One day, by the mercy of Allah, some will be parents, and some have already become parents.
Kindly take care of your son. A boy is not like a girl, nor should you treat a boy as you would a girl. If you have both a son and a daughter by the mercy of Allah, do not treat your son like your daughter.
When a boy reaches puberty, he has no one with him. I am a guy, and I know that even though the father is always there, there will always be an invisible awkwardness between a father and son, especially in this era. A mother is a mother, no matter how close the son is to her; she will not become a person to whom he can open up.
So, learn before you get married because if the parents are not there, no matter how many friends and buddies he gets, it won't work. Learn how to raise a son.
There is a perfect scenario as an example. There is a game called "Three-Legged Race" (this classic game involves tying two people's inner ankles together and having them race to a finish line while hopping or running side-by-side). Do you know what happens when you put two different kinds of people together in this game? One is very fast and strong, and the other is slow and not so active. When they run together, the slower one always makes the faster one slow like him, and this happens all the time. What happens when they play like this for a week?
The faster one no longer stays faster anymore; he adopts and becomes like the slower one. This is exactly what happens when you treat your son and raise him like a daughter, and this is a major problem in this time. When you say a boy and a girl are equal, you push the daughter to become more like a boy. Do you think a girl will become a boy? No, she becomes a mixture.
The same happens when you are raising a daughter and a son together. The son is already a boy, so the parents push their daughter to lose her haya, push her bit by bit to change her fitrah. At the same time, you condition the son, keep dominating him, changing his psychology bit by bit, enforcing him to become more feminine. This is how the son and daughter become equal.
What we get is a daughter who is a mixture and a boy who is also a mixture. The girl suffers, but the majority gets their fitrah destroyed, so they become more like a man. The boy gets destroyed both physically and mentally, becomes weak and coward. Do you know what this way of raising your son does to him?
I have not seen many talking about this, but it's becoming more and more common that children at the age of 6-8 have such low levels of testosterone that their penises get small. If this is not noticed by the parents, and if the boy reaches the age of 10-12 (the age of puberty) with that low testosterone, and due to low testosterone gets a micro penis, this child will forever stay like that. He becomes infertile, and so many small boys are having this; you cannot imagine this number. Wallahi, so many you cannot imagine.
I myself have encountered three children this year (2023). One of them is my relative, and this issue is so hidden that if a child stays silent, there is very little chance anyone will know this. You can say this is genetic and blah blah, but it's not genetic. The majority suffer from this due to the way they are brought up in their household, the way they get treated by their parents. Heavily dominated, being in an environment where his mother acts like his father, where he continuously gets an environment of feminist ideology, this environment causes his body to stop producing testosterone.
You can research about this, read about this, but the core message is to treat your son as a man.
Kindly take care of your son. A boy is not like a girl, nor should you treat a boy as you would a girl. If you have both a son and a daughter by the mercy of Allah, do not treat your son like your daughter.
When a boy reaches puberty, he has no one with him. I am a guy, and I know that even though the father is always there, there will always be an invisible awkwardness between a father and son, especially in this era. A mother is a mother, no matter how close the son is to her; she will not become a person to whom he can open up.
So, learn before you get married because if the parents are not there, no matter how many friends and buddies he gets, it won't work. Learn how to raise a son.
There is a perfect scenario as an example. There is a game called "Three-Legged Race" (this classic game involves tying two people's inner ankles together and having them race to a finish line while hopping or running side-by-side). Do you know what happens when you put two different kinds of people together in this game? One is very fast and strong, and the other is slow and not so active. When they run together, the slower one always makes the faster one slow like him, and this happens all the time. What happens when they play like this for a week?
The faster one no longer stays faster anymore; he adopts and becomes like the slower one. This is exactly what happens when you treat your son and raise him like a daughter, and this is a major problem in this time. When you say a boy and a girl are equal, you push the daughter to become more like a boy. Do you think a girl will become a boy? No, she becomes a mixture.
The same happens when you are raising a daughter and a son together. The son is already a boy, so the parents push their daughter to lose her haya, push her bit by bit to change her fitrah. At the same time, you condition the son, keep dominating him, changing his psychology bit by bit, enforcing him to become more feminine. This is how the son and daughter become equal.
What we get is a daughter who is a mixture and a boy who is also a mixture. The girl suffers, but the majority gets their fitrah destroyed, so they become more like a man. The boy gets destroyed both physically and mentally, becomes weak and coward. Do you know what this way of raising your son does to him?
I have not seen many talking about this, but it's becoming more and more common that children at the age of 6-8 have such low levels of testosterone that their penises get small. If this is not noticed by the parents, and if the boy reaches the age of 10-12 (the age of puberty) with that low testosterone, and due to low testosterone gets a micro penis, this child will forever stay like that. He becomes infertile, and so many small boys are having this; you cannot imagine this number. Wallahi, so many you cannot imagine.
I myself have encountered three children this year (2023). One of them is my relative, and this issue is so hidden that if a child stays silent, there is very little chance anyone will know this. You can say this is genetic and blah blah, but it's not genetic. The majority suffer from this due to the way they are brought up in their household, the way they get treated by their parents. Heavily dominated, being in an environment where his mother acts like his father, where he continuously gets an environment of feminist ideology, this environment causes his body to stop producing testosterone.
