Respect your Mother, She is your 𝒋𝒂𝒏𝒏𝒂𝒉✧
1) Islam has raised the status of woman from below the earth to so high that Paradise lies at her feet.
2) How sinful are those youth who speak gently with their friends… While they shout out at their mothers.
3) Your mother is your mother. No woman can be compared to her.
4) A Mothers Duaa is like the breeze of Paradise.
5) “A mother's heart has an incredible capacity to love. She will forgive you no matter what you've done. So protect her heart and treat her well. Your Jannah lies under her feet.🤍
6) Your mother is the only who would forget to make Duaa for herself because she would be too busy making Duaa for you.
7) A mother she prays for you even when you refuse to pray yourself.
Be respectful to women, for they are the mothers of mankind. –
9) Do you know that simple phone call can make them happy. Parents, they didn’t leave you when you were young, so don’t leave them when they are old.
10) When she is born, she opens the gates to Paradise. When she is married, she has completed her religion. When she is a mother, Paradise lie under her feet.
Your mother is the highest door of Jannah, make her the happiest woman on earth and spend lots of time with her.
Oh Allah, grant her Paradise for she is the paradise in my life.
Ameen.🖤
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1) Islam has raised the status of woman from below the earth to so high that Paradise lies at her feet.
2) How sinful are those youth who speak gently with their friends… While they shout out at their mothers.
3) Your mother is your mother. No woman can be compared to her.
4) A Mothers Duaa is like the breeze of Paradise.
5) “A mother's heart has an incredible capacity to love. She will forgive you no matter what you've done. So protect her heart and treat her well. Your Jannah lies under her feet.🤍
6) Your mother is the only who would forget to make Duaa for herself because she would be too busy making Duaa for you.
7) A mother she prays for you even when you refuse to pray yourself.
Be respectful to women, for they are the mothers of mankind. –
9) Do you know that simple phone call can make them happy. Parents, they didn’t leave you when you were young, so don’t leave them when they are old.
10) When she is born, she opens the gates to Paradise. When she is married, she has completed her religion. When she is a mother, Paradise lie under her feet.
Your mother is the highest door of Jannah, make her the happiest woman on earth and spend lots of time with her.
Oh Allah, grant her Paradise for she is the paradise in my life.
Ameen.🖤
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HAVE GREAT CONCERN FOR THE UPBRINGING OF YOUR CHILDREN
It is incumbent upon the woman who has children that she has a great concern for her children and that she places great importance on their upbringing and that she seeks assistance, if she becomes incapable for any reason, from their father or whomsoever is responsible for their affairs if they have no father. Either from their brothers or their uncles or their brothers from the same tribe or other than them. And it is not befitting for the woman to submit to the state of affairs and say: "The people are following this and I cannot change it." Because if we remain like this, submitting to the state of affairs, then the rectification will not be completed.
Book: The Role Of The Woman In Rectifying The Society
By Ash-Shaykh, Al-'Allaamah Muhammad Ibn Saalih Al-'Uthaymeen
Ibnul Qayyim Publications
P. 27
It is incumbent upon the woman who has children that she has a great concern for her children and that she places great importance on their upbringing and that she seeks assistance, if she becomes incapable for any reason, from their father or whomsoever is responsible for their affairs if they have no father. Either from their brothers or their uncles or their brothers from the same tribe or other than them. And it is not befitting for the woman to submit to the state of affairs and say: "The people are following this and I cannot change it." Because if we remain like this, submitting to the state of affairs, then the rectification will not be completed.
Book: The Role Of The Woman In Rectifying The Society
By Ash-Shaykh, Al-'Allaamah Muhammad Ibn Saalih Al-'Uthaymeen
Ibnul Qayyim Publications
P. 27
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Parents Gain from Their Children's Good Deeds, with or without Their Children Intending That
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He was a billionaire.
For the last 4 days before his death, he requested doctors several times to see his children. Doctors never told him that they have informed his family many times about his last wish but none of them has free time to see their father.
At last, he passed away without meeting his children who inherited his huge wealth. Invest in your children, not just for them.
When you taught them about Allah, Allah will guide them through everything. May Allah grant us good endings. Ameen 🤲
For the last 4 days before his death, he requested doctors several times to see his children. Doctors never told him that they have informed his family many times about his last wish but none of them has free time to see their father.
At last, he passed away without meeting his children who inherited his huge wealth. Invest in your children, not just for them.
