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Basic Fucking Kindness
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self compassion, socialization

"its easy to always want to show up for eveyone else
but its really important to show up for yourself as well"
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invisible problems, socialization, animals

"it costs you literally nothing to leave service dogs the fuck alone"
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body, chronic illness, invisible problems

"abled people: can you do the thing??

disabled people: ...technically yes BUT"
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lgbt, binding, body, invisible problems, chronic illness, socialization

"no offense but can ya'll like also normalize trans guys that DONT bind. like there's guys who dont want to, choose not to because of the risks, and guys who CANT because of medical reasons. not every trans dude is wearing a binder 24/7 and some dont ever"
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society, discrimination, minorities, socialization, mental health

"wow living as a person with a yellow head sure is cool

kill yourself' you're yellow
since i am human, my mental state worsens due to abuse

5 months later
see, this study says that people with yellow heads are more likely to be depressed. that means its inherent to them being yellow. we should bleach their heads even if it meant death for them

i've never seen a person with a yellow head so i will agree"
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mental illness, society, socialization, discrimination, neurodivergendy, schizophrenia

"dont armchair diagnose mass shooters and other killers. the misconception that all violent people must be mentally ill (and the following conclusion that all mentally ill people must be dangerous) has horrible real life consequences for visibly mentally ill people
[...]
please consider the real life consequences of reinforcing the association between mental illness and violence"
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resources

"i need a paper"

#pending_trannoscription
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art, crafts

how to make a bead lizard
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invisible problems

"so grief is like this

there is a box with a ball in it, and a pain button

in the beggining, the ball is huge. you cant move the box without the ball hitting the pain button. it rattles around on its own and in there and hits the button over and over. you cant control it - it just keeps hurting. sometimes it seems unrelenting

over time, the ball gets smaller. it hits the button less and less but when it does, it hurts just as much. its better because you can function day to day more easily. but the downside is that the ball randomly hits that button when you least expect it

for most people, the ball never really goes away. it might hit less and less and you have more time to recover between hits, unlike when the ball was still giant"
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relationships, boundaries, socialization

"your partner is allowed to have meaningful relationships with other people

your partner is allowed to get things from those relationships they dont get from you

demanding you being the only source of pleasure and support in their life is possesive and toxic"
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body, minorities

"this is the first time i've seen color tattoos on dark skin that actually look vibrant and pigmented
[...]
dark skin accepts greens, yellows, and white beautifully"
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body, society

"every time i hate my body, i remember that there are millions of old rich white men who benefit from my self hatred"
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socialization, boundaries, mental health

"maybe i dont have to be so though
maybe i can be vulnerable sometimes"
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lgbt, discrimination, socialization

" "but the children will be confused!"

i actually would have been a lot less confused if someone had just told me"
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self compassion, mental health

"if courage isnt the absence of fear but doing the right thing regardless of it, maybe confidence isnt the absence of insecurity but knowing you have real worth despite it"
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socialization, discrimination

"i hate that when the discussion turns to helping people, there's always someone who takes the most ungenerous, contemptible stand towards others.

if by helping legitimately needy people, i accidentally help some lazy people, so what? how is that worse than helping no one?"
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lgbt, socialization, minorities

" "we can agree to disagree on trans issues"
No, we really cant

because disagreeing with the validity of someone's identity - and the rights and services they deserve or dont deserve because of it - is discrimination, not disagreement"
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