Lazy and Boredom

Say Alhamdulillah when ur yr 6 child graduates primary school
Say Alhamdulillah when ur yr 12 teenager graduates from high school.

But dressing ur young Muslimah daughter in a tiny short dress, putting makeup on her & getting hair done

And sending her to a HARAAM GRADUATION party with full music, free mixing...

Is this how u thank Allah for looking after ur child by helping them in SINNING? teaching them to PARTY?

Dont for a MOMENT think that Allah won't question u about u allowing ur child in going to such HARAM farewell parties.

And dont be surprised if one day ur child goes to clubbing because u had showed them the way!

What To Say If Afflicted With Evil Eye

There are many words or remembrance (Adhkār) and supplications found in the Sunnah for one to say if afflicted with evil eye and protection from it. Any of the following can be said:

1 – Recite Sūrah Fātihah and blow on the place of pain - Bukhārī (2276)

2 – Recite Sūrah Al-Ikhlās, Sūrah Al-Falaq and Sūrah An-Nās and blow into your hands and wipe over the body. – Bukhārī (5017).

3 - Place the hand on the place of pain and say the following supplications:

بِاسْمِ اللَّهِ
Bismillāh.
In the name of Allah - three times

أَعُوذُ بِاللَّهِ وَقُدْرَتِهِ مِنْ شَرِّ مَا أَجِدُ وَأُحَاذِرُ

A’ūdhu billāhi wa qudratihi min sharri ma ajidu wa uhādhiru.

I seek refuge with Allāh and with His Power from the evil that I find and that I fear - Seven times - Muslim (no. 2202).

بِسْمِ اللَّهِ أَعُوذُ بِعِزَّةِ اللَّهِ وَقُدْرَتِهِ مِنْ شَرِّ مَا أَجِدُ مِنْ وَجَعِي هَذَا

Bismillāh, a’oodhu bi-‘izzatillāhi wa qudratihi min sharri mā ajidu min waja’ee hādhā.

'In the Name of Allāh, I seek refuge in Allāh’s might and power from the evil of this pain I feel.' Then lift your hand and repeat that an odd number of times. – At-Tirmidhī (no. 3588). Authenticated by Shaykh Albānī in Silsilah As-Sahīhah (no. 1258).

أَعُوذُ بِعِزَّةِ اللَّهِ وَقُدْرَتِهِ مِنْ شَرِّ مَا أَجِدُ

A’ūdhu bi-‘izzatillāhi wa qudratihi min sharri mā ajidu.

I seek refuge in Allāh’ might and power from the evil of what I am experiencing — with every wipe - Authenticated by Shaykh Albānī in Silsilah As-Sahīhah (no. 1415) and Sahīh Al-Jāmi’ (no. 3894).

أَذْهِبِ الْبَاسَ رَبَّ النَّاسِ وَاشْفِ أَنْتَ الشَّافِي لاَ شِفَاءَ إِلاَّ شِفَاؤُكَ شِفَاءً لاَ يُغَادِرُ سَقَمًا

Adh-hibil-ba’s Rabban-Nās, ashfi antash-Shāfee, lā Shifā’a illa shifā’uka, shifā’an lā yughādiru saqama.

Remove the harm, O Lord of the people! Heal, for You are The Healer. There is no healing that avails except your healing. A healing that leaves behind no ailment - Muslim (no. 2191).

5 - Put some saliva on your finger, then put the finger into some earth (soil, sand, etc) then wipe yourself or the person who is sick, saying:

بِاسْمِ اللَّهِ تُرْبَةُ أَرْضِنَا، وَرِيقَةُ بَعْضِنَا، يُشْفَى سَقِيمُنَا، بِإِذْنِ رَبِّنَا

Bismillāh. Turbatu ardina, biriqati ba`dina, yushfa bihi saqimuni, bi 'idhni Rabbina'

In the Name of Allāh. The earth of our land and the saliva of some of us cures our sick ones by the permission of our Lord - Bukhārī (no. 5746).

6 - Say the following supplication. It is reported that the Angel Jibrīl came to Allāh’s Messenger (ﷺ) and said, “Muhammad, have you fallen ill?” The Prophet ﷺ said: “Yes.” So Jibrīl said:

بِاسْمِ اللَّهِ أَرْقِيكَ مِنْ كُلِّ شَىْءٍ يُؤْذِيكَ مِنْ شَرِّ كُلِّ نَفْسٍ أَوْ عَيْنِ حَاسِدٍ اللَّهُ يَشْفِيكَ بِاسْمِ اللَّهِ أَرْقِيكَ

Bismillāhi arqika, min kulli shay’in yu’dhika, min sharri kulli nafsin aw ‘aynin aw hasidin. Allāhu yashfika, bismillāhi arqika.

