Key hallmark of a loser:

Lack of commitment.

A good way to guarantee mediocrity is to never stick to anything for an extended period of time.

Keep being a dabbler.

Keep quitting before any meaningful progress can be incurred. Get bored easily. Only do things that are fun.

Most people are MORE AFRAID of being a winner than they are of being a loser.

This sounds insane at first - until you realise:

Most people have low stress tolerances, and simply follow the path of least resistance.

If you’re a loser = nothing is expected of you.
If you’re a winner = there’s constant pressure to perform, keep it up, and maintain success

Rewire.

Deeper.

If they are a loser, while it might be a painful position to be in… they at least find profound comfort in being able to swim within their misery.

Because it’s fulfills a primal security need in the deepest parts of your brain: familiarity, and consistency of environment.

In many ways, the willingness to be a loser can also be a desire to be Peter Pan, never growing up, wishing they could be a kid forever and avoid responsibility indefinitely.

On the other hand, if you’re a winner….

Success is rarely private. It manifests outwardly. People notice. They treat you differently. It feels great. But now you have to keep this up in order to receive same treatment. What if you just got lucky? What if it was a one-off fluke and you can’t replicate your success?

The above hurdle is cleared only once you can prove to yourself that you didn’t get lucky. That the magic ingredient is YOU, and that you can replicate your success.

It’s surpassed only once you have attained FAITH IN YOURSELF, won through the repeated and consistent evidence of your talent, skill, and ability. Over and over again.

With that comes a well of extreme new-found confidence because you know in your heart:

“No matter what happens, the common denominator to my success is ME.”

Okay. So now you know you’ve got the sauce.
Then why do you still have an aversion toward success and being a winner?

I thought you fixed it?

Guess what.

There is no such thing as success without creating enemies. (Dramatic but very real in some cases)

If not through direct confrontation with competition… Deep down you know that by winning, you will arouse envy and jealousy in others.

And the truth of the matter is:

The BETTER you do, the harder you win, the more people will hate you.

Not just dislike. HATE.

There’s only ONE way to get over this hurdle: ACCEPT IT and stop wishing it was different.

Take it from me, there is *nothing* you can do to prevent this from happening

Stop putting hope in the illusion of

“If only I tread carefully, I will avoid this… it’s possible that EVERYONE can like me! I’ll just be very friendly!”

There has never been a more perfect man than JESUS CHRIST - and look at what they did to him.

You think you can do better?
No. It’s not happening. Period.

You must come to the understanding that most people are deeply insecure to the core.

You, doing nothing more than existing and SHINING BRIGHT, will trigger them - as you remind them of their deficiencies.

People don’t actually hate *you*

It’s not like you DID something to them, you committed no transgression.

Instead:

You shining, reflects a mirror back at their unfulfilled potential. THEN they backwards rationalise to justify their anguish.

This is a little fight going on their own head, battling against their psyche.

Endlessly frustrated as to why they are cursed with the inability to channel their willpower and creativity as you have done.

It’s neurosis.

NO DIFFERENT to when homeless ppl yell at u when walking.

You have no idea how many people (unconsciously) SUPRESS their own firepower in FEAR of outshining others.

Unequivocally: success paints a giant target on your back.

It may seem daunting at first.
BUT YOU GET USED TO IT.

Re-interpret: it’s a sign you’re headed in right direction.

IN SUMMARY:

- MASTER CONSISTENCY
- REALISE YOU ARE THE COMMON DENOMINATOR
- UNDERSTAND YOU ARE THE MAGIC INGREDIENT TO YOUR SUCCESS
- CEASE SUPPRESSING YOUR LIGHT

Decide yourself a star, behave like a star, practice being a star every day.

Namaste.

You can INSTANTLY shed yourself of past, negative, and limiting, behaviours, by changing the language and labels around them.

Understand that what you THINK is your default… is actually just a habit well practiced.

Let me explain:

Imagine somebody considers themselves to be shy. How do they describe it?

“I’m a naturally shy person.”

Believing this, and framing it like that, FUCKS them from changing out of it.

Because any effort they make towards NOT becoming shy, is—by their own parameters: UNNATURAL behaviour.

This means that, subconsciously, they are fighting against their own true nature.

FUCK THAT.
IMAGINE IF THEY TRIED THIS INSTEAD:

“In the past, I’ve habitually chosen to be shy.”

This is much better because,
1 - it’s already framing future success by describing the behaviour as “in the past”
2 - it’s shifted ‘NATURAL’ to ‘HABITUAL’
3 - it accepts responsibility by acknowledging the element of free will in the equation. That is not some curse. But a CHOICE they have repeatedly decided to make.

You are NOT “NATURALLY x y and z”
You have simply made it HABITUAL.

AND YOU CAN CHANGE YOUR HABITS.