When you taught them about Allah, Allah will guide them through everything. May Allah grant us good endings. Ameen 🤲
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𝗥𝗮𝗶𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗖𝗵𝗶𝗹𝗱𝗿𝗲𝗻
One of the domains in which the role of the woman in raising the family is apparent is the cultivation of the child. This is from the most important of tasks and among the most crucial of them for two reasons:
١. Because it is the source of direction of the child, and from the child the Ummah is formed. Whatever the child's conditon of this nation in the future (will be a reflection of this). From this we can understand that all individuals from this nation will pass through the school of the mother.
٢. There are many things that the child is unfamiliar of, and he is in a state where he is clear and mysterious and easy and difficult. Therefore, taking care of him and raising him requires effort, which is not easy. This is what we will clarify shortly.
Taking care of the child is the responsibility of both parents together.
The Prophet (ﷺ) said;
"Each of you are shepherds and each of you is responsible for his flock. The man is a shepherd within his home and is responsible for his flock. The woman is a shepherdess within the home of her husband and is responsible for her flock."
The Most High has said;
"O you have believe! Ward off from yourselves and your families a fire (Hell) whose fuel is men and stones." (Al-tahrīm 66:6)
When we analyze the reality of the situation we find that the man only spends a short time within his home and with his children. This is in relation to tha amount of time. As it relates to how (he spends his time with them), then during this time he is exhausted from work and seeking to rest. He is not able to think about the state of his children.
It is apparent to us that the biggest role in regards to this is the role of the woman and her responsibility.
[Shaykh Sālih al-Fawzān (حفظه اللّٰه) | Book: A Woman's Guide to Raising a Family p.46-47]
One of the domains in which the role of the woman in raising the family is apparent is the cultivation of the child. This is from the most important of tasks and among the most crucial of them for two reasons:
١. Because it is the source of direction of the child, and from the child the Ummah is formed. Whatever the child's conditon of this nation in the future (will be a reflection of this). From this we can understand that all individuals from this nation will pass through the school of the mother.
٢. There are many things that the child is unfamiliar of, and he is in a state where he is clear and mysterious and easy and difficult. Therefore, taking care of him and raising him requires effort, which is not easy. This is what we will clarify shortly.
Taking care of the child is the responsibility of both parents together.
The Prophet (ﷺ) said;
"Each of you are shepherds and each of you is responsible for his flock. The man is a shepherd within his home and is responsible for his flock. The woman is a shepherdess within the home of her husband and is responsible for her flock."
The Most High has said;
"O you have believe! Ward off from yourselves and your families a fire (Hell) whose fuel is men and stones." (Al-tahrīm 66:6)
When we analyze the reality of the situation we find that the man only spends a short time within his home and with his children. This is in relation to tha amount of time. As it relates to how (he spends his time with them), then during this time he is exhausted from work and seeking to rest. He is not able to think about the state of his children.
It is apparent to us that the biggest role in regards to this is the role of the woman and her responsibility.
[Shaykh Sālih al-Fawzān (حفظه اللّٰه) | Book: A Woman's Guide to Raising a Family p.46-47]
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Imagine celebrating a holiday or anything for that matter, and you have:
No idea how it started
No idea who started it
No idea where it came from
Or even no idea WHY your celebrating it for that matter
And even when/if you do get a chance to see it's origins and you realize it has NOTHING TO DO WITH WHY YOU ARE/THINK YOU ARE CELEBRATING IT
You still celebrate it.
And teach it to your children.
That could never ever IN LIFE be me. (ان شاء الله)
The praise belongs to Allah alone for Islam.
No idea how it started
No idea who started it
No idea where it came from
Or even no idea WHY your celebrating it for that matter
And even when/if you do get a chance to see it's origins and you realize it has NOTHING TO DO WITH WHY YOU ARE/THINK YOU ARE CELEBRATING IT
You still celebrate it.
And teach it to your children.
That could never ever IN LIFE be me. (ان شاء الله)
The praise belongs to Allah alone for Islam.
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Forwarded from Jannah is Our Dream
Heal your heart with Qur'ān
Ibn al-Qayyim رحمه الله:
“If you read (the Qur'ān) with contemplation, even if over a (single) ayah, it is a key to healing your heart. Even if repeated a hundred times and for the (whole) night. Reading an ayah with contemplation and understanding is better than reading to completion without tadabbur and understanding. It is more beneficial for the heart and ensures gain in faith, and in tasting sweetness of the Qur'ān.”
