you a cause for my testing and trial."
(Al-Ifsah Ibn Hajr Haithami)
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