The pain of separation isn't one we can imagine or try to understand how it feels.
The pain which it causes, be it if the loved one is imprisoned or dead or lost in the dunya, these are things which have an impact upon the heart and mind of anyone close to this person.

Especially the one's who are imprisoned, they seem so close yet so far. Prison may only be hour from home yet they are years away from stepping into the comfort of home, years away from seeing the mother of their kids, years away of seeing the children he has left behind. This has a big big psychological effect on the prisoner and the family. No need to deny this, this isn't to do with low emaan. Imagine losing your father, husband, son for years and years, the bread winner of the house, security of the house, the one who fixes whatever is broken or needed mending.

When you see children of an aseer regardless the age you see the pain in their eyes.

The psychological torment these families going through is something we can never understand.

Something I've always said is do whatever one can to put a smile or ease the affairs of the aseer and their families, always check up on them a simple msg will do, a phone call, simply asking if they need anything could change alot for some of these Muslims.

Support the Muslims so that Allaah will support you and ease your struggles in this dunya.

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Live With Women Honorably

Allah said,
وَعَاشِرُوهُنَّ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ

(And live with them honorably), by saying kind words to them, treating them kindly and making your appearance appealing for them, as much as you can, just as you like the same from them. Allah said in another Ayah,

وَلَهُنَّ مِثْلُ الَّذِي عَلَيْهِنَّ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ

(And they have rights similar over them to what is reasonable) [2:228]. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said,

خَيْرُكُمْ خَيْرُكُمْ لِأَهْلِهِ، وَأَنَا خَيْرُكُمْ لِأَهْلِي

(The best among you is he who is the best with his family. Verily, I am the best one among you with my family.)

It was the practice of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ to be kind, cheerful, playful with his wives, compassionate, spending on them and laughing with them. The Messenger ﷺ used to race with 'A'ishah, the Mother of the Faithful, as a means of kindness to her. 'A'ishah said, "The Messenger of Allah ﷺ raced with me and I won the race. This occurred before I gained weight, and afterwards I raced with him again, and he won that race. He said,

هذِهِ بِتِلْكَ

(This [victory] is for that [victory].)" When the Prophet ﷺ was at the home of one of his wives, sometimes all of his wives would meet there and eat together, and they would then go back to their homes. He and his wife would sleep in the same bed, he would remove his upper garment, sleeping in only his lower garment. The Prophet ﷺ used to talk to the wife whose night it was, after praying 'Isha' and before he went to sleep. Allah said,

لَّقَدْ كَانَ لَكُمْ فِي رَسُولِ اللَّهِ أُسْوَةٌ حَسَنَةٌ

(Indeed in the Messenger of Allah you have a good example to follow) [33:21]. Allah said,

فَإِن كَرِهْتُمُوهُنَّ فَعَسَىٰ أَن تَكْرَهُوا شَيْئًا وَيَجْعَلَ اللَّهُ فِيهِ خَيْرًا كَثِيرًا

(If you dislike them, it may be that you dislike a thing and Allah brings through it a great deal of good.)

Allah says that your patience, which is demonstrated by keeping wives whom you dislike, carries good rewards for you in this life and the Hereafter. Ibn 'Abbas commented on this Ayah, "That the husband may feel compassion towards his wife and Allah gives him a child with her, and this child carries tremendous goodness." An authentic Hadith states,

لَا يَفْرَكْ مُؤْمِنٌ مُؤْمِنَةً، إِنْ سَخِطَ مِنْهَا خُلُقًا، رَضِيَ مِنْهَا آخَرَ

(No believing man should hate his believing wife. If he dislikes a part of her conduct, he would surely like another.)

[Tafseer Ibn Katheer]

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It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah (رضي الله عنه) that the Prophet (صلى الله عليه وسلم) said: “There are seven whom Allāh will shade with His shade on the Day when there will be no shade but His…” among whom he mentioned, “a young man who grew up worshipping Allāh.”
[Bukhaari, Muslim]

Ibn Rajab al-Hanbali (رحمه الله) said:

Whoever is mindful of Allāh when he is young & strong, Allāh will take care of him when he is old & has become weak, & will bless him with good hearing, eyesight, strength & reasoning. One of the scholars who lived beyond the age of one hundred years & enjoyed good strength & reasoning, jumped up in a lively manner one day & was asked about that. He said: “I kept these physical faculties from sin when I was young & Allāh has preserved them for me now that I am old.” The opposite also applies; one of the salaf saw an old man begging from people and said: “This is a weak man who ignored Allāh when he was young, so Allāh is ignoring him now he has grown old.”

[Jaami 'Uloom Wal Hikam]

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⬆️ Very important reminder from the Shaykh (حفظه الله) that many brothers are negligent of and pay no heed to.

In the story of the Ifk (slander) of A'isha (رضي الله عنها), the Sahabi who found her in the desert, Safwan ibn Mu'attal (رضي الله عنه), refrained from speaking a word to her while being in private with her, out of fear of Allah and respect to the honor of Prophet ﷺ. Instead, he alerted her to his coming with words of Dhikr only, because she was The Prophet's ﷺ wife and he had no right to be speaking to another mans wife.

Today you have Muslim brothers who, aside from lacking fear of Allah, they have no respect to the honor of their brothers in Islam, and will willingly and knowingly message their sisters, daughters, and wives, seeking to exchange words with them in private. Fear Allah and respect the honor of your brothers in Islam.

"One of the hardest things for a truly honorable man or honorable woman is for someone to come and talk about his wife. That's the hardest thing. You could kill someone, or kill his brother....you could get over that, but talking about a man's honor is one of the hardest things he goes through. This is a lesson for us. This is a lesson for the Du'aat. When The Prophet—and HE, who is He ﷺ— and HIS honor gets talked about, who are you?"

— Shaykh Ahmad Musa Jibril حفظه الله

"She [Maryam عليها السلام] went through agony, this woman, a woman by herself, no relatives, she had no one except Allah. She went through the agony of everyone accusing her honor. The biggest thing that anyone could do to a woman, a pious woman is accuse her honor. You could kill all her relatives, you could probably kill her. But a pious woman, the hardest thing on her is to hear of someone talking about her honor."

— Shaykh Ahmad Musa Jibril حفظه الله