Indeed the woman is the backbone of the family, as it is said:
“Behind every great person there is a woman in whose home they were raised.”
[A Woman’s Guide to Raising a Family by Shaykh Sālih Al-Fawzān pg. 19]
“Behind every great person there is a woman in whose home they were raised.”
[A Woman’s Guide to Raising a Family by Shaykh Sālih Al-Fawzān pg. 19]
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LOOK AT THE FIQH OF OUR SALAF?
Ibn Sireen (rahimahullah) and his mother.
Muhammad Ibn Sireen (rahimahullah) said "one night I was massaging my mother's feet and my brother was praying the night prayer. Then he asked his students " who deserves more reward"? He answered his question and said I. "Looking after the needs of the mother is Wajib and observing the night prayer is Sunnah"
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Ibn Sireen (rahimahullah) and his mother.
Muhammad Ibn Sireen (rahimahullah) said "one night I was massaging my mother's feet and my brother was praying the night prayer. Then he asked his students " who deserves more reward"? He answered his question and said I. "Looking after the needs of the mother is Wajib and observing the night prayer is Sunnah"
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Teach your kids to aim high in life , our elders used to say:
!لوړ پرواز دعقاب نښه ده
‘𝗙𝗹𝘆𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗵𝗶𝗴𝗵 𝗶𝘀 𝗮 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗿𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗲𝗿𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗰𝘀 𝗼𝗳 𝗲𝗮𝗴𝗹𝗲𝘀!’
Don’t teach them to nibble on insects on the floor like a chicken, teach them to spread their wings and soar the skies like an eagle!
Don’t make them aim to buy bread , let them aim to own the bakery!
Inspire confidence in them, make them fearless and brave. Teach them discipline and the art of self confidence and public speaking.
It’s better to live 1 day like a lion than 100 years as a jackal.
!لوړ پرواز دعقاب نښه ده
‘𝗙𝗹𝘆𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗵𝗶𝗴𝗵 𝗶𝘀 𝗮 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗿𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗲𝗿𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗰𝘀 𝗼𝗳 𝗲𝗮𝗴𝗹𝗲𝘀!’
Don’t teach them to nibble on insects on the floor like a chicken, teach them to spread their wings and soar the skies like an eagle!
Don’t make them aim to buy bread , let them aim to own the bakery!
Inspire confidence in them, make them fearless and brave. Teach them discipline and the art of self confidence and public speaking.
It’s better to live 1 day like a lion than 100 years as a jackal.
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Muhammad ibn Hatib reported:
A boiling pot was spilled on my hand, so my mother went with me to the residence of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ.
The Prophet spoke these words over it,
“Take away the pain, O Lord of the people. Heal it, for You are the Healer.”
Source: Musnad Aḥmad 15452
Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Arna’ut
عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ حَاطِبٍ قَالَ انْصَبَّتْ عَلَى يَدِي مِنْ قِدْرٍ فَذَهَبَتْ بِي أُمِّي إِلَى رَسُولِ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَهُوَ فِي مَكَانٍ فَقَالَ كَلَامًا فِيهِ أَذْهِبِ الْبَأْسَ رَبَّ النَّاسْ اشْفِ أَنْتَ الشَّافِي
15452 مسند أحمد بن حنبل
24/190 المحدث شعيب الأرناؤوط خلاصة حكم المحدث صحيح في تخريج المسند لشعيب
A boiling pot was spilled on my hand, so my mother went with me to the residence of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ.
The Prophet spoke these words over it,
“Take away the pain, O Lord of the people. Heal it, for You are the Healer.”
Source: Musnad Aḥmad 15452
Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Arna’ut
عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ حَاطِبٍ قَالَ انْصَبَّتْ عَلَى يَدِي مِنْ قِدْرٍ فَذَهَبَتْ بِي أُمِّي إِلَى رَسُولِ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَهُوَ فِي مَكَانٍ فَقَالَ كَلَامًا فِيهِ أَذْهِبِ الْبَأْسَ رَبَّ النَّاسْ اشْفِ أَنْتَ الشَّافِي
15452 مسند أحمد بن حنبل
24/190 المحدث شعيب الأرناؤوط خلاصة حكم المحدث صحيح في تخريج المسند لشعيب
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Fatima Bint Muhammad ﷺ
Fatimah was the fifth child of the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ and Khadijah.
