https://youtu.be/RKUENGsDXBA

Some motivational music to inspire you get off your ass and do the homework for the channel due Monday

You won’t find her unless you do the work

-Minimum 200 push-ups
-Minimum 100 squats
-Minimum spot 20 signs of non-interest after eye contact with a woman
-Minimum spot 2 signs of attraction after eye contact with a woman
-Pray to God to lead you to your wife

Note: approaching a woman after seeing a sign of attraction and getting her phone number counts as a pass for the entire weekend assignment.

How did you do with the weekend homework assignment?

Are you keeping yourself accountable for your success? Or are you coming up with excuses?

This is a great guide for identifying your strengths and your growth areas (weaknesses)

Comment below which are your best successful behaviors and which are the ones you need to grow and develop. Also comment below what your next step is for improving that growth area.

Book update:

60 pages and 25,000 words. I’d guess I’m 40-45% done. I’ve been getting some amazing feedback from test readers - thank you!

My current goal is to have this book edited and done by June before my baby is born. I’ll keep you posted.

Cramming in some pages today because my wife and I are going on a babymoon beach vacation starting tomorrow.

Comment below what your current specific, attainable, and time bound goals are. What steps are you taking daily to achieve those goals?

Understanding our masculine and feminine natures is the cornerstone of what I’m teaching.

Knowing how to lead a feminine woman in the dance of romance and courtship is not manipulative or evil, but part of the balance between us. Shake off the perspectives and conditioning of the modern world and know that it’s natural for women to follow when men lead. Take ownership of your duty as a man to right our society by leaning into these lessons and learning about the balance.

Asha Logos offers some needed perspective for us in these times. I highly recommend supporting him where you can. And if you haven’t seen the “Our Subverted History” series, check it out. I’m hoping one of you will transcribe it into textbooks for a homeschooling curriculum.

One of the biggest spells of our time that men are very susceptible to is the captivation of our attention and energy into video games. They give a false sense of accomplishment with achievements and rewards that don’t actually exist. They make you feel like you did something when you’ve literally done nothing.

Perhaps the hardest change next to getting in shape I had to make was selling my gaming pc and all my video game consoles.

Within weeks of quitting video games I began to see how much time I have available towards getting everything done and pursuing my personal growth. 6 years later and I’m still pulled back occasionally to a mobile game, but after 20 minutes my brain gets bored and I realize how I could be doing something productive.

Just like quitting porn, you need to reprogram your brain to get rid of the addiction to video games.

But it’s worth it. It’s so worth it. You’ll begin to set goals for your life and start earning real achievements that exist.

You can do it.

Setting a definite date:

Imagine a beautiful woman is approached by two men who ask her out in different ways.

First man says this:
“Would you like to maybe get dinner and get to know each other sometime?”

Second man says this:
“When are you free to meet for dinner? Thursday? Great! Let’s meet at Ricardo’s Italian Restaurant at 6pm Thursday. How does that sound? Great! If something comes up and we need to reschedule I’ll call you, otherwise I will see you Thursday at Ricardos at 6. I’m looking forward to it!”

Which man do you think got the date? Which man shows significantly more confidence in how he presents himself? Which man is she going to be more attracted to? Which man is she significantly more likely to show up for the date and not ghost?

There is a subtle difference in how you ask a woman out that makes you either stand out or “just another guy.”

-Ask when she is available to meet
-work with the timeline she gives you
-suggest a date with a specific time at a specific place
-ask for the date “how does that sound/work for you?”
-Confirm date/location and your excitement to meet up.

Later as the date approaches if she calls or texts you to confirm the date tell her that you’re a man of your word and when you make appointments you keep them, tell her you’re looking forward to seeing her and get off the phone.

This is a good sign because she’s thinking about you and you’re already standing out because most men over pursue and blow up her phone.

If she doesn’t show then she has too low attraction and likely forgot, which is a learning experience for you to pay more attention for attraction signs during the approach. So even if she doesn’t show, it’s still a win because you’re able to improve.

Where to meet single women:

Sort answer: anywhere.

It doesn’t matter where or how you meet Mrs Right. What matters is you not limiting yourself to only one source for dates.

Online, through friends, at school, and at work are the most common means that men meet women and form relationships. But if you stick to just one method you may go weeks, months, or even years before meeting another single woman.