مفتاح دار السعادة (٥٥٣/١)
Ibn al-Qayyim رحمه الله:
“If you read (the Qur'ān) with contemplation, even if over a (single) ayah, it is a key to healing your heart. Even if repeated a hundred times and for the (whole) night. Reading an ayah with contemplation and understanding is better than reading to completion without tadabbur and understanding. It is more beneficial for the heart and ensures gain in faith, and in tasting sweetness of the Qur'ān.”
مفتاح دار السعادة (٥٥٣/١)
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The Best Thing You Can Give Your #Child
It is necessary that we know the responsibility of the fathers, and their first obligation towards their children is the good of their hereafter and (the good of) their worldly life, as Allāh the Mighty
and Majestic says:
يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا قُوا أَنفُسَكُمْ وَأَهْلِيكُمْ نَارًا وَقُودُهَا النَّاسُ وَالْحِجَارَةُ عَلَيْهَا مَلَائِكَةٌ غِلَاظٌ شِدَادٌ لَّا يَعْصُونَ اللَّهَ مَا أَمَرَهُمْ وَيَفْعَلُونَ مَا يُؤْمَرُونَ
O you who believe, protect yourselves and your families from a Fire whose fuel is people and stones, over which are [appointed] angels, harsh and severe; they do not disobey Allah in what He commands them but do what they are commanded.
[Al Qur'an, at-Tahrim: 6]
Therefore, from the foremost of the obligations towards children is to save them from the fire, and indeed, it is the best that the fathers can give to their children.
Ash-Shaykh 'Abdullah al-Bukhāri, Huqūq al-awlad (p.13)
It is necessary that we know the responsibility of the fathers, and their first obligation towards their children is the good of their hereafter and (the good of) their worldly life, as Allāh the Mighty
and Majestic says:
يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا قُوا أَنفُسَكُمْ وَأَهْلِيكُمْ نَارًا وَقُودُهَا النَّاسُ وَالْحِجَارَةُ عَلَيْهَا مَلَائِكَةٌ غِلَاظٌ شِدَادٌ لَّا يَعْصُونَ اللَّهَ مَا أَمَرَهُمْ وَيَفْعَلُونَ مَا يُؤْمَرُونَ
O you who believe, protect yourselves and your families from a Fire whose fuel is people and stones, over which are [appointed] angels, harsh and severe; they do not disobey Allah in what He commands them but do what they are commanded.
[Al Qur'an, at-Tahrim: 6]
Therefore, from the foremost of the obligations towards children is to save them from the fire, and indeed, it is the best that the fathers can give to their children.
Ash-Shaykh 'Abdullah al-Bukhāri, Huqūq al-awlad (p.13)
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Making the parents cry is a MAJOR sin:
— Shaykh Abū Khadeejah:
And from them, as ‘Abdullāh ibn ‘Umar (radiyallāhu ‘anhumā) stated: causing your parents to cry because of the way that you treat them.
That is a major sin.
If you make your parents sad and you have done something that is not related to the religion, then you should fear Allah. Of course, if you fast and your parents cry because of your fasting, then that is not your fault ― in the month of Ramadhān you’re fasting, or you’re praying Fajr and your parents are upset that you’re praying because they are not religious people.
This narration is not referring to that. This is referring to making your parents cry needlessly. For example, they ask you to do something and you don’t do it, or that you constantly bother them and you hurt their feelings. That is from the major sins.
That a tear should be shed from your mother or from your father because of your ill-treatment of them. Fear Allāh (subhānahu wa ta’ālā) with regard to this affair. It doesn’t matter how old you are. You could be a youth, or an elderly, or a middle-aged man and if your mother is in her eighties and you make her cry?
You should be ashamed of yourself that your mother or your father cry; you made them cry because of your bad treatment of them, or maybe because you didn’t say the words in a correct manner.
There are twenty, thirty, or a hundred ways of saying something but you chose the worst way of speaking to your mother or to your father. And you break their hearts; that is a major sin.
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— Shaykh Abū Khadeejah:
And from them, as ‘Abdullāh ibn ‘Umar (radiyallāhu ‘anhumā) stated: causing your parents to cry because of the way that you treat them.
That is a major sin.
