Parents & Children The Harmonious Relationship By Abu Fudayl
Abu Fuḍayl ‘Abdur Raqīb
💌Parents & Children The Harmonious Relationship.
🎙️Abu Fuḍayl ‘Abdur Raqīb
Some points:
▫️Allāh’s advice to the believers regarding their families.
▪️Establishing a harmonious relationship between parents and their offspring.
▫️Commanding our children with the prayer and the fear of Allāh.
▪️A warning against being liberal-minded parents who do not nurture their children correctly.
▫️Cultivating our children so they are a benefit to us in the hereafter.
▪️Examples of the relationship between fathers and sons mentioned in the Qur’ān.
▫️The advice of Luqmān عليه السلام to his son.
▪️The status and rights of the parents.
▫️The reason Allāh singles out the mother.
▪️Difficulties endured by the mother out of love for her child.
▫️Caution against being disrespectful to our parents and not fulfilling their rights.
▪️The obligation of being dutiful to our parents, even if they are disbelievers, are not good to us, or try to turn us away from Allāh.
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🎙️Abu Fuḍayl ‘Abdur Raqīb
Some points:
▫️Allāh’s advice to the believers regarding their families.
▪️Establishing a harmonious relationship between parents and their offspring.
▫️Commanding our children with the prayer and the fear of Allāh.
▪️A warning against being liberal-minded parents who do not nurture their children correctly.
▫️Cultivating our children so they are a benefit to us in the hereafter.
▪️Examples of the relationship between fathers and sons mentioned in the Qur’ān.
▫️The advice of Luqmān عليه السلام to his son.
▪️The status and rights of the parents.
▫️The reason Allāh singles out the mother.
▪️Difficulties endured by the mother out of love for her child.
▫️Caution against being disrespectful to our parents and not fulfilling their rights.
▪️The obligation of being dutiful to our parents, even if they are disbelievers, are not good to us, or try to turn us away from Allāh.
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In his tafsir of surah Yusuf, Imam al-Baghawi mentions the reunion of Yusuf and his father Ya'qub and includes the following narration:
[ وقال الثوري : لما التقى يعقوب ويوسف عليهما السلام عانق كل واحد منهما صاحبه وبكيا ، فقال [ ص: 278 ] يوسف : يا أبت بكيت حتى ذهب بصرك ، ألم تعلم أن القيامة تجمعنا قال : بلى يا بني ، ولكن خشيت أن تسلب دينك فيحال بيني وبينك .]
Sufyan al-Thawri said: When Ya'qub and Yusuf reunited, they both embraced one another and cried.
Yusuf said, "O father, you wept until your vision left you - don't you know that the resurrection would reunite us?"
Ya'qub replied, "Of course, dear son, but I was afraid that your religion would be taken away from you, putting a barrier between me and you!"
[Tafsir al-Baghawi 4/278-279]
[ وقال الثوري : لما التقى يعقوب ويوسف عليهما السلام عانق كل واحد منهما صاحبه وبكيا ، فقال [ ص: 278 ] يوسف : يا أبت بكيت حتى ذهب بصرك ، ألم تعلم أن القيامة تجمعنا قال : بلى يا بني ، ولكن خشيت أن تسلب دينك فيحال بيني وبينك .]
Sufyan al-Thawri said: When Ya'qub and Yusuf reunited, they both embraced one another and cried.
Yusuf said, "O father, you wept until your vision left you - don't you know that the resurrection would reunite us?"
Ya'qub replied, "Of course, dear son, but I was afraid that your religion would be taken away from you, putting a barrier between me and you!"
[Tafsir al-Baghawi 4/278-279]
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Subhan’Allah
The scientifically proven sunnah of Prophet Hazrat Muhammad PBUH, the sunnah of Tahnik, has also been proven by science to prevent brain damage in newborns.