She was about five years old when The Prophet received revelation so scholars say “she grew up in Islam.”
One of her nicknames was Ummu Abeeha (Her Father’s Mother), due to the fact that she was always in his company and ready to defend him, just like a mother would do for her child. Once she saw her father while he was in sujood, and
She adopted so many characteristics from her father, that Aisha says, “I have not seen anyone who resembled the Holy Prophet ﷺ more in manners, habits, character and in the method of sitting and standing than Fatimah.” (Tirmidhi)
The Prophet ﷺ had so much love for her that if he would be seated and Fatima would enter he would get up and kiss her between her eyes, all the time.
When Ali and Fatima got married the Prophet ﷺ was involved in their life. Once the Prophet ﷺ went to visit them and found Fatima at home alone, he asked where Ali was, she told him that they were upset with each other and that Ali has left the house.
The Prophet ﷺ went to look for Ali and found him sleeping in the masjid covered in dust. The Prophet ﷺ woke him while wiping away the dust saying, “get up the father of dust”. He did not even ask them what they fought about and instead told Ali, “O Ali come back to your home with me”.
Even though Fatima and Ali were poor they still had a happy marriage. The Prophetﷺ would go to visit them and he would hear their laughter from outside. They had four children, Hasan, Hussayn, Muhsin (who died very shortly after birth) and Umm-Kulthoom.
Fatima was only 28 years old when her father died. She went through a very hard time. She entered upon the Prophet ﷺ when he fell ill, but he was unable to get up to kiss her, as he usually does. So she sat to the right of the Prophet ﷺ while she was crying. The Prophet ﷺ said “bring your ear closer to me O Fatima”, so he whispered something in her ear, so she cried. The Prophet ﷺ again said “bring your ear closer to me O Fatima” and he whispered something else in her ear, and so she laughed. Aisha later asked her after the death of the Prophet ﷺ, please tell me what he whispered to you, she said, “firstly he said “O Fatima I am going to die tonight,” and so I cried, and when he saw me crying he said, “will you not be satisfied that you will be the first from amongst my family to follow me and that you will be the leader of the women of Paradise”, and so I laughed”.
Fatimah died six months after the Prophet ﷺ, and she instructed Ali, “When you bury me to cover me properly, I don’t want anyone to see anything of me, and bury me during the night for I am embarrassed from the multitude of people attending.”.
Ali was very upset by her death and cried a lot. He said, “I have never been more exhausted from anything more than I was as a result of the death of the Prophet and Fatimah within six months of each other”.
Fatimah was the highest example of chastity, honor, modesty, and piousness for all Muslim women.
May Allah make us able to follow her footsteps!
Fatimah was the fifth child of the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ and Khadijah.
She was about five years old when The Prophet received revelation so scholars say “she grew up in Islam.”
One of her nicknames was Ummu Abeeha (Her Father’s Mother), due to the fact that she was always in his company and ready to defend him, just like a mother would do for her child. Once she saw her father while he was in sujood, and
Uqbah ibn Abi Muayt came and placed the guts of a dead animal on the Prophet’s back while he was praying. Fatima ran to her father and removed the filth from his back while she was crying. The Prophet ﷺ saw her crying and said, “Don’t cry my daughter, for indeed Allah will make your father victorious”.She adopted so many characteristics from her father, that Aisha says, “I have not seen anyone who resembled the Holy Prophet ﷺ more in manners, habits, character and in the method of sitting and standing than Fatimah.” (Tirmidhi)
The Prophet ﷺ had so much love for her that if he would be seated and Fatima would enter he would get up and kiss her between her eyes, all the time.
When Ali and Fatima got married the Prophet ﷺ was involved in their life. Once the Prophet ﷺ went to visit them and found Fatima at home alone, he asked where Ali was, she told him that they were upset with each other and that Ali has left the house.
The Prophet ﷺ went to look for Ali and found him sleeping in the masjid covered in dust. The Prophet ﷺ woke him while wiping away the dust saying, “get up the father of dust”. He did not even ask them what they fought about and instead told Ali, “O Ali come back to your home with me”.
Even though Fatima and Ali were poor they still had a happy marriage. The Prophetﷺ would go to visit them and he would hear their laughter from outside. They had four children, Hasan, Hussayn, Muhsin (who died very shortly after birth) and Umm-Kulthoom.
