I’ve made a Gab account as a backup in case telegram becomes gay.
@Traditional_Dating_Guide
Telegram is my primary posting platform, but I’ll try to keep gab updated as well.
@Traditional_Dating_Guide
Telegram is my primary posting platform, but I’ll try to keep gab updated as well.
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Book update:
Spent a good bit of time today writing and editing, and am currently at 30 pages. I’m probably 30% done with my first draft. I’m starting to develop a serious appreciation for authors like Brandon Sanderson who can crank out several 1,000 page novels in a year. Granted I’m doing this on free time, but still. I can already see the dedication necessary to finish a book.
New sections include: Physical attraction is not a choice but you can control your fitness, clothing, and how you present yourself.
Spent a good bit of time today writing and editing, and am currently at 30 pages. I’m probably 30% done with my first draft. I’m starting to develop a serious appreciation for authors like Brandon Sanderson who can crank out several 1,000 page novels in a year. Granted I’m doing this on free time, but still. I can already see the dedication necessary to finish a book.
New sections include: Physical attraction is not a choice but you can control your fitness, clothing, and how you present yourself.
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Make every day count. Don’t waste a single day if this remotely resembles your goal.
I’ve already given so much direction that you can be implementing daily to practice and prepare for dating.
You don’t need to wait for me to finish my book to get started.
1) Workout
2) Quit porn
3) Enneagram study
4) Career direction - figuring out how you can achieve sole provider income
5) Practice approach and conversation skills with ladies who work at department stores without fear of rejection
6) Pray for guidance and strength
As a single man you should be able to accomplish all of these tasks in less than 3 hours every day after work. This is your study schedule for the most important test in your life.
I’ve already given so much direction that you can be implementing daily to practice and prepare for dating.
You don’t need to wait for me to finish my book to get started.
1) Workout
2) Quit porn
3) Enneagram study
4) Career direction - figuring out how you can achieve sole provider income
5) Practice approach and conversation skills with ladies who work at department stores without fear of rejection
6) Pray for guidance and strength
As a single man you should be able to accomplish all of these tasks in less than 3 hours every day after work. This is your study schedule for the most important test in your life.
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My wife joked to me when we were dating that she’s not going to become a Mennonite.
Now she’s wearing more modest dresses, braids her hair, doesn’t have social media or watch the news, doesn’t care about politics, loves to bake and cook, is looking at homestead properties on zillow, and is preparing the house for our baby girl coming this June.
🤫 No one tell her I’m winning
Now she’s wearing more modest dresses, braids her hair, doesn’t have social media or watch the news, doesn’t care about politics, loves to bake and cook, is looking at homestead properties on zillow, and is preparing the house for our baby girl coming this June.
🤫 No one tell her I’m winning
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My recommendations to women is : workout - men love a trim feminine body, learn to speak nicely & not use profanities, be elegant in everything you do - even cleaning floors, learn to cook delicious food, teach yourself skills : sewing, knitting, painting, quilting, lace making, vegetable & herb gardening, flower gardening, making life & your surroundings beautiful so your husband wants to come home to you . Don't download all your problems on him as soon as he walks in the door, learn to solve them or have a women's chat group once a week to cover topics like babies, femininity, recipes, - it all counts. Rather have a lovely home with amazing food on the stove when he walks in, look gorgeous & be warm & friendly & loving. If there is something you need to talk to him about, ask if you could have time later to discuss some issues you would like to share or ask his advice about, never scream at him or your children. Make time for yourself each day to relax, between lunch time & tea time is a more peaceful time. If the children are too energetic, take them on walks so by night time they are enjoying a relaxing evening with you. So many more pointers I can share.
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Let’s discuss idealized concepts that we are susceptible to as men.
Note: I’m not telling you to change your goals with what you’re looking for, I’m simply helping you become aware that reality isn’t perfect. No man or woman is perfect.
We’ve already discussed this with virginity and chastity, but another common idealized concept we’re susceptible to is that of the 1950s image of the perfect housewife.
The flaw of the 50s was the attitude that husbands deserve that life and treatment, that it was a requirement for women to do those things for their families.
The realistic, achievable, and sustainable version of this lifestyle is one based in love, respect, and most importantly GIVING.
