Never plant thor-ns in someone’s path.. your children may take the route barefooted someday..

ATTENTION PARENTS!! Can you all please stop shouting at your kids in the morning. If you know your child moves slow in the morning, WAKE UP EARLIER! You know your child forgets to put things in their book bag; GET IN A HABIT OF CHECKING BOOK BAGS AT NIGHT! You know your child takes forever finding something to wear; PICK OUT THEIR CLOTHES AT NIGHT! All I'm saying is who wants to start their day off being shouted & cursed at. Parents set the mood for their kids in the morning. Their day is just starting.. START IT OFF GREAT! Your children are very delicate & precious. As adults, we too go through a madness. We can handle it better by sometimes speaking about it or confiding in someone. Children bottle it up & can’t say what they’re feeling. PROTECT YOUR CHILDREN AT EVERY COST!!

Spending Time with Your Mother: A Priceless Treasure – Surpassing All Voluntary Acts of Worship!

Shaykh Aziz Farhan Al-Anizi حفظه الله

An unimaginable blessing that we take for granted. Not many have the privilege anymore. May Allah protect our parents and have mercy on them. Ameen

A Muslim’s Duty Towards their Parents

Shaykh Ibn Baz (may Allah have mercy on him) said:

"It is a duty for every Muslim, man or woman, to take care of their parents and treat them kindly,

especially when they grow old and need love, kindness, and help.

Be very careful not to hurt them or treat them badly, whether through words or actions."

📚 Majmoo’ al-Fataawa, vol. 8, p. 308.

Uqbah ibn Amir reported: The Messenger of Allaah, peace and blessings be upon him, said,

“Do not hate your daughters, for they are your precious companions.”

Source: Musnad Aḥmad 16922
Grade: Hasan (fair) according to Al-Haythami

#daughters

🥀𝙃𝙤𝙬 𝙢𝙖𝙣𝙮 𝙤𝙛 𝙪𝙨 𝙛𝙖𝙡𝙡 𝙨𝙝𝙤𝙧𝙩 𝙩𝙤𝙬𝙖𝙧𝙙𝙨 𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙢𝙤𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙨, 𝘼𝙡𝙡𝙖𝙝𝙪𝙡 𝙢𝙪𝙨𝙩𝙖'𝙖𝙣! 𝙊 𝘼𝙡𝙡𝙖𝙖𝙝 𝙢𝙖𝙠𝙚 𝙪𝙨 𝙧𝙞𝙜𝙝𝙩𝙚𝙤𝙪𝙨 𝙩𝙤𝙬𝙖𝙧𝙙𝙨 𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙢𝙤𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙨..𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙛𝙖𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙨, 𝙖𝙖𝙢𝙚𝙚𝙣...🤲

A BROTHER'S VIEW ON POLYGANY AFTER SEEING WIDOW WOMAN'S SUITATION.

I am a 21-year-old Muslim brother with the desire to marry and take care of multiple wives, in shaa Allah. I want to share what inspired this decision and seek advice from Muslim brothers and sisters who are already in such marriages.

Back in 2020, during the lockdown, I was 16 years old. One day, my elder sister and I were sitting on the sofa, having a good time, when a sister, around 30 years old, entered our home. My sister was aware of her visit, but I wasn’t. The visitor looked completely worn out—her hair was messy, she had dark circles, and her outfit looked dull.

Wanting to show some hospitality, I went to the kitchen and brought her some biscuits and juice. When she saw me, she hugged me tightly, held my hands, and showed affection like a mother or an elder sister. After she left, I asked my sister who she was.

My sister explained:
“When you were born, this sister was our neighbor. She was like an elder sister to us and often came over to help take care of you when our mother was out. But the next year, she got married very young and had two children shortly after. Her husband, however, suffered from some illnesses, and after 8-9 years of marriage, he passed away, leaving her widowed with two young kids. Since then, she has been living a very difficult life. Her children, still young, work as mechanics to support the family, and she works as a maid to ensure her kids get an education. Alhamdulillah, I also contribute to her monthly expenses.”

Hearing this, I asked my sister, “Why didn’t she remarry?”

She replied, “Who would marry a widow like her? Most men aren't capable and Most women wouldn’t allow their husbands to take care of a woman like that, and society doesn’t accept it as normal.”

This response struck me deeply. From that moment on, I decided that if Allah grants me physical, mental, and financial strength, in shaa Allah, I will marry multiple women and care for them to the best of my ability. I want to protect, provide for, and support such women in every way possible.

May Allah keep me steadfast in this intention. Aameen.

Among all the nasty things we see every day, this is just a little scene that I witnessed today and it made me happy and hopeful.

A little girl (around 9-10 y/o) going back home in her school van and reading Quran.

I blurred her face for obvious reasons but her parents are doing a good job! 👏🏼

Mashallah!

Lazy and Boredom

Say Alhamdulillah when ur yr 6 child graduates primary school
Say Alhamdulillah when ur yr 12 teenager graduates from high school.

