If ur a parent, always make dua FOR ur children, never curse them or make dua against them.

They dont want children should take tension.

“𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗶𝗿 𝗳𝗮𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝘄𝗮𝘀 𝗮 𝗿𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁𝗲𝗼𝘂𝘀 𝗺𝗮𝗻.” (Qur’an 18:82).
وكان أبوهما صالحا

A beautiful response from a kid for not celebrating birthdays. Teach ur kids to not celebrate Birthdays or or to attend birthday parties or even to say 'Happy Birthday' simply because our Prophet (ﷺ) didnt celebrate any birthdays. Gifts can be given anytime to your children not just on Eid, cakes can be bought or made any time, we don't need the excuse of a Satanist holiday to celebrate. Alhamdulillah for the simplicity of Islaam. May Allah guide our kids to follow Sunnah not to imitate non Muslims.

Sh Ibn Uthaymeen said:
لِتَعْلَم المرأة أنَّ ما يُصيبُها مِن أذًى وأَلَم فِي حال الحمل أو عند الوضع أو في الحضانة بعد ذلك فإنما هو رِفْعَةٌ في درجاتها وكفَّارة لسيئاتِها إذا احْتسَبَتْ هذا على الله سبحانه وتعالى
"𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝘂𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗽𝗮𝗶𝗻 𝗮 𝗺𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗲𝘅𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲𝘀 𝗱𝘂𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗽𝗿𝗲𝗴𝗻𝗮𝗻𝗰𝘆, 𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗹𝗱𝗯𝗶𝗿𝘁𝗵, 𝗼𝗿 𝗿𝗮𝗶𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮 𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗹𝗱 𝗶𝘀 𝗮𝗻 𝗲𝗹𝗲𝘃𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗶𝗻 𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗿𝗮𝗻𝗸 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗮𝗻 𝗲𝘅𝗽𝗶𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗼𝗳 𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝘀𝗶𝗻𝘀 𝗶𝗳 𝘀𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝗲𝗲𝗸𝘀 𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗿𝗲𝘄𝗮𝗿𝗱 𝗳𝗿𝗼𝗺 𝗚𝗼𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗿𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵 𝗶𝘁."
(فتاوى نور على الدرب ج11ص280).

🌷𝐏𝐫𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬, 𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬 𝐝𝐚𝐮𝐠𝐡𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐬🌷

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Schools are no longer about learning, but about passing.

Because we have made job requirements based on academic achievements but not actual skill.

Be careful with your words towards your parents!💔

Direct ur children to memorising Qur'aan make Qur'aan a part of their daily routine

We have Muslims having weddings, birthday/born-day parties, tight clothes, Islamic rap/music (???), comedians, runways, baby showers,voting, protests, etc! The Prophet spoke the truth!

“Allah's Messenger (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) said: 'You will indeed follow the ways of those before you, hand span by hand span, and an arms length after another. Even if they enter into a lizard’s hole, you will follow them.’ We (the Sahaba) asked, ‘Is it the Jews and the Christians?’ He replied, ‘Who else!’”
[Bukhari]
#reality

Single parenting produces damaged children for the society. Damaged children don't have what it takes to survive in a marriage which leads to divorce.

And the cycle continues.

We live in a society where kids are woken up for Schools byt not for Fajr..

Abu Huraira reported: A man asked the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, “Who is most deserving of my good company?” The Prophet said, “Your mother.” The man asked, “Then who?” The Prophet said “Your mother.” The man asked again, “Then who?” The Prophet said, “Your mother.” The man asked again, “Then who?” The Prophet said, “Your father.”

Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 5971, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2548

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

No one knows a man's mental and emotional being like his mother because she witnessed his evolution from boyhood into Manhood like no other. Women come and go, a mother is there the duration of a sons life through his successes and failures.

At age 4: My dad is the best.
At age 6: My dad knows everyone.
At age 10: My dad is great, but he can be a bit strict.
At age 12: My dad was nice when I was younger.
At age 14: My dad is starting to become very sensitive.
At age 16: My dad just doesn’t understand the modern world.
At age 18: My dad seems to get more strict with each passing day.
At age 20: It’s really hard to forgive my dad; I wonder how my mom managed to put up with him.
At age 25: My dad disagrees with everything.
At age 30: It’s very difficult to agree with my dad. I wonder if my grandfather ever got tired of him when he was young.
At age 35: My dad raised me with many rules, and I must do the same with my children.
At age 40: I’m puzzled about how my dad managed to raise all of us.
At age 45: It’s tough to control my children; how much effort did my dad put into raising us and keeping us safe?
At age 50: My dad had a long-term vision and planned many things for us. He was special and kind; he is the best!!

All of the above took 50 years to complete a full cycle, returning to the starting point at age 4: "My dad is the best."

For those whose fathers are alive, treat them well before it's too late, and for those whose fathers have passed away, pray to Allah to forgive and have mercy on them.

And we pray that our children treat us better than we treated our parents!

Mother's and Father's voice at home is biggest blessings. 🫀