You can research about this, read about this, but the core message is to treat your son as a man.
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Parents go to any length for the welfare of their children, sacrificing and compromising along the way:
Concerning the saying of Allaah تعالى:
﴿إِنَّمَآ أَمْوَلُكُمْ وَأَوْلَـدُكُمْ فِتْنَةٌ وَاللَّهُ عِنْدَهُ أَجْرٌ عَظِيمٌ ﴾
{Your wealth and your children are only a Fintah, whereas Allaah! With Him is a great reward} [Surah al-Taghaabun (64): 15]
Imaam al-Tirmidhee reported on the authority of Buraidah bin al-Husaib رضي الله عنه that Allaah’s Messenger صلى الله عليه وسلم was delivering a sermon to them when al-Hasan and al-Husain came stumbling (towards him). They were wearing shirts of red color. So, Allaah’s Messenger صلى الله عليه وسلم got down from the pulpit, carried them (in his arms) and made them sit in front of him. Then he صلى الله عليه وسلم said: “Allaah has spoken the truth: {Your riches and your children are only a trial.} I saw these two children stumbling as they walked and could not be patient until I interrupted my sermon and carried them (here).”
[Tirmidhee (3774) and graded as “Saheeh” by Shaikh al-Albaanee as well as in Saheeh al-Nasa’ee (1584)]
Concerning the saying of Allaah تعالى:
﴿إِنَّمَآ أَمْوَلُكُمْ وَأَوْلَـدُكُمْ فِتْنَةٌ وَاللَّهُ عِنْدَهُ أَجْرٌ عَظِيمٌ ﴾
{Your wealth and your children are only a Fintah, whereas Allaah! With Him is a great reward} [Surah al-Taghaabun (64): 15]
Imaam al-Tirmidhee reported on the authority of Buraidah bin al-Husaib رضي الله عنه that Allaah’s Messenger صلى الله عليه وسلم was delivering a sermon to them when al-Hasan and al-Husain came stumbling (towards him). They were wearing shirts of red color. So, Allaah’s Messenger صلى الله عليه وسلم got down from the pulpit, carried them (in his arms) and made them sit in front of him. Then he صلى الله عليه وسلم said: “Allaah has spoken the truth: {Your riches and your children are only a trial.} I saw these two children stumbling as they walked and could not be patient until I interrupted my sermon and carried them (here).”
[Tirmidhee (3774) and graded as “Saheeh” by Shaikh al-Albaanee as well as in Saheeh al-Nasa’ee (1584)]
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A healthy household must contain:
1- Establishing and maintaining prayers with care
2- Reading Athkaar
3- Reciting Quran
4- Gatherings of knowledge and khair
5- Respecting elders and being kind to youngsters
6- The father fulfilling his duties
7- The mother fulfilling her tasks
8- Family conversations
9- Co-operation amongst all
10- Protecting the secrets of the family from outsiders
https://x.com/m_g_alomari_eng/status/1626588866898690053?s=46
البيت الصحي لابد فيه من:
١- إقامة الصلاة والمحافظة عليها
٢- قراءة الأذكار
٣- تلاوة القرآن
٤- مجالس العلم والخير
٥- احترام الكبير والرفق بالصغير
٦- قيام الأب بواجباته
٧-قيام الأم بمهامها
٨- مجالس الحوار
٩- التعاون بين الجميع
١٠- حفظ أسرار الأسرة عن الدخلاء.
https://news.1rj.ru/str/MuslimChildrenTips
1- Establishing and maintaining prayers with care
2- Reading Athkaar
3- Reciting Quran
4- Gatherings of knowledge and khair
5- Respecting elders and being kind to youngsters
6- The father fulfilling his duties
7- The mother fulfilling her tasks
8- Family conversations
9- Co-operation amongst all
10- Protecting the secrets of the family from outsiders
https://x.com/m_g_alomari_eng/status/1626588866898690053?s=46
البيت الصحي لابد فيه من:
١- إقامة الصلاة والمحافظة عليها
٢- قراءة الأذكار
٣- تلاوة القرآن
٤- مجالس العلم والخير
٥- احترام الكبير والرفق بالصغير
٦- قيام الأب بواجباته
٧-قيام الأم بمهامها
٨- مجالس الحوار
٩- التعاون بين الجميع
١٠- حفظ أسرار الأسرة عن الدخلاء.
https://news.1rj.ru/str/MuslimChildrenTips
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One of the biggest reasons why kids from Muslim families go off track in today's time is this whole phenomenon of "Do as I say, Not as I do".
Don't expect kids to grow up with a love of Quran when they see you more attached to your gadgets than the mushaf.
If you have skipped or delayed prayers for sleep or work don't expect them to pray on time while the are busy with friends.
Dont expect kids to wake up for tahajjud when they growup while they have seen you stay awake only for netflix or for seeing crackers burst on New year's Eve.
Don't expect them to emulate the Sunnah of the Prophet while they see you contradicting it day in and day out in your manners speech and action.
When your only goal in life is to make money and build this duniya or please people around you, don't expect your kids to work towards building their aaakhira.