But dressing ur young Muslimah daughter in a tiny short dress, putting makeup on her & getting hair done

And sending her to a HARAAM GRADUATION party with full music, free mixing...

Is this how u thank Allah for looking after ur child by helping them in SINNING? teaching them to PARTY?

Dont for a MOMENT think that Allah won't question u about u allowing ur child in going to such HARAM farewell parties.

And dont be surprised if one day ur child goes to clubbing because u had showed them the way!

What To Say If Afflicted With Evil Eye

There are many words or remembrance (Adhkār) and supplications found in the Sunnah for one to say if afflicted with evil eye and protection from it. Any of the following can be said:

1 – Recite Sūrah Fātihah and blow on the place of pain - Bukhārī (2276)

2 – Recite Sūrah Al-Ikhlās, Sūrah Al-Falaq and Sūrah An-Nās and blow into your hands and wipe over the body. – Bukhārī (5017).

3 - Place the hand on the place of pain and say the following supplications:

بِاسْمِ اللَّهِ
Bismillāh.
In the name of Allah - three times

أَعُوذُ بِاللَّهِ وَقُدْرَتِهِ مِنْ شَرِّ مَا أَجِدُ وَأُحَاذِرُ

A’ūdhu billāhi wa qudratihi min sharri ma ajidu wa uhādhiru.

I seek refuge with Allāh and with His Power from the evil that I find and that I fear - Seven times - Muslim (no. 2202).

بِسْمِ اللَّهِ أَعُوذُ بِعِزَّةِ اللَّهِ وَقُدْرَتِهِ مِنْ شَرِّ مَا أَجِدُ مِنْ وَجَعِي هَذَا

Bismillāh, a’oodhu bi-‘izzatillāhi wa qudratihi min sharri mā ajidu min waja’ee hādhā.

'In the Name of Allāh, I seek refuge in Allāh’s might and power from the evil of this pain I feel.' Then lift your hand and repeat that an odd number of times. – At-Tirmidhī (no. 3588). Authenticated by Shaykh Albānī in Silsilah As-Sahīhah (no. 1258).

أَعُوذُ بِعِزَّةِ اللَّهِ وَقُدْرَتِهِ مِنْ شَرِّ مَا أَجِدُ

A’ūdhu bi-‘izzatillāhi wa qudratihi min sharri mā ajidu.

I seek refuge in Allāh’ might and power from the evil of what I am experiencing — with every wipe - Authenticated by Shaykh Albānī in Silsilah As-Sahīhah (no. 1415) and Sahīh Al-Jāmi’ (no. 3894).

أَذْهِبِ الْبَاسَ رَبَّ النَّاسِ وَاشْفِ أَنْتَ الشَّافِي لاَ شِفَاءَ إِلاَّ شِفَاؤُكَ شِفَاءً لاَ يُغَادِرُ سَقَمًا

Adh-hibil-ba’s Rabban-Nās, ashfi antash-Shāfee, lā Shifā’a illa shifā’uka, shifā’an lā yughādiru saqama.

Remove the harm, O Lord of the people! Heal, for You are The Healer. There is no healing that avails except your healing. A healing that leaves behind no ailment - Muslim (no. 2191).

5 - Put some saliva on your finger, then put the finger into some earth (soil, sand, etc) then wipe yourself or the person who is sick, saying:

بِاسْمِ اللَّهِ تُرْبَةُ أَرْضِنَا، وَرِيقَةُ بَعْضِنَا، يُشْفَى سَقِيمُنَا، بِإِذْنِ رَبِّنَا

Bismillāh. Turbatu ardina, biriqati ba`dina, yushfa bihi saqimuni, bi 'idhni Rabbina'

In the Name of Allāh. The earth of our land and the saliva of some of us cures our sick ones by the permission of our Lord - Bukhārī (no. 5746).

6 - Say the following supplication. It is reported that the Angel Jibrīl came to Allāh’s Messenger (ﷺ) and said, “Muhammad, have you fallen ill?” The Prophet ﷺ said: “Yes.” So Jibrīl said:

بِاسْمِ اللَّهِ أَرْقِيكَ مِنْ كُلِّ شَىْءٍ يُؤْذِيكَ مِنْ شَرِّ كُلِّ نَفْسٍ أَوْ عَيْنِ حَاسِدٍ اللَّهُ يَشْفِيكَ بِاسْمِ اللَّهِ أَرْقِيكَ

Bismillāhi arqika, min kulli shay’in yu’dhika, min sharri kulli nafsin aw ‘aynin aw hasidin. Allāhu yashfika, bismillāhi arqika.

In the name of Allāh I perform Ruqyah upon you (seeking divine cure) from everything that harms you and from the evil of every soul, or from every envious eye, may Allah cure you. In the name of Allāh, I perform Ruqyah upon you (seeking divine cure) - Muslim (no. 2186).

May Allāh protect us all from evil eye. Amīn

As muslim parents, be loud in front of your kids!

- Pray salah out loud
- Recite Quran out loud
- Make duas out loud

They will listen and learn!