If you make your parents sad and you have done something that is not related to the religion, then you should fear Allah. Of course, if you fast and your parents cry because of your fasting, then that is not your fault ― in the month of Ramadhān you’re fasting, or you’re praying Fajr and your parents are upset that you’re praying because they are not religious people.
This narration is not referring to that. This is referring to making your parents cry needlessly. For example, they ask you to do something and you don’t do it, or that you constantly bother them and you hurt their feelings. That is from the major sins.
That a tear should be shed from your mother or from your father because of your ill-treatment of them. Fear Allāh (subhānahu wa ta’ālā) with regard to this affair. It doesn’t matter how old you are. You could be a youth, or an elderly, or a middle-aged man and if your mother is in her eighties and you make her cry?
You should be ashamed of yourself that your mother or your father cry; you made them cry because of your bad treatment of them, or maybe because you didn’t say the words in a correct manner.
There are twenty, thirty, or a hundred ways of saying something but you chose the worst way of speaking to your mother or to your father. And you break their hearts; that is a major sin.
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Rushing your child to memorize the whole Qur'an before the age of 5 years is not a condition for his entry to paradise, neither is it your automatic ticket to Jannah. Let your child learn and memorize at his own pace and within the limits of his own strength, don't over stress him just because you want him to become a Haafiz before your neighbour's children or because you want him to win a certain Quranic competition, or because you want him to be made a young imam leading people in Taraweeh.
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Children do not have the same level of comprehension and assimilation, some children are even gifted with Heekmah naturally, yours may be an average child or even a dull one upstairs. If it takes your child 20 years to learn and memorize it, then it's all fine. The end result is more important than the duration or speed. If a seven years old child has the whole Qur'an in his heart, but does not work with it and doesn't even know it's meanings, its of little or no benefit to him.
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Your goal should be to strive to make your child a 'conscious Muslim who practices the religion in the light of the Sunnah', the child should be a serious student of knowledge, Allah can then make him from the Ahlul Quran (people of the Quran) even if he hasn't memorized all of it. Don't push your child to quickly memorize it just so he could win lots of gifts from competitions or to make him popular on Youtube recitation videos, rather teach him to memorize it solely for the sake of Allah, the intention is more important than the deed.
may Allah rectify our affairs and count our children among the people of the Quran.
Abul Banaat
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Children do not have the same level of comprehension and assimilation, some children are even gifted with Heekmah naturally, yours may be an average child or even a dull one upstairs. If it takes your child 20 years to learn and memorize it, then it's all fine. The end result is more important than the duration or speed. If a seven years old child has the whole Qur'an in his heart, but does not work with it and doesn't even know it's meanings, its of little or no benefit to him.
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Your goal should be to strive to make your child a 'conscious Muslim who practices the religion in the light of the Sunnah', the child should be a serious student of knowledge, Allah can then make him from the Ahlul Quran (people of the Quran) even if he hasn't memorized all of it. Don't push your child to quickly memorize it just so he could win lots of gifts from competitions or to make him popular on Youtube recitation videos, rather teach him to memorize it solely for the sake of Allah, the intention is more important than the deed.
may Allah rectify our affairs and count our children among the people of the Quran.
Abul Banaat
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In other words don’t just raise a smart kid, raise a wise one! One who will work harder for the akhirah. Remember, there’s more to come after this dunya...
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#remindertomyself #islamichomeschooling #muslimchildrensbooks #tarbiyyah #muslimparenting #takeprideinauthenticity #homeschool #righteousnesstoparents
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In other words don’t just raise a smart kid, raise a wise one! One who will work harder for the akhirah. Remember, there’s more to come after this dunya...
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#remindertomyself #islamichomeschooling #muslimchildrensbooks #tarbiyyah #muslimparenting #takeprideinauthenticity #homeschool #righteousnesstoparents
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Teach your son's masculinity in character and actions.
Give them toys that will induce their masculine side, let them wrestle, join in with them. Take them out camping in the woods and teach them survival skills. Teach them to control their emotions and not be fairys who cry over things men don't cry over, it's very important in this estrogen packed society.
Teach them how to fight, let them learn how to defend themselves, take them to various martial arts.
Let them follow you around and not stay at home with the women, boys who grow up amongst women generally become feminine and over sensitive.
Teach them character, honour, gheerah, chivalry and how to be noble. Teach them how to defend the truth and not be people pleasers. Teach them to defend the weak. Teach them to not talk to much like women and only talk good.
