Increase the goal to reduce the pressure.
If you're close to achieving something you've worked on for a long time, you'll start to feel a huge pressure when you get close to your goal.
That's when you aim for more.
Instead of being under pressure to finish, you capitalize on the pride of getting where you got to.
Reflect on this.
If you're close to achieving something you've worked on for a long time, you'll start to feel a huge pressure when you get close to your goal.
That's when you aim for more.
Instead of being under pressure to finish, you capitalize on the pride of getting where you got to.
Reflect on this.
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Basedonia™ - By E-go
https://twitter.com/RyanJAyala/status/1663241314018656277
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Going live on Spaces with Ryan tomorrow, click to set a reminder
Going live on Spaces with Ryan tomorrow, click to set a reminder
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Resist the urge to overexplain and overshare.
Focus that energy on actually reaching your goals.
Stop seeking comfort through complaints.
Stop seeking validation through bragging.
Two sides of the same coin.
You do not believe in yourself so you need other people to comfort that feeling or make it go away.
But it doesn't work that way.
That feeling only goes away when it's replaced by the satisfaction of knowing fully that you are exactly what you could be.
It goes away when you live up to your potential.
Not when you waste it away.
Simply get shit done.
No way around this.
Focus that energy on actually reaching your goals.
Stop seeking comfort through complaints.
Stop seeking validation through bragging.
Two sides of the same coin.
You do not believe in yourself so you need other people to comfort that feeling or make it go away.
But it doesn't work that way.
That feeling only goes away when it's replaced by the satisfaction of knowing fully that you are exactly what you could be.
It goes away when you live up to your potential.
Not when you waste it away.
Simply get shit done.
No way around this.
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Approach the world as if nobody was against you.
Because nobody is.
Once you understand that people are for themselves and not against you, you start figuring out ways to build mutually beneficial relationships.
Do what's right for yourself.
Stop seeing everyone as a competition.
Start seeing people as opportunities to cooperate.
Once you make this paradigm shift, most of your relationships become positive.
Of course, as always and everywhere, you will meet some motherfuckers who do not want to cooperate with you.
Bully the motherfuckers.
Make them avoid you.
Because nobody is.
Once you understand that people are for themselves and not against you, you start figuring out ways to build mutually beneficial relationships.
Do what's right for yourself.
Stop seeing everyone as a competition.
Start seeing people as opportunities to cooperate.
Once you make this paradigm shift, most of your relationships become positive.
Of course, as always and everywhere, you will meet some motherfuckers who do not want to cooperate with you.
Bully the motherfuckers.
Make them avoid you.
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Not everything is a conspiracy.
Don’t live in paranoia.
Yes some shit is really fucked up.
Yes some people are pulling the strings.
Yes the game is rigged.
But none of those are reasons to scream CONSPIRACY at everything you see.
You will lose your mind.
That’s not gonna help.
Don’t feed the negativity with more negativity.
Know the rules and bend them to suit you.
Just do your shit and enjoy it.
Know that it will be harder for you than for others.
But also know that it will be easier for you than for most people.
Negativity is meant to destroy itself.
Positivity is meant to build you up.
The choice is a no-brainer.
Don’t be a doomer.
Be aware of what’s going on but don’t let it eat you from the inside.
Don’t live in paranoia.
Yes some shit is really fucked up.
Yes some people are pulling the strings.
Yes the game is rigged.
But none of those are reasons to scream CONSPIRACY at everything you see.
You will lose your mind.
That’s not gonna help.
Don’t feed the negativity with more negativity.
Know the rules and bend them to suit you.
Just do your shit and enjoy it.
Know that it will be harder for you than for others.
But also know that it will be easier for you than for most people.
Negativity is meant to destroy itself.
Positivity is meant to build you up.
The choice is a no-brainer.
Don’t be a doomer.
Be aware of what’s going on but don’t let it eat you from the inside.
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I will be creating videos in the upcoming months (probably years).
I will only send them to email subscribers.
Join here.
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Join here.
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Competition will bring out the best side of you if you’re secure and mentally strong.
Seeing people doing better than you should motivate you to do better yourself and keep progressing.
Only insecure people think competition is not healthy.
Because they keep telling themselves that the others don’t deserve what they have.
Competition breeds competence.
Competition is not the problem.
Competition will help you grow.
It’s your refusal to acknowledge that you have work to do that is keeping you back.
When your will to outperform others comes from a genuine desire to improve yourself?
It can’t go wrong.
When it comes from an insecure jealousy?
It can’t go right.
You’re doing for the wrong reasons.
That’s why you’re scared of competition.
Not because competition itself is bad.
But because you’re too much of a coward to accept your shortcomings and work on them.
You won’t always be the best at everything you do.
But you can still give it your all and learn from those outperforming you instead of envying them.
Seeing people doing better than you should motivate you to do better yourself and keep progressing.
Only insecure people think competition is not healthy.
Because they keep telling themselves that the others don’t deserve what they have.
Competition breeds competence.
Competition is not the problem.
Competition will help you grow.
It’s your refusal to acknowledge that you have work to do that is keeping you back.
When your will to outperform others comes from a genuine desire to improve yourself?
It can’t go wrong.
When it comes from an insecure jealousy?
It can’t go right.
