Dear Parents.....Your Children are an Amaanah.. You will be question about them on day of Judgement. Be serious enough for their upbringing... 💐
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"A woman should train her children properly, for her children represent the men and women of the future."
Shaykh Saalih ibn Uthaymeen (rahimahullaah)
from The Uprightness of a Woman.
Shaykh Saalih ibn Uthaymeen (rahimahullaah)
from The Uprightness of a Woman.
One of the biggest reasons why kids from Muslim families go off track in today's time is this whole phenomenon of "Do as I say, Not as I do".
Don't expect kids to grow up with a love of Quran when they see you more attached to your gadgets than the mushaf.
If you have skipped or delayed prayers for sleep or work don't expect them to pray on time while the are busy with friends.
Dont expect kids to wake up for tahajjud when they growup while they have seen you stay awake only for netflix or for seeing crackers burst on New year's Eve.
Don't expect them to emulate the Sunnah of the Prophet while they see you contradicting it day in and day out in your manners speech and action.
When your only goal in life is to make money and build this duniya or please people around you, don't expect your kids to work towards building their aaakhira.
If you really care for their hereafter "Become who you want them to become."
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Don't expect kids to grow up with a love of Quran when they see you more attached to your gadgets than the mushaf.
If you have skipped or delayed prayers for sleep or work don't expect them to pray on time while the are busy with friends.
Dont expect kids to wake up for tahajjud when they growup while they have seen you stay awake only for netflix or for seeing crackers burst on New year's Eve.
Don't expect them to emulate the Sunnah of the Prophet while they see you contradicting it day in and day out in your manners speech and action.
When your only goal in life is to make money and build this duniya or please people around you, don't expect your kids to work towards building their aaakhira.
If you really care for their hereafter "Become who you want them to become."
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"A woman should train her children properly, for her children represent the men and women of the future."
Shaykh Saalih ibn Uthaymeen (rahimahullaah)
from The Uprightness of a Woman.
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from The Uprightness of a Woman.
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Waking up your children for Salah isn't disturbing. Good parents train their kids to pray & ensure they have a pious upbringing.
Waking up your children for Salah isn't disturbing. Good parents train their kids to pray & ensure they have a pious upbringing.
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In our society, there are many issues which hide behind the curtain. Youngsters don't even possess the courage to present their personal issues before the scholars or counselors, as a result, strange diseases prevail in the society and lives get shattered. One such issue is that many youngsters, especially men, who are suffering from excessive desire, their marriages are delayed and they want to masturbate or watch porn movies to relieve that. They think and assume that instead of doing zina (committing adultery) this might be less sinful. We would like to address this issue in this post.
They want to obtain relief from this sexual anxiety, but masturbation or watching movies will NOT solve the problem and will NOT weaken the desire. It will it make it WORSE and will ultimately lead them towards adultery.
Actually, people who seek such a solution to control their sexual desires want to treat the disease with the thing that is itself the disease!!!
Believe us, those who opt for such options to relieve themselves will NEVER find healing or relief in either of these two options.
Something that is itself a disease cannot bring healing from a disease; rather it will only make the disease worse.
This is no more than a passing desire and transient pleasure, but what will be left is regret and remorse.
You must do is strive to keep yourself chaste by means of marriage at the earliest possible opportunity. You do not have to be restricted by traditional social requirements; rather you should try to reduce these restrictions as much as possible and hasten to marry someone who will keep you chaste.
Until you are able to do that, you must keep away from movies completely, lower your gaze, and refrain from this secret habit. You should also fast a great deal and strive hard therein and in other acts of worship and all kinds of permissible deeds that will benefit you in this world and in the Hereafter. Do not allow yourself any free time, because if you do not keep your nafs busy with the truth, it will keep you busy with falsehood.
Always bear in mind that Allah is watching you.
The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) also said: “O young men, whoever among you can afford it should marry, and whoever cannot afford it should fast, for it will be a shield for him.”
Narrated by al-Bukhari (5065) and Muslim (1400).
They want to obtain relief from this sexual anxiety, but masturbation or watching movies will NOT solve the problem and will NOT weaken the desire. It will it make it WORSE and will ultimately lead them towards adultery.
Actually, people who seek such a solution to control their sexual desires want to treat the disease with the thing that is itself the disease!!!
Believe us, those who opt for such options to relieve themselves will NEVER find healing or relief in either of these two options.
Something that is itself a disease cannot bring healing from a disease; rather it will only make the disease worse.
This is no more than a passing desire and transient pleasure, but what will be left is regret and remorse.