Just through language alone, we separated the issue from being one of CORE IDENTITY into being one of HABITUAL BEHAVIOUR.

As humans, there is no single greater mover of behaviour than IDENTITY - be ultra careful what you identify with.

Be extra careful in the WORDS you use to describe yourself. WORDS is an anagram for SWORD. Don’t cut yourself on them.

Namaste.

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Yesterday I was asked in the Q&A:
“How does one let go of insecurity?”

The answer is in the question:

Let go.

The presupposition here is that you are actively holding onto that insecurity.

Release your grip on it.

Insecurity is the perception of not being good enough.

Insecurity is believing that you fall short of making the mark.

You can let go of that perception by coming to the realisation that the entire thing is built on an arbitrary criteria that you have either:
- invented yourself
OR
- accepted from somebody else.

If you want to let go of that insecurity?

You can discard that now.
Release it.

And you’ll laugh later - when you realise that, this whole time… Nobody else cared but you.

What becoming more intelligent *actually* looks like:

- Bringing down inflammation in the brain
- Stimulating NGF (Nerve Growth Factor)
- Increasing BDNF (Brain-Derived Neurotropic Factor)
- Improving myelination
- Improving your gut health

You CAN increase your intelligence.

You grossly overestimate the intellect and mental processing power of the average person.

Most people’s brains simply DO NOT WORK.

They should walk around with an “OUT OF ORDER” sign on their forehead.

Not a joke.
Their gray matter is of low functioning capacity.

Everything is a muscle. It grows stronger with use, and weaker with neglect.

Your brain is fucked.
Here’s the fix:

- Less drugs.
- Less processed food.
- More organic produce.
- More cell hydrating water.
- Less music.
- Less mindless scrolling.
- More fasting.
- More meditation.
- More going for walks without your phone.

.Just do that. Unfuck your brain. High functioning brain = balancing act of dopamine, GABA, serotonin and acetylcholine.

And then all you have to do is take those walks.

Genius thoughts and ideas will simply come to you. They are always floating about the ether.

But only land on minds whose environment is fertile enough to beckon their arrival.

Do you understand?

Make the commitment to follow this list.

I guarantee that not only will your brain work better, but also you’ll notice that negativity plagues you less, and even joy enters you naturally, with very little effort, as you can now allow it to become your default state easily.

3 BIGGEST SIGNS YOU’RE ABOUT TO ENTER A HUGE COSMIC LEVEL UP AND BE FLUNG INTO A GREATER REALITY:

1. Synchronicities so impossible they make your head spin. Intense and frequent.

2. Things malfunctioning in an extremely chance and obnoxious way. Things that are usually never a problem start failing.

3. Latency between thoughts and thing—drops radically. You think things, and then people say them/they manifest right in front of you. Conversations become readily predictable.

Every single time you resolve to do something,

And then actually follow through on it…

Your brain’s ability to execute, gets stronger. The inverse is also true. Keep bullshitting yourself and brain starts to rot.

You possess infinite mental power.
Act like it.

Many of the things you currently THINK are impressive…

Would instantly stop being impressive if you saw just how much work went into them.

You can produce the illusion of magic through sheer work ethic alone.

The true alchemist does not turn lead into gold.

The true alchemist transforms himself.

Do you understand?

The successful man is he who is living a life of design; who turned and continues to turn — his thoughts into reality.

Mental movies are instructions to the subconscious.

See yourself (literally watch the movie of) getting stronger, smarter, bolder, more effective, etc

Because doing so
is instructing so.

SEEING is BELIEVING.

Life hack: read the biographies and autobiographies of Great men.

There have existed people so influential that, in the short duration of a single lifetime, they not only changed the lives of their families and communities, but changed entire countries, sometimes even the whole world, and in a handful of exceptional cases… they single handedly changed the entire future of mankind.

And through these works—readily accessible to you TODAY… you can mentally insert yourself into their lives as if you were a ghost. Absorbing every detail.

Imagine NOT doing this.

Imagine having shit like ‘social anxiety’ when people like Teddy Roosevelt and Julius Caesar existed. When you can zoom out far enough to consider the size of the spirit men like these carried… I guarantee you feel like a pussy when you compare it to your own. Good. Be inspired.

Common trait of hyper successful people?
When opportunity knocks, they rush to open the door quickly. When their gut says yes? Little hesitation. Fast decision.

We all know what that feeling is like.

The question is:

When opportunity invites you to take that risk, will you step up to the plate and risk failure, humiliation, embarrassment?
Or will you continue to stay within the cozy confines of your comfort zone?

Don’t play dumb.

An always sorely needed reminder:
Listen to your intuition.
Especially when it seems unusual.

You never know what you’re picking up on—nor how crucial it is that you do.

‘Inspiration’ is literally the act of breathing in.
Respiration - inspiration.

What sources of energy are you connecting with?
What are you breathing in? Life or death?