Fatima was only 28 years old when her father died. She went through a very hard time. She entered upon the Prophet ﷺ when he fell ill, but he was unable to get up to kiss her, as he usually does. So she sat to the right of the Prophet ﷺ while she was crying. The Prophet ﷺ said “bring your ear closer to me O Fatima”, so he whispered something in her ear, so she cried. The Prophet ﷺ again said “bring your ear closer to me O Fatima” and he whispered something else in her ear, and so she laughed. Aisha later asked her after the death of the Prophet ﷺ, please tell me what he whispered to you, she said, “firstly he said “O Fatima I am going to die tonight,” and so I cried, and when he saw me crying he said, “will you not be satisfied that you will be the first from amongst my family to follow me and that you will be the leader of the women of Paradise”, and so I laughed”.
Fatimah died six months after the Prophet ﷺ, and she instructed Ali, “When you bury me to cover me properly, I don’t want anyone to see anything of me, and bury me during the night for I am embarrassed from the multitude of people attending.”.
Ali was very upset by her death and cried a lot. He said, “I have never been more exhausted from anything more than I was as a result of the death of the Prophet and Fatimah within six months of each other”.
Fatimah was the highest example of chastity, honor, modesty, and piousness for all Muslim women.
May Allah make us able to follow her footsteps!
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One day, by the mercy of Allah, some will be parents, and some have already become parents.
Kindly take care of your son. A boy is not like a girl, nor should you treat a boy as you would a girl. If you have both a son and a daughter by the mercy of Allah, do not treat your son like your daughter.
When a boy reaches puberty, he has no one with him. I am a guy, and I know that even though the father is always there, there will always be an invisible awkwardness between a father and son, especially in this era. A mother is a mother, no matter how close the son is to her; she will not become a person to whom he can open up.
So, learn before you get married because if the parents are not there, no matter how many friends and buddies he gets, it won't work. Learn how to raise a son.
There is a perfect scenario as an example. There is a game called "Three-Legged Race" (this classic game involves tying two people's inner ankles together and having them race to a finish line while hopping or running side-by-side). Do you know what happens when you put two different kinds of people together in this game? One is very fast and strong, and the other is slow and not so active. When they run together, the slower one always makes the faster one slow like him, and this happens all the time. What happens when they play like this for a week?
The faster one no longer stays faster anymore; he adopts and becomes like the slower one. This is exactly what happens when you treat your son and raise him like a daughter, and this is a major problem in this time. When you say a boy and a girl are equal, you push the daughter to become more like a boy. Do you think a girl will become a boy? No, she becomes a mixture.
The same happens when you are raising a daughter and a son together. The son is already a boy, so the parents push their daughter to lose her haya, push her bit by bit to change her fitrah. At the same time, you condition the son, keep dominating him, changing his psychology bit by bit, enforcing him to become more feminine. This is how the son and daughter become equal.
What we get is a daughter who is a mixture and a boy who is also a mixture. The girl suffers, but the majority gets their fitrah destroyed, so they become more like a man. The boy gets destroyed both physically and mentally, becomes weak and coward. Do you know what this way of raising your son does to him?
I have not seen many talking about this, but it's becoming more and more common that children at the age of 6-8 have such low levels of testosterone that their penises get small. If this is not noticed by the parents, and if the boy reaches the age of 10-12 (the age of puberty) with that low testosterone, and due to low testosterone gets a micro penis, this child will forever stay like that. He becomes infertile, and so many small boys are having this; you cannot imagine this number. Wallahi, so many you cannot imagine.
I myself have encountered three children this year (2023). One of them is my relative, and this issue is so hidden that if a child stays silent, there is very little chance anyone will know this. You can say this is genetic and blah blah, but it's not genetic. The majority suffer from this due to the way they are brought up in their household, the way they get treated by their parents. Heavily dominated, being in an environment where his mother acts like his father, where he continuously gets an environment of feminist ideology, this environment causes his body to stop producing testosterone.
You can research about this, read about this, but the core message is to treat your son as a man.
Kindly take care of your son. A boy is not like a girl, nor should you treat a boy as you would a girl. If you have both a son and a daughter by the mercy of Allah, do not treat your son like your daughter.
When a boy reaches puberty, he has no one with him. I am a guy, and I know that even though the father is always there, there will always be an invisible awkwardness between a father and son, especially in this era. A mother is a mother, no matter how close the son is to her; she will not become a person to whom he can open up.