You must do is strive to keep yourself chaste by means of marriage at the earliest possible opportunity. You do not have to be restricted by traditional social requirements; rather you should try to reduce these restrictions as much as possible and hasten to marry someone who will keep you chaste.
Until you are able to do that, you must keep away from movies completely, lower your gaze, and refrain from this secret habit. You should also fast a great deal and strive hard therein and in other acts of worship and all kinds of permissible deeds that will benefit you in this world and in the Hereafter. Do not allow yourself any free time, because if you do not keep your nafs busy with the truth, it will keep you busy with falsehood.
Always bear in mind that Allah is watching you.
The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) also said: “O young men, whoever among you can afford it should marry, and whoever cannot afford it should fast, for it will be a shield for him.”
Narrated by al-Bukhari (5065) and Muslim (1400).
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Muslim Children Tips
In our society, there are many issues which hide behind the curtain. Youngsters don't even possess the courage to present their personal issues before the scholars or counselors, as a result, strange diseases prevail in the society and lives get shattered.…
HERE IS THE SOLUTION FOR IT.
A father should help his son get married at a young age
Ibn al-Jawzi رحمه الله said:
❝When the son becomes a teenager, his father should marry him off because it was mentioned in the hadith, "Whoever's son reaches puberty, he can marry him off, but if he doesn't, and then the son commits a sin, then they will both share the burden of the sin."
Therefore, it is surprising when a father forgets how it was like to be a teenager. He forgets the suffering and danger of falling into sin at such age. That said, the father should know and be aware of the fact that his son will be subjected to what he previously went through. Ibrahim al-Harbi said, "The basis of corruption in young boys is the influence of other boys on each other."
However, sometimes, in very rare cases, a child may opt for knowledge over marriage and keep teaching himself patience; for instance, Ahmad bin Hanbal, may Allah have mercy on him, did not get married until he was forty.❞
Taken from the book "Awaking from the Sleep of Heedlessness" by Imam ibn Jawzi.
A father should help his son get married at a young age
Ibn al-Jawzi رحمه الله said:
❝When the son becomes a teenager, his father should marry him off because it was mentioned in the hadith, "Whoever's son reaches puberty, he can marry him off, but if he doesn't, and then the son commits a sin, then they will both share the burden of the sin."
Therefore, it is surprising when a father forgets how it was like to be a teenager. He forgets the suffering and danger of falling into sin at such age. That said, the father should know and be aware of the fact that his son will be subjected to what he previously went through. Ibrahim al-Harbi said, "The basis of corruption in young boys is the influence of other boys on each other."
However, sometimes, in very rare cases, a child may opt for knowledge over marriage and keep teaching himself patience; for instance, Ahmad bin Hanbal, may Allah have mercy on him, did not get married until he was forty.❞
Taken from the book "Awaking from the Sleep of Heedlessness" by Imam ibn Jawzi.
Parents speak good words to your kids. Especially when you get angry be mindful of your words. I heard a student say the other day to another student..
Goo khaya mor(eat shit and Die, in bengali language)
I said where did you learn that phrase from. He said his mother.
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Goo khaya mor(eat shit and Die, in bengali language)
I said where did you learn that phrase from. He said his mother.
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"A woman should train her children properly, for her children represent the men and women of the future."
Shaykh Saalih ibn Uthaymeen (rahimahullaah)
from The Uprightness of a Woman.
Shaykh Saalih ibn Uthaymeen (rahimahullaah)
from The Uprightness of a Woman.
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Dua & Prayer Books for Children.
One can take printout and give to children so they can learn.
Dua & Prayer Books for Children.
One can take printout and give to children so they can learn.