Teach them how to think with their intellect and not be emotional driven. Let them know the weight of responsibility and make them feel like they're grown responsible individuals.
Teach them how to take care of the family, how to protect, defend, provide for and not be lazy.
But above all, let them see all of the above from you, boys will follow their fathers footsteps.
Give them toys that will induce their masculine side, let them wrestle, join in with them. Take them out camping in the woods and teach them survival skills. Teach them to control their emotions and not be fairys who cry over things men don't cry over, it's very important in this estrogen packed society.
Teach them how to fight, let them learn how to defend themselves, take them to various martial arts.
Let them follow you around and not stay at home with the women, boys who grow up amongst women generally become feminine and over sensitive.
Teach them character, honour, gheerah, chivalry and how to be noble. Teach them how to defend the truth and not be people pleasers. Teach them to defend the weak. Teach them to not talk to much like women and only talk good.
Teach them how to think with their intellect and not be emotional driven. Let them know the weight of responsibility and make them feel like they're grown responsible individuals.
Teach them how to take care of the family, how to protect, defend, provide for and not be lazy.
But above all, let them see all of the above from you, boys will follow their fathers footsteps.
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If you want Allah ﷻ to love you, you must connect to your parents. Squash the beef bz your mother carried you in her womb. That is the safest place for any baby.
You can never put her in such a safe place like this no matter how much you try.
When you were hungry, she fed you.
When you needed a bath she bathed you.
When you were sick, she nursed you to health.
When you cried she comforted you.
We will never be able to return what our parents gave to us, especially our mothers.
My mother رحيمها الله is no longer here and this life hasn’t been the same since 2001. Yet if your mother is still with you, reach out and just say I love you. We only get one mother!
My Allah preserve our mothers and guide them on the straight path Ameen 🤲🏽
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You can never put her in such a safe place like this no matter how much you try.
When you were hungry, she fed you.
When you needed a bath she bathed you.
When you were sick, she nursed you to health.
When you cried she comforted you.
We will never be able to return what our parents gave to us, especially our mothers.
My mother رحيمها الله is no longer here and this life hasn’t been the same since 2001. Yet if your mother is still with you, reach out and just say I love you. We only get one mother!
My Allah preserve our mothers and guide them on the straight path Ameen 🤲🏽
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Look at how the great Imaam of Sunnah used to do this!
How many times have you woken up for Fajr, rubbed your eyes and went in to your children's room seen them sleeping and decided to try and wake them up with little success and then thought to yourself let them sleep.🥀 Even though the child is over the age of 10. Look at how the great Imaam of Sunnah used to do this.
Concerning the Imaam, the Shaykh - 'Abdul-'Azeez ibn Baaz (rahima-hullaah), his son Ahmad narrates:
"The Shaykh used to call his children via the internal phone to wake them up for Salaat al-Fajr.
And when he called them, he would recite the (authentic and recommended) supplication:
((al-Hamdu Lillaahil-lathee Ahyaanaa ba'da maa Amaatanaa wa ilayhin-nushoor))
(All praise is for Allaah who gave us life having taken it from us and unto Him is the resurrection)
...since they were overcome by sleep, he would ask them to repeat this supplication until he felt sure they had woken up!"
al-Imaam Ibn Baaz - duroos wa mawaaqif wa 'ibar - Page 71
How many times have you woken up for Fajr, rubbed your eyes and went in to your children's room seen them sleeping and decided to try and wake them up with little success and then thought to yourself let them sleep.🥀 Even though the child is over the age of 10. Look at how the great Imaam of Sunnah used to do this.
Concerning the Imaam, the Shaykh - 'Abdul-'Azeez ibn Baaz (rahima-hullaah), his son Ahmad narrates:
"The Shaykh used to call his children via the internal phone to wake them up for Salaat al-Fajr.
And when he called them, he would recite the (authentic and recommended) supplication:
((al-Hamdu Lillaahil-lathee Ahyaanaa ba'da maa Amaatanaa wa ilayhin-nushoor))
(All praise is for Allaah who gave us life having taken it from us and unto Him is the resurrection)
...since they were overcome by sleep, he would ask them to repeat this supplication until he felt sure they had woken up!"
al-Imaam Ibn Baaz - duroos wa mawaaqif wa 'ibar - Page 71
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WHEN PARENTS GET OLD ...