If you really care for their hereafter "Become who you want them to become."
Don't expect kids to grow up with a love of Quran when they see you more attached to your gadgets than the mushaf.
If you have skipped or delayed prayers for sleep or work don't expect them to pray on time while the are busy with friends.
Dont expect kids to wake up for tahajjud when they growup while they have seen you stay awake only for netflix or for seeing crackers burst on New year's Eve.
Don't expect them to emulate the Sunnah of the Prophet while they see you contradicting it day in and day out in your manners speech and action.
When your only goal in life is to make money and build this duniya or please people around you, don't expect your kids to work towards building their aaakhira.
If you really care for their hereafter "Become who you want them to become."
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Abul-Hasan al-Qattan, may Allah have mercy on him, said:
أُصبت ببصري، وأظن أني عوقبت بكثرة بكاء أمي أيام فراقي لهافي طلب الحديث والعلم
"I lost my eyesight, and I believe it was a punishment for me for my mother's excessive cry during the days of our separation while I was out seeking knowledge & hadeeth ."
معجم الأدباء(٢٢٠/١٢)
أُصبت ببصري، وأظن أني عوقبت بكثرة بكاء أمي أيام فراقي لهافي طلب الحديث والعلم
"I lost my eyesight, and I believe it was a punishment for me for my mother's excessive cry during the days of our separation while I was out seeking knowledge & hadeeth ."
معجم الأدباء(٢٢٠/١٢)
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Imam Malik was teaching his class in Masjid An-Nabawi and when he teached a ḥadith, he always mentioned the entire chain of narration.
And one day he saw a boy playing with a straw whilst he was teaching. He continued teaching until the end of the lesson before approaching the young boy.
He asked the boy: “How dare you mess about whilst being taught teachings from our Nabi?”
The boy told Imam Malik that he was not playing with the straw but instead, he was using his saliva to make notes as he did not have have money for pen and paper.
Imam Malik tested the boy and he was able to narrate every single ḥadīth with the chain of narration.
This boy, was Imam Shafi'i.
● {الشناوى صحفة ٤}
And one day he saw a boy playing with a straw whilst he was teaching. He continued teaching until the end of the lesson before approaching the young boy.
He asked the boy: “How dare you mess about whilst being taught teachings from our Nabi?”
The boy told Imam Malik that he was not playing with the straw but instead, he was using his saliva to make notes as he did not have have money for pen and paper.
Imam Malik tested the boy and he was able to narrate every single ḥadīth with the chain of narration.
This boy, was Imam Shafi'i.
● {الشناوى صحفة ٤}
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At a time parents wants their children to be like someone from society....and then a time comes children follow and care about society only.....
There is something missing in parenting these days. I am not judging anyone,but want to suggest really..
When you teach your child to be like someone from your perspective, they also find something to follow from their perspective..these two can b different.
This is a normal thing, when your child views and choices are different from you. Nothing like, your child is "nafarman". No they are not, only bcoz of difference in choice.
Everyone is society have some good quality..and something we don't like.
So when your child start to follow..can follow both.
There is a solution..why not we teach seerah of our prophet salAllaahu alaihi wa sallam and pious predecessors!!
Isn't a good choice.. bcoz this would teach them how to live in society without loosing Allaah, and when they fear to lose Allaah..in sha Allaah..they also fear to lose you or the morals you wanna teach them..
You love your kids...than why to push them in the world of delusion..let them learn real... Reality of this world and next..
Allaah knows best..
The Messenger of Allah (salAllaahu alaihi wa sallam) as said: Each of you is a shepherd and each of you is responsible for his flock. The amir (ruler) who is over the people is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock; a man is a shepherd in charge of the inhabitants of his household and he is responsible for his flock; a woman is a shepherdess in charge of her husband's house and children and she is responsible for them; and a man's slave is a shepherd in charge of his master's property and he is responsible for it. So each of you is a shepherd and each of you is responsible for his flock..
Grade: Sahih (Al-Albani)
Reference: Sunan Abi Dawud 2928,Bk 20, Hadith 1
It a duty of every shepherd to take care of his flock, by means of duniya and for akhirah too..
There is something missing in parenting these days. I am not judging anyone,but want to suggest really..
When you teach your child to be like someone from your perspective, they also find something to follow from their perspective..these two can b different.
This is a normal thing, when your child views and choices are different from you. Nothing like, your child is "nafarman". No they are not, only bcoz of difference in choice.
Everyone is society have some good quality..and something we don't like.
So when your child start to follow..can follow both.
There is a solution..why not we teach seerah of our prophet salAllaahu alaihi wa sallam and pious predecessors!!
Isn't a good choice.. bcoz this would teach them how to live in society without loosing Allaah, and when they fear to lose Allaah..in sha Allaah..they also fear to lose you or the morals you wanna teach them..
You love your kids...than why to push them in the world of delusion..let them learn real... Reality of this world and next..
Allaah knows best..
The Messenger of Allah (salAllaahu alaihi wa sallam) as said: Each of you is a shepherd and each of you is responsible for his flock. The amir (ruler) who is over the people is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock; a man is a shepherd in charge of the inhabitants of his household and he is responsible for his flock; a woman is a shepherdess in charge of her husband's house and children and she is responsible for them; and a man's slave is a shepherd in charge of his master's property and he is responsible for it. So each of you is a shepherd and each of you is responsible for his flock..