_*DEAR PARENTS, PLEASE BE CAREFUL BETWEEN MAGHRIB AND ISHA*_
_AS dusk is Approaching, this knowledge will be very beneficial to every parent who wishes no harm to their household, In sha Allah_
_The prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم said:_
_*”After the sun sets, Hold on to your kids, as the Devils are spreading at that time.*_
_*After an hour has gone past you can let them go,*_
_*But keep your doors closed while making Dhikr* (saying Bismillah), *as the Devil does not open a closed door*_
_*And close any water bottle, while making Dhikr and put the lid on any pan while making Dhikr, even if you cover them with anything and turn your lights off”*_
🌹 *SOURCE:* *
Al-Bukhari #3280 and Muslim #2012*
_The prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم said:_
"Do not send your kids or animals (such as sheep, cattle or camels) after the sun sets, until the darkness of Isha falls, As the devils are being discharged between those times"
🌹 *SOURCE* *
Muslim # 2013
*
💡 *You might be asking yourself:*
*
“What could possibly be the reason behind this❓
*
*
What happens between Maghrib and Ishaa❓”
*
_Well, what happens is that the Shaytaan (devils) start to look for a place to hide, as they move around earth in large numbers, Only Allah knows how many and they move in extremely fast speed, much faster than we can imagine._
_This of course poses a threat to some as they might get crushed by other devils. So they start looking for a place to hide._
_The Hadith is explaining to us what the devils might do in their search for a safe place to hide:_
_Some of them might enter a bottle and stay there until it’s safe,_
_Some might hide in a saucepan, or a bucket and some might enter the house of a human._
_A Shaytaan might hide behind a group of humans who are unaware of this._
_With those humans not making any Dhikr the Shaytaan is safe from the crushing power of other Shaytaan roaming the Earth like a hurricane._
_It is in the nature of Shaytaan to hide in dirty places, such as toilets, rubbish bins…etc._
_They might also get into a child who doesn’t know yet how to make Dhikr and stay inside that child until it’s safe to get out._
_The parents of that child might notice a sudden change of mood in their child’s behaviour._
_The parents might think that the child needs to be disciplined when the child might cry as he/she is bothered by the Shaytaan in his body._
_One of the biggest attractions to Shaytaan is nappies, as it’s dirty and it belongs to a child who doesn’t know yet how to make Tahseen (prevention from Devils by reading Qur'an and making Du'a)._
🌹 _Therefore we remind Muslims to be careful and not to let their doors open between Maghrib and Isha._
_They also should read Qur'an aloud around their children to prevent Shaytaan from seeking refuge in their tiny bodies._
_*May Allah protect us all from Shaytaan and prevent them from harming our children…*_
*آمــــــــــــــــــين يا رب العالمين*
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_AS dusk is Approaching, this knowledge will be very beneficial to every parent who wishes no harm to their household, In sha Allah_
_The prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم said:_
_*”After the sun sets, Hold on to your kids, as the Devils are spreading at that time.*_
_*After an hour has gone past you can let them go,*_
_*But keep your doors closed while making Dhikr* (saying Bismillah), *as the Devil does not open a closed door*_
_*And close any water bottle, while making Dhikr and put the lid on any pan while making Dhikr, even if you cover them with anything and turn your lights off”*_
🌹 *SOURCE:* *
Al-Bukhari #3280 and Muslim #2012*
_The prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم said:_
"Do not send your kids or animals (such as sheep, cattle or camels) after the sun sets, until the darkness of Isha falls, As the devils are being discharged between those times"
🌹 *SOURCE* *
Muslim # 2013
*
💡 *You might be asking yourself:*
*
“What could possibly be the reason behind this❓
*
*
What happens between Maghrib and Ishaa❓”
*
_Well, what happens is that the Shaytaan (devils) start to look for a place to hide, as they move around earth in large numbers, Only Allah knows how many and they move in extremely fast speed, much faster than we can imagine._
_This of course poses a threat to some as they might get crushed by other devils. So they start looking for a place to hide._
_The Hadith is explaining to us what the devils might do in their search for a safe place to hide:_
_Some of them might enter a bottle and stay there until it’s safe,_
_Some might hide in a saucepan, or a bucket and some might enter the house of a human._
_A Shaytaan might hide behind a group of humans who are unaware of this._
_With those humans not making any Dhikr the Shaytaan is safe from the crushing power of other Shaytaan roaming the Earth like a hurricane._
_It is in the nature of Shaytaan to hide in dirty places, such as toilets, rubbish bins…etc._
_They might also get into a child who doesn’t know yet how to make Dhikr and stay inside that child until it’s safe to get out._
_The parents of that child might notice a sudden change of mood in their child’s behaviour._
_The parents might think that the child needs to be disciplined when the child might cry as he/she is bothered by the Shaytaan in his body._
_One of the biggest attractions to Shaytaan is nappies, as it’s dirty and it belongs to a child who doesn’t know yet how to make Tahseen (prevention from Devils by reading Qur'an and making Du'a)._
🌹 _Therefore we remind Muslims to be careful and not to let their doors open between Maghrib and Isha._
_They also should read Qur'an aloud around their children to prevent Shaytaan from seeking refuge in their tiny bodies._
_*May Allah protect us all from Shaytaan and prevent them from harming our children…*_
*آمــــــــــــــــــين يا رب العالمين*
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"A woman should train her children properly, for her children represent the men and women of the future."