Prophet Muhammad PBUH made Tahnik a mandatory sunnah for newborns. Tahnik is the process of putting a piece of date in your mouth until it gets soft and then rubbing it onto the upper part of the mouth of the newborn.
After 1,400 years, Science proves Tahnik Sunnah Prevents Brain Damage in NewBorns. Experts say that a dose of sugar given as a gel to babies is rubbed inside the cheek of premature babies to protect them in an effective and cheap way to provide protection against brain damage.
The scientifically proven sunnah of Prophet Hazrat Muhammad PBUH, the sunnah of Tahnik, has also been proven by science to prevent brain damage in newborns.
Prophet Muhammad PBUH made Tahnik a mandatory sunnah for newborns. Tahnik is the process of putting a piece of date in your mouth until it gets soft and then rubbing it onto the upper part of the mouth of the newborn.
After 1,400 years, Science proves Tahnik Sunnah Prevents Brain Damage in NewBorns. Experts say that a dose of sugar given as a gel to babies is rubbed inside the cheek of premature babies to protect them in an effective and cheap way to provide protection against brain damage.
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"أول مشروع ناجح تُقدّمه النساء لأطفالها هو أب جيّد."
"The first successful initiative that women offer to their children is a good father."
"The first successful initiative that women offer to their children is a good father."
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Forwarded from Jannah is Our Dream
The-Noble-Quran-Word-for-Word-color-Vol.-1-Juz-1-10.pdf
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The Gift of Their Presence is Temporary: Show Them Love & Honour Before It’s Gone
Our parents are a gift from Allāh, and their love and sacrifices are beyond measure. The Qur'ān commands us to honour them, especially in their old age, and to treat them with the utmost respect, love and kindness. Allāh says:
"And We have enjoined on man [to be dutiful and good] to his parents. His mother bore him in weakness and hardship upon weakness and hardship, and his weaning is in two years, give thanks to Me and to your parents, unto Me is the final destination." Sūrah Luqmān: 14
Never forget them:
❖ A mother's love begins long before we are born—she carries us in her heart and in her womb, enduring every hardship with grace, all for the child she has yet to meet.
❖ A father's love is a quiet strength that shapes our lives, guiding us with wisdom, protecting us with unwavering support, and inspiring us with sacrifices we may never fully understand or see.
Action plan to start TODAY:
❖ Spend quality time with them. Make time in your day to be with your parents, whether it's through conversation, helping with daily tasks, or simply being present.
❖ Never harm them with your words, actions or silence.
❖ Speak to them with kindness. Always address your parents with respect, patience, and love.
❖ Always pray for them. Regularly make Du'a' for your parents, asking Allāh to grant them good health, happiness, and ease.
"A parents love is like a shield that protects us from life's storms, offering warmth, strength, and refuge when the world feels cold and uncertain."
May Allāh bless our parents and grant us the strength to honour them always. Amīn.
Our parents are a gift from Allāh, and their love and sacrifices are beyond measure. The Qur'ān commands us to honour them, especially in their old age, and to treat them with the utmost respect, love and kindness. Allāh says:
"And We have enjoined on man [to be dutiful and good] to his parents. His mother bore him in weakness and hardship upon weakness and hardship, and his weaning is in two years, give thanks to Me and to your parents, unto Me is the final destination." Sūrah Luqmān: 14
Never forget them:
❖ A mother's love begins long before we are born—she carries us in her heart and in her womb, enduring every hardship with grace, all for the child she has yet to meet.
❖ A father's love is a quiet strength that shapes our lives, guiding us with wisdom, protecting us with unwavering support, and inspiring us with sacrifices we may never fully understand or see.
Action plan to start TODAY:
❖ Spend quality time with them. Make time in your day to be with your parents, whether it's through conversation, helping with daily tasks, or simply being present.
❖ Never harm them with your words, actions or silence.
❖ Speak to them with kindness. Always address your parents with respect, patience, and love.
❖ Always pray for them. Regularly make Du'a' for your parents, asking Allāh to grant them good health, happiness, and ease.
