At your funeral, friends and family will argue over who gets your belongings.

People will talk about the food and the venue.

Your life will be summarized in 2-3 paragraphs.

Conversations will shift from your life to their lives.

Your friends will drive away thinking about what’s next on their to-do list.

Some people won't be able to make it because "something came up."

And most of the people you know today won’t even be there.

You’re gonna die.

People will move on (in weeks not years).

Do what you want.

Advice for young men:

Stop explaining your decisions.

You know what you're doing.

You don't need their approval.

Just demand respect.

You’re not behind. You’re just in a different season than the people you’re comparing yourself too.

If many like you, you become a celebrity.

If many trust you, you become an authority.

Your friends aren’t toxic. They haven’t changed.

You did.

You finally raised your standards.

You cannot wish for both a strong character and an easy life.

The price of each is the other

You teach people to treat you by what you let them get away with.

5 things destroy young men's lives:

• Porn

• Gambling

• Eating too much

• Uncontrolled lust and anger

• Unlimited access to dopamine (entertainment)

If you can avoid these 5 things, your chances of success go up 100x.

Winners always find a way.
Losers always find excuses.

Everyday your actions determine which one you'll become.

If you let anger consume you

If you let sadness break you

If you let lust distract you

You are not in control of your life.

And a man without control over his life is already dead.

Respect yourself enough to walk away from people who don't support, value or improve you in any way.

Rich people who appreciate their financial privilege the most used to be dirt poor.

Wealthy people who appreciate their freedom the most used to be running an endless, pointless race.

Healthy people who appreciate the gift of being alive the most once overcame a near-death experience or many diseases.

Calm people who nurture their peace of mind with the most self-discipline used to struggle with anger, anxiety, depression.

Loving people who treasure their family and friends the most know what it's like to feel alone and abandoned by all.

One of the biggest ironies in life is how most people can't appreciate what they have unless they have experienced the opposite first.

If you're bored, create something.

Anything.

Software. Designs. Photos. Videos. Writing. A business. A body. A relationship. A new way of thinking.

How can you not feel electric to wake up and have the ability to do whatever you want.

Always aim to get the most from the least

And what I mean by that is

Be efficient

If you can achieve the same outcome with two different quantities, the lower quantity is superior.

The law of diminishing returns and risk of overcorrection always applies.

Every rich person has lost money

Every smart person has felt dumb

Every creative person has struggled mentally

Every good person has felt guilty about who they were

It’s inevitable to sometimes feel inadequate, you just need the courage to pursue your vision and get better

Most men spend their lives chasing pleasure.

But real men?

They chase power.

Not power over others.

Power over themselves.

You can’t become who you want to be by staying the same.

Nothing changes if nothing changes.

“I don’t have confidence.”

Wrong.

You don’t have competence.

Confidence comes from action.