Shaykh Saalih ibn Uthaymeen (rahimahullaah)
from The Uprightness of a Woman.
Shaykh Saalih ibn Uthaymeen (rahimahullaah)
from The Uprightness of a Woman.
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Where are the Parents?
Shaykh Saalih al-Fawzaan, hafidhahullah
https://youtu.be/xnCesd0_odY
▪️The Righteousness of our offspring is not attained without hardship.
▪️Hardship is inevitable.
▪️It is necessitates patience.
▪️It necessities planning,preparation &constant supervision.
▪️If not then this family will perish,as it has occurred in many homes these days.
▪️Especially in our times,where Fitnah evil becomes abundant.
🔘So where are the Fathers ?!!!
🔘So where are the Mothers? !!!
*⃣The Fathers are preoccupied with Duniya,chasing after the Duniya, night and day. Attending night gatherings upon he said, she said, or what is even worse than that. Where is the trust O people?
*⃣And the mothers are preoccupied with roaming about in the streets, and in Gatherings, under the pretext of learning or studying or under the pretext of Employment.
🔴Meanwhile the children are left to either a baby-sitter or a nursery as if they are orphans or casts away. They are left to the Nurseries.
Where is the trust O People? .
Where is the trust of the children that are binding upon you?
☑️Have Taqwa of Allāh! Verily your children are a trust Binding upon you. You are respond for them.
They are your Flock.
🔮 *The Man is the Shepherd of his family, responsible for his Flock; The one who loses his flocks, is threaten with a severe Punishment on the day of judgment.*
✅ *IN THE AUTHENTIC HADITH,
"THERE IS NO GUARDIAN THAT ALLAH PLACES IN CHARGE OF HIS FAMILY AND DIE WHILE HE IS MISLEADING HIS FAMILY EXCEPT THAT ALLAH HAS PROHIBITED FOR HIS PARADISE.*
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Shaykh Saalih al-Fawzaan, hafidhahullah
https://youtu.be/xnCesd0_odY
▪️The Righteousness of our offspring is not attained without hardship.
▪️Hardship is inevitable.
▪️It is necessitates patience.
▪️It necessities planning,preparation &constant supervision.
▪️If not then this family will perish,as it has occurred in many homes these days.
▪️Especially in our times,where Fitnah evil becomes abundant.
🔘So where are the Fathers ?!!!
🔘So where are the Mothers? !!!
*⃣The Fathers are preoccupied with Duniya,chasing after the Duniya, night and day. Attending night gatherings upon he said, she said, or what is even worse than that. Where is the trust O people?
*⃣And the mothers are preoccupied with roaming about in the streets, and in Gatherings, under the pretext of learning or studying or under the pretext of Employment.
🔴Meanwhile the children are left to either a baby-sitter or a nursery as if they are orphans or casts away. They are left to the Nurseries.
Where is the trust O People? .
Where is the trust of the children that are binding upon you?
☑️Have Taqwa of Allāh! Verily your children are a trust Binding upon you. You are respond for them.
They are your Flock.
🔮 *The Man is the Shepherd of his family, responsible for his Flock; The one who loses his flocks, is threaten with a severe Punishment on the day of judgment.*
✅ *IN THE AUTHENTIC HADITH,
"THERE IS NO GUARDIAN THAT ALLAH PLACES IN CHARGE OF HIS FAMILY AND DIE WHILE HE IS MISLEADING HIS FAMILY EXCEPT THAT ALLAH HAS PROHIBITED FOR HIS PARADISE.*
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Do Not Teach Your Children Lies.
"Don't worry when I'm coming back from work, I will get you this" - Deep down you know aren't getting anything.
"Oya leave that place, the masquerade is coming to beat you" - when you know no one is coming, even the word masquerade is wrong.
Remember the kids have a retentive memory, they observe everything around them and implement it whenever they deem it fit needed.
When promising them
When scolding them
When telling them things
It should be truthful.
May Allah guide us.
© AbooAyinke
"Don't worry when I'm coming back from work, I will get you this" - Deep down you know aren't getting anything.
"Oya leave that place, the masquerade is coming to beat you" - when you know no one is coming, even the word masquerade is wrong.
Remember the kids have a retentive memory, they observe everything around them and implement it whenever they deem it fit needed.
When promising them
When scolding them
When telling them things
It should be truthful.
May Allah guide us.
© AbooAyinke
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🎥 Blessed With #Internet. But Rather Spat on #YouTube
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Holding birthday 🎂🍰parties for children – Permanent Committee
Q: Some of our Muslim brethren hold birthday parties for themselves and their children, what is the ruling on such festivals?