So, learn before you get married because if the parents are not there, no matter how many friends and buddies he gets, it won't work. Learn how to raise a son.
There is a perfect scenario as an example. There is a game called "Three-Legged Race" (this classic game involves tying two people's inner ankles together and having them race to a finish line while hopping or running side-by-side). Do you know what happens when you put two different kinds of people together in this game? One is very fast and strong, and the other is slow and not so active. When they run together, the slower one always makes the faster one slow like him, and this happens all the time. What happens when they play like this for a week?
The faster one no longer stays faster anymore; he adopts and becomes like the slower one. This is exactly what happens when you treat your son and raise him like a daughter, and this is a major problem in this time. When you say a boy and a girl are equal, you push the daughter to become more like a boy. Do you think a girl will become a boy? No, she becomes a mixture.
The same happens when you are raising a daughter and a son together. The son is already a boy, so the parents push their daughter to lose her haya, push her bit by bit to change her fitrah. At the same time, you condition the son, keep dominating him, changing his psychology bit by bit, enforcing him to become more feminine. This is how the son and daughter become equal.
What we get is a daughter who is a mixture and a boy who is also a mixture. The girl suffers, but the majority gets their fitrah destroyed, so they become more like a man. The boy gets destroyed both physically and mentally, becomes weak and coward. Do you know what this way of raising your son does to him?
I have not seen many talking about this, but it's becoming more and more common that children at the age of 6-8 have such low levels of testosterone that their penises get small. If this is not noticed by the parents, and if the boy reaches the age of 10-12 (the age of puberty) with that low testosterone, and due to low testosterone gets a micro penis, this child will forever stay like that. He becomes infertile, and so many small boys are having this; you cannot imagine this number. Wallahi, so many you cannot imagine.
I myself have encountered three children this year (2023). One of them is my relative, and this issue is so hidden that if a child stays silent, there is very little chance anyone will know this. You can say this is genetic and blah blah, but it's not genetic. The majority suffer from this due to the way they are brought up in their household, the way they get treated by their parents. Heavily dominated, being in an environment where his mother acts like his father, where he continuously gets an environment of feminist ideology, this environment causes his body to stop producing testosterone.
You can research about this, read about this, but the core message is to treat your son as a man.
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Parents go to any length for the welfare of their children, sacrificing and compromising along the way:
Concerning the saying of Allaah تعالى:
﴿إِنَّمَآ أَمْوَلُكُمْ وَأَوْلَـدُكُمْ فِتْنَةٌ وَاللَّهُ عِنْدَهُ أَجْرٌ عَظِيمٌ ﴾
{Your wealth and your children are only a Fintah, whereas Allaah! With Him is a great reward} [Surah al-Taghaabun (64): 15]
Imaam al-Tirmidhee reported on the authority of Buraidah bin al-Husaib رضي الله عنه that Allaah’s Messenger صلى الله عليه وسلم was delivering a sermon to them when al-Hasan and al-Husain came stumbling (towards him). They were wearing shirts of red color. So, Allaah’s Messenger صلى الله عليه وسلم got down from the pulpit, carried them (in his arms) and made them sit in front of him. Then he صلى الله عليه وسلم said: “Allaah has spoken the truth: {Your riches and your children are only a trial.} I saw these two children stumbling as they walked and could not be patient until I interrupted my sermon and carried them (here).”
[Tirmidhee (3774) and graded as “Saheeh” by Shaikh al-Albaanee as well as in Saheeh al-Nasa’ee (1584)]
Concerning the saying of Allaah تعالى:
﴿إِنَّمَآ أَمْوَلُكُمْ وَأَوْلَـدُكُمْ فِتْنَةٌ وَاللَّهُ عِنْدَهُ أَجْرٌ عَظِيمٌ ﴾
{Your wealth and your children are only a Fintah, whereas Allaah! With Him is a great reward} [Surah al-Taghaabun (64): 15]
Imaam al-Tirmidhee reported on the authority of Buraidah bin al-Husaib رضي الله عنه that Allaah’s Messenger صلى الله عليه وسلم was delivering a sermon to them when al-Hasan and al-Husain came stumbling (towards him). They were wearing shirts of red color. So, Allaah’s Messenger صلى الله عليه وسلم got down from the pulpit, carried them (in his arms) and made them sit in front of him. Then he صلى الله عليه وسلم said: “Allaah has spoken the truth: {Your riches and your children are only a trial.} I saw these two children stumbling as they walked and could not be patient until I interrupted my sermon and carried them (here).”