Grade: Sahih (Al-Albani)
Reference: Sunan Abi Dawud 2928,Bk 20, Hadith 1
It a duty of every shepherd to take care of his flock, by means of duniya and for akhirah too..
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In his famous explanation of Sahih al-Bukhari, ibn Hajr mentioned the following narration:
[سأل رجل الحسن البصري عن قوله تعالى: {رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ} ما القرَّة؟ أفي الدنيا أم الآخرة؟ قال: بل في الدُّنيا هي والله أن يرى العبد من ولده طاعة الله وما شيء أقر لعين المؤمن من أن يرى حبيبه في طاعة الله.]
A man asked al-Hasan al-Basri about Allah's statement:
[رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ]
"O our Lord, grant us pleasure to our eyes in our wives and offspring." [al-Furqan 74]
He asked, "What is this pleasure? Is it in this life or the next?"
al-Hasan replied, "No, it is in this life. I swear by Allah, it is for a person to see his child obeying Allah, and there is nothing more pleasing to a believer's eyes than to see his loved one obeying Allah."
[Fath al-Bari 8/348]
[سأل رجل الحسن البصري عن قوله تعالى: {رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ} ما القرَّة؟ أفي الدنيا أم الآخرة؟ قال: بل في الدُّنيا هي والله أن يرى العبد من ولده طاعة الله وما شيء أقر لعين المؤمن من أن يرى حبيبه في طاعة الله.]
A man asked al-Hasan al-Basri about Allah's statement:
[رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ]
"O our Lord, grant us pleasure to our eyes in our wives and offspring." [al-Furqan 74]
He asked, "What is this pleasure? Is it in this life or the next?"
al-Hasan replied, "No, it is in this life. I swear by Allah, it is for a person to see his child obeying Allah, and there is nothing more pleasing to a believer's eyes than to see his loved one obeying Allah."
[Fath al-Bari 8/348]
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☘️All You Need to Know About Jumu'āh (Friday)☘️
💫 The Messenger of Allāh (sallAllahu ʿalayhi wa ’aalihi wa sallam) said:
Verily, Allāh has made this day (of Friday) a celebration for the Muslims. So whoever comes to Friday (prayer), then let him bathe himself, and if he has any perfume let him put some on, and use the toothstick.
📖 [Reported by Ibn Mājah 1098 and Ṣaḥīḥ at-Targheeb 1/298]
💫 Shaykh Ṣāliḥ Al-Fawzān (Ḥafiḏahu ’llah) was asked:
What is the ruling on sending text messages every Friday and ending with the phrase “Jumu’āh Mubārak”?
He replied:
The early generation (salaf) did not congratulate one another on Fridays (did not say Jumu’āh Mubarak to each other) so we should not introduce anything that they did not do.
📖 [Shaykh Ṣāliḥ Al-Fawzān (Ḥafiḏahu ’llah), Ajwabat As’ilah Majallat al-Da‘wah al-Islamiyyah]
💫 Ibn al-Qayyim (Raḥmatu ’llāhi ‘alay-hi) said:
The Friday prayer is from the greatest of congregations of the Muslims.
📖 [Ibn al-Qayyim (Raḥmatu ’llāhi ‘alay-hi), Zaad al-Ma’aad, 1/364-365]
💫 The Messenger of Allāh (sallAllahu ʿalayhi wa ’aalihi wa sallam) said:
Increase in salutations upon me, on the day of Friday (Jumu’āh) and its night (from Thursday after Maghrib).
📖 [Ibn al-Qayyim (Raḥmatu ’llāhi ‘alay-hi), Zaad al-Ma’aad, 2/420]
💫 The Prophet of Allāh (sallAllahu ʿalayhi wa ’aalihi wa sallam) reported to have said:
The best of prayers with Allāh is the prayer of morning (Fajr) on the Day of Friday in congregation.
📖 [as-Saheehah, 1566]
💫 The Prophet of Allāh (sallAllahu ʿalayhi wa ’aalihi wa sallam) said:
Whoever reads Surah Al-Kahf on Fridays will be adorned with light from that Friday to the next.
📖 [Ṣaḥīḥ Jami’ as-Sagheer, 2/6470]
💫 The Prophet of Allāh (sallAllahu ʿalayhi wa ’aalihi wa sallam) said:
Whoever recites Surah Al-Kahf on Friday will have a light for him between this Friday and the next.
📖 [as-Sunan al-Kubra, 5856]
💫 The Prophet of Allah (sallAllahu ʿalayhi wa ’aalihi wa sallam) said:
There is such an hour on Friday, that if any Muslim makes Du’ā during it, his Du’ā will be accepted.
📖 [Ṣaḥīḥ Al-Bukhārī, 5295, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 852]
💫 The Prophet of Allāh (sallAllahu ʿalayhi wa ’aalihi wa sallam) said:
Whoever performs Ghusl on Friday, and bathes completely, and goes early, arriving early, gets close and listens and is silent, there will be for him in every step he takes, the reward of a year of fasting and standing (in prayer).
