You need to leave your comfort zone and live every day facing your worst nightmares to get what you want.

A gem cannot be polished without friction

Yet you run away from the challenges of life

That is your destiny trying to polish you.

Face it head-on.

With a humble heart and a smile on your face.

Self-control is a virtue you need to have if you want to be successful in anything. Many people are broke and poor because of a lack of self-control. You can give a broke man a million bucks and 99% of them will be broke again in 10 years. No self-control. No prudence.

Qualities in men that instantly earn them my respect:

- Keeps his word
- Prioritizes family
- Is solution-oriented
- Prioritizes his health
- Stands up for himself
- Doesn't put others down
- Fights back when needed
- Admits his fuck ups, is responsible.

Never lower your target, increase your actions.

Most family & friends don't actually want the best version of you,

They want the version of you that best serves them.

Losers sabotage themselves with victim mentality.

Don't be cheap when investing in yourself.

- Quality gym
- Quality food
- Quality books
- Quality clothes
- Quality coaches

Cheap investments mean cheap results.

If you don't want depression, modify your lifestyle:

- Quit porn.
- Journal daily.
- Prioritize sleep.
- Eat whole foods.
- Daily walks in nature.
- Ignore the news and politics.
- Resistance training 3-6x/week.

Pay the price now so you can pay any price later.

The best strategy to pick up a reading habit is:

Read What You Love Until You Love to Read.

Lower the bar to start.
Raise the bar once started.

“I’ll read one page,” to start. “I’ll finish the chapter,” once started.

“I’ll meditate one minute,” to start. “I’ll do five more,” once started.

The only real risk is taking no risks.

The only real failure is having no failures.

With the rate at which technologies are changing today,

If you decide that you are “done” learning, you will be left behind within a matter of years, if not sooner.

Never stop learning.

If you have no special talent;

- You wish you could be as creative as the influencers you see everyday.

- You struggle to define your purpose in life.

- You have big dreams but lack the creative spark to actualize them.

My advice;

- Pick a skill that is most aligned with your natural curiosity and interests.

- Practice for 2 hours everyday.

- Brand up on LinkedIn / Twitter.

- Post articles around your journey.

- Pitch yourself to potential employers every single day.


If you have too many talents;

- You are naturally good at a lot of things, which makes it hard to decide what to focus on.

- You’re constantly stressed by the pressure of too many choices.

- You can’t stick with one thing for too long.

My advice is;

- Accept and embrace your diversity.

- Keep experimenting until you find something you can’t do without.

- And stop judging yourself so hard. Trust your creative intuition.


Stay Inspired

If you are in your 20s & 30s:

- Take risks
- Learn how to sell
- Learn storytelling
- Build a great physique
- Learn high income skills
- Build multiple income streams

You'll thank yourself for the rest of your life.

If you want it, work for it.

Want to boost your confidence and achieve success?

Here's how to develop a winning mindset that will help you crush your goals!

1. Focus on your strengths, not your weaknesses:

A winning mindset involves recognizing and building on your strengths rather than dwelling on your weaknesses.

Focus on what you're good at, and find ways to leverage those strengths to achieve your goals.


2. Set clear, achievable goals and track your progress:

Goals help you stay focused and motivated, but they need to be specific and achievable.

Break them down into smaller steps and track your progress along the way to stay on track.


3. Embrace challenges and see them as opportunities to learn and grow:

Challenges can be intimidating, but they're also an opportunity to learn and develop new skills.

Embrace them as a chance to grow and push yourself beyond your comfort zone.


4. Develop a positive attitude and cultivate optimism:

A positive attitude and optimistic outlook can help you stay motivated and focused on your goals, even when things get tough.

Focus on the good in your life and look for ways to cultivate a positive mindset.


5. Visualize success and use affirmations to reinforce your mindset:

Visualization and affirmations are powerful tools for reinforcing a winning mindset.

Visualize yourself achieving your goals, and use affirmations to build confidence and self-belief.


6. Take responsibility for your actions and choices:

A winning mindset involves taking ownership of your actions and choices.

Don't blame others or external circumstances for your failures or setbacks.


7. Build resilience and learn from failure:

Failure is inevitable, but it's also an opportunity to learn and grow.

Develop resilience by bouncing back from setbacks and using them as a chance to learn and improve.


8. Stay focused on your goals and prioritize your time:

A winning mindset involves staying focused on your goals and prioritizing your time to achieve them.

Avoid distractions and stay focused on what's most important.


9. Surround yourself with supportive, positive people:

The people you surround yourself with can have a big impact on your mindset.

Surround yourself with positive, supportive people who encourage and motivate you.


10. Continuously learn and seek new opportunities for growth:

Finally, a winning mindset involves a commitment to continuous learning and growth.

Seek out new opportunities, challenge yourself, and keep pushing yourself to learn and improve.


And that's a wrap!

If you found this valuable, do share it with your friends and colleagues!