[Tirmidhee (3774) and graded as “Saheeh” by Shaikh al-Albaanee as well as in Saheeh al-Nasa’ee (1584)]
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A healthy household must contain:
1- Establishing and maintaining prayers with care
2- Reading Athkaar
3- Reciting Quran
4- Gatherings of knowledge and khair
5- Respecting elders and being kind to youngsters
6- The father fulfilling his duties
7- The mother fulfilling her tasks
8- Family conversations
9- Co-operation amongst all
10- Protecting the secrets of the family from outsiders
https://x.com/m_g_alomari_eng/status/1626588866898690053?s=46
البيت الصحي لابد فيه من:
١- إقامة الصلاة والمحافظة عليها
٢- قراءة الأذكار
٣- تلاوة القرآن
٤- مجالس العلم والخير
٥- احترام الكبير والرفق بالصغير
٦- قيام الأب بواجباته
٧-قيام الأم بمهامها
٨- مجالس الحوار
٩- التعاون بين الجميع
١٠- حفظ أسرار الأسرة عن الدخلاء.
https://news.1rj.ru/str/MuslimChildrenTips
1- Establishing and maintaining prayers with care
2- Reading Athkaar
3- Reciting Quran
4- Gatherings of knowledge and khair
5- Respecting elders and being kind to youngsters
6- The father fulfilling his duties
7- The mother fulfilling her tasks
8- Family conversations
9- Co-operation amongst all
10- Protecting the secrets of the family from outsiders
https://x.com/m_g_alomari_eng/status/1626588866898690053?s=46
البيت الصحي لابد فيه من:
١- إقامة الصلاة والمحافظة عليها
٢- قراءة الأذكار
٣- تلاوة القرآن
٤- مجالس العلم والخير
٥- احترام الكبير والرفق بالصغير
٦- قيام الأب بواجباته
٧-قيام الأم بمهامها
٨- مجالس الحوار
٩- التعاون بين الجميع
١٠- حفظ أسرار الأسرة عن الدخلاء.
https://news.1rj.ru/str/MuslimChildrenTips
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One of the biggest reasons why kids from Muslim families go off track in today's time is this whole phenomenon of "Do as I say, Not as I do".
Don't expect kids to grow up with a love of Quran when they see you more attached to your gadgets than the mushaf.
If you have skipped or delayed prayers for sleep or work don't expect them to pray on time while the are busy with friends.
Dont expect kids to wake up for tahajjud when they growup while they have seen you stay awake only for netflix or for seeing crackers burst on New year's Eve.
Don't expect them to emulate the Sunnah of the Prophet while they see you contradicting it day in and day out in your manners speech and action.
When your only goal in life is to make money and build this duniya or please people around you, don't expect your kids to work towards building their aaakhira.
If you really care for their hereafter "Become who you want them to become."
Don't expect kids to grow up with a love of Quran when they see you more attached to your gadgets than the mushaf.
If you have skipped or delayed prayers for sleep or work don't expect them to pray on time while the are busy with friends.
Dont expect kids to wake up for tahajjud when they growup while they have seen you stay awake only for netflix or for seeing crackers burst on New year's Eve.
Don't expect them to emulate the Sunnah of the Prophet while they see you contradicting it day in and day out in your manners speech and action.
When your only goal in life is to make money and build this duniya or please people around you, don't expect your kids to work towards building their aaakhira.
If you really care for their hereafter "Become who you want them to become."
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Abul-Hasan al-Qattan, may Allah have mercy on him, said:
أُصبت ببصري، وأظن أني عوقبت بكثرة بكاء أمي أيام فراقي لهافي طلب الحديث والعلم
"I lost my eyesight, and I believe it was a punishment for me for my mother's excessive cry during the days of our separation while I was out seeking knowledge & hadeeth ."
معجم الأدباء(٢٢٠/١٢)
أُصبت ببصري، وأظن أني عوقبت بكثرة بكاء أمي أيام فراقي لهافي طلب الحديث والعلم
"I lost my eyesight, and I believe it was a punishment for me for my mother's excessive cry during the days of our separation while I was out seeking knowledge & hadeeth ."