When you’re ready to find a wife looking for her should be a priority. You should be putting in as many hours as a job in finding her. Cast a wide net but utilize your ideal qualities pros/cons list to help you identify a potential match.

Dating apps and sites can be a powerful tool in your search, but don’t limit yourself. Be open to meeting women while doing hobbies you enjoy, like hiking or rock climbing for example.

I’m not a fan of JP but he makes good points from time to time.

A weak man cannot be virtuous.
A weak man cannot protect a family.
A weak man cannot make a woman feel safe.
A weak man cannot lead a woman into her feminine.

Be hard to kill.

A gentleman is a man who is gentle, but in order for you to be a gentleman you need to be a man first.

The secret to success for anything in life is found in your daily routine.

Don’t compare yourself to your larger goals every day, instead just try to be a little bit better than who you were yesterday.

Do just one more push-up than you did yesterday. Read one more page than yesterday. Pray once more than yesterday.

A 500 mile hike seems like an intimidating task, but it is just a million little steps taken one after another, day after day. Break your goals down into daily, achievable, and measurable baby steps and you’ll be surprised at what you can accomplish.

Goal clarity is everyday clarity.

I’m going to try to give some dating advice for the women from time to time.

First date tip: offer to pay or split the bill with the intention of letting him deny your offer - this is a good test to see if he’s masculine and traditional. You’re providing him the opportunity to lead the relationship.
If he lets you split the bill, don’t write him off yet, but if he continues to expect you to split the bill then he’s not centered in his masculine and you shouldn’t see him again.

After a few dates and you’re confident that he’s worth pursuing further into a relationship, you can initiate a picnic or home cooked meal date- this will allow you to pay/give back to him. It’s a huge gesture showing that you’re giving and appreciate him leading the courtship.

Once you’re confident in your feelings for him, bake him your special dish with love and gift it to him on your next date. My wife’s strategy to ensure seeing me again was using her grandma’s pie dish and letting me know she absolutely needed it back.

If you haven’t gone to church because you can’t find one that teaches the Bible, haven’t found a denomination that speaks to you, or if you’ve been slow to grow into Gods Word then check out Athey Creek Christian Fellowship.
They never locked down or did masks or anything restrictive during the rona btw.

And I’m not trying to start a fight over denominations - you’ll get the ban hammer if you do in the comments.

Spend some time today in contemplative prayer and reading the Word. Pray for guidance in growth and for aid in preparing for and finding who He has set aside to be your bride.

https://youtu.be/DtyKAbnexzQ

Like Worth Fighting For said - this is peak female performance!

Let’s discuss leading a woman towards being trad.

Assume you’re on a 1st or 2nd date and the topic of family or career comes up. She responds with hesitancy because she’s been conditioned to not want to be “just a mom.”
You can lead her to relax in her feminine by leading the conversation in a positive and upbeat way about how much your family means to you and how you hope to have a big family someday.
You don’t need to hammer her with a barrage of statistics about divorce impacting children’s development or how one parent at home results in a more well-adjusted child.
One serious comment in the middle of a fun and light conversation can leave a lasting impression, usually negative.

Trust me, if she likes you, she’s going to be replaying the date in her mind over the next few days and talking with her friends and mom about it. She’s going to analyze every little thing you mention, so she’ll definitely catch that you want a big family.

I’ve made a post before talking about attitude and the best ways to adjust it featuring an interview from this author.

I’m halfway through his book and it’s absolutely going on the assigned readings for this channel.

Get a copy. Read it. Read it again. Start applying it as soon as possible. I’ll be putting in a lot of this advice geared towards dating in my book, but don’t wait for me to finish the book to start implementing these changes in your daily routine.

Counter-intuitive dating advice:

You WANT women to reject you. It makes it easier to move on and find women who genuinely want to spend time with you.

Time is the most precious thing you can give someone. So don’t fear rejection or take it personally, she’s doing you a favor by not wasting your time.

A lot to learn from this video.
Structure leads to success.
Balance is being centered.
Willingly walk through the valley of pain to achieve your goals.

How are you using your 24 hours each day? Are you getting in shape? Are you studying body language? Are you learning about yourself and improving? Are you building a career that can provide for a family? Are you praying? Are you practicing your approach and overcoming the fear of rejection?