Dear Parents.....Your Children are an Amaanah.. You will be question about them on day of Judgement. Be serious enough for their upbringing... 💐
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"A woman should train her children properly, for her children represent the men and women of the future."
Shaykh Saalih ibn Uthaymeen (rahimahullaah)
from The Uprightness of a Woman.
Shaykh Saalih ibn Uthaymeen (rahimahullaah)
from The Uprightness of a Woman.
One of the biggest reasons why kids from Muslim families go off track in today's time is this whole phenomenon of "Do as I say, Not as I do".
Don't expect kids to grow up with a love of Quran when they see you more attached to your gadgets than the mushaf.
If you have skipped or delayed prayers for sleep or work don't expect them to pray on time while the are busy with friends.
Dont expect kids to wake up for tahajjud when they growup while they have seen you stay awake only for netflix or for seeing crackers burst on New year's Eve.
Don't expect them to emulate the Sunnah of the Prophet while they see you contradicting it day in and day out in your manners speech and action.
When your only goal in life is to make money and build this duniya or please people around you, don't expect your kids to work towards building their aaakhira.
If you really care for their hereafter "Become who you want them to become."
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Don't expect kids to grow up with a love of Quran when they see you more attached to your gadgets than the mushaf.
If you have skipped or delayed prayers for sleep or work don't expect them to pray on time while the are busy with friends.
Dont expect kids to wake up for tahajjud when they growup while they have seen you stay awake only for netflix or for seeing crackers burst on New year's Eve.
Don't expect them to emulate the Sunnah of the Prophet while they see you contradicting it day in and day out in your manners speech and action.
When your only goal in life is to make money and build this duniya or please people around you, don't expect your kids to work towards building their aaakhira.
If you really care for their hereafter "Become who you want them to become."
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Muslim Children Tips
"A woman should train her children properly, for her children represent the men and women of the future."
Shaykh Saalih ibn Uthaymeen (rahimahullaah)
from The Uprightness of a Woman.
Shaykh Saalih ibn Uthaymeen (rahimahullaah)
from The Uprightness of a Woman.
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*We are responsible for the Salah of Children.* Take heed parents, b4 it's too late.
Waking up your children for Salah isn't disturbing. Good parents train their kids to pray & ensure they have a pious upbringing.
Waking up your children for Salah isn't disturbing. Good parents train their kids to pray & ensure they have a pious upbringing.
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In our society, there are many issues which hide behind the curtain. Youngsters don't even possess the courage to present their personal issues before the scholars or counselors, as a result, strange diseases prevail in the society and lives get shattered. One such issue is that many youngsters, especially men, who are suffering from excessive desire, their marriages are delayed and they want to masturbate or watch porn movies to relieve that. They think and assume that instead of doing zina (committing adultery) this might be less sinful. We would like to address this issue in this post.
They want to obtain relief from this sexual anxiety, but masturbation or watching movies will NOT solve the problem and will NOT weaken the desire. It will it make it WORSE and will ultimately lead them towards adultery.
Actually, people who seek such a solution to control their sexual desires want to treat the disease with the thing that is itself the disease!!!
Believe us, those who opt for such options to relieve themselves will NEVER find healing or relief in either of these two options.
Something that is itself a disease cannot bring healing from a disease; rather it will only make the disease worse.
This is no more than a passing desire and transient pleasure, but what will be left is regret and remorse.
You must do is strive to keep yourself chaste by means of marriage at the earliest possible opportunity. You do not have to be restricted by traditional social requirements; rather you should try to reduce these restrictions as much as possible and hasten to marry someone who will keep you chaste.
Until you are able to do that, you must keep away from movies completely, lower your gaze, and refrain from this secret habit. You should also fast a great deal and strive hard therein and in other acts of worship and all kinds of permissible deeds that will benefit you in this world and in the Hereafter. Do not allow yourself any free time, because if you do not keep your nafs busy with the truth, it will keep you busy with falsehood.
Always bear in mind that Allah is watching you.
The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) also said: “O young men, whoever among you can afford it should marry, and whoever cannot afford it should fast, for it will be a shield for him.”
