To the friend who cares too much,
You know, on some days, I think about how do you deal with literally everything in your head and today is one of those days.
You are always that friend who everyone goes to when they need someone to talk to. You are always that friend who spares time for anyone who needs a shoulder to lean on. Sometimes, I wonder who gives you a shoulder when you need it?
Sometimes I worry that everything you are doing for people is going to break you down, but then, it’s a fresh day. You wake up with your enormous heart and a wide smile on your face.
I often wonder what that smile is trying to hide. I often wonder who hurt you so much that you just can’t let anyone feel even a little hurt. I often wonder who wasn’t there for you when you needed them. I know you won’t answer my questions, but I need to tell you something before it’s too late.
Sometimes, I feel like telling you that you need to stop being this generous to people because some people take your kindness for weakness and walk all over you. They don’t understand that not everyone is as precious as you and take you for granted again and again and you seem to forgive them all the time.
One thing I really want you to do is to start taking breaks. People won’t think of you as selfish or they won’t stop being your friend if you solve your problems first. You need to stop and give your mind and heart a little break from all the problems and people’s problems you are dealing with.
It’s okay if you don’t answer that phone call at 2 am. It’s okay if you don’t answer that text saying, “You awake? I need to talk”. It’s okay to take time for yourself and think about your life instead of your friends’. Some days, just put your phone on airplane mode, listen to your favorite song on repeat, and shut the world out.
Trust me, you need this. It’s just that, you are so strong and silent that people forget you are suffering too.
@deepthoughts2 ✨✨
You know, on some days, I think about how do you deal with literally everything in your head and today is one of those days.
You are always that friend who everyone goes to when they need someone to talk to. You are always that friend who spares time for anyone who needs a shoulder to lean on. Sometimes, I wonder who gives you a shoulder when you need it?
Sometimes I worry that everything you are doing for people is going to break you down, but then, it’s a fresh day. You wake up with your enormous heart and a wide smile on your face.
I often wonder what that smile is trying to hide. I often wonder who hurt you so much that you just can’t let anyone feel even a little hurt. I often wonder who wasn’t there for you when you needed them. I know you won’t answer my questions, but I need to tell you something before it’s too late.
Sometimes, I feel like telling you that you need to stop being this generous to people because some people take your kindness for weakness and walk all over you. They don’t understand that not everyone is as precious as you and take you for granted again and again and you seem to forgive them all the time.
One thing I really want you to do is to start taking breaks. People won’t think of you as selfish or they won’t stop being your friend if you solve your problems first. You need to stop and give your mind and heart a little break from all the problems and people’s problems you are dealing with.
It’s okay if you don’t answer that phone call at 2 am. It’s okay if you don’t answer that text saying, “You awake? I need to talk”. It’s okay to take time for yourself and think about your life instead of your friends’. Some days, just put your phone on airplane mode, listen to your favorite song on repeat, and shut the world out.
Trust me, you need this. It’s just that, you are so strong and silent that people forget you are suffering too.
@deepthoughts2 ✨✨
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Beyonce is 39, and jay z is 50. So i aint even stressin no more. Bae prolly chillin in the 5th grade playin አባሮሽ.
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The more you understand a conversation between two strangers the less likely they know each other well
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I don't care what religion you follow I don't care what nation you from but please pray for Ethiopia....... pray for love .... tomorrow its going to be me tomorrow its going to be you ..... please take a moment and ask God for forgiveness...... and stand against ethnic violence as a human ✊🏾✊🏾
Love and peace for our country ❤️
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Love and peace for our country ❤️
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Remember that person with whom you had chemistry – with whom everything just felt right? you ran with them, but somewhere down the road, you were left behind.
and then, you became this person who thinks twice before replying to a text message. who keeps their guard up all the time – whose head tells them to run at the first sign of love.
You have kept your heart hidden. you know you’re not ready to love, and that’s why you just hold yourself back from letting your guard down.
head and heart are opposites – head wants you to take the safest route while the heart wants you to run as if you’re in a marathon.
You know what they say – listen to your heart in the matters of love, but what do you do when you get your heart broken? who do you listen to?
That conflict between your head and heart – it keeps you up at night. to text them or not. to reread their conversations or not. you’ve had countless conversations with yourself, battling with a dilemma.