Let them grow old with the same love that they let you grow ... let them speak and tell repeated stories with the same patience and interest that they heard yours as a child ... let them overcome, like so many times when they let you win ... let them enjoy their friends just as they let you … let them enjoy the talks with their grandchildren, because they see you in them ... let them enjoy living among the objects that have accompanied them for a long time, because they suffer when they feel that you tear pieces of this life away ... let them be wrong, like so many times you have been wrong and they didn’t embarrass you by correcting you ...
LET THEM LIVE and try to make them happy the last stretch of the path they have left to go; give them your hand, just like they gave you their hand when you started your path!
Let them grow old with the same love that they let you grow ... let them speak and tell repeated stories with the same patience and interest that they heard yours as a child ... let them overcome, like so many times when they let you win ... let them enjoy their friends just as they let you … let them enjoy the talks with their grandchildren, because they see you in them ... let them enjoy living among the objects that have accompanied them for a long time, because they suffer when they feel that you tear pieces of this life away ... let them be wrong, like so many times you have been wrong and they didn’t embarrass you by correcting you ...
LET THEM LIVE and try to make them happy the last stretch of the path they have left to go; give them your hand, just like they gave you their hand when you started your path!
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A reminder to parents that your children will blame you on the Day of Judgement for not raising them fearing Allaah and for encouraging them to do sins. Death is inevitable. Change your ways before it's too late.
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THE WAY TO BE DUTIFUL TO THE PARENTS
Honouring the parents is by :
• Obeying them in what they command as long it does not involve something impermissible.
• Giving precedence to their command over supererogatory acts.
• Abstaining from what they forbid.
• Spending upon them.
• Taking care of their needs.
• Doing one’s utmost in caring for them.
• Dealing with them with the correct conduct and mannerism and showing them respect. The child should not raise his voice to them, stare at them or call them by their names. He should walk behind them and be patient if they do anything that he dislikes.
Book: The Rights of the Parents In Light of the Qur’ān and the Sunnah
By Shaykh Muhammad Ibn ‘Umar Bāzmūl
Translated by Abu Abdillah Hassan as-Somali
Sunnah Publishing
P. 33
Honouring the parents is by :
• Obeying them in what they command as long it does not involve something impermissible.
• Giving precedence to their command over supererogatory acts.
• Abstaining from what they forbid.
• Spending upon them.
• Taking care of their needs.
• Doing one’s utmost in caring for them.
• Dealing with them with the correct conduct and mannerism and showing them respect. The child should not raise his voice to them, stare at them or call them by their names. He should walk behind them and be patient if they do anything that he dislikes.
Book: The Rights of the Parents In Light of the Qur’ān and the Sunnah
By Shaykh Muhammad Ibn ‘Umar Bāzmūl
Translated by Abu Abdillah Hassan as-Somali
Sunnah Publishing
P. 33
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#Our_Children
One mistake some parents make is to believe that to love one's children is to do their work.
This usually happen due to excessive pity on them and feel that as a parent their duty is to do things for them.
For example
A child of six, doesn't know how to dress👗, tie his/her shoes👟, or Comb his hair. And when this is done constantly, it makes the child so dependent on you and it doesn't instill confidence in them, and makes them have this inferiority complex amongst his/her peers.
We as Muslim Parents should know that we are raising the people that will lead the Ummah in the Future. We don't raise our children to be "mummy's boy" or "spoilt brat".
Barakallahu feekum, so therefore lets not always do things for them but to show them how to do them. Give them personal skills of carrying out personal and household chores. A child who is not taught to do them when young, will be unwilling to do them when they are older.
May Allah preserve us and our children upon goodness.
Aamiyn.
Kind Regards.
AbuAmeenah
One mistake some parents make is to believe that to love one's children is to do their work.
This usually happen due to excessive pity on them and feel that as a parent their duty is to do things for them.
For example
A child of six, doesn't know how to dress👗, tie his/her shoes👟, or Comb his hair. And when this is done constantly, it makes the child so dependent on you and it doesn't instill confidence in them, and makes them have this inferiority complex amongst his/her peers.
We as Muslim Parents should know that we are raising the people that will lead the Ummah in the Future. We don't raise our children to be "mummy's boy" or "spoilt brat".
Barakallahu feekum, so therefore lets not always do things for them but to show them how to do them. Give them personal skills of carrying out personal and household chores. A child who is not taught to do them when young, will be unwilling to do them when they are older.
May Allah preserve us and our children upon goodness.
Aamiyn.
Kind Regards.
AbuAmeenah
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