معجم الأدباء(٢٢٠/١٢)
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Imam Malik was teaching his class in Masjid An-Nabawi and when he teached a ḥadith, he always mentioned the entire chain of narration.
And one day he saw a boy playing with a straw whilst he was teaching. He continued teaching until the end of the lesson before approaching the young boy.
He asked the boy: “How dare you mess about whilst being taught teachings from our Nabi?”
The boy told Imam Malik that he was not playing with the straw but instead, he was using his saliva to make notes as he did not have have money for pen and paper.
Imam Malik tested the boy and he was able to narrate every single ḥadīth with the chain of narration.
This boy, was Imam Shafi'i.
● {الشناوى صحفة ٤}
And one day he saw a boy playing with a straw whilst he was teaching. He continued teaching until the end of the lesson before approaching the young boy.
He asked the boy: “How dare you mess about whilst being taught teachings from our Nabi?”
The boy told Imam Malik that he was not playing with the straw but instead, he was using his saliva to make notes as he did not have have money for pen and paper.
Imam Malik tested the boy and he was able to narrate every single ḥadīth with the chain of narration.
This boy, was Imam Shafi'i.
● {الشناوى صحفة ٤}
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At a time parents wants their children to be like someone from society....and then a time comes children follow and care about society only.....
There is something missing in parenting these days. I am not judging anyone,but want to suggest really..
When you teach your child to be like someone from your perspective, they also find something to follow from their perspective..these two can b different.
This is a normal thing, when your child views and choices are different from you. Nothing like, your child is "nafarman". No they are not, only bcoz of difference in choice.
Everyone is society have some good quality..and something we don't like.
So when your child start to follow..can follow both.
There is a solution..why not we teach seerah of our prophet salAllaahu alaihi wa sallam and pious predecessors!!
Isn't a good choice.. bcoz this would teach them how to live in society without loosing Allaah, and when they fear to lose Allaah..in sha Allaah..they also fear to lose you or the morals you wanna teach them..
You love your kids...than why to push them in the world of delusion..let them learn real... Reality of this world and next..
Allaah knows best..
The Messenger of Allah (salAllaahu alaihi wa sallam) as said: Each of you is a shepherd and each of you is responsible for his flock. The amir (ruler) who is over the people is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock; a man is a shepherd in charge of the inhabitants of his household and he is responsible for his flock; a woman is a shepherdess in charge of her husband's house and children and she is responsible for them; and a man's slave is a shepherd in charge of his master's property and he is responsible for it. So each of you is a shepherd and each of you is responsible for his flock..
Grade: Sahih (Al-Albani)
Reference: Sunan Abi Dawud 2928,Bk 20, Hadith 1
It a duty of every shepherd to take care of his flock, by means of duniya and for akhirah too..
There is something missing in parenting these days. I am not judging anyone,but want to suggest really..
When you teach your child to be like someone from your perspective, they also find something to follow from their perspective..these two can b different.
This is a normal thing, when your child views and choices are different from you. Nothing like, your child is "nafarman". No they are not, only bcoz of difference in choice.
Everyone is society have some good quality..and something we don't like.
So when your child start to follow..can follow both.
There is a solution..why not we teach seerah of our prophet salAllaahu alaihi wa sallam and pious predecessors!!
Isn't a good choice.. bcoz this would teach them how to live in society without loosing Allaah, and when they fear to lose Allaah..in sha Allaah..they also fear to lose you or the morals you wanna teach them..
You love your kids...than why to push them in the world of delusion..let them learn real... Reality of this world and next..
Allaah knows best..
The Messenger of Allah (salAllaahu alaihi wa sallam) as said: Each of you is a shepherd and each of you is responsible for his flock. The amir (ruler) who is over the people is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock; a man is a shepherd in charge of the inhabitants of his household and he is responsible for his flock; a woman is a shepherdess in charge of her husband's house and children and she is responsible for them; and a man's slave is a shepherd in charge of his master's property and he is responsible for it. So each of you is a shepherd and each of you is responsible for his flock..
Grade: Sahih (Al-Albani)
Reference: Sunan Abi Dawud 2928,Bk 20, Hadith 1
It a duty of every shepherd to take care of his flock, by means of duniya and for akhirah too..
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