" HOW YOU ARE TREATED IS FAR MORE IMPORTANT THAN HOW MUCH YOU LOVE SOMEONE 🤔❕"

○ The way in which we were treated is so much more important than how much we love somebody else because when you are infatuated with somebody else in a way you naive because you dont have a clear view, you dont have a clear perspective you are wearing the lens of love, you are wearing the lens of tenderness, you are wearing the lense of lust ... and when you are viewing friendships and relationships from this point of view that's almost blinding,
● we fail to recognize the red flag
● we fail to recognize the mistreatment
● we fail to recognize the disrespect
......So take off those glasses find yourself a new pair
♡ Clear the old lens and allow yourself to see the situations for what they are and NOT for what you hope them to be ❕
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I used to look for faults, now I look for features. Everyday I love myself more.
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Accept who you are in this moment, fully, but acknowledge who you want to become. Love both versions.
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18. Avoid Stress Build up: When you feel things are getting out of control, and you feel stressed up, take a few deep breaths, and go out for a short walk. If you can’t go out of the office, at least get out of the place of action, and just take a coffee or washroom break. Just wash your face, or hum a tune if you can, or listen to some soothing music, or just relax in a chair as if you are taking a few minutes nap. When stress is small it is easy to manage and control. Once it gathers momentum, it is difficult to stop.
19. Once a Week Write A heartfelt Letter: It need not be to a relation, friend, or a colleague. It can be to anyone who has +vely influenced you. Since the letter is not to be posted, you need not worry about the style. The expressed feelings are important. You will enjoy this habit. It is an expression of gratitude, and the more we do it, the more we benefit.
👉👉16-17
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FLOAT
“The Wright brothers didn’t contemplate the staying on the ground of things. Alexander Graham Bell didn’t contemplate the noncommunication of things. Thomas Edison didn’t contemplate the darkness of things. In order to float an idea into your reality, you must be willing to do a somersault into the unconceivable and land on your feet, contemplating what you want instead of what you don’t have.” As Thomas Troward points out: “The law of flotation was not discovered by contemplating the sinking of things, but by contemplating the floating of things which floated naturally, and then intelligently asking why they did so.”What do you want to see “float”?!? Well, it’s time to contemplate it floating then, eh?!!? Try to catch yourself when you’re focused on how your idea might “sink” and bring yourself back (diligently, patiently, and persistently!) to the place of contemplating the SUCCESS of your idea. Float. Float. Float. :)
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Woman uP!
The time of the Awakened Women

To all the inspiring Women we all met, to all the women who know their potential and thriving for it, to all the Women who want just a tap on the back to take their Leap.

Khul World celebrates the Awakening of Women, Mother Leaders, Sister Transformers, bold girls!

Share this Video to one Woman who inspire you and one who you want to inspire
Rise up, Lionesses 🎆

#Celebrate #Lionesses
#KhulWorld #WomanuP
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Some people will never love you regardless of what you do and some people will always love you regardless of what you do, so stop chasing validation from the people that will never love you and start showing appreciation from the people that will always love you!
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If you never heal from what hurt you..
You will bleed on people who never cut you! I got to be honest with you when it comes to relationships pain and when it comes to heart break its a drive through only matter you cant go around it, you can't avoid it ! The only way to get over it is to actually face it and drive through it !
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👉 " Is Love Enough For A Relationship ❔"
••• NO❕

○Love as beautiful as it may be it's just an emotion and sometimes we fall in love with the most toxic person,sometimes we fall in love with people who doesn't share the same values that we have ! And its important that when we are looking for a partner we should not only use our hearts but we should also use our mind! We should look for someone that is compatible with us! We should look for someone that makes our heart flutter. But at the same time, inspire us to be a better version of ourselves!
So..."NO!!!! LOVE IS NEVER ENOUGH ! "
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"There is only one way to avoid criticism: do nothing, say nothing, and be nothing."
#Aristotle

But dont for get.. Criticism cause something that we need.Without it, there will be nothing artificial on the earth.Nothing artificial makes the earth go back to the perfect nature.That is also important for the earth.We have to find the best balance of criticism.We should open our ears to constructive criticism, which can help tremendously in growing as a human being.You are going to be criticized regardless of what you do, so do not be afraid of taking one step further to actualize your goals.And if you choose to BE nothing almost everyone will criticize. So the best thing is to simply say, do, and be the things you should. Let the critics criticize❕
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20. Imagine Yourself At Your Funeral: When you are on your deathbed, your life priorities look different. How you wish you should have lead a more happy life. More time for those who love you. More time for what you truly loved.This gives you timely reminders to correct your life style.

21. Repeat To Yourself That Life Isn’t An Emergency : Most of the time we are habitually creating emergency when there is none, and get stressed up. If we learn to relax we shall have more fun.

22. Experiment With A Backburner: Like the cooking backburner which is used for cooking slow and tasty meal,after fast heating on front burners, we should pass on some problems which can wait, to the subconscious mind. It will then seek best solutions in a relaxed way.

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There are 3 kinds of love ...
Which one do u have....

Thers's the " If " kind of love ...
♡ If you do this i love you
♡ If you succeed i will love you
♡ If you come up to my expectations i love you

The " Because " kind of love
♡ I love u because you are intelligent
♡ I love you because you have money
♡ I love you because you are beautiful & you are handsome

And then there's the " Inspite of.." kind of love
♡ I love in spite of your failures
♡ I love you inspite of your misrable past
♡ I love you inspite of your weaknesses and your faults...
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Your circumstances don’t define your destiny, your response to them does. Meet pain with positivity, hate with kindness and fear with faith. Pray for those who wish to see you suffer. You can only control what energy you put out there – and this determines your future.
Never underestimate yourself when others fail to see your value.Your value doesn't decrease with criticism nor increase with praise.Be biased towards action and execution more than just reading or learning.Actual learning comes from experience, failure, and struggle.Books give you initial points, hands-on experience gives you valuable insights.
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A pretty face, body shape or height might be initially attractive, but they have nothing to do with commitment, respect, understanding, compatibility, evolution and love. They won’t even keep attraction in place – someone can easily appear undesirable through their actions.
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23. Spend Some Time Everyday To Thank Someone : Gratitude and peace go hand in hand. Do it as many times as you can. But at least 1st thing in the morning. This is an absolute must.
24. Smile at Strangers, Look into Their Eyes, and Say Hello: We generally have very little eye contact with strangers. Happy people are very warm towards strangers. Being the 1st one
to smile at strangers, looking into their eyes and saying hello, makes others feel respected, and they will generally feel nice and grateful. This brings in a profound feeling of inner
happiness.
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👉👉 20-22