📖 [Jami’ at-Tirmidhī, 496]
💫 Prophet Muḥammad (sallAllahu ʿalayhi wa ’aalihi wa sallam) said:
Jumu'āh to Jumu'āh expiates the minor sins in between them except for the major sins.
📖 [Silsilah as-Saheehah, 3623]
💫 The Prophet of Allah (sallAllahu ʿalayhi wa ’aalihi wa sallam) said:
The best of days with Allāh is the day of Jumu'ah.
📖 [Ṣaḥīḥ aj-Jami’, 1098, as-Silsilah as-Saheehah, 1502]
💫 Ibn al-Qayyim (Raḥmatu ’llāhi ‘alay-hi) said:
The Hour of Response in it (i.e., Friday) is like the Night of Decree in Ramaḍān.
📖 [Ibn al-Qayyim (Raḥmatu ’llāhi ‘alay-hi), Zaad al-Ma’ad, 1/893]
💫 The Messenger of Allāh (sallAllahu ʿalayhi wa ’aalihi wa sallam) said:
Verily, Allāh has made this day (of Friday) a celebration for the Muslims. So whoever comes to Friday (prayer), then let him bathe himself, and if he has any perfume let him put some on, and use the toothstick.
📖 [Reported by Ibn Mājah 1098 and Ṣaḥīḥ at-Targheeb 1/298]
💫 Shaykh Ṣāliḥ Al-Fawzān (Ḥafiḏahu ’llah) was asked:
What is the ruling on sending text messages every Friday and ending with the phrase “Jumu’āh Mubārak”?
He replied:
The early generation (salaf) did not congratulate one another on Fridays (did not say Jumu’āh Mubarak to each other) so we should not introduce anything that they did not do.
📖 [Shaykh Ṣāliḥ Al-Fawzān (Ḥafiḏahu ’llah), Ajwabat As’ilah Majallat al-Da‘wah al-Islamiyyah]
💫 Ibn al-Qayyim (Raḥmatu ’llāhi ‘alay-hi) said:
The Friday prayer is from the greatest of congregations of the Muslims.
📖 [Ibn al-Qayyim (Raḥmatu ’llāhi ‘alay-hi), Zaad al-Ma’aad, 1/364-365]
💫 The Messenger of Allāh (sallAllahu ʿalayhi wa ’aalihi wa sallam) said:
Increase in salutations upon me, on the day of Friday (Jumu’āh) and its night (from Thursday after Maghrib).
📖 [Ibn al-Qayyim (Raḥmatu ’llāhi ‘alay-hi), Zaad al-Ma’aad, 2/420]
💫 The Prophet of Allāh (sallAllahu ʿalayhi wa ’aalihi wa sallam) reported to have said:
The best of prayers with Allāh is the prayer of morning (Fajr) on the Day of Friday in congregation.
📖 [as-Saheehah, 1566]
💫 The Prophet of Allāh (sallAllahu ʿalayhi wa ’aalihi wa sallam) said:
Whoever reads Surah Al-Kahf on Fridays will be adorned with light from that Friday to the next.
📖 [Ṣaḥīḥ Jami’ as-Sagheer, 2/6470]
💫 The Prophet of Allāh (sallAllahu ʿalayhi wa ’aalihi wa sallam) said:
Whoever recites Surah Al-Kahf on Friday will have a light for him between this Friday and the next.
📖 [as-Sunan al-Kubra, 5856]
💫 The Prophet of Allah (sallAllahu ʿalayhi wa ’aalihi wa sallam) said:
There is such an hour on Friday, that if any Muslim makes Du’ā during it, his Du’ā will be accepted.
📖 [Ṣaḥīḥ Al-Bukhārī, 5295, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 852]
💫 The Prophet of Allāh (sallAllahu ʿalayhi wa ’aalihi wa sallam) said:
Whoever performs Ghusl on Friday, and bathes completely, and goes early, arriving early, gets close and listens and is silent, there will be for him in every step he takes, the reward of a year of fasting and standing (in prayer).
📖 [Jami’ at-Tirmidhī, 496]
💫 Prophet Muḥammad (sallAllahu ʿalayhi wa ’aalihi wa sallam) said:
Jumu'āh to Jumu'āh expiates the minor sins in between them except for the major sins.
📖 [Silsilah as-Saheehah, 3623]
💫 The Prophet of Allah (sallAllahu ʿalayhi wa ’aalihi wa sallam) said:
The best of days with Allāh is the day of Jumu'ah.
📖 [Ṣaḥīḥ aj-Jami’, 1098, as-Silsilah as-Saheehah, 1502]
💫 Ibn al-Qayyim (Raḥmatu ’llāhi ‘alay-hi) said:
The Hour of Response in it (i.e., Friday) is like the Night of Decree in Ramaḍān.
📖 [Ibn al-Qayyim (Raḥmatu ’llāhi ‘alay-hi), Zaad al-Ma’ad, 1/893]
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✒ Do Not Abandon Your Mother
قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم : الزمها - يعني الوالدة - فإن الجنة تحت أقدامها
The Messenger of Allāh Ṣallallāhu-'Alaihi Wa Sallam said:
“Stick with her (meaning: your mother) for indeed Paradise is BENEATH HER FEET.”