If you lead your woman into her feminine, give her your love and adoration, help her with whatever she’s doing, provide for her and your family, then she will in return do what she can to make you happy and have an enjoyable life as well.
Treat your wife like a queen, and she will make you feel like a king.
Note: I’m not telling you to change your goals with what you’re looking for, I’m simply helping you become aware that reality isn’t perfect. No man or woman is perfect.
We’ve already discussed this with virginity and chastity, but another common idealized concept we’re susceptible to is that of the 1950s image of the perfect housewife.
The flaw of the 50s was the attitude that husbands deserve that life and treatment, that it was a requirement for women to do those things for their families.
The realistic, achievable, and sustainable version of this lifestyle is one based in love, respect, and most importantly GIVING.
If you lead your woman into her feminine, give her your love and adoration, help her with whatever she’s doing, provide for her and your family, then she will in return do what she can to make you happy and have an enjoyable life as well.
Treat your wife like a queen, and she will make you feel like a king.
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It hasn’t even been a week and we’re already over 700 subscribers. I feel so much affirmation about pursuing this book, and the conversations and feedback have been amazing.
I’m excited to figure out where this can go. My current ideas are to make a website where everyone can read the book for free and I’ll have a donation link at the bottom in case anyone wants to donate. If anyone here has any suggestions for where I could build that website, please leave a comment below.
I’ll also likely self-publish a paperback on amazon too for those of us who prefer a physical book.
Other ideas are bubbling up as well, but they’re further down the road. Gotta finish the book first.
Cheers to y’all for listening to what I have to say!
I’m excited to figure out where this can go. My current ideas are to make a website where everyone can read the book for free and I’ll have a donation link at the bottom in case anyone wants to donate. If anyone here has any suggestions for where I could build that website, please leave a comment below.
I’ll also likely self-publish a paperback on amazon too for those of us who prefer a physical book.
Other ideas are bubbling up as well, but they’re further down the road. Gotta finish the book first.
Cheers to y’all for listening to what I have to say!
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I guarantee this dude got a second date. Masculine to the core. Knows his purpose and mission. Able to provide resources for a family.
Even if she thinks the cheese wheel was weird or lame, she’ll find herself unexplainably drawn to him because he is able to lead her into her feminine.
Note: gift-giving isn’t something I’d typically recommend on a first date. It takes a pair of massive Chad-farmer-level cheese curds to pull this off.
Even if she thinks the cheese wheel was weird or lame, she’ll find herself unexplainably drawn to him because he is able to lead her into her feminine.
Note: gift-giving isn’t something I’d typically recommend on a first date. It takes a pair of massive Chad-farmer-level cheese curds to pull this off.
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These two books are truly great resources for any traditional man looking to raise a family. They both are rooted to rejecting the modern world and returning to a biblical-centered family and home.
The two authors made a podcast that presents their ideas together called “The Intentional Family.” Every man here should listen to it and seriously consider purchasing their books afterwards.
Consider this your first homework assignment for this channel. Comment below when you’ve started listening to their podcast.
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/intentional-family/id1585603452?i=1000535130903
The two authors made a podcast that presents their ideas together called “The Intentional Family.” Every man here should listen to it and seriously consider purchasing their books afterwards.
Consider this your first homework assignment for this channel. Comment below when you’ve started listening to their podcast.
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/intentional-family/id1585603452?i=1000535130903
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What best describes your current relationship status?
Anonymous Poll
10%
Single and heartbroken 💔
42%
Single, not heartbroken, working on self-improvement to prepare for dating 🏋️♂️
13%
Single, ready to date and looking 🙋🏼♂️
3%
Single and dating (one person at a time)😊
1%
Single and dating (multiple people, not exclusive with anyone yet)😏
10%
Exclusive with someone special😍
2%
Ready to propose!🥰
4%
Engaged 💍
11%
Married 🤵🏼👰🏼
5%
It’s Complicated... 😅
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90% of all communication is nonverbal.
Understanding body language is important in all social aspects of life, especially dating.
Women are very good at communicating their initial attraction level to us, good or bad.
Being able to identify if she is interested in you or not is a skill that you will need when looking for Mrs. Right.
Think of all of these little skills you need to know how to do in order to successfully attract, approach, and date the woman of your dreams as like different muscles on your body. You need to develop them all, you can’t skip leg day.