"A parents love is like a shield that protects us from life's storms, offering warmth, strength, and refuge when the world feels cold and uncertain."
May Allāh bless our parents and grant us the strength to honour them always. Amīn.
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A mother’s journey is one of silent sacrifices and boundless love. She gives up her dreams, endures sleepless nights, and whispers countless prayers—all for us.
Yet, as we grow, we forget. Her quiet sacrifices fade into the chaos of our lives. And when we become parents, we face the same struggles but forget she once stood where we are now.
She asks for nothing, yet her heart overflows with prayers for us. The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) said, "Your mother, your mother, your mother, then your father." Let’s honor her before it’s too late—hold her hand, thank her, and love her deeply.
May Allaah Bless our mothers and Grant us wisdom to cherish them. Ameen.
Yet, as we grow, we forget. Her quiet sacrifices fade into the chaos of our lives. And when we become parents, we face the same struggles but forget she once stood where we are now.
She asks for nothing, yet her heart overflows with prayers for us. The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) said, "Your mother, your mother, your mother, then your father." Let’s honor her before it’s too late—hold her hand, thank her, and love her deeply.
May Allaah Bless our mothers and Grant us wisdom to cherish them. Ameen.
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Never plant thor-ns in someone’s path.. your children may take the route barefooted someday..
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Forwarded from Muslim Marriage Tips
No matter the issues happening between you and your partner in marriage, please do not drag your children into it, allow them to grow without hating marriage or detesting anyone of you, rather find your way to sort yourselves out privately, we should stop destroying our children psychologically.
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ATTENTION PARENTS!! Can you all please stop shouting at your kids in the morning. If you know your child moves slow in the morning, WAKE UP EARLIER! You know your child forgets to put things in their book bag; GET IN A HABIT OF CHECKING BOOK BAGS AT NIGHT! You know your child takes forever finding something to wear; PICK OUT THEIR CLOTHES AT NIGHT! All I'm saying is who wants to start their day off being shouted & cursed at. Parents set the mood for their kids in the morning. Their day is just starting.. START IT OFF GREAT! Your children are very delicate & precious. As adults, we too go through a madness. We can handle it better by sometimes speaking about it or confiding in someone. Children bottle it up & can’t say what they’re feeling. PROTECT YOUR CHILDREN AT EVERY COST!!
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Forwarded from Religion of Islam
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Spending Time with Your Mother: A Priceless Treasure – Surpassing All Voluntary Acts of Worship!
Shaykh Aziz Farhan Al-Anizi حفظه الله
Shaykh Aziz Farhan Al-Anizi حفظه الله
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A Muslim’s Duty Towards their Parents
Shaykh Ibn Baz (may Allah have mercy on him) said:
"It is a duty for every Muslim, man or woman, to take care of their parents and treat them kindly,
especially when they grow old and need love, kindness, and help.
Be very careful not to hurt them or treat them badly, whether through words or actions."
📚 Majmoo’ al-Fataawa, vol. 8, p. 308.
Shaykh Ibn Baz (may Allah have mercy on him) said:
"It is a duty for every Muslim, man or woman, to take care of their parents and treat them kindly,
especially when they grow old and need love, kindness, and help.
Be very careful not to hurt them or treat them badly, whether through words or actions."
📚 Majmoo’ al-Fataawa, vol. 8, p. 308.
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Uqbah ibn Amir reported: The Messenger of Allaah, peace and blessings be upon him, said,
“Do not hate your daughters, for they are your precious companions.”
Source: Musnad Aḥmad 16922
Grade: Hasan (fair) according to Al-Haythami
#daughters
“Do not hate your daughters, for they are your precious companions.”
Source: Musnad Aḥmad 16922
Grade: Hasan (fair) according to Al-Haythami
#daughters
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A BROTHER'S VIEW ON POLYGANY AFTER SEEING WIDOW WOMAN'S SUITATION.