● [مختصر صحيح الجامع الصغير ١٢٤٩ ، حسنه الألباني
Mukhtaṣar Ṣaḥīḥ al-Jāmi' aṣ-Ṣagheer no. 1249, declared 'Ḥasan' by al-Albānī]
Translated By: Sameeullaah Sameeullaah (Aboo Maryamm)
قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم : الزمها - يعني الوالدة - فإن الجنة تحت أقدامها
The Messenger of Allāh Ṣallallāhu-'Alaihi Wa Sallam said:
“Stick with her (meaning: your mother) for indeed Paradise is BENEATH HER FEET.”
● [مختصر صحيح الجامع الصغير ١٢٤٩ ، حسنه الألباني
Mukhtaṣar Ṣaḥīḥ al-Jāmi' aṣ-Ṣagheer no. 1249, declared 'Ḥasan' by al-Albānī]
Translated By: Sameeullaah Sameeullaah (Aboo Maryamm)
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*You can't love your children more than you love their mother.......*
*If you treat the mother of your children with disregard, you put your* *children through trauma.*
*If you think that your children don't understand anything yet, permit me to tell you that they see and understand everything with their hearts. Read that again.*
*If you must love your children properly, you must love their mother correctly.*
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*If you treat the mother of your children with disregard, you put your* *children through trauma.*
*If you think that your children don't understand anything yet, permit me to tell you that they see and understand everything with their hearts. Read that again.*
*If you must love your children properly, you must love their mother correctly.*
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Muhammad ibn Jarir al-Tabari mentioned the following narration in his tafsir of surah Aal 'Imran:
[حدثنا محمد بن المثنى ، وجابر بن الكردي ، والحسن بن أبي يحيى المقدسي ، قالوا : حدثنا أبو أحمد قال : حدثنا سفيان ، عن أبيه ، عن أبي الضحى ، عن مسروق ، عن عبد الله بن مسعود قال : قال رسول الله - صلى الله عليه وسلم - : إن لكل نبي ولاة من النبيين ، وإن وليي منهم أبي وخليل ربي ، ثم قرأ : " إن أولى الناس بإبراهيم للذين اتبعوه وهذا النبي والذين آمنوا والله ولي المؤمنين "]
... ibn Mas'ood said that Allah's Messenger said:
❝Every prophet has a companion prophets, and my companion out of them is my father, the close friend of my Lord❞
and then he recited:
[إِنَّ أَوْلَى النَّاسِ بِإِبْرَاهِيمَ لَلَّذِينَ اتَّبَعُوهُ وَهَٰذَا النَّبِيُّ وَالَّذِينَ آمَنُوا ۗ وَاللَّهُ وَلِيُّ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ]
"The closest of people to Ibrahim are those who follow him, which are the Prophet and those who believe. And Allah is the supporter of the believers." [surah Aal 'Imran 68]
[Tafsir al-Tabari 6/498]
[حدثنا محمد بن المثنى ، وجابر بن الكردي ، والحسن بن أبي يحيى المقدسي ، قالوا : حدثنا أبو أحمد قال : حدثنا سفيان ، عن أبيه ، عن أبي الضحى ، عن مسروق ، عن عبد الله بن مسعود قال : قال رسول الله - صلى الله عليه وسلم - : إن لكل نبي ولاة من النبيين ، وإن وليي منهم أبي وخليل ربي ، ثم قرأ : " إن أولى الناس بإبراهيم للذين اتبعوه وهذا النبي والذين آمنوا والله ولي المؤمنين "]
... ibn Mas'ood said that Allah's Messenger said:
❝Every prophet has a companion prophets, and my companion out of them is my father, the close friend of my Lord❞
and then he recited:
[إِنَّ أَوْلَى النَّاسِ بِإِبْرَاهِيمَ لَلَّذِينَ اتَّبَعُوهُ وَهَٰذَا النَّبِيُّ وَالَّذِينَ آمَنُوا ۗ وَاللَّهُ وَلِيُّ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ]
"The closest of people to Ibrahim are those who follow him, which are the Prophet and those who believe. And Allah is the supporter of the believers." [surah Aal 'Imran 68]
[Tafsir al-Tabari 6/498]
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Shaykh ul-Islām ibn Taymiyyah, [may Allāh bestow mercy upon him], said:
“It is imperative to educate Muslim children with that which Allāh has commanded them to be taught with, ensuring their upbringing is rooted in obedience to Allāh and His Messenger صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ.
The Messenger of Allāh, صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ, said:
‘Instruct your children in prayer at the age of seven, and smack them lightly if they neglect prayer by the time they are ten. Additionally, make separate sleeping arrangements for them.’” - Sunan Abi Dawūd 495
Majmū’ al-Fatāwa, 11/504| Shaykh ul-Islām ibn Taymiyyah, [may Allāh have mercy on him].
Al-Imām ibn Qudāmah al-Maqdasi, [may Allāh bestow mercy upon him], said:
“Instilling discipline and guidance in children involves encouraging consistent prayer habits, ensuring they grow accustomed to it. This practice aims to make prayer a natural part of their routine, fostering a lifelong commitment that extends beyond adolescence.”
