And be good to Parents (17:23)

Teaching children the Halaal and Haraam at young age

Narrated Abu Huraira:

Al-Hasan bin `Ali took a date from the dates given in charity and put it in his mouth. The Prophet (ﷺ) said,

"Expel it from your mouth.

Don't you know that we do not eat a thing which is given in charity?" [al-Bukhari 1491]

Don't harm your child by excessive pampering...

🔷𝐁𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐮𝐩 𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐥𝐝𝐫𝐞𝐧 𝐮𝐩𝐨𝐧 𝐩𝐢𝐞𝐭𝐲🔷

You can choose your husband but your kids can't choose their father. So choose a good husband and an even greater father for your future kids 🫀

"𝗠𝗼𝗻𝗲𝘆 𝗗𝗼𝗲𝘀𝗻’𝘁 𝗠𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗮 𝗚𝗼𝗼𝗱 𝗙𝗮𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿"

Being a father isn’t just about writing checks or paying bills; it’s about showing up, being present, and living with integrity. Providing financially is important, but it doesn’t erase the damage caused by lies, infidelity, and broken trust.

Your children need more than a provider; they need a role model. They watch how you treat their mother, how you handle responsibility, and how you uphold your promises. If you’re unfaithful, you’re teaching them that loyalty and respect are optional. Is that the legacy you want to leave?

A man who cheats on his family doesn’t just betray his partner... he betrays the stability and security his children deserve. No amount of money can heal the emotional scars left behind. Financial support without moral integrity is empty. It keeps the lights on but dims the light in your family’s hearts.

Being a good father means more than providing material things. It means setting an example of honesty, loyalty, and love. It’s about building a foundation your children can stand on.... one that won’t crumble under the weight of betrayal.

Don’t just provide for your family. Protect it. Honor it. Be the man your children deserve to look up to. Because at the end of the day, your character is worth more than your paycheck.

CHILDREN SNEEZING

When your Child sneezes you do not respond with (yarhamuk Allah), rather make Du’a for barakah upon the child … like ‘BarakAllahu feek’

[Shaykh al-Fawzān حفظه الله, Sharh Mandhoomah al-Ādāb ash-Shar'iyyah 280]

A Crucial Message to Sons Who Prioritise Their Wives Over Their Mothers and Wives Who Turn Their Husbands Against Their Mothers:

As You Deal, So Shall You Be Dealt With

Shaykh Aziz Farhan Al-Anizi حفظه الله

If you didn't come from a righteous family,

Strive to make a righteous family come from you..

End the bid'ah and Kufr in your lineage.

Children are blessing and gift from Allah, both girl and boy!. Treat them both with justice.

💠What to do when:
➡️ You are jobless/laid-off?
➡️ You are single/divorced/widowed?
➡️ You are homeless or cannot afford the rent?

⏩ Say what Moosaa عليه السلام had said:

رَبِّ إِنِّي لِمَا أَنزَلْتَ إِلَيَّ مِنْ خَيْرٍ فَقِيرٌ

{My Lord! Truly, I am in need of whatever good that You bestow on me}
📚 [Surah al-Qasas (28): 24]

⚡For Allaah جل وعلا then provided him with a job (shepherd), a wife, and a place to stay.

الحمد لله الذي بنعمته تتم الصالحات
🌴Praise is for Allaah (Alone) by Whose grace good deeds are completed

Abū Ḥakīm:

The Salaf would send their children to accompany the best of people - the people of knowledge.

[2017 - Cardiff Conference]
https://twitter.com/_MuSunnah/status/934550705817489409

Be kind and obedient to Ur mother if she's alive...if she has passed away then make dua and give charity on her behalf...

If ur a parent, always make dua FOR ur children, never curse them or make dua against them.

They dont want children should take tension.

“𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗶𝗿 𝗳𝗮𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝘄𝗮𝘀 𝗮 𝗿𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁𝗲𝗼𝘂𝘀 𝗺𝗮𝗻.” (Qur’an 18:82).
وكان أبوهما صالحا