I am a 21-year-old Muslim brother with the desire to marry and take care of multiple wives, in shaa Allah. I want to share what inspired this decision and seek advice from Muslim brothers and sisters who are already in such marriages.
Back in 2020, during the lockdown, I was 16 years old. One day, my elder sister and I were sitting on the sofa, having a good time, when a sister, around 30 years old, entered our home. My sister was aware of her visit, but I wasn’t. The visitor looked completely worn out—her hair was messy, she had dark circles, and her outfit looked dull.
Wanting to show some hospitality, I went to the kitchen and brought her some biscuits and juice. When she saw me, she hugged me tightly, held my hands, and showed affection like a mother or an elder sister. After she left, I asked my sister who she was.
My sister explained:
“When you were born, this sister was our neighbor. She was like an elder sister to us and often came over to help take care of you when our mother was out. But the next year, she got married very young and had two children shortly after. Her husband, however, suffered from some illnesses, and after 8-9 years of marriage, he passed away, leaving her widowed with two young kids. Since then, she has been living a very difficult life. Her children, still young, work as mechanics to support the family, and she works as a maid to ensure her kids get an education. Alhamdulillah, I also contribute to her monthly expenses.”
Hearing this, I asked my sister, “Why didn’t she remarry?”
She replied, “Who would marry a widow like her? Most men aren't capable and Most women wouldn’t allow their husbands to take care of a woman like that, and society doesn’t accept it as normal.”
This response struck me deeply. From that moment on, I decided that if Allah grants me physical, mental, and financial strength, in shaa Allah, I will marry multiple women and care for them to the best of my ability. I want to protect, provide for, and support such women in every way possible.
May Allah keep me steadfast in this intention. Aameen.
I am a 21-year-old Muslim brother with the desire to marry and take care of multiple wives, in shaa Allah. I want to share what inspired this decision and seek advice from Muslim brothers and sisters who are already in such marriages.
Back in 2020, during the lockdown, I was 16 years old. One day, my elder sister and I were sitting on the sofa, having a good time, when a sister, around 30 years old, entered our home. My sister was aware of her visit, but I wasn’t. The visitor looked completely worn out—her hair was messy, she had dark circles, and her outfit looked dull.
Wanting to show some hospitality, I went to the kitchen and brought her some biscuits and juice. When she saw me, she hugged me tightly, held my hands, and showed affection like a mother or an elder sister. After she left, I asked my sister who she was.
My sister explained:
“When you were born, this sister was our neighbor. She was like an elder sister to us and often came over to help take care of you when our mother was out. But the next year, she got married very young and had two children shortly after. Her husband, however, suffered from some illnesses, and after 8-9 years of marriage, he passed away, leaving her widowed with two young kids. Since then, she has been living a very difficult life. Her children, still young, work as mechanics to support the family, and she works as a maid to ensure her kids get an education. Alhamdulillah, I also contribute to her monthly expenses.”
Hearing this, I asked my sister, “Why didn’t she remarry?”
She replied, “Who would marry a widow like her? Most men aren't capable and Most women wouldn’t allow their husbands to take care of a woman like that, and society doesn’t accept it as normal.”
This response struck me deeply. From that moment on, I decided that if Allah grants me physical, mental, and financial strength, in shaa Allah, I will marry multiple women and care for them to the best of my ability. I want to protect, provide for, and support such women in every way possible.
May Allah keep me steadfast in this intention. Aameen.
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Among all the nasty things we see every day, this is just a little scene that I witnessed today and it made me happy and hopeful.
A little girl (around 9-10 y/o) going back home in her school van and reading Quran.
I blurred her face for obvious reasons but her parents are doing a good job! 👏🏼
Mashallah!
A little girl (around 9-10 y/o) going back home in her school van and reading Quran.
I blurred her face for obvious reasons but her parents are doing a good job! 👏🏼
Mashallah!
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