Al-Mughni | Volume 1, Page 357 | Al-Imām ibn Qudāmah al-Maqdasi, [may Allāh have mercy on him]
“It is imperative to educate Muslim children with that which Allāh has commanded them to be taught with, ensuring their upbringing is rooted in obedience to Allāh and His Messenger صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ.
The Messenger of Allāh, صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ, said:
‘Instruct your children in prayer at the age of seven, and smack them lightly if they neglect prayer by the time they are ten. Additionally, make separate sleeping arrangements for them.’” - Sunan Abi Dawūd 495
Majmū’ al-Fatāwa, 11/504| Shaykh ul-Islām ibn Taymiyyah, [may Allāh have mercy on him].
Al-Imām ibn Qudāmah al-Maqdasi, [may Allāh bestow mercy upon him], said:
“Instilling discipline and guidance in children involves encouraging consistent prayer habits, ensuring they grow accustomed to it. This practice aims to make prayer a natural part of their routine, fostering a lifelong commitment that extends beyond adolescence.”
Al-Mughni | Volume 1, Page 357 | Al-Imām ibn Qudāmah al-Maqdasi, [may Allāh have mercy on him]
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📌 Heart Touching
A mother was asked "which of your children do you love more"?
She replied: "I love the one who is sick till he/she gets well; and the one who is not present till he/she returns; the young ones till they grow up; and I love all of them till I die".
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A beautiful answer showing that she loves all of her children equally.
Read again the last part "... all of them till I die". This is how parents are in general, mothers in particular, that they would wish to die before their children because they can not handle it the other way around.
If you asked the children about the parents, generally the answer would not be so loving or merciful.
رب ارحمهما كما ربياني صغيرا... 🍂
A mother was asked "which of your children do you love more"?
She replied: "I love the one who is sick till he/she gets well; and the one who is not present till he/she returns; the young ones till they grow up; and I love all of them till I die".
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A beautiful answer showing that she loves all of her children equally.
Read again the last part "... all of them till I die". This is how parents are in general, mothers in particular, that they would wish to die before their children because they can not handle it the other way around.
If you asked the children about the parents, generally the answer would not be so loving or merciful.
رب ارحمهما كما ربياني صغيرا... 🍂
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TAKE YOUR TRUST!
On one occasion, while Sayyiduna ‘Umar (radhiyallahu ‘anhu) was attending to the people, a man walked past while carrying his son on his shoulders.
When Sayyiduna ‘Umar (radhiyallahu ‘anhu) saw them, he was astonished and commented, “I have not seen a crow which resembles another crow more than this person (i.e. the son) resembles this person (i.e. the father).”
Hearing this, the father responded, “O Ameerul Mu-mineen! By Allah, his mother had given birth to him while she had already passed away.”
Sayyiduna ‘Umar (radhiyallahu ‘anhu) astonishingly remarked, “Woe unto you! How is that so?”
The man then went on to relate his story. He explained that he had left his home for a certain expedition while his wife was expecting a child.
Before leaving, he said to her, “I entrust what is in your womb to Allah.”
However, when he returned from the journey, he found out that she had passed away.
One night while he was sitting in Jannatul Baqee’, the graveyard of Madeenah Munawwarah, with a few of his cousins, he noticed a light by the graves, which looked like a lamp.
He asked his cousins in amazement: “What is this?”
They replied that they did not know what it was but they have been seeing this light every night by a certain woman’s grave.
This person thus went towards the grave holding an axe.
On reaching there, he saw the grave open and noticed this child in the lap of his mother.
When he drew closer to the grave, he heard a voice saying, “O the one who entrusted his Rabb (with a trust), take your trust! Had you entrusted his mother to Him (i.e. Allah Ta‘ala), you would have found her (alive as well).”
He thus took the child and the grave closed.
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(Man‘Aasha ba’dal Maut - Ibnu Abid Dunya #19)
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Lessons:
1. If a person places his trust and reliance on Allah Ta‘ala, though Allah Ta‘ala’s help may not come to him in such a dramatic manner as in this incident, however he will definitely enjoy the protection and assistance of Allah Ta‘ala in some way or the other.
Allah Ta‘ala says in the Quraan Majeed, “Whosoever places his trust on Allah Ta‘ala, He will be sufficient for him.” (Surah Talaaq v3)
2. When this person entrusted his unborn child to Allah Ta‘ala, it is even more important and imperative in these challenging times that together with making the necessary effort on the upbringing of our children, we entrust them to Allah Ta‘ala.
Just as Allah Ta‘ala protected his child in this amazing way, He will also take care of our children and protect them.
On one occasion, while Sayyiduna ‘Umar (radhiyallahu ‘anhu) was attending to the people, a man walked past while carrying his son on his shoulders.
When Sayyiduna ‘Umar (radhiyallahu ‘anhu) saw them, he was astonished and commented, “I have not seen a crow which resembles another crow more than this person (i.e. the son) resembles this person (i.e. the father).”
Hearing this, the father responded, “O Ameerul Mu-mineen! By Allah, his mother had given birth to him while she had already passed away.”
Sayyiduna ‘Umar (radhiyallahu ‘anhu) astonishingly remarked, “Woe unto you! How is that so?”