In the name of Allāh I perform Ruqyah upon you (seeking divine cure) from everything that harms you and from the evil of every soul, or from every envious eye, may Allah cure you. In the name of Allāh, I perform Ruqyah upon you (seeking divine cure) - Muslim (no. 2186).

May Allāh protect us all from evil eye. Amīn

As muslim parents, be loud in front of your kids!

- Pray salah out loud
- Recite Quran out loud
- Make duas out loud

They will listen and learn!

🌸 Strive to please your mother 🌸

“The mother holds a great status, so you must strive to please her & deal with her in the best manner, even if she wrongs you or oversteps bounds with you. You should forgive & pardon her, always seeking her satisfaction.”

🌹Al-Imām Ash-Shaykh Abdul-Azeez Ibn Bāz, Fatāwa Nur ‘Ala Ad-Darb 21/255.
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Evil eye is haq. Kids can get evil eye very easily as they don't do the daily Dhikr to protect themselves. Another thing to remember is to not boast about your kids achievements to others. People can give the evil eye without even realising it. Many don't know to say "Allahumma baarik lahu or laha" ie May Allah bless him or her which is what we should say to protect others from our own evil eyes.

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Subhaan Allah how do you treat your mother?

Al-Hasan Al-Basrī رحمه الله stated:

"Looking into the face of the mother is worship, so how much more so for treating her with goodness?!"

【Musnad Ibn Al-Mubārak (146)】

Those parents who ENCOURAGE their young daughters to dress in skimpy formal dresses to attend "graduation parties" & formals with free mixing & music and send their sons as well

If ur children become corrupt then u have no one to blame but YOURSELF

Some parents give their children whatever they desire and lavishly bestow on them materialistic things thinking: "Take what you want and just let me be"!

The father/mother occupy themselves with work and fulfilling their ambitions, and in their free time occupy themselves with relationships with friends, social media and whatever else the parents find more enjoyment in than raising children.

He is busy, but he loves his son and is ‘concerned' for him... He expresses his love and ‘care’ through gifts and material luxuries.

My son asks me for something that is not in his best interest... To explain to him why, convince him, and provide him with the right alternative... is a difficult and "boring" process and the child is obstinate...

So take what you want, son... I will buy from you my ‘peace of mind’ and my time through this device that distracts you from me, so that I may invest my time more enjoyably than arguing with you!

These parents may appear ‘loving’ and doting towards their children, when in fact they are ruining them!

I am afraid that the statement of the Prophet ﷺ: "It is sufficient sin for a man that he neglects those whom he maintains." includes not only those who do not provide their children with the food and clothing they require, but also includes those who destroy them by giving them everything they want to spare themselves the effort of education and guidance!

Ibn al-Qayyim - may Allah have mercy on him - said in [Tuhfat Al-Mawlud]:
"How many have ruined both the Dunya and Akhirah for their child, their own blood, by neglecting him and abandoning his discipline and helping him fulfill his desires, while he claims that he has honored him when, in fact, he has insulted him, and claims to be showing mercy to the child when he has, in fact, done him an injustice and deprived him of goodness."

When you deprive your child of something he desires, explain it to him thus: ‘Oh my dear child, I can give you this device that you ask for, and you and I shall both be at ease for a short term, but it is not in your interest, and I am not giving it to you for your own good, because I love you and care about you. Giving your child whatever he wants is ‘sometimes’ an indication of neglect my dear child. It is not you who should envy your friends for their materialistic things, but rather it is them who should envy you for the care shown to you by your father.'

📝𝐃𝐫. 𝐄𝐲𝐚𝐝 𝐐𝐮𝐧𝐚𝐢𝐛𝐢

Allah's pleasure is in the parent's pleasure...

*Hasan Al-Basrī رحمه الله said:*

*“Looking at the face of the mother is an act of worship!*

*So how about obeying her?”*

*[Musnad Ibn Mubārak: 146]*

Abu Sa’id And Ibn Abbas (Allah Be Pleased With Them Both) Narrate That The Messenger Of Allah (Allah Bless Him & Give Him Peace) Said: “Whoever Has A Child, He Should Give Him A Good Name And Teach Him How To Read And Write. And When He Matures, He Should Marry Him Off. When He Matures And The Father Does Not Marry Him Off, Then If The Boy Commits A Sin, The Sin Will Be On The Father.”(Shu’ab Al-Iman Of Al-Bayhaqi)

Umar Ibn Al-Khattab And Anas Ibn Malik (Allah Be Pleased With Them Both) Narrate That The Messenger Of Allah (Allah Bless Him & Give Him Peace) Said: “It Is Written In The Tawrah That: Who’s Daughter Reaches The Age Of Twelve Years And He Fails To Marry Her Off, Then If She Commits A Sin, The Sin Will Be On The Father.” (Ibid. Also See: Mishkat Al-Masabih, 2/939, No. 3139)