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"A woman should train her children properly, for her children represent the men and women of the future."

Shaykh Saalih ibn Uthaymeen (rahimahullaah)
from The Uprightness of a Woman.
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The Salaf (rahimahumullah) with their children:

When a child of theirs would grow up, they would busy him with memorizing the Quran and listening to ahadeeth and thus eemaan would become firm in his heart.

[Ibn al-Jawzi (rahimahullah), Captured Thoughts, 602]
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Your destinies are taken from your mouth! If you pray to Allah asking for sucess you will succeed and if you pray asking for ease He will ease all your affairs.
Allah does not inspire you to make dua for something He does not want it for you and not to deny you it's reward but He inspires because He wants you to get what you wish for with His permission.
So think well of Allah you will get what you wish and rest assured if He inspired you to make dua, then your wish is yours by the will of Allah.
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Ibn al-Qayyim رحمه الله said:

“Parenting is such a mighty matter in Islam that on the Day of Judgement, Allāh will ask the child about the effectiveness of the parent, before asking the parent about the obedience of the child."

[Tuhfah Al-Mawdud by Ibn Qayyim | Pg. 158-161 & Pg. 168-17]
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Don’t raise your voice towards the ones who raised you.
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Teach ur kids the Surahs of the Quraan dont let anyone else take the reward
Forwarded from Authentic Duas
"I Only Complain Of My Suffering And Grief To Allah" ...

اِنَّمَآ اَشْکُوْا بَثِّیْ وَ حُزْنِیْ اِلَی اللهِ

Transliteration:
Innamā ashkū bath-thī wa ḥuznī ilAllāh.

Reference:
When Prophet Ya‘qūb (a.s) was deeply grieved by the hurtful actions of his sons, he said:
I only complain of my suffering and my grief to Allah.

[Yūsuf: 86]
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On Doing Justice Between Children, Boys and Girls

Prophet (sallAllahu 'alayhi wa-'alihi wa-sallam) said:

**Fear Allah, and do justice between your children.**

[al-Bukhaari, 2587; Muslim, 1623]
Love and respect your father. Because while you are busy scrolling stuffs on your phone, he's also busy earning money to bring food to your home.
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《Children’s Upbringing》

If you go to the beach with your kids, ask one of them to dip his finger into the sea and take it out, then ask his siblings:
“How much seawater did your brother remove with his finger-dip? A third, a quarter, or half the ocean?”

As you hear their laughter tell them that our prophet ﷺ said:
"This world (i.e., its pleasures and duration) in comparison with the Hereafter is similar to the amount of water one gets when he dips his finger into the ocean. Let him then see how much of the ocean’s water he can remove.”

Seize such opportunities to attach your children’s hearts to the Hereafter.

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📍**O Parents! Fear Allāh and nurture your daughters upon the obedience of Allāh**
💎The Three Babies That Spoke In The Cradle

The Prophet (ﷺ) said,

"None spoke in cradle but three: (The first was) Jesus, (the second was), there a man from Bani Israel called Juraij.

While he was offering his prayers, his mother came and called him. He said (to himself), 'Shall I answer her or keep on praying?" (He went on praying) and did not answer her, his mother said, "O Allah! Do not let him die till he sees the faces of prostitutes."

So while he was in his hermitage, a lady came and sought to seduce him, but he refused. So she went to a shepherd and presented herself to him to commit illegal sexual intercourse with her and then later she gave birth to a child and claimed that it belonged to Juraij.

The people, therefore, came to him and dismantled his hermitage and expelled him out of it and abused him. Juraij performed the ablution and offered prayer, and then came to the child and said, 'O child! Who is your father?' The child replied, 'The shepherd.' (After hearing this) the people said, 'We shall rebuild your hermitage of gold,' but he said, 'No, of nothing but mud.'

(The third was the hero of the following story) A lady from Bani Israel was nursing her child at her breast when a handsome rider passed by her. She said, 'O Allah! Make my child like him.' On that the child left her breast, and facing the rider said, 'O Allah! Do not make me like him.'

The child then started to suck her breast again. (Abu Huraira further said, "As if I were now looking at the Prophet (ﷺ) sucking his finger (in way of demonstration.") After a while the people passed by, with a lady slave and she (i.e. the child's mother) said, 'O Allah! Do not make my child like this (slave girl)!, On that the child left her breast and said, 'O Allah! Make me like her.'

When she asked why, the child replied, 'The rider is one of the tyrants while this slave girl is falsely accused of theft and illegal sexual intercourse."

[Sahih al-Bukhari 3436 | Translation by: Muhsin Khan]

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Ibn al-Qayyim رحمه الله said:

“Parenting is such a mighty matter in Islam that on the Day of Judgement, Allāh will ask the child about the effectiveness of the parent, before asking the parent about the obedience of the child."