Understanding body language is important in all social aspects of life, especially dating.
Women are very good at communicating their initial attraction level to us, good or bad.
Being able to identify if she is interested in you or not is a skill that you will need when looking for Mrs. Right.
Think of all of these little skills you need to know how to do in order to successfully attract, approach, and date the woman of your dreams as like different muscles on your body. You need to develop them all, you can’t skip leg day.
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Signs to approach a woman and talk to her:
1) Wandering eyes.
Is she scanning the room for eligible bachelors?
Maybe you catch her looking at you, so smile at her and if she smiles in return that is usually a signal to approach.
A woman who is scanning the area and smiles at you is giving you an invitation to approach.
2) Proximity
If she gets physically close to you, she’s going out of her way to make it easier for you to initiate conversation with her.
If she bumps you, makes physical contact “on accident” then she’s making it as easy as it gets, even possibly breaking the ice for you by apologizing for bumping you.
3) Shifting body language.
Adjusting herself, nerves, whatever it is she can’t sit still when looking at you. If she touches her neck or hair then it’s a big sign she’s ready to be approached.
1) Wandering eyes.
Is she scanning the room for eligible bachelors?
Maybe you catch her looking at you, so smile at her and if she smiles in return that is usually a signal to approach.
A woman who is scanning the area and smiles at you is giving you an invitation to approach.
2) Proximity
If she gets physically close to you, she’s going out of her way to make it easier for you to initiate conversation with her.
If she bumps you, makes physical contact “on accident” then she’s making it as easy as it gets, even possibly breaking the ice for you by apologizing for bumping you.
3) Shifting body language.
Adjusting herself, nerves, whatever it is she can’t sit still when looking at you. If she touches her neck or hair then it’s a big sign she’s ready to be approached.
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It’s a shame so many people have jumped right into the 🇺🇦 🇷🇺 narrative on one side or the other.
The only truth we can really know, the only way we can fight evil is by raising a Godly family in Christ’s name.
The enemy controls this world. The enemy wants you to get riled up and rush off to fight on either side.
The enemy does NOT want you to stay home, find and marry a good woman, raise a family, be a good husband to your wife, be a good father to your children, and be present with your family as you lead them in God’s Word.
Instead of spiraling about Babylonian war games, start planning a garden to grow your own food. Take the cute girl on a date. Ask the girlfriend to marry you. Try for a child with your wife.
The only truth we can really know, the only way we can fight evil is by raising a Godly family in Christ’s name.
The enemy controls this world. The enemy wants you to get riled up and rush off to fight on either side.
The enemy does NOT want you to stay home, find and marry a good woman, raise a family, be a good husband to your wife, be a good father to your children, and be present with your family as you lead them in God’s Word.
Instead of spiraling about Babylonian war games, start planning a garden to grow your own food. Take the cute girl on a date. Ask the girlfriend to marry you. Try for a child with your wife.
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Your self-improvement in fitness shouldn’t be geared solely towards dating, but towards your goals of marriage and a family, where you’re accepting full accountability for the safety of your wife and children.
Many evils of this world can be deterred before they are a threat to your family, but it’s important to remember that while your role is to protect, your other role is to lead and teach your family how to navigate this world. This includes teaching them how to protect themselves when you’re not around.
The historical safety of the home wasn’t the threat of the law, but the presence of a man and his sons with axes greeting those who approach.
If your nation allows firearms, get them, train yourself with the goal of training your family how to use them. Instructors like Clint Smith are great.
Don’t put yourself or your family in dangerous situations. The best weapon you have is your vehicle - several thousand pounds of metal hitting with force while also being able to get your family out of danger.
Many evils of this world can be deterred before they are a threat to your family, but it’s important to remember that while your role is to protect, your other role is to lead and teach your family how to navigate this world. This includes teaching them how to protect themselves when you’re not around.
The historical safety of the home wasn’t the threat of the law, but the presence of a man and his sons with axes greeting those who approach.
If your nation allows firearms, get them, train yourself with the goal of training your family how to use them. Instructors like Clint Smith are great.
Don’t put yourself or your family in dangerous situations. The best weapon you have is your vehicle - several thousand pounds of metal hitting with force while also being able to get your family out of danger.
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