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To the one who is feeling stuck,
Wait. You don’t have to scroll past this. This is not one of those letters which tells you it’s okay to feel what you’re feeling or tells you it’s a bad day and not a bad life. No. I know you’re tired of hearing the same bullshit again and again.
I am not writing this letter to tell you it’s okay to suck at things you love or that it is okay if you feel left out in your own group, no. I know it’s not okay. It’s the least okay anything can be.
I know exactly how it feels. How you feel you’re trapped inside a room, and even though you have the freedom to walk out through that door, you don’t know where you belong. You feel stuck, don't you?
This sadness, this feeling, it’s like a sunset. You cannot stop it. You cannot control it. You can only pause, look around, and wait until the sun finally sets and the sky paints a happy picture for you.
On some days, you try to remain hopeful that things will get better, but some days are just hard, you don’t know if you’re ever going to come out of this loop. On days like these, when every piece of you tells you to give up, I need you to think of something.
Which bad thing has stayed forever? You remember that first heartbreak? You wouldn’t get out of your bed for days and you wouldn’t eat properly or dress properly. Heck, you stopped giving a care about the world. But it got better, no?
You know what? There’s a loophole to feeling this way – it only gets you when you think you’re not getting out of it soon. But the day you get up with a smile and move out? That makes the difference.
You get accustomed to feeling this way; you make it your comfort zone, and it scares you to pop that bubble and face the world, again.
But hear me out – This isn’t the end to your story. This is just the beginning.
@deepthoughts2
Wait. You don’t have to scroll past this. This is not one of those letters which tells you it’s okay to feel what you’re feeling or tells you it’s a bad day and not a bad life. No. I know you’re tired of hearing the same bullshit again and again.
I am not writing this letter to tell you it’s okay to suck at things you love or that it is okay if you feel left out in your own group, no. I know it’s not okay. It’s the least okay anything can be.
I know exactly how it feels. How you feel you’re trapped inside a room, and even though you have the freedom to walk out through that door, you don’t know where you belong. You feel stuck, don't you?
This sadness, this feeling, it’s like a sunset. You cannot stop it. You cannot control it. You can only pause, look around, and wait until the sun finally sets and the sky paints a happy picture for you.
On some days, you try to remain hopeful that things will get better, but some days are just hard, you don’t know if you’re ever going to come out of this loop. On days like these, when every piece of you tells you to give up, I need you to think of something.
Which bad thing has stayed forever? You remember that first heartbreak? You wouldn’t get out of your bed for days and you wouldn’t eat properly or dress properly. Heck, you stopped giving a care about the world. But it got better, no?
You know what? There’s a loophole to feeling this way – it only gets you when you think you’re not getting out of it soon. But the day you get up with a smile and move out? That makes the difference.
You get accustomed to feeling this way; you make it your comfort zone, and it scares you to pop that bubble and face the world, again.
But hear me out – This isn’t the end to your story. This is just the beginning.
@deepthoughts2
Things that feel a lot like self-love, but aren’t:
Often, we don’t decipher the true meaning of self-love. But more often, we don’t understand that there is no true definition of self-love, it is one emotion that holds you to yourself.
1. You agree to things that make you feel very uncomfortable because you feel the need to be strong. But that’s not how it goes. You do not always have to put yourself into a struggle to gain something.
2. Yet again, being over lenient towards oneself with the belief of loving oneself is not right either. There ought to be some discipline and a kind of boundary that you cannot cross for yourself. Over-pampering is not an answer.
3. Avoiding relationships to stay mentally strong does feel a lot like self-love, but it isn’t. Relationships are natural and a necessity of human. You do not become emotionally weaker by having someone in your life to share your emotions to.
4. Idolizing yourself because that’s the whole foundation of self-love, isn’t it? No! Self-love not only comes from accepting and acknowledging every aspect of yourself, but also admitting the ugly parts of yourself as the ugly parts.
5. Choosing work as a “productive” distraction from the unwanted emotions is not a self-love practice. Self-love does not reflect choosing productivity over mental health.
6. Self-love isn’t forced isolation because you read somewhere that being alone is being yourself. There isn’t a guidebook you need to follow to achieve a stage of self-love. You should love yourself the way you want to, and that’s the most beautiful part of self-love.
7. Self-love does not mean you analyse and over analyse every breath you take. Allow yourself to feel nothing at times. And if you feel too many things, allow yourself to not try to understand every feeling inside.
8. Lastly, carving a straight path of healing and pushing yourself to follow that straight line is not self-love. Always remember, healing is not a linear process. You will have to go on the rollercoaster once a while. I assure you it will pass.
@deepthoughts2
Often, we don’t decipher the true meaning of self-love. But more often, we don’t understand that there is no true definition of self-love, it is one emotion that holds you to yourself.
1. You agree to things that make you feel very uncomfortable because you feel the need to be strong. But that’s not how it goes. You do not always have to put yourself into a struggle to gain something.
2. Yet again, being over lenient towards oneself with the belief of loving oneself is not right either. There ought to be some discipline and a kind of boundary that you cannot cross for yourself. Over-pampering is not an answer.
3. Avoiding relationships to stay mentally strong does feel a lot like self-love, but it isn’t. Relationships are natural and a necessity of human. You do not become emotionally weaker by having someone in your life to share your emotions to.
4. Idolizing yourself because that’s the whole foundation of self-love, isn’t it? No! Self-love not only comes from accepting and acknowledging every aspect of yourself, but also admitting the ugly parts of yourself as the ugly parts.
5. Choosing work as a “productive” distraction from the unwanted emotions is not a self-love practice. Self-love does not reflect choosing productivity over mental health.
6. Self-love isn’t forced isolation because you read somewhere that being alone is being yourself. There isn’t a guidebook you need to follow to achieve a stage of self-love. You should love yourself the way you want to, and that’s the most beautiful part of self-love.
7. Self-love does not mean you analyse and over analyse every breath you take. Allow yourself to feel nothing at times. And if you feel too many things, allow yourself to not try to understand every feeling inside.
8. Lastly, carving a straight path of healing and pushing yourself to follow that straight line is not self-love. Always remember, healing is not a linear process. You will have to go on the rollercoaster once a while. I assure you it will pass.
@deepthoughts2
The God who created and sustains everything is the same God who choses to wash his disciples feet.
Im here to tell you
The creator God who choses to wash people’s feet is the kind of God that i wanna follow.
Im here to tell you
The creator God who choses to wash people’s feet is the kind of God that i wanna follow.
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