The man then went on to relate his story. He explained that he had left his home for a certain expedition while his wife was expecting a child.
Before leaving, he said to her, “I entrust what is in your womb to Allah.”
However, when he returned from the journey, he found out that she had passed away.
One night while he was sitting in Jannatul Baqee’, the graveyard of Madeenah Munawwarah, with a few of his cousins, he noticed a light by the graves, which looked like a lamp.
He asked his cousins in amazement: “What is this?”
They replied that they did not know what it was but they have been seeing this light every night by a certain woman’s grave.
This person thus went towards the grave holding an axe.
On reaching there, he saw the grave open and noticed this child in the lap of his mother.
When he drew closer to the grave, he heard a voice saying, “O the one who entrusted his Rabb (with a trust), take your trust! Had you entrusted his mother to Him (i.e. Allah Ta‘ala), you would have found her (alive as well).”
He thus took the child and the grave closed.
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(Man‘Aasha ba’dal Maut - Ibnu Abid Dunya #19)
۔۔۔
Lessons:
1. If a person places his trust and reliance on Allah Ta‘ala, though Allah Ta‘ala’s help may not come to him in such a dramatic manner as in this incident, however he will definitely enjoy the protection and assistance of Allah Ta‘ala in some way or the other.
Allah Ta‘ala says in the Quraan Majeed, “Whosoever places his trust on Allah Ta‘ala, He will be sufficient for him.” (Surah Talaaq v3)
2. When this person entrusted his unborn child to Allah Ta‘ala, it is even more important and imperative in these challenging times that together with making the necessary effort on the upbringing of our children, we entrust them to Allah Ta‘ala.
Just as Allah Ta‘ala protected his child in this amazing way, He will also take care of our children and protect them.
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*Training Children for Worship*
Al-Rubay’ bint Mu’awwidh رضي الله عنها said while describing how the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم told them to fast ‘Āshūrā:
We used to make toys out of dyed wool for the children and keep them with us so if the children asked us for food we would give them the toys to distract them until they completed their fast.
Sahīh Muslim. A similar narration is also in Sahīh Al-Bukhārī.
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Al-Nawawī states in his commentary on Sahīh Muslim:
In this narration we are shown that children should be trained to do acts of obedience and made used to doing worship; although they are not legally bound....
Al-Rubay’ bint Mu’awwidh رضي الله عنها said while describing how the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم told them to fast ‘Āshūrā:
We used to make toys out of dyed wool for the children and keep them with us so if the children asked us for food we would give them the toys to distract them until they completed their fast.
Sahīh Muslim. A similar narration is also in Sahīh Al-Bukhārī.
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Al-Nawawī states in his commentary on Sahīh Muslim:
In this narration we are shown that children should be trained to do acts of obedience and made used to doing worship; although they are not legally bound....
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Know Your Heroes
People talk about how Aragorn from LoTR in the Battle of Mordor or Jon Snow in Game of Thrones stood to fight against the enemy single-handedly. They led the charge when others were retreating.
We really need to know our true heroes so we come out of this inferiority complex.
Al Bara’ said: “When the Prophet ﷺ fought the pagans in the battle of Hunain, the Muslims retreated but the Prophet ﷺ came down from his mule and walked towards the enemy on foot." [Abu Dawud]
This is no fictional tale. This is a true leader leading from the front. He knew that Allah doesn't let down those that have complete faith in him. You don't need to summon the Army of the Dead like in the story books when all Allah asks us to do is have good intentions, strive purely for Allah, put in the work and Allah will send down armies of Angels to aid us.
What was the tarbiyah of the sahaba and the golden generations? The blessed Seerah of our beloved Messenger ﷺ.
Ali ibn al-Husayn-the great-grandson of the Prophet ﷺ said, "We would teach our children the expeditions of the Prophet just like we would teach them the Qur'an. [al-Jami' li Akhlaq al-Rawi]
#DontWait_Illuminate #Tarbiyah #LeaveALegacy #KnowYourHeroes
People talk about how Aragorn from LoTR in the Battle of Mordor or Jon Snow in Game of Thrones stood to fight against the enemy single-handedly. They led the charge when others were retreating.
We really need to know our true heroes so we come out of this inferiority complex.
Al Bara’ said: “When the Prophet ﷺ fought the pagans in the battle of Hunain, the Muslims retreated but the Prophet ﷺ came down from his mule and walked towards the enemy on foot." [Abu Dawud]
This is no fictional tale. This is a true leader leading from the front. He knew that Allah doesn't let down those that have complete faith in him. You don't need to summon the Army of the Dead like in the story books when all Allah asks us to do is have good intentions, strive purely for Allah, put in the work and Allah will send down armies of Angels to aid us.
What was the tarbiyah of the sahaba and the golden generations? The blessed Seerah of our beloved Messenger ﷺ.
Ali ibn al-Husayn-the great-grandson of the Prophet ﷺ said, "We would teach our children the expeditions of the Prophet just like we would teach them the Qur'an. [al-Jami' li Akhlaq al-Rawi]
#DontWait_Illuminate #Tarbiyah #LeaveALegacy #KnowYourHeroes