Narrated by al-Bukhari (5065) and Muslim (1400).
They want to obtain relief from this sexual anxiety, but masturbation or watching movies will NOT solve the problem and will NOT weaken the desire. It will it make it WORSE and will ultimately lead them towards adultery.
Actually, people who seek such a solution to control their sexual desires want to treat the disease with the thing that is itself the disease!!!
Believe us, those who opt for such options to relieve themselves will NEVER find healing or relief in either of these two options.
Something that is itself a disease cannot bring healing from a disease; rather it will only make the disease worse.
This is no more than a passing desire and transient pleasure, but what will be left is regret and remorse.
You must do is strive to keep yourself chaste by means of marriage at the earliest possible opportunity. You do not have to be restricted by traditional social requirements; rather you should try to reduce these restrictions as much as possible and hasten to marry someone who will keep you chaste.
Until you are able to do that, you must keep away from movies completely, lower your gaze, and refrain from this secret habit. You should also fast a great deal and strive hard therein and in other acts of worship and all kinds of permissible deeds that will benefit you in this world and in the Hereafter. Do not allow yourself any free time, because if you do not keep your nafs busy with the truth, it will keep you busy with falsehood.
Always bear in mind that Allah is watching you.
The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) also said: “O young men, whoever among you can afford it should marry, and whoever cannot afford it should fast, for it will be a shield for him.”
Narrated by al-Bukhari (5065) and Muslim (1400).
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Muslim Children Tips
In our society, there are many issues which hide behind the curtain. Youngsters don't even possess the courage to present their personal issues before the scholars or counselors, as a result, strange diseases prevail in the society and lives get shattered.…
HERE IS THE SOLUTION FOR IT.
A father should help his son get married at a young age
Ibn al-Jawzi رحمه الله said:
❝When the son becomes a teenager, his father should marry him off because it was mentioned in the hadith, "Whoever's son reaches puberty, he can marry him off, but if he doesn't, and then the son commits a sin, then they will both share the burden of the sin."
Therefore, it is surprising when a father forgets how it was like to be a teenager. He forgets the suffering and danger of falling into sin at such age. That said, the father should know and be aware of the fact that his son will be subjected to what he previously went through. Ibrahim al-Harbi said, "The basis of corruption in young boys is the influence of other boys on each other."
However, sometimes, in very rare cases, a child may opt for knowledge over marriage and keep teaching himself patience; for instance, Ahmad bin Hanbal, may Allah have mercy on him, did not get married until he was forty.❞
Taken from the book "Awaking from the Sleep of Heedlessness" by Imam ibn Jawzi.
A father should help his son get married at a young age
Ibn al-Jawzi رحمه الله said:
❝When the son becomes a teenager, his father should marry him off because it was mentioned in the hadith, "Whoever's son reaches puberty, he can marry him off, but if he doesn't, and then the son commits a sin, then they will both share the burden of the sin."
Therefore, it is surprising when a father forgets how it was like to be a teenager. He forgets the suffering and danger of falling into sin at such age. That said, the father should know and be aware of the fact that his son will be subjected to what he previously went through. Ibrahim al-Harbi said, "The basis of corruption in young boys is the influence of other boys on each other."
However, sometimes, in very rare cases, a child may opt for knowledge over marriage and keep teaching himself patience; for instance, Ahmad bin Hanbal, may Allah have mercy on him, did not get married until he was forty.❞
Taken from the book "Awaking from the Sleep of Heedlessness" by Imam ibn Jawzi.
Parents speak good words to your kids. Especially when you get angry be mindful of your words. I heard a student say the other day to another student..
Goo khaya mor(eat shit and Die, in bengali language)
I said where did you learn that phrase from. He said his mother.
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Goo khaya mor(eat shit and Die, in bengali language)
I said where did you learn that phrase from. He said his mother.
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"A woman should train her children properly, for her children represent the men and women of the future."
Shaykh Saalih ibn Uthaymeen (rahimahullaah)
from The Uprightness of a Woman.
Shaykh Saalih ibn Uthaymeen (rahimahullaah)
from The Uprightness of a Woman.