You’re doing for the wrong reasons.
That’s why you’re scared of competition.
Not because competition itself is bad.
But because you’re too much of a coward to accept your shortcomings and work on them.
You won’t always be the best at everything you do.
But you can still give it your all and learn from those outperforming you instead of envying them.
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We’re temporarily closing Social Skills University and reopening in September.
SSU v2 will have a full Social Skills curriculum that is 90 Day long and covers everything.
From Confidence, Power Dynamics to Writing and Critical Thinking.
And will be hosted on a brand new Discord server.
The price will also increase from $20 a month to $147 per quarter.
We will be closing doors tonight at midnight (11h from now)
Signing up before locks you in at the current price forever.
You can join by clicking this
PS: No new members will be allowed after tonight until we reopen.
SSU v2 will have a full Social Skills curriculum that is 90 Day long and covers everything.
From Confidence, Power Dynamics to Writing and Critical Thinking.
And will be hosted on a brand new Discord server.
The price will also increase from $20 a month to $147 per quarter.
We will be closing doors tonight at midnight (11h from now)
Signing up before locks you in at the current price forever.
You can join by clicking this
PS: No new members will be allowed after tonight until we reopen.
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16 WAYS TO IMPROVE YOUR SOCIAL SKILLS:
1. Compliment people. Do it often. Do it publicly.
Everybody likes to be praised.
And most importantly, people like those who praise them.
Show people that you value them, in front of others.
Just don't kiss ass.
Be subtle about it.
Don't compliment the obvious.
2. Don't avoid small talk.
No conversation starts deep right from the get-go.
Small talk is a bridge to deeper conversations.
Get better at it by not avoiding it.
3. Ask more questions.
People like to talk.
People like to feel knowledgeable.
Give them an opportunity to showcase their knowledge.
4. Stand your ground.
Accept zero disrespect from anyone.
Set clear boundaries and don't fear confrontation when your limits are overstepped.
5. Never lose your cool.
Confrontation does not necessarily mean losing your temper.
Confronting people calmly is possible.
Do not get emotional.
Make your point and stay cerebral.
6. Take your time when talking.
A conversation is not a race.
Pause. Think.
Pick your words carefully.
7. Stop apologizing so much.
Instead, thank people for their understanding.
8. Go out alone and talk to as many people as possible.
If someone's not willing to converse with you, move on and let them be.
Don't force it.
9. Don't just avoid gossiping.
Don't let it happen in front of you.
When the people around you start doing it..
Explicitly tell them it's useless and change the topic.
That lets them know that you wouldn't talk behind their back either.
10. Observe people.
Go sit somewhere and observe people's behavior.
Try to understand where they're coming from.
This increases your emotional intelligence and empathy.
11. Stop being overly available.
Have your priorities straight and don't let people waste your time.
This is an important boundary and many fail to set it.
12. Learn a new language.
It allows you to explore a new culture and expand your understanding of human nature.
Old sayings & expressions from a different culture give you a new perspective on people.
13. If you're afraid of rejection:
Practice your conversational skills with a taximan, a barista or a waiter.
Their job consists of talking to the customer.
Unless they're highly unprofessional, they won't turn you down.
PS:
We're reopening Social Skills University in a few weeks.
But in the meantime..
Start with the free Social Skills Playbook.
1. Compliment people. Do it often. Do it publicly.
Everybody likes to be praised.
And most importantly, people like those who praise them.
Show people that you value them, in front of others.
Just don't kiss ass.
Be subtle about it.
Don't compliment the obvious.
2. Don't avoid small talk.
No conversation starts deep right from the get-go.
Small talk is a bridge to deeper conversations.
Get better at it by not avoiding it.
3. Ask more questions.
People like to talk.
People like to feel knowledgeable.
Give them an opportunity to showcase their knowledge.
4. Stand your ground.
Accept zero disrespect from anyone.
Set clear boundaries and don't fear confrontation when your limits are overstepped.
5. Never lose your cool.
Confrontation does not necessarily mean losing your temper.
Confronting people calmly is possible.
Do not get emotional.
Make your point and stay cerebral.
6. Take your time when talking.
A conversation is not a race.
Pause. Think.
Pick your words carefully.
7. Stop apologizing so much.
Instead, thank people for their understanding.
8. Go out alone and talk to as many people as possible.
If someone's not willing to converse with you, move on and let them be.
Don't force it.
9. Don't just avoid gossiping.
Don't let it happen in front of you.
When the people around you start doing it..
Explicitly tell them it's useless and change the topic.
That lets them know that you wouldn't talk behind their back either.
10. Observe people.
Go sit somewhere and observe people's behavior.
Try to understand where they're coming from.
This increases your emotional intelligence and empathy.
11. Stop being overly available.
Have your priorities straight and don't let people waste your time.
This is an important boundary and many fail to set it.
12. Learn a new language.
It allows you to explore a new culture and expand your understanding of human nature.
Old sayings & expressions from a different culture give you a new perspective on people.
13. If you're afraid of rejection:
Practice your conversational skills with a taximan, a barista or a waiter.
Their job consists of talking to the customer.
Unless they're highly unprofessional, they won't turn you down.
PS:
We're reopening Social Skills University in a few weeks.
But in the meantime..
Start with the free Social Skills Playbook.
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