[Tuhfah Al-Mawdud by Ibn Qayyim | Pg. 158-161 & Pg. 168-17]

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Teach ur daughter Haya from a young age

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“Many people are unaware (𝗼𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝗲𝗰𝗿𝗲𝘁 𝗼𝗳 𝘀𝘂𝗰𝗰𝗲𝘀𝘀) that seeking the pleasure of their parents (𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗺𝗮𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗺 𝗵𝗮𝗽𝗽𝘆).”

[At Their Feet: Piety Towards Parents, pg. 12, Ibn al-Jawzi (رحمه اللّٰه)]
[ourparents]

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𝗘𝘅𝗽𝗼𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗖𝗵𝗶𝗹𝗱𝗿𝗲𝗻 𝗢𝗻𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗲 𝗖𝗮𝗻 𝗖𝗮𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝗘𝘃𝗶𝗹 𝗘𝘆𝗲

Rasūlullāh ﷺ has spoken about evil eye and confirms that it is true and some people have evil eyes. Which is why many du'ās were revealed in several hadīth which protect us from evil eyes.

Umm Salamah Narrated that Rasūlullāh ﷺ saw a servant girl in her house whose face has become discolored.
Rasūlullāh ﷺ said: “Treat her with protective recitations, as she has been afflicted by an evil eyes.” [Sahīh al-Bukhārī, 5739]

So what is evil eyes?

Naturally some people have some sort of elements inside them which influence them to cause harm onto others whenever they comment on them or look at them.

This scenario is evident in the Seerah of Rasūlullāh ﷺ where a man looked at a fellow companion and admired his back by saying "You have such a beautiful back". The Sahabi fell unconsciously until the Rasūlullāh ﷺ intervene.

Ibn Abbas narrated that Rasūlullāh ﷺ said:

“The evil eye is real. If anything could precede the divine decree, it would be preceded by the evil eye. When you are asked to perform a ritual bath, then do so.” [Sahīh Muslim, 2188]

So dear parents and family members,

Whenever you post pictures of your children on social media, there are high chances that someone with evil eyes can see them and comment, and that gesture could cause harm to them. Which is why sometimes kids will be sick and you just can't figure out why they are sick or what's happening to them.

The irony is that people who have evil eyes might not necessarily know it.
So they keep using it and keep harming people unintentionally.

Hence, I urge you to avoid posting photos of children, at times even adults can be affected. Look at people who are beautiful or handsome, when they post something, thousands of people like and comment on it. Only Allāh knows what's going on behind the scene.

Whenever the baby is born don't you dare to expose their cuteness on this platform.
Just share it to your loved ones and trusted persons. And don't forget to make Du'ā, say “Allāhumma bārik” to save them from evil mouth and evil heart.

If you are tempted and feel overwhelmed then stop, take a deep breath, think hundred times before clicking. Don't take it lightly. 𝗦𝗶𝗵𝗿, 𝗘𝗻𝘃𝘆, 𝗘𝘃𝗶𝗹 𝗘𝘆𝗲 𝗶𝘀 𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗹 𝗺𝗮𝘆 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗱 𝘁𝗼 𝗗𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗵

Enjoy Allāh's blessing privately.
you don't have to announce your happiness to everyone, remember that not everyone is happy for what you have. Prevention is better than cure.

May Allāh protect the innocent children from any evilness of this world. آمين

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𝗠𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿'𝘀 𝗗𝘂𝘁𝘆

Shaykh Sālih Al-Fawzān (حفظه اللّٰه) said:

“The duty of the mother in raising the child is not an easy job. Rather, it is a job that requires knowledge and it requires effort, in order to be consistent.”

[A woman's guide to raising a family, pg. 53]

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Prepare Yourself Mentally
The shaikh, Dr. Muḥammad ibn Ghālib Al-ʿUmarī, may Allāh protect him, said:

Get yourself in the habit of mentally anticipating the worst possible outcomes so that it becomes easy for you to overcome crisis situations. Prepare yourself mentally for:

I. separation from a loved one;
II. animosity or hostility from a friend;
III. the deception or conspiring of someone close [to you against you];
IV. setbacks or failures occurring;
V. losses taking place.

But don’t let that stop you from being optimistic; don’t let pessimism find its way into your heart. For between pessimism and anticipating the worst possible outcomes is a [clear] distinction, just as there is between the sky and the earth.

Source: @m_g_alomari. 4 Dec 21. 16:28 GMT+3.

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Forwarded from Abu Ibraheem Hussnayn
Pornography is one of the biggest issues facing all of humanity. It absolutely ruins you physically, mentally and spiritually. It destroys lives, ruins relationships and breeds sexual predators.

Lowering the gaze has always been a key part of human existence, but now more than ever, it is extremely difficult to do. I don't believe the answer is to "get married" because married men are consuming porn just as much as single men.

So rectification comes from fearing Allah, busying oneself with the beneficial actions, regularly making taubah and closing all doors to the sin. A person may also seek counselling for help leaving porn because it is a drug. No. It is worse than the narcotics we have today.

May Allah fix our affairs and forgive our sins.
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