Your mind tells you to forget them, but then, there is your heart telling you to not let go just yet. to your head, this heartbreak becomes a lesson – but to your heart, it’s just a setback.
The heart is naïve and wants what it wants. after a heartbreak, you just let your brain do all the things for you. and perhaps, that’s why, you start to love people less and doubt them more. perhaps, when it comes to love, we need to use both. and often, we don’t.
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and then, you became this person who thinks twice before replying to a text message. who keeps their guard up all the time – whose head tells them to run at the first sign of love.
You have kept your heart hidden. you know you’re not ready to love, and that’s why you just hold yourself back from letting your guard down.
head and heart are opposites – head wants you to take the safest route while the heart wants you to run as if you’re in a marathon.
You know what they say – listen to your heart in the matters of love, but what do you do when you get your heart broken? who do you listen to?
That conflict between your head and heart – it keeps you up at night. to text them or not. to reread their conversations or not. you’ve had countless conversations with yourself, battling with a dilemma.
Your mind tells you to forget them, but then, there is your heart telling you to not let go just yet. to your head, this heartbreak becomes a lesson – but to your heart, it’s just a setback.
The heart is naïve and wants what it wants. after a heartbreak, you just let your brain do all the things for you. and perhaps, that’s why, you start to love people less and doubt them more. perhaps, when it comes to love, we need to use both. and often, we don’t.
@deepthoughts2 🌙
Hello beautiful people
Should there be another channel for the long texts only or should it stay here?
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Should there be another channel for the long texts only or should it stay here?
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Final Results
49%
Open another channel
51%
I'm ok with it , let it be
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50 Years Ago
50 years ago, children were gentle with their parents. Today parents have to be gentle with their children
50 years ago, everyone wanted to have children. Today many people are afraid of having children.
50 years ago, children respected their parents. Now parents have to respect their children.
50 years ago, marriage was easy but divorce was difficult. Nowadays it is difficult to get married but divorce is so easy.
50 years ago, we got to know all the neighbors. Now we are strangers to our neighbors.
50 years ago, people had to eat a lot because they needed the energy to work hard. Now we are afraid to eat fatty foods for fear of the cholesterol.
50 years ago, villagers were flocking to the city to find jobs. Now the town people are fleeing from the stress to find peace.
50 years ago, everyone wanted to be fat to look happy ... Nowadays everyone diets to look healthy.
50 years ago, rich people pretended to be poor. Now the poor are pretending to be rich.
50 years ago, people loved to study and read books ... now people love to update Facebook and read their whatsapp messages.
And 50 years hence ?? 🤔
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50 years ago, children were gentle with their parents. Today parents have to be gentle with their children
50 years ago, everyone wanted to have children. Today many people are afraid of having children.
50 years ago, children respected their parents. Now parents have to respect their children.
50 years ago, marriage was easy but divorce was difficult. Nowadays it is difficult to get married but divorce is so easy.
50 years ago, we got to know all the neighbors. Now we are strangers to our neighbors.
50 years ago, people had to eat a lot because they needed the energy to work hard. Now we are afraid to eat fatty foods for fear of the cholesterol.
50 years ago, villagers were flocking to the city to find jobs. Now the town people are fleeing from the stress to find peace.
50 years ago, everyone wanted to be fat to look happy ... Nowadays everyone diets to look healthy.
50 years ago, rich people pretended to be poor. Now the poor are pretending to be rich.
50 years ago, people loved to study and read books ... now people love to update Facebook and read their whatsapp messages.
And 50 years hence ?? 🤔
@deepthoughts2
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Hello beautiful people
Should there be another channel for the long texts only or should it stay here?
Vote
Should there be another channel for the long texts only or should it stay here?
Vote
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Well I know who won but I have to keep the morals of the others so I'll be posting long texts 3 times a week or even 2 I hope that makes it for us.
But if you have any ideas let us know in the group .❤️
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Well I know who won but I have to keep the morals of the others so I'll be posting long texts 3 times a week or even 2 I hope that makes it for us.
But if you have any ideas let us know in the group .❤️
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Sometimes you have to sing the whole alphabet in your head just to find the next letter.
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(First date)
Her: I'm a Catholic
Stupid Me: (trying to impress her) I'm addicted to cats too
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Her: I'm a Catholic
Stupid Me: (trying to impress her) I'm addicted to cats too
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