You can choose your husband but your kids can't choose their father. So choose a good husband and an even greater father for your future kids 🫀

"𝗠𝗼𝗻𝗲𝘆 𝗗𝗼𝗲𝘀𝗻’𝘁 𝗠𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗮 𝗚𝗼𝗼𝗱 𝗙𝗮𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿"

Being a father isn’t just about writing checks or paying bills; it’s about showing up, being present, and living with integrity. Providing financially is important, but it doesn’t erase the damage caused by lies, infidelity, and broken trust.

Your children need more than a provider; they need a role model. They watch how you treat their mother, how you handle responsibility, and how you uphold your promises. If you’re unfaithful, you’re teaching them that loyalty and respect are optional. Is that the legacy you want to leave?

A man who cheats on his family doesn’t just betray his partner... he betrays the stability and security his children deserve. No amount of money can heal the emotional scars left behind. Financial support without moral integrity is empty. It keeps the lights on but dims the light in your family’s hearts.

Being a good father means more than providing material things. It means setting an example of honesty, loyalty, and love. It’s about building a foundation your children can stand on.... one that won’t crumble under the weight of betrayal.

Don’t just provide for your family. Protect it. Honor it. Be the man your children deserve to look up to. Because at the end of the day, your character is worth more than your paycheck.

CHILDREN SNEEZING

When your Child sneezes you do not respond with (yarhamuk Allah), rather make Du’a for barakah upon the child … like ‘BarakAllahu feek’

[Shaykh al-Fawzān حفظه الله, Sharh Mandhoomah al-Ādāb ash-Shar'iyyah 280]

A Crucial Message to Sons Who Prioritise Their Wives Over Their Mothers and Wives Who Turn Their Husbands Against Their Mothers:

As You Deal, So Shall You Be Dealt With

Shaykh Aziz Farhan Al-Anizi حفظه الله

If you didn't come from a righteous family,

Strive to make a righteous family come from you..

End the bid'ah and Kufr in your lineage.

Children are blessing and gift from Allah, both girl and boy!. Treat them both with justice.

💠What to do when:
➡️ You are jobless/laid-off?
➡️ You are single/divorced/widowed?
➡️ You are homeless or cannot afford the rent?

⏩ Say what Moosaa عليه السلام had said:

رَبِّ إِنِّي لِمَا أَنزَلْتَ إِلَيَّ مِنْ خَيْرٍ فَقِيرٌ

{My Lord! Truly, I am in need of whatever good that You bestow on me}
📚 [Surah al-Qasas (28): 24]

⚡For Allaah جل وعلا then provided him with a job (shepherd), a wife, and a place to stay.

الحمد لله الذي بنعمته تتم الصالحات
🌴Praise is for Allaah (Alone) by Whose grace good deeds are completed

Abū Ḥakīm:

The Salaf would send their children to accompany the best of people - the people of knowledge.

[2017 - Cardiff Conference]
https://twitter.com/_MuSunnah/status/934550705817489409

Be kind and obedient to Ur mother if she's alive...if she has passed away then make dua and give charity on her behalf...

If ur a parent, always make dua FOR ur children, never curse them or make dua against them.

They dont want children should take tension.

“𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗶𝗿 𝗳𝗮𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝘄𝗮𝘀 𝗮 𝗿𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁𝗲𝗼𝘂𝘀 𝗺𝗮𝗻.” (Qur’an 18:82).
وكان أبوهما صالحا

A beautiful response from a kid for not celebrating birthdays. Teach ur kids to not celebrate Birthdays or or to attend birthday parties or even to say 'Happy Birthday' simply because our Prophet (ﷺ) didnt celebrate any birthdays. Gifts can be given anytime to your children not just on Eid, cakes can be bought or made any time, we don't need the excuse of a Satanist holiday to celebrate. Alhamdulillah for the simplicity of Islaam. May Allah guide our kids to follow Sunnah not to imitate non Muslims.

Sh Ibn Uthaymeen said:
لِتَعْلَم المرأة أنَّ ما يُصيبُها مِن أذًى وأَلَم فِي حال الحمل أو عند الوضع أو في الحضانة بعد ذلك فإنما هو رِفْعَةٌ في درجاتها وكفَّارة لسيئاتِها إذا احْتسَبَتْ هذا على الله سبحانه وتعالى
"𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝘂𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗽𝗮𝗶𝗻 𝗮 𝗺𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗲𝘅𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲𝘀 𝗱𝘂𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗽𝗿𝗲𝗴𝗻𝗮𝗻𝗰𝘆, 𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗹𝗱𝗯𝗶𝗿𝘁𝗵, 𝗼𝗿 𝗿𝗮𝗶𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮 𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗹𝗱 𝗶𝘀 𝗮𝗻 𝗲𝗹𝗲𝘃𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗶𝗻 𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗿𝗮𝗻𝗸 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗮𝗻 𝗲𝘅𝗽𝗶𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗼𝗳 𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝘀𝗶𝗻𝘀 𝗶𝗳 𝘀𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝗲𝗲𝗸𝘀 𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗿𝗲𝘄𝗮𝗿𝗱 𝗳𝗿𝗼𝗺 𝗚𝗼𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗿𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵 𝗶𝘁."
(فتاوى نور على الدرب ج11ص280).

🌷𝐏𝐫𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬, 𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬 𝐝𝐚𝐮𝐠𝐡𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐬🌷

𝕊𝕠𝕦𝕣𝕔𝕖: https://tasfiyah.com/precious-precious-daughters/

Schools are no longer about learning, but about passing.

Because we have made job requirements based on academic achievements but not actual skill.