A: The basic principle regarding acts of Ibadah (worship) is that they are Tawqifiy (bound by a religious text and not amenable to personal opinion), and as such, no one is allowed to worship Allah in a way other than which He ordained, because the Prophet (peace be upon him) said in the Sahih (authentic) Hadith:
Anyone who introduces anything into this matter of ours (Islam) that is not part of it will have it rejected. [1]
He (peace be upon him) also said:
Anyone who does an action which is not in accordance with this matter of ours (Islam) will have it rejected. [2]
Birthday parties are an act of Bid’ah (innovation in religion) that should not be done for any person, regardless of their rank or role in life.
The most honorable of all creation and the best of all Messengers (peace be upon them), i.e. Muhammad ibn ‘Abdullah (peace be upon him) was never reported to have held a festival for the day he was born, or even instructed his Ummah (nation based on one creed) to celebrate it.
Similarly, the best of this Ummah after its Prophet (peace be upon him) are the Rightly-Guided Caliphs and the Sahabah (Companions of the Prophet), but none of them is reported to have made a festival for the Prophet’s birthday, or for any of them (may Allah be pleased with them), and all goodness is to be found in following their pathand patterning oneself after the teachings of the Prophet (peace be upon him).
Moreover, such Bid`ah pave the way to imitate the Jews, Christians and other Kafirs (non-Muslims) in terms of their newly invented festivals. Allah is the One sought for help!
May Allah grant us success! May peace and blessings be upon our Prophet Muhammad, his family, and Companions!
[1] Al-Bukhari, Sahih, Book on reconciliation, no. 2697; Muslim, Sahih, Book on judicial decisions, no. 1718; Abu Dawud, Sunan, Book on Al-Sunnah, no. 4606; Ibn Majah, Sunan, Introduction, no. 14; and Ahmad, Musnad, vol. 6, p. 240.
[2] Muslim, Sahih, Book on judicial decisions, no. 1718; and Ahmad Ibn Hanbal, Musnad, vol. 6, p. 180
Permanent Committee for Scholarly Research and Ifta’
Chairman : Shaykh Abdul-Aziz ibn Abdullah ibn Baz
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Q: Some of our Muslim brethren hold birthday parties for themselves and their children, what is the ruling on such festivals?
A: The basic principle regarding acts of Ibadah (worship) is that they are Tawqifiy (bound by a religious text and not amenable to personal opinion), and as such, no one is allowed to worship Allah in a way other than which He ordained, because the Prophet (peace be upon him) said in the Sahih (authentic) Hadith:
Anyone who introduces anything into this matter of ours (Islam) that is not part of it will have it rejected. [1]
He (peace be upon him) also said:
Anyone who does an action which is not in accordance with this matter of ours (Islam) will have it rejected. [2]
Birthday parties are an act of Bid’ah (innovation in religion) that should not be done for any person, regardless of their rank or role in life.
The most honorable of all creation and the best of all Messengers (peace be upon them), i.e. Muhammad ibn ‘Abdullah (peace be upon him) was never reported to have held a festival for the day he was born, or even instructed his Ummah (nation based on one creed) to celebrate it.
Similarly, the best of this Ummah after its Prophet (peace be upon him) are the Rightly-Guided Caliphs and the Sahabah (Companions of the Prophet), but none of them is reported to have made a festival for the Prophet’s birthday, or for any of them (may Allah be pleased with them), and all goodness is to be found in following their pathand patterning oneself after the teachings of the Prophet (peace be upon him).
Moreover, such Bid`ah pave the way to imitate the Jews, Christians and other Kafirs (non-Muslims) in terms of their newly invented festivals. Allah is the One sought for help!
May Allah grant us success! May peace and blessings be upon our Prophet Muhammad, his family, and Companions!
[1] Al-Bukhari, Sahih, Book on reconciliation, no. 2697; Muslim, Sahih, Book on judicial decisions, no. 1718; Abu Dawud, Sunan, Book on Al-Sunnah, no. 4606; Ibn Majah, Sunan, Introduction, no. 14; and Ahmad, Musnad, vol. 6, p. 240.
[2] Muslim, Sahih, Book on judicial decisions, no. 1718; and Ahmad Ibn Hanbal, Musnad, vol. 6, p. 180
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Holding birthday parties for children – Permanent Committee
Q: Some of our Muslim brethren hold birthday parties for themselves and their children, what is the ruling on such festivals? A: The basic principle regarding acts of Ibadah (worship) is that they…
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